Ngokuqinisekileyo abazali abaninzi banenkxalabo yokufumanisa ukuba umntwana wethu uya kuba mde okanye ube mfutshane ngesiqu. Akukho nto iqikelela okanye ibonise ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba ukuphakama komntwana ekugqibeleni kunokujongeka kanjani, kodwa kuyenzeka uhlobo oluthile lweethiyori okanye iifomula.
Abazali abaninzi fika kugqirha wabantwana Kwaye babuza malunga nesi sihloko. Ngokuqinisekileyo ngumbuzo obuzwa ngaphezu kwesiqhelo, apho uninzi lwezi ngcali abanakuphendula ngqo. Akunakuchazwa ukuba umntwana wakho uya kuba mfutshane okanye ubude, kodwa ewe Nika ulungelelwaniso olunengqiqo encinci: Ukuba abazali bafutshane, into esengqiqweni kukuba abantwana bafutshane. Ngokufanayo, ukuba abazali bade, kunokwenzeka ukuba yinkwenkwe okanye intombazana ende.
Ndingazi ukuba umntwana wam uya kuba mfutshane?
Kukho ifomula yemathematics ye Cacisa ukubala okuqikelelweyo malunga nendlela anokuba ngunyana wakho ngayo xa ekugqibeleni ekhulile. Ayizizo idatha ethembekileyo kuba ezinye izinto ezinje ngemfuza ziya kuhlala zibandakanyeka.
Enye yeendlela kukuba ukuphinda kabini ukuphakama komntwana xa une ndineminyaka emibini ubudala. Kwimeko yamantombazana, inokuba xa baneenyanga ezili-18 ubudala, kuba xa bebancinci bakhula ngokukhawuleza.
Enye indlela esetyenzisiweyo kukulinganisa ukuphakama kukatata nomama. Iziphumo zakho zahlulwe kabini Kwaye ngoku kuya kufuneka wenze ubalo lokugqibela, ngolwazi olulandelayo esikunika lona apha ngezantsi, iya kuba lulwazi ofuna ukulwazi:
- Eyabantwana Kuya kufuneka wongeze 6,35 cm, okanye 2 XNUMX/XNUMX intshi.
- Ngamantombazana kufuneka uthabathe 6,35 cm, okanye 2 XNUMX/XNUMX intshi.
Nangona kunjalo, ezi ziidatha kuphela ezinokubakho ukucacisa ubude bomntwana wakho xa begqiba ukukhula. Kodwa kunokubakho Umda wephutha ukuya kwi-10 cm, kodwa siya kuhlala sisebenzisa idatha yokuqala, ukuba abazali bade abantwana baya kuba, kwaye ukuba abazali bafutshane abantwana baya kulidla ilifa.
Kukho abazali abanenkxalabo kwaye abangonwabanga malunga nokuphakama komntwana wabo xa ikhula ngokukhawuleza kakhulu okanye icothe. Ezi ziimeko zenkxalabo kuba azikho phakathi kweetshathi zokukhula okanye umahluko wabo ubonakala ngokuthelekisa nabanye abantwana. Kule meko ugqirha wabantwana unakho cela uvavanyo oluthile, phakathi kwazo zenza X-reyi yesandla kunye nesihlahla Oko kuyakubonisa ukuba umzimba wakho usebenza njani ekukhuleni komntwana. Ezinye iimvavanyo zaselebhu Banokulahla ulwazi oluthile abafuna ukulwazi ukuze bacacise ukukrokra okuthile.
Kutyelelo lwabantwana okanye lokonga rhoqo ubude bomntwana buhlala bujongwa kwaye buthelekiswa ne Iitshathi zokukhula okusemgangathweni. Kula manqanaba kuya kugqitywa ukuba umntwana wakho ulandela ijika rhoqo okanye ngaphezulu okanye ngezantsi. Enye indlela yokwazi ukuba ubude bomntwana wakho buya kuba njani kwixa elizayo kwaye ukuba ulandela iipateni zecave ufika kutyelelo ngalunye. Nangona kunjalo, uninzi lwabantwana lungaqala ukukhula kwangoko kwaye emva koko luye ngokungaqhelekanga.
Izinto ezinokuchaphazela ukuphakama kwabantwana
Ukutya kwabo: isondlo sabo yinxalenye ebalulekileyo. Njengomgaqo ngokubanzi, abantwana abatyebe kakhulu bahlala beqhelekile iphakame kancinci kunabanye. Abanye abantwana baba kakhulu isezantsi kakhulu kunoko kulindelweyo. Kodwa yimiboniso kuphela, kuba le datha ayinakuba luncedo kamva.
Iihomoni: Ukungalingani kwehomoni yenye into echaphazela ukukhula. Inqanaba eliphantsi lokukhula kwehomoni kungakhokelela ekukhuleni okucothayo, ke kufuneka bafunyaniswe ukuba bafumana unyango. Kubalulekile ukwenza itshekhi yehomoni ukuze ikwazi ukufumanisa ukuba ayichaphazeli ukudodobala kokukhula.
Izifo: ezinye iingxaki zempilo ezingalindelekanga ezinje ngesifo samathambo, umhlaza okanye isifo se-celiac nako kumisela ukwehla koku kukhula. Ezinye izifo ezinemvelaphi yemfuza zinokuba zezi Isifo esiPhantsi okanye Isifo sikaTurner, abangakwaziyo ukuvumela ukuba ziphuhlise inkqubela phambili.
Ezinye izinto ezinokuba nefuthe kwezinye iipateni kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla ezinokuthi zisebenze kwangaphambili. Oku kunokuba, okusingqongileyo kunye nemozulu apho ikhula khona loo mntwana, umgangatho wakhe wokulala, ukutya kwabo, ungcoliseko nkqu nokuba sempilweni kwengqondo yakho. Unokufunda ngakumbi malunga nokukhula kumanqaku ethu: «ukutya okukhuthaza ukukhula kwabantwana"Okanye"izinto ezichaphazelekayo ekukhuleni komntwana«.