Usapho oluhlala ekhaya

Usapho oluhlala ekhaya

Kulo kuluntu apho sihlala khona kusekho abantu abaninzi abacinga ukuba inye kuphela uhlobo losapho, le yobomi bonke, umama, utata nabantwana. Siza kukubonisa ukuba kuya kusenzeka ntoni ekuhlaleni apho sihlala khona, ekuthiwa-njalo usapho olunoomama.

ukusukela kwi70s Izifundo ezinxulumene nolu hlobo lwabazali sele zidaliwe, apho uhlalutyo lwabo lujolise kwintoni inkqubela yengqondo yabantwana abakhuliswe ngabazali abathandana nabesini esifana nesabo. Ukuza kuthi ga namhlanje nangaphambi kwenkulungwane yama-XNUMX, olu hlobo lokukhulisa abantwana luye lwajika, kuba imodeli eqhelekileyo ayihlelwanga kwaye ibonelela ngenkqubo yokukhulisa abantwana. uluhlu olubanzi lokukhulisa kakuhle phakathi kweentsapho ezahlukeneyo. 

Yintoni usapho olunobufanasini?

Usapho homoparental xa isibini ezimbini amadoda okanye abafazi ababini baba ngabazali bomntwana omnye okanye nangaphezulu. Banokunikwa ngokugqitha kwamkelwa, i Ukumitha umama okanye ze Ukungenisa into kwimeko yabasetyhini. Bakwajongwa njengezalamane ezithandanayo apho elinye lamalungu mabini linabantwana ngokwendalo kubudlelwane bangaphambili.

Kusapho olunobufanasini, abantwana banokukhuliswa kunye iimeko ezifanayo, kodwa ngesiqhelo kukho ezinye iintlobo zeengxaki ngaphakathi kwiyunithi yosapho okanye ngaphandle kwayo, nangona into eqhelekileyo kukuba ukuba zikhona, zisonjululwa ngoncedo lweengcali.

Usapho oluhlala ekhaya

Abantwana abaphuma kwiintsapho ezinomzali abahlukanga kwabo bakhuliswe ngabazali abathandana nabesini esahlukileyo kuyo nayiphi na indawo yophuhliso. Kukho namaxesha apho abazali besini esifanayo benza umthambo kakhulu bhetele loo msebenzi kunentsapho ebunjwe ngumama notata, ekubeni abo besini esifanayo betyekele ekubandakanyekeni ngakumbi baze benze umgudu ongakumbi kwimfundo nasekukhuliseni.

Ukuqhelaniswa ngokwesondo kwabantwana beentsapho ezithandana namanye

Uphononongo oluneenkcukacha luye lwenziwa malunga noqhelaniso lwezesondo lwabantwana beentsapho ezithandana namanye. Ukuququmbela, abukho ubungqina bokuba abantwana banotyekelo lobufanasini. Ukuba abantwana baphela bengamafanasini, amathuba okuba baphele bekule meko avela ngokulinganayo kubufanasini okanye kwinuclei yentsapho yesini esingafaniyo.

Kufuneka sitsho ukuba izifundo ezifanayo zibonisa ukuba ukukhulisa abantwana bakho okanye abamkelwe ngamafanasini okanye iilesbians akukho akukho miphumo mibi ukwenzela bona. Kwaye isantya sobufanasini kumakhwenkwe namantombazana akhuliswe ngamaqabane athandana nesini esifana neso awukho phezulu kunalawo akhuliswa ngabantu abathandana besini esahlukileyo. Ke ngoko ukuza kwisigqibo sokuba oku isangqa sentsapho ayinanto yakwenza neemeko zesondo zomntwana ngamnye.

Usapho oluhlala ekhaya

Ubomi bentlalo bomntwana osesikolweni

Izifundo ziyaqhubeka nokuvavanya le datha. Baye bafikelela kwisigqibo sokuba abantwana abaxhatshazwa ngenxa yolu hlobo lwemeko yentsapho. Ukuba kunjalo, ingena kumathuba afanayo ngokubanzi, xa kuziwa kwintsapho eqhelekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, kusoloko kufanelekile ukubonelela aba bantwana ngazo zonke izixhobo eziyimfuneko ukuze bakwazi ukuzikhusela.

  • Phakathi kolu hlobo lwezixhobo, okokuqala, kuyimfuneko ukuqonda oko akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokuba nolunye uhlobo lokuzibandakanya ngokwesondo okanye olunye, Kusenokude kubekho iyantlukwano phakathi kwentsapho okanye kwenye.
  • Ukubekwa ibala kunye neemeko zokuxhatshazwa banokumelana kakuhle kakhulu nootata okanye oomama abafaka izakhono zentlalo ukuze bakwazi ukuzikhusela kwezi ziganeko zingalindelekanga.
  • Uncedo oluhle dala unxibelelwano oluhambelanayo phakathi kwamalungu osapho. Ukukhuthaza ukubonakaliswa kweemvakalelo yinxalenye yolu qheliselo lulungileyo, ekubeni ngokuziqonda kakuhle iimvakalelo, naliphi na ilinge elihlaselayo elingaphandle kombindi wentsapho linokubonwa kwangethuba.

