Ziziphi iimpawu ezinqabileyo zokukhulelwa kwiintsuku zokuqala? Xa ukhulelwe kodwa awukayazi (okanye ewe) ungaqala ukubona iimpawu ezithile ekufuneka uzithathele ingqalelo, kodwa andibhekiseli kwiimpawu zakudala esizaziyo sonke njengesicaphucaphu okanye ukungabikho exesheni , Ndibhekisa kwezinye iimpawu abantu abangabaziyo, abangakuxeleliyo kodwa beziva kwaye beva ubunzima xa kuqala ukukhulelwa.
Nangona kunganyanzelekanga ukuba zibekho ngokubanzi, zixhaphakile. Zizimpawu ezingaqhelekanga ezinokwenzeka xa ukhulelwe kwaye kuya kufuneka unike ingqalelo ekhethekileyo. Ukuba emva kokufunda eli nqaku awuzange ufumanise iimpawu ezingaqhelekanga ezibonisa ukukhulelwa kwakho okanye okuluphawu ngoku ... ungathandabuzi usixelele iimpawu zakho!
Ukuxinana kwempumlo
Olunye lweempawu ezinqabileyo zokukhulelwa kwiintsuku zokuqala ezazindigqithile yayikukuxinana kwempumlo, kwakubonakala ngathi ndinomkhuhlane kodwa akukho nto yalonto. Akufuneki uthathe naliphi na iyeza ukunciphisa kodwa ungasebenzisa amayeza endalo ukuze imke, enje yiphelise ngesisombululo samanzi olwandle.
Unokufumana igazi empumlweni yakho kwaye ukuba ebusuku urhona. Oku kuyakubangelwa ngaphakathi kwangaphakathi kwempumlo njengoko impumlo yakho nayo idumbile ukusuka kwiihomoni. Ukudumba kuya kunciphisa indawo yokujikeleza komoya. Unokuzifumana unempumlo eyomileyo, ngakumbi ebusika. Khumbula ukuba izisombululo zetyuwa zinokuba nkulu, nangona ungasebenzisa i-humidifier ekhayeni lakho.
Umfazi onentlungu kwi-ovulation
Guqula ukukhutshwa kwilungu lobufazi
Kungenzeka ukuba utshintsho lwakho lobufazi luyatshintsha kwaye uqala ukuqaphela ukuba iyanda, kodwa ungakhathazeki kuba oku kuqhelekile, kuyinto eqhelekileyo kwaye isempilweni. Isixa siya kunyuka, kodwa kuya kufuneka ujonge naluphi na utshintsho kumbala okanye ivumba. Ukuba ubona ukuba ukuphuma kwakho kwilungu lobufazi kuya kuba yinto engaqhelekanga, jonga ugqirha wakho kwangoko.
Ukuba awunayo intsholongwane yesisu, mhlawumbi usetyenziselwa ukuba ube nokukhutshwa komzimba kumhlophe iyatshintsha kumjikelo wokuya exesheni kwaye awusoloko uyinika ukubaluleka ngakumbi. Xa unesifo, ukukhutshwa kwilungu lobufazi kunokutshintsha kakhulu kwaye, ukongeza ekubeni unevumba elibi, kungatshintsha nombala, kujike kube luhlaza, luhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, kube tyheli kwaye kube nokuthungwa okungaqhelekanga. Ukongeza, uya kukhawuleza wazi ukuba unosulelo kuba uya kuqaphela ukungonwabi kwilungu lobufazi ukusuka ekurhawuzeleni ukuya ekurhawuzeleleni xa uchama.
Kodwa ukuba ukhulelwe, uphawu lokongeza kolu luhlu kukutshintsha kokukhutshwa kwilungu lobufazi.. Unokuyibona ngequbuliso ngakumbi (kwaye ayinanto yakwenza nosulelo). Yilahleko yencindi yomlomo wesibeleko eyenzeka ngenxa yotshintsho lwehomoni umzimba womfazi onayo ngenxa yokukhulelwa.
