Unyana wam uchitha imali eninzi

Unyana wam uchitha imali eninzi

Ukuba umntwana wakho uchitha imali eninzi, kusenokwenzeka ukuba bafuna njalo funda izinto ezimbalwa malunga nexabiso lemali. Ootata noomama ngamanye amaxesha bayalibala ukuba abantwana kufuneka bafunde izinto ezibalulekileyo njengumahluko phakathi kokulungileyo nokungalunganga, umzekelo. Enye yezo zinto uhlala uziphosa yile thetha nabantwana kwaye ubafundise ukuze bayazi indlela yokufumana imali.

Kungenxa yokuba ukuba abantwana abazi ukuba kubiza malini ukufumana imali eza ekhaya kwaye kunzima ukuba abantu abadala bakwazi ukujongana nazo zonke inkcitho, kunokwenzeka ukuba ekugqibeleni bayokuyisebenzisa gwenxa. Into leyo ekuhambeni kwexesha, kunokuba yingxaki ukwenzela bona. Kuba, ngaxa lithile baya kufikelela ebuntombini kwaye kuya kufuneka bathathe uxanduva ngemali yabo.

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Ukufundisa abantwana ngexabiso lemali sisifundo esisisiseko ekukhuleni kwabo kunye nophuhliso. Kutheni uyazi yimalini ukufumana imali, kufuneka uzabalazele yonaSisitshixo sabantwana ukuba bakhule bexanduva, ukuze bafunde ukuzilawula kunye nento eyimfuneko kolu luhlu lwabathengi abaxhamlayo, ukuthenga ngendlela efanelekileyo.

Xa abazali belibele ukusebenza ngolu hlobo nabantwana babo, bayawandisa amathuba okuba bakhulise isimo sengqondo sokungakhathali njengenkunkuma. Ayisiyo mali kuphela, xa abantwana bengaqondi ixabiso lezinto, abazi ukuba kufuneka bazikhathalele kwaye bathathe uxanduva ngazo. Into eqala xa bebancinci, xa bengenaxabiso kwaye Kuya kufuneka baqale ukufumana iimpazamo zokuqala.

Ukuba abantwana banayo yonke into abayifunayo, ukuba akunyanzelekanga ukuba basebenze ngandlela thile ukuze bafumane into abayifunayo, baya kufunda ngendlela engalunganga abanokuba nayo yonke into, ukuba bafanele ukuba nayo yonke into. Ke xa ukwala kokuqala kuza ngaphandle kwendalo, unxunguphalo kunye ubunzima ekumelaneni neengxaki.

Unyana wam uchitha imali eninzi, ndenza ntoni?

Kuluntu oluhlangeneyo, olunobuchwephesha obutsha kunye nayo yonke into efikelela kunqakrazo olunye, kubaluleke ngakumbi ukufundisa abantwana ukulawula uqoqosho. Kulula kakhulu ukuchitha namhlanje, oko kuthetha ingozi kubantwana abanokuba nenkululeko yezemali ilawulwa kancinci. Akukho malunga nokulawula intshukumo nganye, nangokuphelisa iikhonsepthi ezinje ngomvuzo weveki.

Ukuba umntwana wakho uchitha imali eninzi, ungaqala ngokuthintela ukufikelela kwabo kwi-intanethi ngaphandle kolawulo lwabazali. Susa naluphi na uhlobo lwentlawulo, njengamakhadi ebhanki okanye amaqonga okuhlawula. Intlawulo yakho mayibe ngekheshi, ukuze Njengoko uchitha imali, uyabona ukuba isixa siyancipha. Njengokuba ubukele imali inyamalala, iya kukuxabisa ngakumbi ukuyisebenzisa.

Ukuze umntwana wakho abe nemali, nokuba kungumxholo wokuhlawulwa ngeveki okanye njengebhonasi wenze umyalelo, kufuneka kubekho umzamo wangaphambili. Ukuncedisa ngomsebenzi wasekhaya, ukufezekisa uxanduva, ukuziphatha kakuhle ekhaya, zizinto ezifanelekileyo ukuba umntwana afumane intlawulo. Ukuze ufumane isixa esongezelelweyo, kuya kufuneka wenze umsebenzi onzima ngakumbi, njengokucoca imoto, ukwenza imiyalezo okanye nawuphi na omnye umsebenzi ocinga ukuba ufanelekile.

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Emva kokuziqhelanisa nokuhle, ngokulula, kunzima kakhulu ukufunda okwahlukileyo. Le yinto eyenzeka ebantwini bayo nayiphi na iminyaka. Ke ngoko, kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba ukuba umntwana wakho uchitha imali eninzi kwaye ufuna ukuyiphelisa le meko, Kuya kufuneka uzinze kwizigqibo zakho kwaye ungavumi kwiimpawu ezimnyama ezinokuthi zisetyenziswe ngumntwana. Usenokusebenzisa ukukhala, umsindo, okanye athethe izinto ezibuhlungu kuwe, ezinje ngokuba akasakuthandi okanye oomama babahlobo bakhe bangcono kunawe.


Ukuba kunjalo, khumbula ukuba ngumntwana nje ozama ukufumana into ayifunayo, nangayiphi na indlela. Akukho mama okanye utata othanda ukuba umntwana wakhe abandezeleke, nokuba kuncinci imali okanye izinto eziphathekayo. Kodwa mabafunde abantwana Ixabiso lemali, ukuzeyisa, ulawulo okanye ukonga, iyakwenza umahluko kwizigqibo zakho zezemali xa umdala.


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