Uninzi lwabantwana abancinci bayayonwabela imisebenzi oyikhethileyo ukuba ungayihlaziya imigangatho yakho malunga nokuba yenziwe njani kwaye ikhawuleze kangakanani. Kubuhlungu ukubona abantwana abaphakathi kweminyaka emi-3 ukuya kwesi-5 bephulukana nothando lwabo lomsebenzi wasekhaya kwiimfuno zabantu abadala. Bafuna ukwenza izinto kakuhle kodwa abanazo izixhobo kunye nomonde wabazali babo.
Ukuba ungumzali, kuya kufuneka ujonge kwinto yokuba umntwana wakho uphakamise i-duvet yakhe phantsi, kunokuba ixhomeke ngokungalinganiyo, kwaye umdumise umzamo. Kwaye ukuba kukho imisebenzi ethile abantwana bakho abathanda ukuyenza, ungaqiniseka ukuba bayayenza, Kuba ethubeni baya kuyenza kakuhle ngokuqinisekileyo!
Ngokuphathelele kwimisebenzi abantwana bakho abangathandiyo ukuyenza, ukusebenzisa ubuchule obuncinci kunokubenza ukuba babenomtsalane ngakumbi: sebenzisa unodoli ukucela umntwana wakho ukuba acoce izihlangu zakhe okanye umngeni kuye ukuba abaleke notata ebhedini. Nika ukhetho xa kunokwenzeka, nokuba lilinganiselwe, njengokuxubha amazinyo ngaphambi okanye emva kokuhlamba.
Oku kunika abantwana uvakalelo lokuzimela, into ebalulekileyo ekucofeni inkuthazo yangaphakathi. Imizamo enzima yokulawula abantwana ngamanye amaxesha ikhokelela kwimizabalazo yamandla engeyomfuneko ephela ngamagama afana nithi Awungekhe undenze! (kulandelwa: Ewe ewe ndinako!). Akukho namnye kuthi othanda ukuziva elawulwa, ngakumbi abantwana abancinci. Abantwana bayathanda ukukholelwa ukuba yintoni Benza ukhetho lwabo ngaphezu kwesibophelelo ...
Ke ukuba ufuna abantwana bakho bathathe inxaxheba kwimisebenzi yasekhaya, eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kukuba ubavumele benze izinto ezingafezekanga ukuze bafunde, kuthando kunye nomonde, ukuba benze ngcono.