Usana lwam luyandikrwempa ubuso

Olu lolunye lothethathethwano oluninzi oluvela kwiindawo zokuqala kunye nogqirha wabantwana, ngakumbi ukuba ngaba ngabazali abatsha. Usana lwam luyandikrwempa ubuso, into endiyenzayo?

Kuqhelekile ukuyigcina loo nto Iintsana zikrwempa ubuso abanye abantu, ngakumbi umama, bade bazonwaya ubuso babo bengaqapheli. Ngaba iqhelekile? Ngaba kukho ukukhathazeka? Kule posi sikuxelela ukuba kutheni isenzeka kwaye kufuneka wenze ntoni xa umntwana ekrwempa ubuso.

Ukukrwela iintsana

Into yokuqala endiza kukuxelela yona ilula kakhulu: ungakhathazeki. Le ndlela yokuziphatha ixhaphake kakhulu kwaye ayinzulu kwaphela. Inkqubo ye- Iintsana ezisandul 'ukuzalwa zinezikhonkwane ezibukhali Ngaye banokukrwempa ubuso bomnye umntu okanye nobuso babo. Kweli nqanaba lokuqala, ukukrwela yinto yendalo kwaye, ngaphezulu kwako konke, rhoqo kakhulu.

Ngoku, kuyenzeka ukuba, njengoko bekhula, kukho oomama abakhalazayo: «usana lwam lundikrwempa ubuso«. Apha asithethi ngayo ukukrwela iintsana Ngaphandle kokukuqaphela oko, kodwa njengabantwana abenza ngenjongo nangona kunjalo, kungekhona ngengqondo epheleleyo. Kutheni iintsana zikrwempa?

Kumanqanaba athile kubomi bosana, imikrwelo iba yinxalenye yobomi bemihla ngemihla kwakhona kwaye Kukho izizathu ezahlukeneyo zokuba besenza oko. Kukho abantwana abakrwempayo ukuzikhusela kunye nabanye ukuveza ukukhathazeka kwabo. Ngamanye amaxesha, imikrwelo ebusweni lilinge lokufumana ingqalelo yabazali okanye abagcini babo. Kananjalo kunokwenzeka ukuba abantwana bakrwece ukufumana ingqwalaselo ngokunxulumene nezinto zokudlala okanye ukuviwa nokujongwa.

Into ecace gca yeyokuba xa i isigcawu sana Uzama ngabom ukuthetha nabanye. «Usana lwam luyandikrwempa ubuso«, Abanye oomama baveza inkxalabo, ngaphandle kokuqonda ukuba sisenzo sonxibelelwano esifuna ukubonisa imvakalelo. Ukuba sichonga esona sizathu sokuba sikrweshwe kancinci, kunokwenzeka ukuba siyakukwazi ukulungisa indlela yokuziphatha. Ukuqonda imeko yokuziphatha kwabo kuya kukunceda ufumane indlela yokulungisa isimilo.

Imikrwelo ebusweni, indlela yokuziphatha yokulungisa

Ukrwela kukuziphatha kokuhlola okunokuthi kunxulunyaniswe nako ukuluma nokubetha. Ziqhelekile ebantwaneni phakathi kweenyanga ezili-12 ukuya kwezingama-36 kwaye zinokwenzeka kubantu abadala nakwontanga, ngakumbi xa beqala ukuya kukhathalelo lwemini. Nangona olu hlobo lokuziphatha luyinxalenye yophuhliso lwabantwana, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ezi ndlela zokuziphatha ukuzilungisa ngokukhawuleza ukubonelela ngezinye iindlela zokubonisa iimvakalelo.

Iintsana ezikrwitshayo akufuneki zohlwaywe, Kubalulekile ukwenza ngokuzinzileyo kodwa ukunqande ukuba ngqwabalala njengoko inqanaba apho abantwana bafunda ukulawula iimvakalelo zabo kunye nokuziphatha okukhohlakeleyo kuyinxalenye yenkqubo yendalo yophuhliso. Abantu abadala abanenkathalo ziimodareyitha okanye abo baphononongi kwaye yiyo loo nto kubalulekile ukuba basabele ngovelwano, nangona benemida.

usana oluma iinzipho zakhe
Inqaku elidibeneyo:
Nceda umntwana wakho ayeke ukuluma iinzipho zakhe

Ungaze ubuyisele isikrweqe kuba umntwana okrwitshiweyo uyaqonda kuphela ukuba ubundlobongela sisixhobo sokulawula iimvakalelo. Kwaye akuyomfuneko ukuncuma okanye ukuyithatha njengehlaya kuba siza kube sinika umyalezo ongalunganga. Khumbula ukuba akukho bantwana babi kodwa isimilo esingafanelekanga, ke kubalulekile ukuba ungongezi amagama afana "nokubi" kodwa ulungise indlela yokuziphatha ngenkcazo elula ukuze ungachaphazeli ukuzithemba kwabo kulwakhiwo. Eyona nto ifanelekileyo kukuba uyenze kwakamsinya emva kokukrwela kodwa uthathe umntwana kwindawo efihlakeleyo ethe cwaka, Ukuthetha ngaphandle kokukhwaza kodwa ngomsindo.


Los iintsana ezonwaya ubuso ngekhe zibekho ngonaphakade. Zombini ezi zinto kunye nokuluma okanye ukubetha kunokuhlala ukuya kwiminyaka emi-3 okanye emi-4 ubudala kodwa eyona ixhaphakileyo kukuba iyanyamalala njengokuba abantwana bekhula kwaye bephucula ulwimi kunye nonxibelelwano, xa befumana amanye amajelo okuveza iimvakalelo zabo.


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  1.   Uxolo sitsho

    pff, ndandisele ndinexhala. Usana lwam olunenyanga ezisi-8 kuphela lulala lundikrweca, nokuba bubuso, intamo, umqala okanye iingalo zam. Enkosi ngenqaku !!!