Nokuba lilunge kangakanani na iqhinga lakho lokuthintela ukungxola, ngamanye amaxesha uya kuliphakamisa ilizwi lakho. Ilungile. Yamkele kwaye uxolise, kwaye abantwana bakho baya kufunda isifundo esibalulekileyo: Sonke siyazenza iimpazamo kwaye kufuneka sixolise. Ukuba abantwana bakho bayangxola, bakhumbuze ngomda abaza kusikelelwa ngawo kwaye ukungangxoli kwabo akuyondlela eyamkelekileyo yonxibelelwano. Bamele bazi ukuba ukulungele ukumamela okoko nje bebonisa imbeko.
Umzekelo ofanayo ngokuzinika ixesha lokupholisa iinjini zakho ngaphambi kokuba uthethe nabantwana bakho xa ukhathazekile okanye uphazamisekile. Iya kubanceda benze imikhwa yobomi bonke eyenza ukuba kube lula ukulawula ungquzulwano. Oko kuyakufundisa abantwana bakho ukuba baqonde iimpazamo, ezabo kunye nezabanye abantu, kwaye uxolelo sisixhobo esibalulekileyo kunxibelelwano olusempilweni kusapho.
Ukuba uthembele ekukhaleni ekuqeqesheni abantwana bakho kude kube ngoku, usenokubona iziphumo:
- Abantwana bakho banokuxhomekeka ekukhaleni ukuze banxibelelane nabanye.
- Bayaphendula kuwe bade bakungxolise endaweni yokuthetha nje ngentlonipho.
- Ulwalamano lwakho nabo aluzinzanga kwaye aluguquguquki kwinqanaba lokungakwazi ukunxibelelana ngendlela esempilweni.
- Banokujikela kude kuwe baze baphenjelelwe ngoontanga babo kunakuwe.
Ungayitshintsha yonke loo nto. Qala ngokuthetha ngokunyanisekileyo nabantwana bakho malunga nento engeyiyo yokwenza ngokukhwaza kwaye kutheni ukubonisa umsindo wakho ngaloo ndlela kungafanelekanga. Yenza ikhaya lakho libe yindawo enoxolo apho abantu ngentlonipho banxibelelana kwaye bayazazi iimvakalelo zabanye ngaphandle kokugxeka, ukuhlazisa okanye ukugweba. Ukuzinikela ngokungagungqiyo kugcina incoko ivulekile kwaye kugcina onke amalungu osapho enoxanduva.
Ukuba wenza iimpazamo, unganikezeli. Ayisiyondlela ilula, kodwa kufanelekile ukwenza umzamo wokulungiselela abantwana bakho kunye nosapho ngokubanzi.