Insomnio
Ngokwesiqhelo uya kulala emini kodwa xa kufika ubusuku Awuyi kufuna ukulala. Kodwa kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba ezona mpawu zixhaphakileyo zokukhulelwa kukudinwa kunye nokulala, ke ukuba unesifo sokungalali kunokuba luphawu ekufuneka ukhathazeke ngalo, ngakumbi xa ungakwazi ukulala okanye ungakwazi ukulala xa ndivukile ngenxa yomzekelo wokuchama.
Ungazama ukwenza ukuphumla okanye ukucamngca ukuze ufumane uxolo olukunceda ukuba ulale, nangona enye indlela onokuyenza kukuzilolonga ngexesha lasemini (kuxhomekeke kwisakhono sakho ngokwemeko yokukhulelwa) ukufikelela kubusuku obudinwe kakhulu.
Ukuphuthelwa okanye ubunzima bokulala nako kunokuba luphawu olunqabileyo ekukhulelweni kwasekuqaleni. Baninzi abantu basetyhini abanengxaki yokulala ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwasekuqaleni. Kungaba ukulala ngokweqile okanye ukulala. Oku kuyakwenza ukuba umfazi azive ediniwe emini, into engonwabisiyo ukuyithwala, ngakumbi ukuba ungumfazi ekufuneka ezalisekise uxanduva lomsebenzi. Yiyo loo nto kubalulekile ukuba ufumane iindlela zokulala ngcono.
Ukufuma
Ekukhulelweni kwam bendinayo ukutsha kwentliziyo kwinyanga yokuqala kude kube ngumzuzu wokuzalwa komntwana wam, ewe ... yayikukuphelisa ukuhanjiswa kunye nesitshisa sanyamalala ngomlingo. Kodwa ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwakungekho lunyango okanye nantoni na enokundizolisa.
Uninzi luthi xa umntwana emkhulu uqinisa umhadi wesisu yiyo loo nto unika isitshisa, kodwa kwinyanga yokuqala umbungu umncinci kwaye awucudisi kwanto, uvele nje ... wahlala.
I-Belching kunye negesi
Irhasi kunye ne-belching zixhaphake kakhulu kuba kukho umthwalo omninzi kwinkqubo yokwetyisa, ke kungcono ukuba ulandele ukutya okunezakha-mzimba kwaye utye izixa ezincinane kodwa amaxesha amaninzi ngemini. Kuya kufuneka ujonge ukutya okungakuniki igesi okanye ukubola, ukunqanda umzekelo ii-chickpeas, iimbotyi okanye i-broccoli.
Ukuqunjelwa
Ukuqunjelwa yenye yeempawu ezingaqhelekanga kodwa eziqhelekileyo ekukhulelweni, ukusukela oko iihormone zichaphazela amathumbu ukuyenza isebenze kancinci. Ukuyilwa kwaye ungangxaki kuzakufuneka wenze umthambo ophakathi, usele amanzi amaninzi kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke, yitya ukutya okutyebileyo kwifayibha.
Iintsini ezidumbileyo
Ungafumanisa ukuba kunye namanye amalungu omzimba, iintsini zakho zine-inflamed more than necessary. Oku kwenzeka ngenxa yotshintsho kumanqanaba eprogesterone kunye ne-estrogen, kodwa nangenxa yokonyuka kokuhamba kwegazi emzimbeni wakho. Inkqubo ye- iintsini zinokukopha nangona ungaxubushi. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukugcina ucoceko lomlomo olungileyo ngalo lonke ixesha.
Utshintsho kulusu
Kusenokwenzeka ukuba ukhe weva ukuba abafazi abakhulelweyo banokuba namabala ngenxa yehomoni, ubuntununtunu elangeni, ubumnyama besikhumba (ngakumbi kufutshane neengono, ebusweni okanye kwi-linea alba). Ukuba uqaphela ukuba amabala aqala ukubonakala kwiindawo zolusu oluhlala luthambisa ngempahla, ndikucebisa ukuba uthathe i-sunscreen kulusu olubuthathaka.
