Ngokuqinisekileyo siyamazi sonke uYehova imfundo yengcinezelo yamashumi eminyaka yama-80s nama-90. Olu hlobo lwemfundo luhlobo lobukrakra apho abazali bethu noomakhulu nootatomkhulu bethu basifundise khona kwaye namhlanje kufuneka kuthelekiswa nohlobo imfundo evumelekileyo.
Olu hlobo lwemfundo lubandakanya uhlobo lwegunya xa kuziwa ekufundiseni. Isitayile sakhe senza ukuba abazali babe nolindelo oluphezulu kunye neenjongo zabantwana babo engqondweni, kodwa banyanzelisa imigaqo ngohlobo nangendlela yabo, ngaphandle kokuchaza imida kunye nendlela yokufikelela kuyo.
Inkcazo yemfundo yengcinezelo
Abazali abaninzi baye banamava olu hlobo imfundo yengcinezeloSiye sahlala ekhayeni lethu kwaye asazi ukuba sichaza njani kwaye sichaze ukuba ubomi butshintshile. Ngokuqinisekileyo ngoku sinabantwana kwaye siyazi ukuba uhlobo lwemfundo luphelele ezahlukeneyo ekhaya nasesikolweni.
Umzali ngamnye ufundisa ngendlela yakhe kwaye kubonakala ngathi, kwaye kukho iindlela esele zichaziwe kuhlobo lomyalelo ogcinwayo kusapho ngalunye. Sisenokufumana iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zemfundo kumakhaya amaninzi, ezinje ngengcinezelo okanye igunya, ovumelekileyo, okanye olawulo lwentando yesininzi kunye nokungakhathali.
- Ingcinezelo yemfundo ayibonisi bhetyebhetye olukhulu, iqinile kwaye ayiboneleli ukugcina iingxoxo ngelizwi elivulekileyo kunye nokubuyela umva. Ukulawula kugqithisile kwaye kushiya kungekho nkululeko yomntu.
- Bafundisa ngendlela egunyazisiweyo, besithi mabenze ntoni ngaphandle kokuvumela ukuba bakhethe. Ukuba kukho into ekufuneka inyanzelwe, yenziwa ngohlobo lwesigunyaziso, kuba igunya labazali liphethe kwaye abantwana abavunyelwe ukuyibuza.
- Ukudumisa akusetyenziswanga kangako okanye akunjalo kwaye zazininzi ngakumbi izohlwayo, kuquka nezibethwayo. Nokuba sekufika ukohlwaya okanye uku-odola akunikiwanga isizathu esivakalayo sokuba kwenziwe oko.
- Inyanzelisiwe ukuhlangabezana neemfuno ekufuneka abantwana bazalisekise, ngaphandle kokuvuma ukuchaza ukuba kutheni kufuneka kwenziwe kwaye ngaphandle kokungenelela ekufundiseni ukuba bazenze njani. Unxibelelwano luvaliwe kwaye luyindlela enye.
Iziphumo zokucinezelwa kwemfundo
Abantwana ababona abazali benolu hlobo lwemfundo baphela bebona imeko engqongqo, engaqondi kakhulu, enovelwano oluncinci kwaye apho ungenakho ukucacisa iimeko nge-libertar okanye ukuba nencoko esesikweni.
Kuyaqapheleka ukuba kukho imfuneko kunye nokungenelela, Oko kukuthi, kukho igunya lokusebenzisa uthotho lwemithetho ngaphandle kokuba nesiseko sobuchule okanye ngaphandle kweenkcazo eziqinisekileyo ezixhasa ukuba kutheni kubalulekile ukuyenza.
Ekugqibeleni abantwana bahlupheka ukuzithemba nokuzithemba. Uyilo lwabo kunye nokuzimela kwabo kujongelwe phantsi. Kwakhona ichaphazelekayo ukhuphiswano kwezentlalo kunye nokuthandwa kwezentlalo.
Olu hlobo lwemfundo luneziphumo ezincumisayo kwixesha elifutshane, kodwa ukuba ukuhlala kunye ekhaya kuye kwabanegunya kakhulu, usengozini yokuba esi siphumo sihle siza kwaphuka xa abantwana befika. Ukufikisa.
Amakhwenkwe anokubonwa kwinqanaba lokufikisa ngemiqondiso yemvukelo, kunye nokude okanye uvelwano oluphantsi ngokubhekisele kubazali. Unxibelelwano ekhaya luqala ukuba lilize kwaye lube nzima, igunya liya lintsokotha ngokungabi nolawulo olupheleleyo kubo.
Ngelo xesha apho kwakulawulwa imfundo yengcinezelo, kwakunokwenzeka ukubona ukuba uqeqesho olufanayo lwalufundiswa njani esikolweni, apho lwalungaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi ngokuhambelana nohlobo lokufundisa ekhaya. Kufuneka kugqitywe kwelokuba eyona ndlela yokufundisa ibalaseleyo iya kuhlala iqhubeka ngokuhambelana negunya kunye nentlonipho, kodwa ngaphezulu kwako konke ngothando, ukuze imfundo echanekileyo kulowo usemncinci isonjululwe.