Xa kuqalisa ukufikisa

Xa ixesha lokufikisa liqala

Inqanaba lokufikisa iqala ukusuka kwiminyaka eyi-10 kubantwana abaninzi, nangona kwabanye inokulibaziseka. Ukuze uyichaze ngolo hlobo, uthotho lweendlela zokuziphatha kunye utshintsho emzimbeni nasengqondweni. Konke oku kuya kuqalisa elo xesha kwaye kuya kuqala xa elo nqanaba lobuntwana loyiswa.

Kwixesha lokufikisa sinokuhlela ungcelele lwamaxesha aphelayo lenza njani eli nqanaba. Ngoxa sisazi ukuba umntwana ofikisayo unokuqondwa phakathi kwe-10 kunye ne-17 leminyaka ubudala, kwaye inkwenkwe esele ineminyaka eli-18 ubudala, nokuba sele ikhulile, iya kuhlala inesimo sobutsha.

Kunjani ukufikisa kwangethuba?

Kulelo nqanaba apho ukufikisa kuqala nalapho abantwana bafumana utshintsho oluninzi. Mhlawumbi utshintsho luqala ngotshintsho lwakho lwengqondo kwaye utshintsho lomzimba luza kamva, okanye ngokuphambene. Yintoni ecacileyo kukuba xa imizimba yabo baqala ukuva utshintsho lwabo yonke enye into iphuhla ngokufanelekileyo.

Ziziphi iinguqulelo abazifumanayo xa befikisa? Ngokubanzi utshintsho emzimbeni, engqondweni nangokweemvakalelo baqala bephakathi kweminyaka eli-13 neli-15 ubudala. Amantombazana aqala ngexesha lawo okanye ukuya exesheni, anokwanda kwamabele kunye nokwandiswa kwezinqe. Amakhwenkwe aqala ukwenza utshintsho kumasende kunye nelungu lobudoda kwaye akhule ngakumbi kwizihlunu. Phakathi kwazo zonke ezi nguqu zihambelana ne-a ukwanda kwesiqu, ekutshintsheni ivumba lomzimba, ekuphuhliseni i-acne kunye namakhwenkwe i-walnut ibonakala emqaleni kunye nokukhula kweenwele zobuso.

Utshintsho lwengqondo nazo zibalulekile. Baqala ukufumana utshintsho kwimo yabo, apho abanye baqala ukudala imvukelo. Abanye basenokuba engazinzanga, engaqondwa kakuhle kwaye banokuba ngamakheswa. Baziva becinezelekile ukuba benze izigqibo kunye noxanduva kwaye ngenxa yoko bakhula ukungavisisani nabantu abadala kunye nosapho. Uthando okanye inkanuko nayo ibonakala ngenye indlela ngakumbi evuselela inkanuko kwaye baqala ukuba nothando lweplatonic.

Xa ixesha lokufikisa liqala

Ixesha lokufikisa

Ulutsha luyaqhubeka lukhula kwaye abafazi baqala ukuba namaxesha aqhelekileyo. Bangenile inqanaba eliphakathi kwe-14 kunye ne-17 leminyaka ubudala. Baqhubeka nokutshintsha komzimba kwaye baqala ukulwa nobuni babo ngokwesini.  Baqala ukuphonononga imizimba yabo kunye nokufuna ukusondelelana kunye nokuthandana.

Ingqondo yakho ihlala itshintsha kwaye ikhula kwaye oko kungumzabalazo oqhubekayo kubo. Iilobe ezingaphambili zobuchopho bakho zezokugqibela ukukhula kwaye zizo ezinolungelelaniso kunye nezigqibo zokuthatha izigqibo. Ngenxa yoko, lelinye lamalungu enza ukuba ulutsha lunxibe umzabalazo oqhubekayo kunye nokusingqongileyo kwaye uxabane nabazali bakho.

Banobuchule boku cinga ngokucacileyo, kodwa abakwazi ukusebenzisa uxanduva lwabo kuba becinga ukuba ababalulekanga kakhulu. Ukusukela kwiminyaka ye-18 kolu lutsha sele belugqibile ukukhula lwabo. Sele beyilawula ngakumbi iminqweno yabo kwaye bayayazi indlela yokwenza izigqibo ezibalulekileyo ezingakhokelela ekungathwali xanduva.

Umntu okwishumi elivisayo ukhula nini njengomntu othembekileyo?

Xa ixesha lokufikisa liqala

Ekufikiseni, la makhwenkwe achazwa njengawo abantu abadala sele benoxanduva ngezenzo zabo, kodwa kukho ukungavisisani okuninzi ngolu hlobo loluvo. Ukuba kuyinyani ukuba kwelinye lamanqanaba aphambili anokuba sele ephethe amagama athile, anje abantu abanoxanduva, abanengqondo kwaye oko kuyilawula ngcono imeko yabo yeemvakalelo. Kodwa ngeli xesha bangena ebusheni kusekho indlela ende ekufuneka ihanjwe ukuhlangabezana nayo yonke le migaqo.


Okwishumi elivisayo usenokuyithwala imbopheleleko yakhe encinane xa sele bengaphaya kweminyaka engama-25 ubudala, Okwangoku, kukho iminyaka apho kufuneka abuyisele oko kunyuka kwaye kufuneka anyanyekelwe kwaye anyanyekelwe ngothando. Kwiimeko ezininzi loo nkwenkwe ayiguquki ngokufanelekileyo kuba unxibelelwano lwakhe lwentsapho aluvumeli kwaye oko kuchaphazela inkqubela yabo ngokwasengqondweni. Ukhuseleko olugqithisileyo ngomnye woothunywashe abacothisa le nkqubela phambili, bandise ixesha labo lokufikisa ngakumbi.


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