Indima yabasetyhini ekuhlaleni itshintshile, ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo. Nangona kunjalo, kusekho indlela ende ekufuneka ihanjisiwe ukuqinisekisa ukuba amadoda nabasetyhini bayalinganiswa kuwo onke amanqanaba nakwihlabathi liphela. Lo ngumsebenzi onzima, yintoni injongo enomdla kwaye ubaluleke kangakanani umlo wehlabathi ukusuka kumantombazana ukuya kubantu abadala. Kuba ekupheleni kosuku, amantombazana anamhlanje ayakuba ngabafazi bangomso kunye nabo baya kuba nethuba lokutshintsha umhlaba.
Njengaye wonke uMatshi 8, namhlanje Usuku lwaMaTyhini lwaMazwe ngamazwe, kwaye nangona abaninzi bezibuza Kutheni kukho usuku olukhethekileyo lwabafazi hayi olwamadoda? impendulo ilula. Kungenxa yokuba abantu basetyhini bebengaxatyiswanga ngamadoda ukusukela ekuqaleni kwembali, kuba abantu basetyhini kuye kwafuneka balwele amalungelo afana nokuvota, njengenkululeko yokuhamba wedwa esitratweni okanye inyani elula yokuba neakhawunti yabo yebhanki.
Umzabalazo wabasetyhini ehlabathini
Ngaphambi kweMfazwe Yehlabathi I, amabhinqa ayejongwa njengabantu abaphantsi ngokwasengqondweni (imvakalelo yokuzibona isekhona ngelishwa). Ke ngoko, amadoda acinga ukuba awanamandla okwenza izigqibo malunga noluntu, njengelungelo lokuvota, phakathi kwabanye abaninzi. E-United States emva koko, kwavuka umbutho we-suffrage kunye nomzabalazo omkhulu, ukubandezeleka okuninzi kunye neentlungu ezininzi aba bafazi babenazo, bakwazile ukwenza ukuba abasetyhini bavuke kwezinye iindawo zehlabathi balwele amalungelo yabo bonke.
Kwaye baphumelele, kungekuphela nje babaxhamla ngelo xesha, kodwa kuye kwaba njalo isitshixo kwikamva labo bonke abafazi abaza kuza nabaza kuza kamva. E-Spain, yayingu-Clara Campoamor owayesilwela amalungelo abasetyhini, engoyena manduleli ophambili weli lizwe. Njengabafazi abaninzi kwihlabathi liphela bayasokola ukufezekisa uluntu olulinganayo, nangona ngelishwa, isekhona indlela ekusafuneka yenziwe.
Ukususela kumantombazana ukuya kubantu abadala
Kumazwe amaninzi, abantu basetyhini bajongwa njengabaphantsi kunamadoda namhlanje, yiyo ke loo nto befumana ucalucalulo kuzo zonke iinkalo. Ayisiyiyo kuphela kumazwe asaphuhlayo, nakwiindawo ezibaluleke njengamagunya aphambili ehlabathi. Abasetyhini bathwaxwa yimisebenzi, umvuzo, ukungalingani ngokwesondo okanye ngokwasengqondweni nocalucalulo yonke imihla.
Ke ngoko, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umzabalazo wabasetyhini uqala kwasebuntwaneni bokuqala, kuba lo mlo ubonakala umde kwaye kubalulekile ukuba amantombazana azilungiselele ukulwela amalungelo awo. Kodwa ngaphezulu kwako konke, kumalungelo amantombazana angenakho ukuzilwela. Kungenxa yokuba umlo wabasetyhini kufuneka ube ngowabo bonke kwaye ubenzele bonke.
Anamandla, asimahla kwaye azimeleyo amantombazana
Ayisiyo malunga nokufundisa amantombazana, okanye ukubenza baqonde umxholo ekunokwenzeka ukuba uninzi lwabasetyhini alucacanga. Imalunga nje fundisa amantombazana ukuba omelele, alwe kwaye azame ukufezekisa iinjongo zawo, kwaye ngabo kuphela abanokugqiba ukuba bafuna ukuba ngubani, bafuna ukuba nabani okanye bafuna bani. Kubalulekile ukuba amantombazana akhule enenkolelo yokuba awadingi kukhuselwa yindoda kuyo nantoni na ebomini bawo.
Ukuba bona ngokwabo banokufumana eyabo imali, bathathe isigqibo sokuba bayityale njani, bafuna ukuphila njani kwaye bagqibe kwelokuba bafuna ukwabelana ngobomi babo nendoda okanye hayi, kwinkululeko yabo. Eso sesona sifundo sibalulekileyo onokusifundisa iintombi zakho. Imfundo ibalulekile ngandlela zonkeAmakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana kufuneka bafunde ukuba abekho ngaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi ngenxa yesini abakhule nabo.
Akukho mntwana ufanele ukuziva enabo ngaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi ithamsanqa, lokuzalwa ngesini esithile. Le yinto ekufuneka itshintshiwe, kuba ixabiso labantu, ubuntu, charisma, uvelwano, ubukrelekrele, ukomelela, izakhono, zizakhono ezingadibaniyo nokwabelana ngesondo, ungaze uyilibale.