I-empacho luphawu lokuba utye kakhulu kwaye ibangele ukuziva unelisekile kunye nokuziva isisu esipheleleyo, nokuba ngamanye amaxesha ugabha. Usana olugxishiwe nalo luthwaxwa zezi ziganeko kwaye kunzima nokulubona xa luthe lwahlutha kuba uninzi lwabo aluyazi indlela yokulubonakalisa.
Kunzima ngakumbi ukufumanisa xa umntwana enokuhlutha. Ukuqaphela ingxaki kuya kusenza sinikele ingqalelo kuzo zonke iintshukumo, indlela yokwenza kunye nokukhala komntwana. Le nyaniso ixhaphake kakhulu kunokuba kucingelwa kwaye kwiimeko ezinje singabonisa uhlobo oluthile lonyango lwasekhaya ukuze umntwana azive ezolile.
Kutheni umntwana ephupha ngesondo?
Usana oluxutyiweyo kuxa lutyiswe kakhulu kunokuba lufanele. Uninzi lwabo alukwazi ukuyeka ukutya kwaye alukwazi ukulawula, ngoko ke abazali abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba basenokufumana ukutya okuncinci.
Kwenzeka ngenxa yesizathu esilula sokuba kukholelwa ukuba umntwana akatyanga ngokwaneleyo kwaye amaxesha amaninzi iphelela ekubeni luxanduva oluphela kwimiphumo emibi. Ngamanye amaxesha xa usana lufakelwa ukutya okuncedisana nalo, kusenokwenzeka ukuba lukuthanda kakhulu.
Kule meko badla ngaphandle kokuyeka, ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngaphandle kokulawula isixa Ingaba utya ntoni. Idla ngokutyiwa ukutya okunzima kakhulu ekunzima ukwetyisa.
i-empacho kubantwana abadala yahlukile. Kule meko umntwana uyaqaphela xa isisu sakho sihluthi kwaye unamandla okulumkisa oko ayifuni ukutya okuninzi. Iintsana azinaso eso sikhundla kwaye uninzi lwazo luphela lugcwele. Ngezantsi sijonga ezinye iimpawu ezinokusilumkisa xa umntwana egxilile.
- Ukuba umntwana utyiswa ibhotile jikisa intloko yakho kwaye ube nentlungu lokutya.
- Ubukho besisu esivulekileyo, kuba enyanisweni isisu sigcwele kakhulu, kwezi meko badla ngokuza nokukhala kancinci kuba umntwana uqaqanjelwa sisisu.
- Inye ukubonakala kwebala ebusweni bakho, ngokubila.
- Iyavela iimpawu zesicaphucaphu kwaye kwezinye iimeko ukugabha.
- Ubukho be hiccup.
- Kuza kunye urhudo okanye ilindle eliqine kakhulu, ngokuqhelekileyo ukuba mnyama kwaye kuncangathi.
Yintoni enokuyenza xa umntwana enesisu esibuhlungu
Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba akukho nyango lungcono kunokuzama nciphisa ihlazo ngothando olukhulu nangoncedo lwezandla; ekubeni lungekho uhlobo lwamayeza. Kufuneka nje ube nomonde kwaye ulinde malunga neeyure ezili-12 ukuze izole.
Ngenxa yezi zibakala, kuyimfuneko ukwazi ngokweenkcukacha xa umntwana ethe wagatya ukutya kwaye uzame ukukuthintela ukuba kungenzeki kwakhona ngamanye amaxesha. Ukuba kwenzekile kwaye akukho ukubuya umva, unokunciphisa iintloni kunye amanye ala macebiso:
- Ku nokuba njalo yenza i-massage yesisu esithambileyo yomntwana. Sinokukwenza ngoncedo lweoli ekhethekileyo yomntwana. Ukunyakaza kwesetyhula kufuneka kwenziwe kwicala elingasekunene, rhoqo ukujikeleza. Basenokuba njalo sebenzisa amalaphu amanzi zamanzi ashushu kwaye ibekwe phezu kwesisu ukukhulula intlungu.
- Okokuqala, ungamnyanzeli ukuba atye ukuba sele kulithuba, kuyimfuneko ukuba umntwana usenayo loo nto kwaye akafuni ukutya. Kuya kufuneka silinde iimpawu ezibonisa ukuba unomdla wokutya.
- Ukuba unesisu esibuhlungu kwaye siqhubeka ngokuhamba kwexesha, kuyacetyiswa yisa umntwana kugqirha wabantwana ukulawula ukuba ayizizo ezinye iingxaki.
- Ukuba umntwana uyagula urhudo kunye nokugabha ungayilibali loo nto Ukufakwa kwamanzi kufuneka kubekho. Zama ukugcina usana lwakho lunamanzi amaninzi ngokumnika amanzi ngeesephu ezincinci.
Ukuba olu lwazi lube luncedo kwaye ufuna ukwazi ngakumbi, sicebisa ukuba ufunde "Isisu esibuhlungu ebantwaneni" o "Indlela yokuthintela ukutshica kwiintsana".