Nokuba kule nkulungwane yama-XNUMX, umba webhalansi yomsebenzi-wobomi usekude ukuba ufezekiswe. Kukho inkqubela encinci esele yenziwe kule ndawo, kodwa uninzi lwabasetyhini alukakwazi ukudibanisa umsebenzi wabo kunye neentsapho zabo. Ngoluvo lokuba kufuneka bakhethe enye okanye enye, kunye netyala eliza nayo. Yiyo loo nto namhlanje siza kuthetha ngokuxolelanisa umsebenzi kunye nabantwana abangenatyala, kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
Abasetyhini abaphezulu
Abasetyhini bacelwa ukuba babe ngaphezulu, sisebenza ngokungathi asinabo abantwana kwaye sibakhathalele abantwana bethu ngokungathi asinamsebenzi. Ayinakwenzeka loo nto! Ukuzenza sithwale ubunzima, ukongeza ekungcwatyweni, kudala ulindelo kuthi esingenakho ukulufikelela. Ke kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuziva unetyala kuba asinakuze sigqibelele kuyo yonke into, asiyo heroines, singabantu.
Emsebenzini asinakuba neeyure eziguquguqukayo kwaye uninzi lwabasetyhini kufuneka lubhenele ekunciphiseni iiyure zomsebenzi ukuze bakwazi ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye neentsapho zabo, kunye nokwehla komvuzo kunye neziphumo emsebenzini wabo.
Zibeke kwindawo ehambelana nawe
Awunguye umfazi omkhulu, okanye amandla angaphezu kwawemvelo. Ngaba umntu onamandla alinganiselweyo Kuya kufuneka usasaze phakathi kwezinto ezingxamisekileyo nezibalulekileyo. Kodwa soloko ukhumbula kuloo mandla okushiya kancinci. Sifana nebhetri enexabiso elithile lamandla. Kwenzeka ntoni xa ibhetri iphela? Ewe, kuya kufuneka uyihlawulise, akunjalo? Ewe, nathi. Kufuneka sihlaziye iibhetri, uphumle, uchithe imizuzwana embalwa ngemini kwaye uzinike indawo esiyifaneleyo.
Kuba ukuba awukhathali ngesiqu sakho, uyakufika umhla apho uya kuzitshisa kwaye ungabi nakho ukufikelela naphi na. Umzimba wakho uya kuthi "ukuza apha" kwaye uya kugula ukuze umamele. Ukuze oku kungenzeki kwaye uphile ungenatyala, kuya kufuneka uzibeke kuluhlu lwakho oluphambili. Thatha nemizuzu eli-10 ngosuku uyenzele, nokuba sele begqibile ukulala abantwana bakho. Nokuba unayo ibhakethi lokuhlamba elingcolileyo kwaye izitya azihlanjwanga. Cwaka ukuba abayi kuya naphi na, loo mzuzu ngowakho, ngoba yenza izinto ezonwabisa wena ngokwenza nje.
Lo mzuzu wakho awuzicingeli, ngokuchaseneyo. Akufanele uzive unetyala ngokufuna ukuchitha ixesha kunye nawe kwaye wenze izinto ezikonwabisa. Sisenzo sobubele Kuqala kuwe, emva koko kusapho lwakho njengoko niza kukhululeka kwaye nonwabe endaweni yokuwa kwaye nikwimeko embi. Yi ntonye nempilo engqondweni nangokweemvakalelo, kunye nokunciphisa amanqanaba oxinzelelo. Uya kuba nemveliso ngakumbi emsebenzini nasekhaya.
Ungalibali iiprojekthi kunye namaphupha akho
Xa omnye umama kubonakala ngathi umhlaba wethu wangaphakathi uyama. Kufuneka sizinikele kwiiyure ezingama-24 koomama nakubanakekeli, umsebenzi osisigxina osishiya nexesha elincinci kuthi. Iphupha lizaliseka lokuba kufuneka sizonwabele, sithande kwaye siqokelele ixesha kunye neentsapho zethu.
Kodwa wena awunguye nje umamaUkwanazo nezinye iindima: intombi, umhlobo, dade… Ukwangumfazi, umntu onomdla kuye, onqwenela ukukwenza kunye neenjongo ongafanele ukuzilibala. Awunalo ixesha elininzi njengangaphambili, kodwa basekhona. Musa ukubagxotha okanye ucinge ukuba awusoze ukwazi ukufikelela kubo. Oko kudala imvakalelo yokudana, iintlungu kunye netyala lokuziva unjalo, nto leyo eya kukubangela ukubandezeleka. Unelungelo lokulandela amaphupha akho kwaye ube ngumama, ayithinteli kwaye akufuneki ukhethe enye kuphela. Ulonwabo lwakho lwangaphakathi lilele ekuphumezeni amandla ethu okufikelela apho sifuna ukuya khona. Kwaye usapho lwakho lungakukhapha xa usiya, ayinguwe ekufuneka usoloko ulandela umendo wabanye.
Kuba khumbula ... ukucwangcisa ixesha kakuhle kokubini emsebenzini nasekhaya, kuyasinceda ukuba sihambisane nomsebenzi kunye nabantwana ngaphandle kwetyala.