Ngaba uyafuna ukwazi xa iintsana zincuma? Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, uncumo luyimbonakaliso kwaye ukususela ebuntwaneni siyayazi indlela yokwenza. Kakade ke, maxa wambi sibona ukuba usana lwethu alubonakali luyichaza kwaye mhlawumbi sixhalabe ngaphezu koko kuyimfuneko. Liyinyaniso elokuba kusenza sibe nomdla ukubona into enjalo ebusweni bakhe, kodwa asifanele siphelelwe lithemba.
Kuba iya kuza kwaye siya kufuna ukuyigcina ubomi bethu bonke. Ukususela ekuzalweni kwabo, asifuni okanye asifanele sibalibale, kwanokuba abasithabathi ngqalelo kangako. Kodwa kancinci kancinci oku kuyatshintsha kwaye kubonakala ngathi intsebenziswano phakathi kwabo nathi isondele kakhulu. Ngoko kuya kubakho xa kufuneka sithethe ngoncumo lokuqala.
Xa iintsana zincuma okokuqala?
Ukuba ngokwenene sibuyela kuncumo lokuqala lwabo bonke, kuya kufuneka sitsho ukuba awuyi kulubona. Ngokuba ngaphakathi kwesibeleko sele beqala ukushukuma, i-gesticulate kunye nayo, ukucacisa uhlobo loncumo okanye into efanayo.. Konke oku ngendlela abangenako ukuyilawula, nangona kuyinyani ukuba sinokuzifumana nge-3D ultrasound. Kodwa ke, iimeko ezininzi kufuneka zenzeke kunye ukuze zikwazi ukubamba umzuzu ochanekileyo. Kufuneka kuthiwe into eqondwayo ngalo mzuzu yimbonakaliso (into yokuzalwa) yosana, yiyo loo nto ingabizwa ngokuba luncumo ngolo hlobo, kodwa ibiza igama 'loncumo lwengelosi'.
Uncumo lwakho lokuqala? Kwiinyanga ezimbini zokuzalwa
Ukuba siyazibuza xa iintsana zincuma, kumele kuthiwe azifani zonke. Njengomthetho jikelele, iintsana ziqala ukumomotheka kwinyanga yesibini yobomi. Nangona kuyinyani ukuba ngexesha lokuqala unokukonwabela uncumo oluthile, xa umphulula okanye ezolile kakhulu. Kungelo xesha apho umntwana omncinci ekhululekile ngakumbi ukwabelana nabanye ngamaxesha, baya kuvula amehlo abo ngakumbi kwaye ke, le mpendulo okanye uvuyo luya kutshintsha lube luncumo.
Kodwa njengoko sithetha, ayisiyiyo isayensi echanekileyo. Ngaphezu koko, ezinye iintsana zithatha ixesha elide kwaye ayisosizathu sokukhathazeka. Ke, sidinga nje umonde omncinci kuba loo mzuzu uya kuza ukuze siwonwabele ngokupheleleyo.
Indlela yokunxibelelana kwaye uziveze
Kuyinyani ukuba ukulila kukwayenye yezona ndlela zilungileyo zokunxibelelana kwiintsana. Ngenxa yokuba njengoko sisazi kakuhle, kungenxa yokuba kukho into engahambi kakuhle, abanelisekanga mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuswela ukutya, ngenxa yokuba bayozela kwaye abakwazi ukulala, njl. Kodwa ukongeza kolu hlobo lonxibelelwano, uncumo lukwanalo nelinye icala kunye nelona lihle. Yiyo loo nto abantu abaninzi bethetha 'ngoncumo lwasentlalweni'. Kuba ifika kanye ngelo xesha xa umntwana ekunye nomntu kwaye efuna ukunxibelelana. Ngoko ke, nathi kufuneka siphendule kolo nxibelelwano. Njani? Ewe, ngokuphulula, ukumbamba okanye ukusebeza. Ngokuqinisekileyo konke oku kuya kwamkelwa kakuhle ngumncinci wethu. Njengoko ixesha lihamba, uya kuphapha yaye uphaphile ngakumbi ukuze oku kube nentsingiselo engakumbi, ekubeni kuya komeleza amaqhina entsapho.
What if umntana akancumi
Asikuthandi ukuzifaka kobo bunzima, kodwa liyinyaniso elokuba maxa wambi akubi buhlungu ukwazi ukuba kuya kwenzeka ntoni ukuba umntwana akancumi. Ngamanye amaxesha kunokwenzeka ukuba umntwana ufikelele kwiveki yesibhozo kwaye akazange achaze naluphi na uhlobo loncumo. Ke, kuvavanyo lwakho olulandelayo, kuya kufuneka udibane nogqirha wakho wabantwana. Ngaphezu koko, ugqirha ochaphazelekayo udla ngokuthatha yonke le nto kwaye yiyo loo nto ngamanye amaxesha besondela okanye bathethe nabo kwaye benze izimbo zomzimba ukuze babone indlela umntwana asabela ngayo. Xa kungekho ukumomotheka kwentlalo, kunokwenzeka ukuthetha malunga nohlobo oluthile lweengxaki zophuhliso. Ngaphambi kokuba wothuke, jonga ugqirha wakho malunga nokuba abantwana bayancuma nini!