Kwiinyanga ezisibhozo ubudala, iintsana ziguquka ngokukhawuleza nangokucacileyo. Kwiinyanga ezidlulileyo bafunde ukuphakamisa iintloko zabo, ukujikeleza kwaye bahlala bodwa. Umzimba wakho uphuhla ngakumbi ukuba ufumane izakhono ezintsha kwaye uqale ukuhamba. Inqanaba lokurhubuluza liqala ixesha elonwabisayo njengoko limangalisa. Abancinci baphuhlisa izakhono zemoto yonke imihla kwaye ke baqala ukufumanisa umhlaba, ukufikelela kwizinto, ukubambelela kwifenitshala nakwezinye izinto. Kodwa ayisiyiyo yonke into eyenzekayo njengoko kulindelwe: «usana lwam lurhubuluza lubuye«,« Usana lwam lukhasa ngomlenze omnye kwaye lukhase kolunye ». Ngaba inye kuphela indlela yokugaqa?
Ayizizo zonke iintsana ezinohlobo olufanayo lokukhasa kwaye ngaphakathi kobu buntu iimpawu zomntwana ngamnye ziyavela. Kukho iintsana ezirhubuluza zibuye umva, abanye babeka amandla ngakumbi ezandleni kunasemilenzeni, abanye bakhasa phakathi phakathi kokurhubuluza kwaye bahlala phantsi. Zininzi izinto ezahlukeneyo kwaye iindlela zokurhubuluza.
Iimpawu zokurhubuluza ngasemva
Ukubona usana oluneenyanga ezisibhozo okanye ezisithoba ubudala lukhasa luye phambili yinto engothusi mntu. Eyona nto ingavuka incumo xa ihamba ngokukhawuleza okukhulu. Nangona kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha ayenzeki xa ifayile ye- umntwana urhubuluza ubuya umva. Ingathi kukho into engaqhelekanga kwaye inkxalabo ibonakala kubazali abaninzi. Ukusuka kuloo ukuya kuthethwano nogqirha wabantwana kukho inyathelo.
Kuqhelekile ukuba usana lwam larhubuluza labuya? Khasa umva Oku akuthethi ukuba kukho ukuphazamiseka, ukuphazamiseka okanye naluphi na uhlobo lokulibaziseka kweemoto. Yinkqubo nje yendaleko efuna ukuziqhelanisa. Kukho iintsana ngokwendalo kwaye ngokungeyonyani eziyaziyo indlela yokuzityhala zibuyele umva kwaye ziye phambili kwaye nantsi indlela abarhubuluza ngayo ukuya phambili. Ngamanye amaxesha, kuthatha iintsana ixesha elithile kunye nokuziqhelanisa nokufumanisa imfihlo yokuziqhubela phambili.
Ukuya kuthi ga apho umntwana urhubuluza ubuye uya kuphinda afumanise iintshukumo zakhe kwaye kancinci kancinci funda indlela yokuziqhubela phambili ukuze kugcinwe ibhalansi. Ngale ndlela, uya kugcina ukuma okufanayo naxa urhubuluza ubuye umva, kodwa uya kuba nakho ukuqhubela phambili ngokudibanisa ukulungelelaniswa kwengalo nemilenze.
Ukuqeqesha ukukhasa ayingomsebenzi olula. Iintsana zikwinkqubo yokuphuhliswa kweemoto kwaye usuku ngalunye lokuhamba lubandakanya ukufunyanwa kwezakhono ezitsha. Ukuba ugcina umntwana, uya kubona ukuba kufuneka aphindaphinde izinto amaxesha amaninzi, thatha into yokudlala, chukumisa into. Ukuphindaphinda kukuvumela ukuba ufumane amava kwaye ukukhasa akunjalo. Logama umntwana esenokuhamba phantsi esebenzisa amalungu akhe, ngekhe kubekho ngxaki.
Imidlalo yokukhasa ebheka phambili
Ukuba uziva ukuba umntwana urhubuluza ubuye Kwaye ungathanda ukuba abuphucule obu buchule, kukho imidlalo kunye noqheliso onokulubandakanya ukomeleza imilenze yakhe kunye nokukhuthaza ukukhasa phambili. Enye yezona jusi zakudala kukubeka into yokudlala okanye into enomdla ngaphandle kwayo kodwa phambi kwakhe ukuze abe nomdla wokuyithatha. Ungangakwazi ukuyenza kwitrayi yokuqala, kodwa into ebalulekileyo kukuba uya kwenza iinzame zokwenza njalo, ukukhuthaza ukukhula okupheleleyo kwezihlunu.
Unokwenza ungenelelo oluncinci. Enye indlela kukumkhapha xa erhubuluza kwaye ubeke isandla sakho ngobunono kwi-diaper ukuze umtyhalele phambili. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka ulumke kakhulu kuba umbono kukumkhapha kwinkqubo ngaphandle kokumnyanzela. Ukuba ukhetha ukuba ayenze yedwa, ungambonisa nokuba yintoni Ndirhubuluza ndisiya phambili Ukwenza nje! Kukho abantwana abathanda ukukopa abantu abadala ke le ndlela inomdla kwezinye iimeko.
Ngaphandle kwemidlalo kunye nokuzilolonga, yiba nomonde, kancinci kancinci umntwana wakho uya komeleza umzimba wakhe uphela kwaye uya kufezekisa ukukhasa phambili.