Umcimbi wokuba umntwana ushushu okanye uyabanda ndicinga ukuba yenye yezona zinzima kum. Izandi zilula ngokuchanekileyo? Ewe, ndiyakuqinisekisa ukuba ziziphithiphithi nje zonke, andizange ndiqiniseke ukuba usana lwam lunxibe iimpahla ezininzi kakhulu okanye ukuba ndinokumnxibisa ngaphezulu, ngaphezulu koko, umntu wayeza kuphuma andixelele "kushushu, don 't beka iimpahla ezingako kuye "kwelinye icala omnye umntu ondixelele ukuba" mncinci kakhulu, mfihle. " Kwakufuneka enze ntoni emva koko? ¿Ndingazi njani ukuba ilungile okanye akunjalo?
Ngokuhamba kwexesha ndiye ndafunda ukufumanisa ukuba yintoni efunwa lusana lwam, ilula kakhulu ukuba sijonga ezinye iinkcukacha ezincinci kwaye sikhokelwa yimvakalelo yethu kunoko banokusixelela kona. Nazi ezinye zeendlela zokuxelela ukuba umntwana wakho ushushu okanye uyabanda.
Chukumisa umzimba wakhe
Kwiintsuku zokuqala, akusayi kusinceda ukubamba izandla okanye iinyawo kuba ukujikeleza kwegazi kusaqhuba kakuhle kula malungu omzimba kwaye, ubukhulu becala, baya kubanda. Kungenxa yoko le nto kungcono ukuba uchukumise intamo, iingalo okanye imilenze.
Ukuba kuyabanda, kunokwenzeka ukuba uyakufumanisa ukuba ezi ndawo zomzimba ziyabanda, kwelinye icala, ukuba kushushu uyakuyibona ishushu kakhulu kwaye inokubila nasemva kwentamo.
Mjonge
Usana olusandul 'ukuzalwa alungcangcazeli xa lubanda, kwaye kaninzi alikhalazi, kungoko kuyakufuneka sibe ngabo banomdla wokufunda ukwahlula xa ebanda okanye eshushu, umzekelo, xa umntwana wam wayemncinci. umlomo ubungcangcazela xa kubanda, ngoku ugoqe amanqindi wakhe uwabambe ecaleni kwesinqe sakhe. Kancinci kancinci uya kuyazi into ayifunayo ngokumjonga nje.
Iqhinga
Bathi usana kufuneka luhlale lunayo ingubo enye kunaleyo unina ayinxibileyo.
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