Iinyawo ziyakhula
Ayenzeki kubo bonke abantu basetyhini, kodwa ndiyazazi iimeko zokuba abasetyhini, nje ukuba babe ngoomama kwaye sele benamaqatha neenyawo zidumbile ngenxa yokukhulelwa, iinyawo zabo zikhulile. Oku Kungenxa ye-relaxin Ikhulula imithambo ye-pelvic ukuvumela usana ukuba luphume, kodwa kunokuba nefuthe kumalungu eenyawo ngonaphakade.
Uneenwele ezininzi
Iinwele zentloko ziya kuba zintle, zibengezele kwaye zizele ngamandla. Kodwa iihormone ezifanayo eziza kukunceda ufumane iinwele zentengiso ziya kukwenza woyike ukubona ukuba ungaqala ngequbuliso kangakanani na ukubona iinwele kwiindawo apho kwakungekho nanye ngaphambili ngathi esilevini, umlebe wangasentla kwaye ujikeleze neengono.
Kuya kufuneka ukuba ube nesibini esifanelekileyo sohlobo lokulahla ezo nwele zikhathazayo.
Ubuthathaka kunye nokuziva utyhafile
Ezi zimpawu zinqabileyo zokukhulelwa kwiintsuku zokuqala ziya kudlula ukudinwa okuqhelekileyo kwaye zinokuba luphawu lwe-anemia. Ukuba awunawo amandla, usenokungafumani sinyithi saneleyo kwindlela otya ngayo. I-anemia ekukhulelweni (i-anemia yentsimbi) inokulungiswa ngezixhobo zentsimbi zemihla ngemihla, ezihlala zimiselwe ngugqirha.
Ukuthiyile ukutya owawukuthanda
Los Utshintsho lwehomoni Banokukwenza umzimba wakho usebenze ngendlela engaqhelekanga kwaye kukwenze uzive unesicaphucaphu kukutya okhe wakufumana kumnandi. Ingqondo yevumba nayo itshintshile kwaye unako Ukuziva uzothekile kukutya okuthile.
Ngaba ungathanda ukusixelela ezinye Iimpawu ezinqabileyo zokukhulelwa ngeentsuku zokuqala?
Ngaba ndizakukhulelwa ukuba ndinazo naziphi na kwezi mpawu?
Kulo lonke eli nqaku ukwazile ukujonga iimpawu ezininzi kwaye ngoku ngoku uziva wothukile ukuba unokukhulelwa okanye hayi. Ukuba uye wabelana ngesondo ngokungakhuselekanga, unokukhulelwa, ke kuya kufuneka wenze uvavanyo lokukhulelwa ekhaya ukuze ufumanise. Khumbula ukuba ukwenza uvavanyo kufuneka ulinde iintsuku ezili-10 ukuya kwezi-14 ukususela kumhla obekufanele ukuba wehlise ixesha lakho kwaye khange uyeke.
Ukuba ukhulelwe, khangela ukuba iintlobo zokukhulelwa ezikhona ukwazi ukuba yeyiphi eyakho.
Molo, andazi nokuba ndikhulelwe na, ziyandibulala imithambo-luvo kule veki kufuneka ndiphume ndilale ngesuku phambi kokuya kwam ngomhla wamashumi amabini anesihlanu zeza kum ngomhla wama-25, kodwa into engaqhelekanga kukuba ifike kum usuku olunye kuphela kwaye yafika kum icace gca kwaye incinci kakhulu.Ndichanekile kakhulu kodwa ngoku andazi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kum kuba ndinesicaphucaphu imini yonke kwaye ndigodola kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ndifumana ukuxinana i-ataxia yintlungu ebusweni kwicala lasekunene kwaye ndithatha amayeza kwaye ndibhidekile sisicaphucaphu kuba uGqirha undixelele lonto iyandicaphukisa ngoku andazi ukuba mandenze ntoni ndilinde ukuba sexesheni kwam ndilahlekile kodwa andazi ukuba umntu uyidlulisile into endiyenzileyo kuye kwaye enkosi kwangaphambili. Impumelelo koomama abatsha
Amii unodoli kwenzeka into efanayo kum qa ilizwi kodwa phumla ukuba ukhulelwe lulonwabo olukhulu…. ♥
Nokuba ukuthandabuza kuyaqhubeka kwaye imithambo-luvo ikwayimfuneko ukwazi ukuba senza ntoni kwaye sikuhlalutye kakuhle….
