Uninzi lwethu alukhumbuli kwanto kubomi bethu bokuqala. Iyahlekisa indlela esebenza ngayo ingqondo. Nangona abantwana benjengeziponti, ngeli nqanaba sikhe sineenkumbulo ezincinci ebomini bethu bonke.
Baqala nini abantwana ukwenza iinkumbulo? Kutheni le nto ezinye zicace gca kwaye ezinye zintsonkothileyo? Ngaba zithembekile okanye zenziwe? Makhe sifunde ezi kunye nezinye ezingaziwayo.
I-amnesia yabantwana
Nantsi indlela abhaptizwe ngayo le nto nguSigmun Freud. Ngaba amnesia olusana liza kwahlulwa libe ngamanqanaba amabini: isigaba sokuqala kwiminyaka yokuqala yobomiI-0-3 iminyakaapho kungekho zinkumbulo kwaye a inqanaba lesibini phakathi kwe I-3-7 iminyaka apho sele zikho ezinye iinkumbulo kodwa kusekho izikhewu ezininzi.
Njengeentsana kukho ukwanda okukhulu kwe-neural ebomini bethu (neurogeneis) ngo-700 wonxibelelwano ngomzuzwana. Ngaphandle koku inkumbulo episodic (ophetheyo ukugcina ulwazi lwexesha elide malunga nobomi bethu) ayifikeleli kuphuhliso lwayo kude kube yiminyaka emi-3-5 ubudala. Kungenxa yoko le nto ifayile ye- kwiminyaka ephakathi ukusuka kuyo singagcina iinkumbulo ezithile es ngaphezulu kweminyaka emi-3 indala.
En uphando lweempuku kubonisiwe ukuba ngexesha inqanaba lokukhawulezisa ukuzalwa kwe-neuron Kunzima ngakumbi ukugcina iinkumbulo. Nje ukuba ukukhula kuqhubeke ngakumbi, kulula ukugcina iinkumbulo zexesha elide. Neurogeneis nayo ikhuthaza iinkqubo zokulibala ulwazi olungabalulekanga, Isizathu sokuba iinkumbulo zingalungiswa.
Iingcinga ezingakumbi
Enye ingcinga yokuba Ulwimi lokuqala kunye nesiseko solwazi siyasilela ukutolika kunye nokufaka ulwazi kunye nokulugcina njengeenkumbulo, ezinokwenza umsebenzi ube nzima. Ukusukela kwiminyaka emi-3 ubudala, enkosi kulwimi, umntwana uyakwazi ukwahlula akubonayo, iimvakalelo zakhe kunye namava, anokulungiselela inkumbulo. Ngaphandle komthamo obalisayo kunzima kakhulu ukwenza ibali lamava ukuligcina.
Izifundo ezahlukeneyo zibonisile ukuba isithulu nesidenge zithatha umndilili we Iinyanga ezi-6 ngaphezulu ekugcineni iinkumbulo, njengabantwana abangakhuthazwa kakhulu lulwimi.
Los Izilwanyana nazo zihlupheka ngenxa ye-infantile amnesia ngoko ayinakucaciswa ngokwabantu kuphela.
Into ocinga ukuba uyayikhumbula ayithethi ukuba iyinyani
Yikholwe okanye ungakholelwa, uninzi lweenkumbulo zethu zobuntwana ezibonakala zicacile azange zenzeke. Singaqondanga besikade siqokelela ulwazi oluvela kwimithombo eyahlukeneyo kwaye besivelisa iinkumbulo kubo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo ubonile kubantwana abakufutshane. Batsho ukuba bayazikhumbula izinto ezenzekileyo xa babeziintsana, zingenakwenzeka ngenxa yobudala babo, okanye ngendlela eyahlukileyo kunaleyo yayiyinyani. Xa sixelelwe okanye seva ibali amaxesha amaninzi, ingqondo yethu iyalilinganisa ngokungathi ibikhe yaliphila kwaye ilithatha njengememori.
Umahluko ngokwenkcubeko
Kukho umahluko ngokwenkcubeko ochaphazela iinkumbulo. Inkqubo ye- amasiko yaseMpuma uncamathisele ukubaluleka kokudlulileyo, ke iinkumbulo zakho zincinci kwaye zicacile ngakumbi kwaye azicacanga. Endaweni ye Inkcubeko yaseNtshona elidlulileyo linikwa kakhulu ukubaluleka, kwaye iinkumbulo zicace ngakumbi kwaye zinde.
Kukho umahluko ngokubhekisele kwisini: abasetyhini bakhumbula kwangaphambili kunamadoda. Ngokukhula kwangoko, amandla ethu okugcina iinkumbulo angcono kunalawo amadoda.
Ungaziphucula njani iinkumbulo ebantwaneni
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