Umntwana akufuneki ukuba otyhafile, nangona kunjalo, kulungile ukunika ithuba lesibini kwaye uvelane nomnye.
Omnye wemisebenzi njengabazali kukwenza abantwana bazi ukuba baxolela njani kwaye balibale, hayi ukushiywa benemvakalelo yokungonwabi, inzondo kunye nomsindo ngaphakathi. Emva koko siza kuthetha ngezi ntlobo zeemvakalelo.
Funda ukuxolela
Abantwana kufuneka bababone abazali babo bexolela: iqabane, abanye Oonyana, kubahlobo okanye kusapho. Ngokuxolelwa ufumana isiqabu, vula iphepha kwaye ungazifihli kulwandle lwee-vibes ezimbi kunye nokungakhathali kolunye kunye nokuzenzela. Ngokuxolela amanxeba kuyaphola kwaye uyaphucuka njengomntu. Ngaphandle koko, inxeba liza kukhwela ngaphezulu kwaye lihlale engqondweni njenge-vignette engapheliyo. menya, ngaphandle kokuvumela ukudlula kwizinto ezingcono.
Umntwana kufuneka afunde ukuba ukuba umntu othile wenze into embi kuye kwaye wamenza buhlungu, ayilunganga kwaye akufuneki ayivumele ukuba yenzeke kuye amaxesha amaninzi. Kusengqiqweni ukuba umntwana ayamthemba umntu omkhathazayo, nangona kunjalo, kuyimpilo ukunika amathuba kwaye uvumele enye ukuba itshintshe okanye iziphathe kakuhle nesiqu sakho. Kwimeko apho oku kungenzeki, kuya kubonakala kwangaphambili ukuba ubuhlobo buza kwaphuka okanye buqiniseke imida.
Impindezelo
Njengomntwana uqala ukwenza isimilo kunye nobuntu bakho, ke kuya kufuneka wenze ngentliziyo yakho kwaye uphephe ukubamba ingqumbo nakubani na ohamba ngendlela yakho.
Elona cebiso libi njengomzali kukuxelela umntwana ukuba agcine isenzo esibi sokuziphindezela. Umntwana uya kufunda ukuba ebomini kukho iziganeko ezilungileyo nezimbi kunye nezenzo. Kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba ngaphezulu kwesihlandlo esinye kuya kufuneka ujongane nezimbi, ujongane nazo kwaye ufumane isisombululo. Akufanele uxhatshazwe, nangona kunjalo, akuyi kukufumana ndawo yokubamba ingqumbo. Ukubamba ingqumbo emntwaneni kubi kakhulu, kuba bakumzuzu wokukhula kunye nokudityaniswa kobuntu babo, kunye nokuqala kobudlelwane babo bokuqala kwezentlalo.
Ingqumbo izisa iintlungu, umsindo, ukungonwabi, ukufuthaniseleka kwaye ayivumeli ukulandela umntu oyigcinayo ngaphakathi. Abazali kufuneka basebenze ukuze ezi mvakalelo zingamonakalisi umntwana. Kuyimfuneko ukucacisela omncinci ukuba xa exolela uyaphumla kwaye wonwabe. Umxhamli uya kuqala abe nguye. Ukuba ngumntwana onengxaki yokuveza iimvakalelo zakhe, kuya kufuneka ube nomonde kwaye umnike ixesha lokuthatha zigqibo.
Indlela asabela ngayo umntwana kwinto emenza buhlungu
Umntwana kwasebusaneni kufuneka afunde ukusombulula iimeko ezinzima, kwaye oko kuthetha ukuya phambili kubudlelwane, nto leyo inokuba mbi. Ukuxolela abanye kukwenza ube ngumntu ngakumbi, kwaye unokwenza iimpazamo kwaye wenze kakubi. Umntwana kufuneka ayikhumbule le nto kwaye angakholelwa ukuba unenyani epheleleyo, kwaye akafezekanga. Ukwenza impazamo kuwela kwinto ebizwa ngokuba kukuphila.
Umntwana uya kuziva iintlungu kunye noloyiko xa kukho into ephuma ezandleni zakhe, xa umntu amthandayo okanye amqwalaselayo emdanisa. Nangona kunjalo, inxeba lakhe linokuphola ngokuxolelwa. Ngaphandle kwento yokuba umntwana akasathembi mntu ngendlela efanayo, ukuba novelwano, ukuzibeka endaweni yomnye nokuqonda amanyathelo athile, ngoncedo lwabazali bakhe, kuya kumenza ukuba aqhubele phambili kwaye aguquke. Ayikukhuthazwa kuphela ukuba baxolele, kodwa kunye nokuvuma ityala labo xa benalo.