Nceda, andifuni kukhulelwa, iyandoyikisa loo nto, ndineminyaka eli-13 ubudala.
Ndibhalele ndiza kuthatha i-bb
Molo Dayana, unjani? nomntwana?
Mntwana, umncinci kakhulu, yayiyialamu engeyiyo kwaye awukhulelwanga,
khumbula ukuba yonke into iza ngexesha elifanelekileyo, sukulindela izinto eziphilayo ongekaziboni
Molweni mantombazana, ndineminyaka eli-18 ubudala kwaye ndalala ngesithuba seentsuku ezi-2 emva kokuya exesheni, sele ndinenyanga eziyi-6 ubudala kwaye sayenza nomyeni wam ngaphandle kokukhuselwa kwaye ngoku ndinexhala, akandilahli, sele emva kwexesha kodwa akangeni kwaye ndiyoyika umntu ozokuyeka ukuthatha umntwana
Molo, molweni ekuseni, ndiyanicenga ukuba nindiphendule ngo-Epreli 11, 2017 bendinonyana wam kwiveki yesi-3 yokuzalwa kosana lwam bendinobudlelwane kunokuba ukusukela ngeveki yam ye-3 ndiyasebenza umbuzo kukuba khange angene ngaphakathi kodwa Ngoku ndifumanisa ukuba ulwelo olungaphambi kokuchiza lungandimithisa, ndinomngcipheko wokuba izakuphuma intsholongwane bendikumntu obevalelwa yedwa kutshanje ndiye ndanesiyezi bendineentsuku ezi-3 ndinentlungu kwiibarigs ngoku ndivota ukuhamba kwe-braucitic endikwenzayo ungagcwalisi nto kwaye ndiziva ndicinezelekile kwi-bariga
ndiye eKesareya
Ndiyakubongoza ukuba uphendule
Molo uKimmy, ukuba ukuhanjiswa kwakho bekucetywa, kufuneka usoloko usebenzisa indlela yokuthintela ukukhulelwa, kuba kunokuba yingozi kuwe ukuba uphinde ukhawule kwakhona. Ukuze wazi ukuba ukhulelwe okanye hayi, kufuneka uthathe uvavanyo. Ukubulisa.
Kwenzeka into efanayo kum, ndade ndenza uvavanyo kwaye luphuma lubi, kodwa ndiziva ndothukile.
Ewe, andiyazi kakuhle into endinayo, andazi nokuba kukukhulelwa na, kodwa sele kundinike phantse zonke iimpawu zokukhulelwa kwaye ndaye ndenza uvavanyo lwegazi lwaphuma lungelulo kwaye ngendlela efanayo nam ndisenazo njengokutsha kwentliziyo, isicaphucaphu, ukuya kwigumbi lokuhlambela zizinto ezininzi nceda ngubani owaziyo into undixelele andazi ukuba mandithini
Isenokuba kukumitha okwenzekileyo kum kodwa ngenxa yokunqongophala kolwazi ndilahlekile kwaye ukuba ucinga ukuba kukumitha, jonga ukutya kwakho
Molo igama lam ndingu-aby ndineminyaka engama-31 ubudala kwaye ndinexhala lokwenyani malunga nokuya exesheni kwam kufuneka ndehle nge-25 ka-Okthobha ngala mini ebusuku ndafumana amathontsi egazi ndicinga ukuba ixesha lam liyakufika kodwa andisenanto Kwaye ke x i-3 iintsuku ndazingcolisa itawuli kodwa ayisiyonto iqhelekileyo ukuba sexesheni kwam kuqhelekile kangangeentsuku ezisi-7 kwaye kuninzi, ngoku akukho nokuba itawuli igcwele, ithambo alilonanto ngaphandle kwamantshontsho amane ngaphandle kwentlungu, bendinolwalamano nomyeni wam kodwa Andazi ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba ukhulelwe okanye hayi ukusukela ngesiqhelo ihlala i-negative ngoko ke ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndingabi nemincili kodwa oku kuyandikhathaza kwaye ndinentliziyo ebuhlungu kakhulu yokulala, umntu angandinceda
Molo Aby, ukuba ixesha lakho alikafiki phantsi kwaye iimvavanyo ezingalunganga zisaphuma, kuya kufuneka uye kugqirha wakho ukuze ubone ukuba kwenzeka ntoni. Ndiyabulisa!
