Siyathanda ukubona abantwana bekhula kwaye beqhubela phambili ngesantya sabo kwaye ngaphandle kwezithintelo. Emva kweenyanga ezintandathu sele beqala ukwazisa ukutya okutsha kwisidlo sakho, babesela ubisi kuphela. Ngokungeniswa kokutya okutsha sele beqala enye indlela yokutya, kodwa kusafuneka sazi xa abantwana besitya bodwa.
Kuya kuthatha iinyanga ezimbalwa ukuba umntwana wakho abambe i-cutlery yokuqala kwaye uzisebenzise ekutyeni. Baza kuqala bathande ukuqhelana nokutya, baya kudlala ngako kwaye bakubeke emlonyeni wabo. Kamva baya kusebenzisa icephe okanye ifolokhwe ukuya ephindaphinda ubuchule bakhe kancinci kancinci.
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Abantwana banokutya bebodwa kwiminyaka emingaphi?
Akukho minyaka ichanekileyo yokumisela ukuba iintsana zinokuqala nini ukuba ezizimeleyo kunye nokutya kwabo. Isuka e Iinyanga ezili-12 ukuya kuthi ga kwiinyanga ezingama-26 nezingama-28 Basele beqala ukwenza izakhono zabo zokuqala, unokuthatha isilivere kwaye wenze iifeints. Xa beneminyaka emibini ubudala, banokubamba i-cutlery enokhuseleko olungakumbi, ngaphandle koncedo lwabazali babo.
Eyona ndlela ingcono yokuba bafunde kukushiya usana lwakho lodwa phambi kokutya kunye nezinto zokusika. Qinisekisa ukuba ukutya kukhuselekile ngaphandle kokuba enze isiphithiphithi esikhulu, nokuba yena ngokwakhe phatha icephe okanye ifolokhwe ngaphandle koloyiko. Ekuqaleni isenokungakhuselekanga ukuyisebenzisa kwaye uya kusebenzisa izandla njengesixhobo sakho esihle kwaye ubambe ukutya. Uya kukwazi ukuthabatha i-spoon kwaye uyibeke emlonyeni wakho, apho uya kuzama ukufaka ezinye zezinto oziqokeleleyo kunye nempumelelo encinci. Kungcono kakhulu ukubeka umntwana kufutshane nabazali xa besitya, ukuze funda ukuxelisa indlela abantu abadala abaqhuba ngayo.
Kwiminyaka emibini yokuqala yobomi
Umntwana uya kuqala ukuba nomdla malunga nokutya kwaye olona vavanyo lungcono kukuba uzame ukulibamba ngezandla zakho. Ukuba unikwe i-cutlery uya kuyisebenzisa, kodwa kube nzima. Abanye abantwana baya kukwazi ukuzisebenzisa ngokuqinileyo kodwa ngeempazamo ezithile. Nokuba awuzisebenzisi ngokugqibeleleyo, unako nikela ngefolokhwe ukuze uqalise Ngokusetyenziswa kwayo, kuya kuthatha ixesha elide ukuyidla, kodwa kuya kuba kufanelekile ukubona ukuba kuyinxalenye njani yokufunda nokukhula kwakho.
Uyakuthanda ukutya Yaye akayi kuba nangxaki yokufuna ukuzama oko akubona kutyiwa ngabazali bakhe, nangona uya kuba nomnqweno wokufuna ukutya okuthile. Kwiminyaka emibini sele uya kuba nako ukuphatha indebe nokusela ngaphandle kokuchitha umxholo. Kude kube ngoko ndandisebenzisa kuphela iiglasi ezikhethekileyo ezivaliweyo, ukusela nge-spout.
Ukususela kwiminyaka emithathu
Umntwana ukhulile kwaye ingatya phantse nantoni na. Kwisidlo sakho unokuthi udibanise ukutya okuqinileyo kunye ne-chunky. Kusenokuba nzima kuwe ukwazisa ukutya okutsha kwisidlo sakho njengoko usala ukuzama iincasa ezintsha. Umntwana sele eqala ukuhlafuna umlomo wakhe uvaliwe kakade sebenzisa i-cutlery ngokuqhelekileyo. Kunokuba nzima kuwe ukuhlala ubusuku bonke, kuya kuba nzima, kodwa kancinci kancinci.
Asingabo bonke abantwana abamathidala ukuzama ukutya okutsha, abanye baya kuvuleka ukuzama ukuthungwa kunye nemibala eyahlukeneyo. Ngoku baya kukwazi ukusebenzisa kwaneemela ezilungele iminyaka yabo nokuphatha iindondo okanye iijagi ezincinane ezinesiphatho.
Kwiminyaka emi-4, abantwana baqala ukuba nomdla malunga nokutya kwaye abanye baya ekhitshini ukuze babone ukuba balungiswa njani. Bayakwazi ukubaluleka kwayo kwaye banokuthetha nabahlobo kunye nosapho lwabo malunga neyona nto bayithanda kakhulu.
Ukusukela kwiminyaka engama-5
Umntwana umdala ngokwaneleyo ukuba angazuza zonke izakhono zokutya zodwa. Awusayi kufuna ukubeka esweni umntu omdala kwaye uya kukwazi ukugqiba ukutya kwakho ngokwakho. Nangona kubhetele ukuhlala nisitya njengentsapho, ukuncokola etafileni nokuthetha naye wonk’ ubani kunokuba lelona xesha lifanelekileyo losuku.
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