Ngaba kukho iingxaki kwintlalontle yabafikisayo?

Namhlanje, kusekho ucalucalulo ngokuphathelele olu hlobo lwemeko. Ukanti kukho iintsapho zamafanasini eziziva zicaphukile kwaye kufuneka basombulule enye impixano. Usapho ngalunye kufuneka lubazi bonke ubunzima olunokujamelana nalo.

Ngokubanzi, ukuziphatha kwabantwana okanye abafikisayo kwindawo yabo yentlalo ziyafana naleyo yentsapho yesithethe. Ezinye izifundo ziye zaza kuvavanya ukukhuliswa kwabo ngootata abathandana nabasetyhini okanye oomama abathandana nabasetyhini, ukufumanisa kwezi meko. abantu abanethemba ngakumbi kwiiyantlukwano. Ngoko ke, banobuhlobo ngakumbi. Noko ke, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ngabaluphi na uhlobo lwentsapho, bafanele basoloko benemfundo ehlonelwa gqitha, apho ukunyamezelana kumele koyise. Lisitshixo sokuqheleka kweyantlukwano ngokwesondo.

Usapho oluhlala ekhaya

Izinto eziluncedo kunye nezingeloncedo kusapho olufana nomzali omnye

Ezinye ze ezintle ifunyenwe kolu hlobo lwentsapho kukuba abantwana banqweneleka kakhulu, ngoko ke ukubandakanyeka kwabazali kuphezulu kakhulu.

Baphuhlisa kakhulu lungisa, la ukunyamezela, Hlonipha enye kwaye unayo ubandlululo oluncinci kule micimbi; Kukwakho nolwabiwo olulinganayo lwemisebenzi oluthanda ukuba bhetyebhetye kwendima yesini.

Ngokumalunga nezinye iingxaki ezinokubonakala zezo zinika i ukunqongophala komzobo indoda okanye ibhinqa kusapho. I ukwaliwa okunokwenzeka kunye nokucalulwa kwezentlalo okukhoyo kubufanasini kwaye ngakumbi kolu hlobo losapho; i iimbekiselo ezimbalwa zikho, ekubeni zingekho ninzi iintsapho okanye azikho esidlangalaleni.

Kufuneka qhubeka ubonise eluntwini ukuba balusapho lokwenyani kwaye banokwenza umsebenzi wabo wesikolo owenzelwa ekhaya kanye njengoomama nootata. Yinyani ebonisa inyani yokunikezela ithuba lokuhlangana nosapho olunezi mpawu kwaye ngaloo ndlela inika ithuba lokuba ziyalingana neentsapho zemveli esiqhele ukuzibona kuluntu lwethu.

Xa usapho lobufanasini lukhatywa ngamanye amacandelo

Kukho abantu okanye amacandelo alandula olu hlobo lwentsapho, ekubeni zichasene neenkolelo zabo zokuziphatha okanye zonqulo. Bakholelwa ukuba abazali abathandana nabasetyhini okanye abathandanayo abakhulisa abantwana babo akuyondalo kwaye oko akufuneki bakhuselwe okanye baxhaswe ngumthetho.

Bangabathetheleli ababalulekileyo kwiintsapho. ezibunjwa ngomanyano phakathi kwendoda nomfazi, ekubeni bedalwe ngolu hlobo ukuze bakwazi ukuzala. Ngokuphathelele oko akukholelwayo, kukho ingcamango engokwesithethe yokuba abantwana bafanele bafundiswe ngumama notata. Ukuba umntwana akakhuliswanga phantsi kwezi meko, kukho ithuba lokudala unxunguphalo, iingxaki zobuntu okanye ukulahlwa kwezentlalo.

Amacandelo akhusela olu hlobo lwentsapho akakholelwa ukuba abantwana baya kuba nalo ubunzima kwizakhono zabo zentlalo, Ekubeni befunda njengaye nawuphi na omnye umntwana, ukukhula kwabo kwengqondo kuyafana nokwentsapho enomzali omnye yaye, ngaphezu kwako konke, kukho uthando lwentsapho. Ziintsapho ezibamkelayo aba bantwana. ngolunye uhlobo lwengqwalasela kunye nomnqweno ongaphezulu, oku kuyinkalo ebalulekileyo yokukwazi ukudibanisa inkxaso kunye nokhuseleko olufunekayo umntwana ukuba afundiswe.


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