Molo, igama lam ndinguVivi, ndingathanda ukuba undincede, ndiqhelekile ekuyeni exesheni, ngexesha elithile eladlulayo ndaqala ukuya kugqirha wezifo zabasetyhini kwaye wamisela iPROVERA iinyanga ezintathu, kuzo zontathu ndandinexesha lam qho kwiintsuku ezingama-3 okanye ezingama-28, unyango luphelile kwaye ukuza kuthi ga namhlanje ndinentsuku ezi-29 emva kwexesha: / Ukuphelisa unyango lwam, ugqirha wamabhinqa wayalela uthotho lovavanyo lwehomoni oluphume kakuhle kakhulu, ngaphandle kolunye, olo lweprogesterone oluphume luphantsi kakhulu! Nabani na owakha kwenzeka into efanayo ?? Ndifuna ukumitha 🙁
Molo, igama lam ndinguTamy, ndenze uvavanyo ngengalo yam ngoMgqibelo, nge-19 ka-Agasti ndaza ndafumana isikratshi esimakishwe kakuhle kwaye esinye sinomdaka ngombala omfutshane kakhulu wepinki, ndineeveki ezimbini ndinesifo sokukrala kwentliziyo, ndidumbile. isisu ndiyalala, amabele am aqale nje ukuba buhlungu kodwa hayi njengesiqhelo, nayo iasidi yenzeka kuphela xa nditya into edla ngokuba sisiqhamo kodwa iyandikhathaza kuba kwakusasa xa iasidi yomelele ndiziva ndidiniwe kodwa kufuneka ndisebenze uvavanyo luza kuba luhle okanye lubi xa kunokwenzeka ukuba ubange ukuba ndize ngomhla we-14 kwinyanga enye kodwa kwafika iintsuku ezisi-7 ngaphambili emva kokuba bendikunye nomyeni wam kodwa ibingumthetho ongaqhelekanga nangona kunjalo ndinamathandabuzo kwaye le asidi Andazi ukuba ungayilahla njani enkosi ngezimvo zakho nceda uncede
Nceda undincede: / Khange silale kunye nokungena, ndiye ndayeka ukuphuma emsileni, bendinosuku lwam lokuqala lokuya exesheni. Ndineveki endizakuyiqala phambi kokuba ndigule, ndiziva ndidumbile.Ndiyoyika kakhulu, kungenzeka ntoni ukuba ndikhulelwe?
Ngaphandle kokungena akukho kukhulelwa. Ndiyabulisa!
