Uninzi lwabazali longa ithoni yabo ebukhali "kwiimeko ezingxamisekileyo." Xa ukhuseleko lungumcimbi, bahlala betshintsha isicwangciso sabo sobuzali ngendlela engqongqo ngakumbi. Ngokucacileyo oku kuyavakala. Ukuba umntwana wakho oneminyaka emine usendleleniNgaba kufuneka ukhwaze Ewe, NGAPHANDLE kokuthandabuza.
Injongo yakho, nangona kunjalo, ayikokohlwaya. Injongo yokukhwaza kufuneka ibe kukufumana ingqalelo. Ukuba awukhangeli rhoqo, oku kufanele ukuba kube nokusebenza kakhulu. Ukuba uhlala ukhala, uwenza buthathaka amandla elizwi lakho kwiimeko ezingxamisekileyo.
Soloko uphendula kwingozi ekhawulezileyo. Nangona kunjalo, uqeqesho olulandelayo lwenziwa kakuhle "ngelizwi elinobubele nelinenkxalabo. Oko akuthethi ukuba awuliphakamisi ilizwi lakho kwezi meko ziyingozi ukufumana ingqalelo yabo ngoko nangoko. Kodwa nakuphi na ukusebenzisana emva kokufumana ingqalelo kuya kuba novelwano lokwenene kunye nenkxalabo kwilizwi lakho.
Ungahlala njani unovelwano xa ukhathazekile
Nokuba ufuna ukutshintsha ithoni yakho, abantwana abasoloko bekwenza kube lula. Ke kwenzeka ntoni xa ucaphuke ngokupheleleyo? Ngaphambi kokujongana notshintsho kwithoni yovelwano, gxila ekuhlaleni uzolile. Thatha umoya omninzi okanye uthathe "ixesha lokuphuma" ukukhumbula. Xa uthetha, usebenzisa ilizwi lokucula ingoma inokukunceda uvakale kakuhle xa ungaziva.
Ke ulisebenzise kakuhle uthando lomntwana wakho. Ukuziphatha kuchaza umsebenzi wethu wokufundisa abantwana bethu ukuba baphumelele njengoko bekhula kwaye bekhula. Siyazi kakuhle ukuba kunokuba nzima kangakanani kwaye kube ngumngeni ukufunda kwiimpazamo zethu. Nyaniseka ngovelwano lwakho. Khumbula ukuba umkhathalele kangakanani umntwana wakho. Xa uziva ngenene, kuya kuba lula ukunxibelelana ngovelwano ngelizwi lakho.
Khumbula ukuba ilizwi lakho libaluleke kakhulu xa uqeqesha abantwana bakho. Baya kufunda ukulawula ithoni yabo yelizwi bethathela ingqalelo indlela oyilawula ngayo.