umntanam uyakhala kakhulu

umntanam uyakhala kakhulu

Yinto eyenzeka rhoqo, ukubona ukuba usana xa luqalisa ukuphuhlisa inkqubo yalo yokunxibelelana kufuneka lukhale. Iyavakala loo nto akakwazi ukunxibelelana ngentetho kwaye kungenxa yoko le nto ndiyenza Ukubhibhidla kwaye abanye bayakhala.

Inkqubo yethu yonxibelelwano ikhula ngokuhamba kwexesha. Kuba sizalwa singayenza ngolwimi ngokusebenzisa izijekulo okanye ngolunye uhlobo lokubhibhidla oluya kumiselwa ngokusemthethweni kwiminyaka ezayo. ulwimi lomlomo. Kuyo yonke le nkqubo, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba siqaphele ukuba umntwana ufuna ukunxibelelana ngokukhwaza.

Kutheni umntanam ekhala kakhulu?

Usana luyakwazi ukukhala xa lukhula Ngamaxesha athile. Indlela yakho yokubonakalisa iimvakalelo zakho iya kuba sesinye sezizathu zokuba ubonakalise uvuyo lwakho, umsindo okanye umsindo. Kamva xa umntwana efuna ukuncokola yaye engakwazi nokukhupha nelizwi, kulapho afuna ukuziveza khona ngengxolo enkulu kunye nokukhala.

Umntwana uyakwazi ukubona xa izikhalo zakho zisebenza kwaye ngaloo ndlela ukwazi ukugcina unxibelelwano olusebenzayo ngakumbi. Ukuba uyenza ngale ndlela uya kuqonda ukuba izicelo zakho okanye iminqweno, okanye ifuna ingqalelo, zizalisekiswa ngumzali. Ngale ndlela uyazi ukuba amabango akhe aphunyezwa ngezikhalo.

Kuyimfuneko kuphela ukujonga ukuba ezi zikhala inokukhutshwa xa zithe gqolo kwaye zidityaniswa nosana unomsindo kwaye ukwimo embi. Mhlawumbi indawo eyenzeka ekhaya inokugqithisa kwingxolo enkulu kunye nomsindo omkhulu, ngoko umntwana wenza kuphela ngokuxelisa.

umntanam uyakhala kakhulu

Amanqanaba onxibelelwano losana

Usana olusandul’ ukuzalwa lunxibelelana ngokulila. Yindlela yabo yokunxibelelana okanye yokukhuphela ngaphandle iimvakalelo zabo, kuquka ukulamba, ukulala, ukungonwabi ... njl. Kamva xa umntwana ejika Inyanga eyi-1 ukuya kwiinyanga ezi-3 iqalisa ukukhala nokuvakalisa izandi.

Phakathi Iinyanga ezi-4 ukuya kwezi-6 Iintsana sele ziqala ukubiza iiconsonants zazo zokuqala, ngeli xesha ziqonda ngakumbi ukunxibelelana kwazo kwaye ziyazi xa ilixesha lokukhwaza, ukuhleka kunye nokuxelisa isandi.

Ukusuka iinyanga ezi-6 kude kube ngumhla wokuzalwa sele iqalile ukubiza amagama amancinci. Bayakuthanda ukuva ilizwi labo kwaye bahlengahlengise indlela abayenza ngayo nangokukhwaza. Xa umntwana ephakamisa ilizwi lakhe, kungenxa yokuba sele eyazi indlela yokufumana ingqalelo, baya kuyazi indlela yokumxhobisa ukuze abhenele koko akufunayo. Alithandabuzeki elokuba umntwana uya kulazi ixesha lokusebenzisa ukukhwaza, ngokufuthi njengomthombo.

Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukumodareyitha ilizwi lakhe

Inkwenkwe okanye intombazana Bamele bakhuliselwe kwindawo ezolileyo. Usapho oluthanda umlomo nalapho kusoloko kukho ingxolo enkulu iya kuba sisitshixo ukuze yazi ukuba inokukhala ngaphandle kwengxaki.

  • Thetha nomntwana wakho ngokuzolileyo nangokuzolileyo. Uxinzelelo kufuneka luphetshwe ukuze baziqhelanise kwaye baxelise yonke ihambo ezolileyo nephantsi kwengxolo.

umntanam uyakhala kakhulu

  • Ukuba umntwana usemncinane kakhulu kufuneka ulungiselele uhambo olubandakanya zonke iimfuno zabo njalo njalo. Sukucatshukiswa yiyo nayiphi na inyani yokufika ngexesha oyifunayo. Ngale ndlela akayi kuba nomsindo kwaye unokukuphepha ukukhwaza.
  • Ukuba kunjalo kakhulu kwaye ucela izinto ezikhwazayo, Kuya kufuneka ulungelelanise umzuzu, uziphathe ngokungathathi hlangothi, ube buthathaka, uthethe phantsi kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke umfundise ukuba izinto ziceliwe ngaphandle kokukhwaza. Umonde yenye yezinto ezilungileyo ekufuneka zizalwe ngaphakathi kwethu kwaye kufuneka sifumane lo mzuzu kwiziganeko ezinje, apho ukhuseleko kunye nokuthembana phakathi kwabazali nabantwana kunamandla. Unokufunda yethu "Izixhobo zokusebenza ngeemvakalelo kunye nabantwana".

Ukuziqhelanisa neemvakalelo zabantwana ngumsebenzi onzima, ngakumbi xa kufuneka siwenze phambi kwabantu nakwindawo kawonke-wonke. Kweli nqanaba kufuneka silawule iimvakalelo zethu kwaye siyazi indlela yokulawula ixesha. Ngaphambi kokujonga ingqalelo yabantu abaninzi, kungcono ukuzama ukuqhubeka neprojekthi yakho, ungacingi ukuba kukho abantu kwaye ume ngokuqinileyo.


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