molo maria jose jonga kukuba inyani ndixhalabile kancinci inyani andiqheleki kwaye ndihlala ndisiya exesheni phambi kweveki ndiziva ndicinezelekile kwaye ndibuhlungu eluthuthwini kwaye ngelixesha kwahluke kakhulu kuba andivanga okanye ndineentlungu zesifo U-ASHES AMI UTSHINTSHO LWAM LUHLALA IINTSUKU EZI-5 IINTSUKU E-3 NGOKUPHALISWA KAKHULU KANYE ABANYE BESELE BENZELELILE KAKHULU INGQONDISO YAM NGOKUBA NGELI XESHA NDIPHANTSE KUPHELA IINTSUKU EZIMBINI KUPHELA KUNAM KUNQABA KAKHULU UKUBA BAYENZILE SEKUQALILE UKUTHI NDINOKUKHULELWA KUNYE NDINGATHANDA UKUGCINA XA NDINOKUKHATHAZEKA OH Yiya KUGQIRHA IMPENDULO YAKHO INGABAKUNCEDA KAKHULU 🙁
NGENXA yokuba nam ndinjalo andazi ukuba ndikhulelwe bendinolwalamano ngeentsuku zam zenzala. NDIPHOSA IVEKI YOKWAZI UKUBA NDIPHAKAMILE OKANYE NDINGAMAKELWANGA.
Molo, ndenze i-pomeroy kwiminyaka emithandathu eyadlulayo, kwaye bendinesiyezi, intloko ebuhlungu kwaye ndinesicaphucaphu kangangeentsuku ezininzi, umzimba wam uziva unento engaqhelekanga, andazi ukuba emva kwexesha elininzi kukho amathuba, enkosi
Molo mantombazana, ndibhidekile ... kule nyanga iqhubayo, ndinethuba eliqhelekileyo, kodwa ukusukela kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ukuza apha ndiziva ndisezantsi iintlungu, isicaphucaphu, ndilambile kakhulu, ndibanda kakhulu, kwaye Ukudimazeka .. Ndingathanda ukuba undincede undicingele ukundidlula? Ndimithi? okanye yenye into? enkosi
Ndalala ngesondo nomyeni wam kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ngaphambi kwe-ovulation. Kwaye ke olona suku lwaluyingozi yayinguJanuwari 16, yile nto bendiyikhupha nge-ovulation. Kwaye kwiveki elandelayo, andazi ukuba ndikhona okanye andikho, bandinike iip punctions kwi-ovary elungileyo. wachama njalo. Baye bandinika iintlikiba emabeleni. kwaye imilenze yam ibibuhlungu, kwaye ngoku umlenze wam wasekunene ubuhlungu kwaye uyarhawuzelela. kwaye izolo x ubusuku xa ndilele ibibuhlungu ngokungathi ixesha lam kunye nonyawo lwam lwasekunene zizokwehla. Ndikhathazekile cntxtar
Kwenzeka into efanayo kum, kubuhlungu ngokungathi bekuya ezantsi kodwa ezinye iintlungu zomelele: c
Yile nto kanye ndihamba nayo ngoTamara ,,, Ndixinekile
Molweni mantombazana, ndibhidekile ... kule nyanga iqhubayo, ndinesiqhelo, kodwa ukusukela kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ukuza apha ndiziva ndisezantsi iintlungu, isicaphucaphu, isiyezi kunye nomnqweno wokukhupha igesi.
, ndilambe kakhulu, ndigodola kakhulu, kwaye ndidimazeke kakhulu .. Ndingathanda ukuba undincede, ucinga ukuba kuya kwenzeka ntoni kum? Ndimithi? okanye yenye into? enkosi
Molo uEmily, kwisithuba zonke iimpendulo, ukuba unamathandabuzo kungcono ukuba undwendwele ugqirha.
Mholweni. Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ukhulelwe nokuba ukwabelana ngesondo kuphazamisekile? kukuba bendinobudlelwane nomyeni wam ngeentsuku zam zokuchuma kwaye kwelinye lazo ndilibele ukuselwa ipilisi kodwa bekungekho kuthothwa, ityala kukuba ngoDisemba ukuya exesheni kwam bekumdaka kakhulu kwaye kunqabile kakhulu kwaye ngoJanuwari bekuhlala kuphela kathathu Iintsuku kwaye zazibomvu ngokukhanyayo kwaye zinqabile kakhulu, ingxaki kukuba ndifumene ubunzima, ndinerhasi engapheliyo kwaye isisu sam sinyukile. Sele ndilwenzile uvavanyo lwasekhaya lwaphuma lune-negative kodwa ndiyazi ukuba azithembekanga ncam .. ndingazi njani ukuba ndikhulelwe nyani? Kusele iintsuku ezisixhenxe zokuba kufike ixesha lam elilandelayo kwaye ndisathatha izinto zokuthintela ukukhulelwa .. ndenzeni?
