Ukwazi njani ukuba umntwana wam uphefumla kakuhle

phefumla kakuhle usana

Phantse sonke sasiphumelele iiyure ukumamela ukuphefumla kosana lwethu, kuyinxalenye yethuku lethu lokukhusela. Kufuneka siqinisekise ukuba ulungile, kwaye uphefumla ngokufanelekileyo. Kodwa abantwana baphefumla njani, ndingazi njani ukuba baphefumla kakuhle? Siza kujongana nale micimbi kunye neminye kweli nqaku.

Ukuze uzole ngoku, siza kukuxelela loo nto ukuphefumla komntwana kubonakaliswa ngumzekelo ongaqhelekanga, Ukususela kwinyanga yesithathu ilawulwa. Ngelo xesha sele umazi umntwana ngcono wena, ekuvumela ukuba wazi ukuba uphefumla kakuhle na okanye kukho ingxaki.

Ziphefumla njani iintsana?

phefumla kakuhle usana

Ukwazi ukuba umntwana wakho uphefumla kakuhle na, kuqala kuya kufuneka wazi ukuba ukuphefumla komntwana kunjani. Ukuphefumla kosana olusandul 'ukuzalwa ngokukhawuleza okukhulu kunaleyo yabantwana. Intlawulo yenhliziyo yakho imalunga nokubetha okungama-30 ukuya kuma-60 ngomzuzu. Iqondo eliqhelekileyo lokuphefumla komntwana ophefumla kakuhle ngama-40 ukuya kuma-60 okuphefumla ngomzuzu. Ngumzuzu wokuncwina.

Ukongeza, iintsana, ngakumbi iintsana, banokuphefumla okungaqhelekanga, ukusuka ngokukhawuleza ukuya kuzola. Kukho amaxesha apho inzulu khona, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ityhafile, ithambe kangangokuba kufuneka sisondele kakhulu ukuze sazi ukuba umntwana uphefumla kakuhle na.

Ukuba uqaphela ukuba usana olusandul 'ukuzalwa alunakuthatha umoya omninzi, okanye lenze umzamo omkhulu wokuthamba, lunokuba nobunzima bokuphefumla, okanye lusenokuba Olunye ulwelo lwe-amniotic kwimiphunga yakho. Kufuneka udibane nogqirha wabantwana ngokukhawuleza okukhulu.

Ndazi njani ukuba usana lwam luphefumla kakuhle?

usana luphefumla kakuhle

Malunga neenyanga ezintathu, abantwana baqala ukulawula ukuphefumla kwabo, kwaye emva kwe-6, ukuphefumla kuba yinto eqhelekileyo, inkqubo yakho yokuphefumla ikhulile. Ngelo xesha iphethini yokuphefumla iyahamba ngamaxesha athile kwaye ijikeleze. Iintsana ziphefumla ngeempumlo, kuba ngokwasemzimbeni, zibonisa ukutywina komoya emlonyeni, kwaye kususela kwinyanga yesithandathu (njengoko sibonisile) ukuba nabo baqala ukuphefumla ngomlomo.

Ezinye iinkcukacha onokuzijonga ukuze wazi ukuba umntwana wakho uphefumla kakuhle kukujonga imibala yemilebe yakho, umlomo, iminwe. Ukuba luhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, kwenzeka ngenxa yokwehla konikezelo lweoksijini ngenxa yotshintsho ekuphefumlweni. Ukuba umntwana uyeka ukuphefumla ubuncinci imizuzwana engama-20, yiya kwangoko kugqirha wabantwana. Ngaba imeko yongxamiseko.

Kukwanzulu kakhulu ukuba ubonisa iimpawu zokukrwitshwa, khefuzela, ingxolo ekuphefumlweni kwakho okanye iimbambo ziyatshona. Yonke le miqondiso yokusilela kokuphefumla. Ukuba yintoni ekukhathazayo sisifo sokufa kwabantwana ngesiquphe, kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba ichaphazela umntwana omnye kwabali-1 abazalwayo, kwaye kwenzeka, kuma-1.000% amatyala, phambi kweenyanga ezintandathu zobomi.

Kutheni umntanam esenza ingxolo engaka xa ephefumla?

iinwele zomntwana


Ukuba ucinga ukuba umntwana wakho wenza ingxolo enkulu xa ephefumla kungenxa yokuba Iintsana zinemibhobho emincinci yokuphefumla, ebangela ingxolo xa uthatha umoya kwaye uyikhulula. Uya kubona ukuba kungekudala uza kuyibona njani ingxolo nganye yokuphefumla kwabo. Le ngxolo sisiphumo senkqubo engekakhuli.

Kufuneka ungakhathazeki ukuba umntwana wakho uyarhona ngeli xesha lala. Ezinye iingcongconi zisenokuba ziqokelelene, kwaye isikhundla akuso simenza arhona. Zama ukutshintsha isikhundla sakhe, kwaye xa evuka, mhlambe ngesisombululo seetyuwa. Ukuba sele uqaphela ukuba uyarhona kakhulu kwaye oku kuthintela ukuphefumla kakuhle, kungcono ukuba ubonane nogqirha wabantwana.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ipateni yokuphefumla iyatshintsha ngokwamanqanaba ahlukeneyo obuthongo. Iintsana ngamanye amaxesha ziba namaxesha okuphefumla. Zonke iintsana ezikwiqondo lokulala elikhanyayo zinokuthi, ukongeza kwingxolo, zihambe okanye zenze izihlunu zemisipha, ngakumbi emilenzeni. Sele kwinqanaba lokulala nzulu, indlela aphefumla ngayo umntwana izolile, inesingqi esinokuphumla ngakumbi kunesigaba sokulala esilula.


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