Umhlobo ongabonakaliyo Yindlela eyonwabisayo yokuchitha ixesha elonwabileyo phakathi kweqela labantwana nabalingane. Idityanisiwe uvelwano phakathi kwabathathi-nxaxheba apho umntu ngamnye kufuneka khetha isipho esikhethekileyo kumhlobo ohambelana naye kumdlalo.
Apho iqhele ukubhiyozelwa khona yiKrismesi, nangona kunjalo Ngumdlalo okhethekileyo kakhulu wokubhiyozela kwimisitho emininzi ekhethekileyo. Imihla yokuzalwa kunye nabahlobo idibana kakuhle kakhulu nalo mdlalo kunye nemibhiyozo yosapho kunye nabazala kunye nabantakwenu benza amanye awona maxesha anomtsalane kunye namnandi onokuba nawo.
Yintoni umhlobo ongabonakaliyo?
Okukhona kukho abathathi-nxaxheba abaninzi kulo mdlalo, kokukhona kuya kuba mnandi ngakumbi. Onke amagama abantwana Mazibhalwe kwiphepha elivaliweyo kwaye zifakwe ebhokisini okanye ebhegini. Umntwana ngamnye uya kuba uxanduva lokufikelela nokukhetha indima, igama lomntwana omkhethileyo liya kuba nguye kufuneka anike isipho. Ukuba ngengozi umntwana ukhethe igama lakhe, kufuneka abuyisele isiqwenga sephepha kwindawo enye kwaye akhethe enye.
Isipho eso Kufuneka uthengele umhlobo wakho okanye umntu osebenza naye kufuneka ibe yekhethekileyo kwaye omnye umntwana akanyanzelekanga ukuba azi ukuba ngubani oza kumnika, ngoko xa ebona iqabane elimnike lona, kufuneka athule ngokupheleleyo. Imikhondo inokunikwa ukuze umdlalo ube nomdla ngakumbi kwaye uvumelane ngohlobo lwesipho esinokufunwa kwaye ngexabiso elingakanani. Umzuzu xa usuku lufika kwaye isipho sihanjiswa nini Umhlobo wakho uya kutyhilwa.
Bafunda ntoni abantwana kumhlobo ongabonakaliyo?
- Lo mdlalo uyanceda uvelwano luyakhuthazwa phakathi kwabantwana, Lixesha lokuphamba kunye nomdla kwaye lenza ukuba umntwana ngamnye acinge ngohlobo lwesipho afanele asithengele iqabane lakhe, ngale nto. Kuya kufuneka ubonise ubuhlobo enibelana nabo kwaye kuya kufuneka ucinge ngantoni impumelelo kunye nolonwabo, uya kuyithanda.
- Ke ngoko sihlaziya ubuchule bakho, iya kuba ngumzuzwana kunye nokuzonwabisa okukhulu okugqibeleleyoenokucinga ukuba kunjani ukunika umhlobo isipho esikhethekileyo. Ingaba yinto ethengiweyo okanye i-craft craft eyenziwe ngumntwana ngokwakhe.
- Baya kufunda ukuthenga nokuxabisa imali, lixesha elisele lilindelwe ukuba balungele ukwenza izinto njengabantu abadala. Ngokusisiseko baya kufunda ukunika ixabiso kwizinto, thelekisa kwaye bazi ukuba bazithenga njani, Kwaye ukuba ngaphezu koko bacinga ukuba iya kuba sisipho esikhethekileyo, baya kubafundisa ukuba benze njani Jonga indlela onokubulela ngayo iqabane lakho nokwandisa ukuzithemba kwakho.
- Inyaniso yokuthenga nokufunda ngale ndlela ayikho into eya kuza yodwa, kodwa kunoko Iza kubafundisa indlela yokunikela izipho nokubaluleka kokunikela izipho kwabanye.. Abantwana akufuneki baqhele ukufumana izipho kuphela kodwa kwakhona ukwazi ukunika iinyani okanye izinto ezinokwenza abanye bonwabe, olu qeqesho sisixhobo esikhulu kwi isiseko sokuthobeka.
- Kwaye asimele siyilibale loo nto Lixesha elilindelekileyo nelolonwabo. Kulo mdlalo baye bakwazi ukuthatha inxaxheba kwasekuqaleni ukuze baququzelele umdlalo kwaye balungiselele izinto eziphathekayo. Imincili yokwazi iqabane abanalo kunye nobuchule abaye babenza ukuthenga okanye ukwenza esona sipho sihle bebecinga. Kwaye ekugqibeleni, ukuthembana okwabelwanayo ngalo mzuzu wokunika izipho, ukujonga umzuzu kunye nokwabelana ngenkohliso ekhethekileyo.