Umntwana wakho ukhula ngokuxhuma kunye nemida, kuba ixesha lihamba ngokukhawuleza kunokuba sicinga. Ke, kukho amaxesha anje apho sizibuza khona, Xa ubeka umntwana kwindawo yokuzivocavoca? Mhlawumbi kunokubonakala kuselithuba, xa sikuxelela iminyaka ecetyiswayo, kodwa le ndawo ineenzuzo ezininzi kubantwana abancinci endlwini.
Abanye bayibiza ngokuba ziijim zabantwana kunye nezinye, iimathi. Kodwa banenjongo efanayo kwaye kukuba baye baba yinto ebalulekileyo yokuba nayo ekhaya. Kukho iinketho ezininzi esizifumanayo kwiimarike kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo zonke ziya kuzalisekisa iminqweno yabancinci kunye nooyise noonina.
Isebenza njani ijim yomntwana?
Sinokuyichaza njengendawo yokudlala eyahluka-hlukeneyo, eya kuvuselela usana Yiloo nto ke eyilelwe yona. Ngenxa yokuba ezinye zinezandi ezahlukahlukeneyo, ezinye zizipili, kwanemibala eqaqambileyo ukuze lo mncinane athabatheke ngokukhawuleza ngulo mmandla uphela, nto leyo enokumfundisa okuninzi. Iya kuba ngulo mzuzu womlingo apho iintsana ziqala ukuba nomdla kuyo yonke into ebangqongileyo kwaye enokubabonisa ngokwenene. Konke oku kuya kuba ngeengubo, iipatheni ezahlukeneyo, iikona ezinokumangalisa, umculo kunye nokunye okuninzi.
Yintoni evuselela umthambo wosana?
Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, ukubeka umntwana kwindawo yokuzivocavoca yenye yamanyathelo amisela ukuphuhliswa kwayo. Kuba ineengenelo ezininzi, iqala ngokuvuselela intshukumo yomzimba, ngakumbi lowo wemilenze kunye neengalo. Izakhono zakhe zemoto nazo ziya kuphuculwa, ngakumbi kwiinyanga zakhe zokuqala. Uya kuqalisa ukuchitha ixesha elingakumbi eyedwa, nto leyo ekwayingenelo kakhulu kuye ukuba ngokuthe ngcembe aqhelane nayo, de aqhelane nayo kwaye azive ekhululekile ngokwenene. Kodwa ngaphezu kwakho konke, ijim yomntwana ivuselela izakhono zabo ezifana neemvakalelo kunye nokulungelelanisa. Ke yenye yeendlela ezilungileyo zophuhliso onokuzifumana ekhaya.
Xa ubeka umntwana kwindawo yokuzivocavoca
Kuyinyani ukuba sele sisazi ngakumbi malunga nokuba kungakuhle kangakanani ukubeka umntwana kwindawo yokuzivocavoca. Isebenza njengeprojekthi eya kuvuselela umzimba wakho nengqondo. Ngoko ukwazi ukuba asinakuyishiya ecaleni. Kodwa ke, umntwana unokuqalisa nini? Inyaniso kukuba sele Kunconywa ukusuka kwiinyanga ezi-3. Nangona kukho abantu abangayikhethiyo de babe 4 okanye 5. Kodwa ukuba sicinga ngayo, kuya kuba ngelo xesha xa izakhono zabo zeemoto kufuneka ziphuculwe ngophuhliso. Ngenxa yesi sizathu, ezi ntlobo zemisebenzi ziya kubanceda kakhulu, kungekhona nje ngenxa yayo yonke into esiyixubushile, kodwa kunye nomncinci uya konwaba kwaye uyonwabele njengangaphambili. Ukuba unoloyiko oluncinci ukuba lukhona kwindawo ebanzi, ungathenga encinci, kodwa khumbula ukuba inokuthi ibaleke, kuba siyazi ukuba zikhula ngesantya esimangalisayo, okanye kubonakala ngathi.
kunini ndidlala nosana lwam
Ukuba nomntwana wethu yinto esiyithandayo, ewe, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha asikwazi ukwenza njengoko singathanda. Kuyinyani ukuba ukusuka kwiinyanga ezi-3 lixesha elifanelekileyo lokuba uqale ukudlala naye. Kuba inokuzibamba ngcono kwaye oku kuya kunceda ngakumbi ukwenza imidlalo ibe mnandi. zonke iingcali bacinga ukuba ukudlala nabo okwethutyana (phakathi kwesiqingatha neyure) yonke imihla kuyingenelo ngokupheleleyo. Kodwa kufuneka sibavumele baqalise ukungena kwihlabathi leemethi zokudlala bebodwa. Ngoko ke, sinokudibanisa zombini izenzo, ukwenzela ukuba umncinci ujabule ixesha elide kodwa kungekhona ngendlela efanayo. Xa uqala udlala nosana kuya kuba nzima kakhulu ukuba simshiye, kodwa kuya kuba kuhle ukuba nabo babodwa kancinci kwi-gym yakhe, awucingi njalo?