Ngaba umntwana wakho unyanzelisa ukungena ebhedini yakho yonke imihla okanye uyala ukulala ukuba ayikho kumama okanye kutata? Kuninzi unobangela Yikuphi abantwana abangafuni ukulala bodwa, kuba sele beqhele ukuyenza egumbini labazali babo okanye ekulaleni kunye, ngenxa yoloyiko olutsha okanye oludala, okanye ngenxa yohlengahlengiso, olunokubangelwa ngumntwana ozelweyo .
Kukho amakhulu eendlela zokwenza ukuba umntwana wakho alale yedwa kwakhona, Okanye yenze okokuqala, kodwa eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuqina apho uzibonakalisa khona, kwaye ungalahli themba. Abantwana ziingcali zokufumana indlela yabo, ukuba uqinisekile ukuba kufuneka balale egumbini labo, ungoyiki.
Indlela esemgangathweni yokulala wedwa, ewe okanye hayi?
El Indlela esemgangathweni Eyona yeyona nto yaziwayo kunye neyona iphikisayo, yokuqeqeshwa, ukwenza ukuba unyana okanye intombi yakho ilale yodwa. Oku, njengezinye iindlela zinjalo indlela yokuziphatha. Injongo kukuba abantwana bafunde ukulala bodwa egumbini labo, besebenzisa izinto ezingalunganga okanye ukohlwaya, umzekelo ukungahoyi ukuba bayakhala. Inkqubo ye- ebalulekileyo Le ndlela, ebonakala ngathi ineziphumo ezikhawulezayo, ihlambalaza ngenxa yeziphumo ezibi ezinokubakho kwixesha elide.
Isishwankathelo, kwaye ngendlela elula, into eza kusixelela yona kukuba ukuba ufuna umntwana alale yedwa, kufuneka kuphepha Zonke izinto ezibandakanya ukungenelela kwe- umntu omdala. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba uyigungqise, uxhawule isandla, uyicule, uyihambe, uyiphulule, uyondle, okanye yintoni impazamo enkulu! yibeke ebhedini yabazali.
Ezinye izindululo ezisebenzayo, kwaye ezifuna umonde ngakumbi, kukuzinikezela Iindlela ezivela kuthando kunye nengqondo eqhelekileyo. Nakuphi na ukufunda, kunye nokulala wedwa, kuyasebenza ngakumbi ukuba kuneziqinisi inkuthazo elungileyo.
Amaqhinga namaqhinga okuba ulale wedwa
Sinamaqhinga abiziweyo, kodwa eneneni ziluthotho herramientas onokuyisebenzisa ukukholisa unyana okanye intombi yakho ukuba kubhetele ukulala wedwa kunokuba ebhedini kamama notata. Oku kucinga ukuba ngaphambi kokuba alale egumbini lakho kwaye oku kwahlukana kuye kwenzeka.
Ngaba ungamcacisela ukuba ulele egumbini lakhe izakuba nendawo enkulu kwaye iya kuba yindawo yakho nje. Inokukunceda ukhethe ukuba ufuna njani. Ukuba awunalo igumbi lakhe yedwa, kodwa wabelana ngalo nomntakwenu, umzekelo, unokuchaza ukuba kumnandi kangakanani ukuba negumbi lenu nobabini.
Ungamnika imvume, ngokumodareyitha ukuya yenza ebhedini yakhe into ongamvumeli ayenze kweyakho. Unokufunda okwethutyana ngaphambi kokuba ucime isibane, ulale ngento yokudlala, njl.
Ukuba usebenzisa nomntwana wakho ifayile inkqubo yenkuthazo, ngokudibeneyo vumelanani ibhaso lokufikelela iveki yokulala nodwa, okanye ixesha elimiselweyo.
Kuqhelekile malunga neminyaka emi-2 ukwenzeka amaphupha amabiOku kuqhelekile, oku kungenxa yokucinga okuchumayo kweli xesha kunye noloyiko lwendalo lobumnyama. Kule meko sicebisa ukuba ushiye ukukhanya okungangqalanga. Inokuba yiyo epasejini okanye ishiye imfama engatshatwanga.
Iminyaka iyahamba kwaye unyana wam akafuni ukulala yedwa
Ngamanye amaxesha amakhwenkwe namantombazana amadala, sithetha ngawo ngaphezulu kweminyaka emi-4, baqhubeka nombono wokungalali bodwa, kwaye nabazali bayanikezela. Ngumxholo onzima ukusingatha, apho esi sibini siphulukana nokusondelelana kwaye inokuchaphazeleka. Ukuba ubona ukuba awukwazi ukuyiphatha, ungathandabuzi ukuya kwiingcali. Wena nomntwana wakho niyakuxabisa oko.
Uninzi lwabazali luyanikezela, kwaye ubusuku emva kobusuku, bagqiba kwelokuba batshintshane baphele belele ebhedini nomntwana ade umntwana alale. Nangona kunjalo ngentsasa elandelayo ukuphoxeka kuhlala. Ngelo xesha ke kufuneka ume uqinile.