Umsindo yimvakalelo. Iyazibonakalisa kubo bonke abantu kwaye iyinzondo phambi kwemeko esingayithandiyo. Kungenxa yoko sibangele unxunguphalo kwaye yenza abantu bazive umsindo, ukucaphuka, ingqumbo, okanye ingqumbo ejongene nemeko enjalo. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantwana bavakalisa umsindo wabo ukukhwaza, ukwaphula okanye ukuphosa izinto, nkqu nokubetha nokubiza amagama.
Iimvakalelo ezimbini ezinokuthi zihambisane nolu hlobo lokuziphatha zinokufunyanwa kwi ubutshaba, Kulapho ucebisa ukuba wenze ukuzivavanya kakubi wena kunye nabanye. Kwakhona Uxinzelelo Inxalenye yolu hlobo lweemvakalelo kwaye kukuba enkosi kukuphazamiseka okunokwenzeka ukwenzakalisa izinto okanye abantu.
Ngaba umsindo uzibonakalisa ngokwahlukileyo ebantwaneni?
Hayi, le mvakalelo iyafana kuzo zonke iintlobo zabantuIkwalawula nendima ebalulekileyo ayivayo umntwana ukuze ikhule kwaye ikhule ngaphakathi nangaphandle. Ngale ndlela iya kukwenza ukuba ulwe ngakumbi ngenxa yeenjongo ezinqwenelekayo kwaye unokufikelela yoyisa ngaphezulu njengomntu.
Xa kuvela ukuba yingxaki:
- Ingakumbi xa indlela aziphethe ngayo sele iqala ukutsala umdla, xa kuyingozi kokubini kuye nakwabanye.
- Kuyimfuneko ukuba ukuvavanya ukuba ubudala ubudala, ifikelele kwiminyaka esi-7 okanye esi-8 inokugqitywa njengokuziphatha okungaqhelekanga.
- Olunye ucezu lolwazi luya kuba zizenzo zabo ziphindaphindeka kakhulu kwaye zibangela ukungavisisani okuninzi ekhaya nakwimo engqongileyo, Enye yeendawo zokuqaqambisa kukuba abakwazi kulawula umsindo wabo kwaye loo nto imenza azive engento ngesiqu sakhe.
Izinto ezinokuthi zibe negalelo ekuhluphekeni komntwana kwezi ntlobo zeemvakalelo:
Abazali abaninzi baya kubambelela ekuziphatheni kwabo kunye nomlinganiswa womntwana, kodwa kufuneka siyinike ukubaluleka ngakumbi kunokuba sicinga, kuba inokuba luphawu lomntu osentlungwini.
Kukugqabhuka ngokweemvakalelo ukuze uze ihamba noxinzelelo, Ngokwesiqhelo ngaphandle kokuchongwa kwaye kundenza ndinganyamezeli uxinzelelo kakuhle.
Mhlawumbi Unengxaki ethile yomothuko kokubini ekhaya nasesikolweni kungoko kubonakala ngolu hlobo lokuziphatha ngomsindo nezisongelo. Kuya kubakho kwakhona ubunzima bokufunda kwaye iyakwenza enye indawo yokudibanisa unxunguphalo.
Elinye inqaku elinokubaluleka ngakumbi kukuba umntwana Unobunzima ekusebenzeni kweemvakalelo, Banengxaki yokulungisa ulwazi lweemvakalelo kwihlabathi elibangqongileyo kwaye banokuziva bengonwabanga.
Singasabela njani kwizenzo ezinjalo?
- Okokuqala kufuneka hlala wehlile, ukuba umzali uzolile ebusweni bokusabela okunjalo Kulula kakhulu ukunciphisa ingxaki, mhlawumbi balinde ukuba nathi siphulukane nokuphola kwethu.
- Zama ukuhlalutya Kutheni imvakalelo enjalo ivelisiwe, uninzi lwezinto umntwana usenokugula okanye adinwe kwaye nangona kubonakala ngathi akufuneki kubaluleke kwesi sizathu, ubuncinci kufuneka uyenzile yamkele umsindo wakho kwaye uzame ukuwudlulisa.
- Abanye abantwana Bakhulule ukungavisisani kwabo ngobugcisa bokuzoba, ukupeyinta okanye ukubhala, kodwa ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo i ziqhelanise nohlobo oluthile lomdlalo Iya kukunceda ekujongeni umsindo kunye noxinzelelo.
- Zama ntoni qhelisela uvelwano Ingayenye into ekuthandeni, nangona ingangomnye wemisebenzi enzima ukuyiphumeza, nangona inokuqinisekiswa ukuba ekuhambeni kwexesha iya kuba into ebalulekileyo yokulawula umsindo.
- Olunye ulwazi olubalulekileyo luya kuba lolunye ulwazi esiluphetheyo xa begxeka indlela abaziphethe ngayo. Asinako ukugxeka indlela abaziphethe ngayo kunye nesithuko esincinci, kuba oku kuya kwenza yehlisa ukuzithemba kwakho. Kufuneka usigxeke isenzo hayi umntwana.