Toñy Torres

Uhambo lwam kwilizwe lobumama lwaqala ngokuzalwa komntwana wam wokuqala. Ngequbuliso, ndazifumana ndihamba kulwandlekazi lwamathandabuzo kunye nolonwabo, apho iliza ngalinye leza nento entsha efunyenweyo. Ndafunda ukuba ukuba ngumama kungaphezulu kunokunyamekela ubomi; kukubumba ikamva ngezijekulo ezincinci zemihla ngemihla. Kwinyathelo ngalinye endalithabathayo, umdla wam wawukhula. Bendizijul’ ijacu ezincwadini, ndizimase iindibano zocweyo, ndimamele amava abanye oomama. Ndandiqonda ukuba ukukhulisa umzali ngentlonipho akuyofashoni, kodwa yindlela yokufundisa esekelwe kuthando, ukuqondana nokuhloniphana. Le ntanda-bulumko yaba yikhampasi ekhokela umsebenzi wam njengomama nanjengombhali. Namhlanje, ndabelana ngamava am kunye nolwazi ngokubhala kwam, ngethemba lokuba kukukhanya kwabanye oomama abathi, njengam, bafune ukulingana phakathi kwe-intuition kunye nolwazi. NdinguTony, umama kunye nomhleli, kwaye igama ngalinye endilibhalayo liqhekeza lomphefumlo wam endilinikela esibingelelweni somama.