Xa abantu ababini behlangene, nokuba benza umtshato okanye ukuhlala kunye, kusenziwa usapho olunye nolukhulu. Ngamanye amaxesha, aba bantu basondele kakhulu kwaye baziva ngathi bazizalamane zegazi, nangona oku kungasoloko kunjalo. Nangona kunjalo, kuyinto eqhelekileyo kuba Umahluko phakathi kwezihlobo zegazi elifanayoNditsho nabantu abathandanayo uninzi luneembono ezahlukeneyo kwaye kukho iingxoxo.
Kulo mbono wosapho, Kukho indlela eqhelekileyo yokubiza amagama abo bangezizo izihlobo zegaziOko kukuthi, into eyaziwa ngokuba lusapho lwezopolitiko. Ngaphandle kweli gama ukude nokudelela, nangona abanye abantu beziva ngaloo ndlela. Ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba ungabachazela njani abantwana bakho ukuba ngoobani abasebukhweni, siyakumema ukuba ukwenze ngeyona ndlela ilula ebantwaneni, ngokudlala.
Umthi wosapho
Ku malunga Umsebenzi olula kakhulu wokuchitha ixesha nabantwana, kwaye ngaloo ndlela, banokwazi okungakumbi ngobunzulu bokuba ngoobani amalungu osapho lwakho, kubandakanya nezo babengenakudibana nazo. Ngale ndlela, abantwana baya kufunda ngendlela elula yokwenza usapho olukhulu, nangona kubo, bonke aba bantu bayinxalenye "yesizwe" sabo sesangqa sabo sentlalo kwaye abawazi umohluko wegazi.
Ithini in in-in-laws
Ngamafutshane, abasebukhweni amalungu osapho lomntu owabelana naye ngobomi bakho. Bazali, abantakwenu, oomalume kunye nabo bonke abantu abaziswa liqabane lakho ebomini bakho. Kuba, nangona udibanisa ubomi bakho nomntu ongatshatanga, emva kwayo yonke loo nto, into oyenzayo kukwakha usapho olukhulu. Ngendlela ongenakho ukuba nezinto ezininzi ezifanayo, kodwa ngandlela thile, bayinxalenye yokuba ngubani iqabane lakho kwaye ngenxa yoko baba yinxalenye yobomi bakho.