Xa unyana ekuvisa ubuhlungu

Xa unyana ekuvisa ubuhlungu

Xa unyana uyakubandezela; kwaye ujonge eyona nkxaso ilungileyo, unokuhlala ufumana isihloko kunzima kakhulu ukujongana nayo. Izimvo kunye neenyani ezithatyathiweyo zinokwahluka kakhulu kwaye eyona ndlela ingcono yokuvavanya imeko kukuthatha zonke iinkqubo eziyimfuneko kwaye wenze uvandlakanyo lwe. eyona nto inokusebenza.

Ngokwenene, kukubandezeleka umntwana anokukunika kona ngenxa yesiphumo sakho uhlobo lwemfundo olumiliselweyo? Okanye abantwana banokuba yityhefu kwaye bayazi indlela yokulawula kunye uzama ukutshabalalisa umntu?

Xa umama eziva ebandezelekile

Umama ubandezeleka kuyo yonke into eyenzekayo ngeenxa zonke kuye, ekugqibeleni yinto leyo abantwana bayaqaphela kwimekobume nokuba awufuni kuyazisa kangakanani na. Ekugqibeleni, umntwana obandezelekileyo kamama naye uya kukhula enaloo ntlungu. Ekuhambeni kwexesha basenokucinga ukuba bangaphantsi kwabanye okanye abonwabanga njengabanye. Umntwana ovakalelwa ngolu hlobo une ukuzithemba okuphantsi kwaye abayi kuzama ukufezekisa iinjongo zabo.

Oomama abaninzi bagxalathelana ukungena yamkela indima kamama ngaphandle kokuthatha imiphumo, kwaye nangona bakwenzile ngalo lonke uthando emhlabeni, kubabiza kakhulu ukuzithoba kwindawo ebazalisa ngoxinzelelo.

Kufuneka uvavanye ukuba ungumama onjani yenza intombi okanye unyana wakho abandezeleke engazi, kuba ukuba ucinga ukuba ubandezeleka ngayo yonke into ekungqongileyo, ekugqibeleni uyamkhulisa umntwana ngosukelo olubi.

Siyayiqonda loo nto Kukho amaxesha abuhlungu ezinjengokusilela kwezoqoqosho, iingxaki zomzimba nezengqondo abasenokuba banazo abantwana, okanye kwanokusilela ukuyifeza iminqweno ethile baze ekugqibeleni badimazeke. Ukuba sihlala sizenzakalisa oko iyakwazi ukusasaza intlungu.

Xa unyana ekuvisa ubuhlungu

Kutheni lento isenzeka?

Oomama abaninzi kulo lonke ixesha lokubeleka kwabo bagqibela ngokuziva bengamakhoboka nakwinkonzo yolu hlobo loxanduva. Bazithoba kolu hlobo lwengqeqesho kangangokuba balibale kukukhathalela impilo yakho yengqondo okanye intlalontle ngokweemvakalelo.

Banikezela ngezakhono zabo njengoomama Iiyure ezingama-24 ngosuku ngaphandle kokuphumla, usoloko enikel’ ingqalelo kwinkonzo yabantwana bakhe okanye onke amalungu endlu, ukuba uphuma endlwini akakokuzihlaziya, kodwa eye kuthenga izinto zendlu okanye uhlobo oluthile lomsebenzi. Ekugqibeleni ezi ntlobo zabasetyhini aziziva zilungele, ndingoyisi ngokobuqu, okanye ngokomsebenzi.

Indlela yokunyamekela impilo yengqondo

Ekugqibeleni umama ocinezelekileyo okanye ozincama ngokugqithiseleyo Ungawela kuxinzelelo. Ukufikelela kweli nqanaba kunokumenza enzekalisa intsapho iphela, ekubeni engumthombo wentsapho.

Ngokuqhelekileyo, oomama abanolu hlobo lokubandezeleka nabo bamkele ubuhlobo obukhulu kubantwana babo. Nangona eziva, akufanele umenze akholelwe ukuba umntwana wakho uya kuhlala eyinxalenye yakho, ungamenzi woyike ukuba angakhula akushiye. Akukho mfuneko yakuziva okanye ukwenza le ngongoma ivakale.


Xa unyana ekuvisa ubuhlungu

Kufuneka usoloko uwatsala loo mandla ngaphakathi, zama njengomama kunye nomsebenzi, yiba nesibindi, ulungiselele nawuphi na umcimbi. Kwaye ke, bonisa uvuyo, ukubulela, ukuxabisa yonke into ngokuthemba, ukufumana inhlalakahle ... ukuba yonke into idibene kancinane, wonke umntu. ekugqibeleni sihambisa ingoma enye.

Kunoko, ukuba ngunyana ogqithisa i-narcissism oko kubhangisa ubukho bakhe bonke abantu abamngqongileyo, mhlawumbi kufuneka siyeke ukuzithoba kwaye sithathe indima yokuba ngumama ongasokoli, kodwa kunoko. Yiba negunya.

Kufuneka uzibeke endaweni kwaye uqale misela imigangatho eqinileyodlulisela ukuzithemba. Umntwana kufuneka aphendule ngokufanelekileyo kwaye athobele imithetho, ukuba olu hlobo lwenyathelo aluncedi konke konke, mhlawumbi kuya kufuneka ukuba cela uncedo lwengqondo. Ngolu hlobo loncedo uya kufuna ukuphelisa ukubandezeleka kwaye ukhangele iindlela ezintsha ezizezinye, ukongezelela ekukwazini ukulungisa yonke iminyaka ebikhe yabandezeleka ngaphambili.


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