Ndikwindawo enye, andazi nokuba sele ndizifumene iimvavanyo kwaye ziphume zingenayo kodwa ndineempawu ezithile ezinjengokuhamba kwegazi, isicaphucaphu kwaye andazi ukuba ndicinge ntoni, mhlawumbi ndiswele iihomoni
Ewe ndalala phakathi kweentsuku ezi-4 emva kokugqiba ixesha lam ... kwaye emva kwenyanga yafika kum ngesiqhelo, into engaqhelekanga kukuba kule nyanga bendineentsuku ezili-13 emva kwexesha kwaye ihlala iintsuku ezi-2 kuphela, mva nje ndilale kakhulu emva kwemini kodwa ebusuku Xa ndizama ukulala, andikwazi, indinika ukuphuthelwa, kwaye into endandiyithanda ukuyitya ngaphambili, ngoku ndiyayicaphukela kwaye ndinokuchasana nokuqunjelwa xa ndingazange ndikunike oko , kodwa andazi ukuba kutheni nditya kancinci! Andazi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kum, ndicela undixelele ukuba le nto yenzeke emntwini .. phendula, andazi nokuba ungathatha uvavanyo okanye uvumele inyanga elandelayo idlule, enkosi, ndiyathemba ukuba impendulo yakho !! !! = D
Kwenzeka into efanayo kum, kufuneka ndiye ngomhla we-11, kodwa ndinazo zonke iimpawu ezingaqhelekanga ngentla apha !!!!!!! ndenze ntoni !!! yintoni imithambo-luvo !!!!!!!! Olunjani uvuyo !!!!!! kwaye uvavanyo lundinike ukungalunganga, kodwa ndiziva ngathi ndiyenzile ngokungalunganga, okanye ukuba aluzange luphumelele !!! Nceda !!!!!!
Molo uVanina!
Umonde, zisekhona iintsuku kude kube lixesha lakho, nokuba ukhulelwe uvavanyo lwasekhaya alunakubonisa okwangoku kwaye alunakuba lubi.
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KULUNGILE NDIKUXELELA NDINESITSHINTSHO KWIMINYAKA EMI-18 NGOKU NDINOKU-25 NDIYINTO ENGITHANDABUZAYO NGOBA ULAWULO LWAM LUYI-26 KUJULAYI KANYE SIYI-SEPTEMBA IINKENZO ZOBUSO, IINTLUNGU KWI-OVARIES, IBELLY LENZEKA NGEZITHUBA ZIBUYELE EBUHLUNGU UMLUTHA NDINALO LUPHILA LUKHULU LOKUPHILA. UCWANGCISO OLUNZIMISAYO ALUPHELEKI KUNYE UKUKHULELWA.
Molo Maria!
Yonke into inokwenzeka kodwa asinakuphendula ngokuqinisekileyo, kungcono ukuba uye kwagqirha, uya kuba nakho ukukuxelela okwenzekayo kwaye akuncede xa uthe wasilela.
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NDIBULELA NGOKUPHENDULA KWAM NDIMNCINANE KAKHULU NGALO KULE MIHLA NDIYA KWAGQIRHA NGOKUBA NGOKU NDINA-NAUSIA NOBUNZUZO, KUNGEKUDALA NDIZOKUXELELA UKUBA BANDIXELELE. NGOKUPHATHELELEYO.
Wamkelekile!. Ndiyathemba ukuba uza kubuya msinyane usixelele ukuba yonke into ihamba kakuhle; )
Molweni mantombazana !! Ndishiywe lixesha ngeentsuku ezingama-20 ... Into engaqhelekanga kukuba ndenze uvavanyo lwe-16 lwasekhaya kwaye luphuma lungelulo: Ewe kwenzeka into efanayo komnye umntu?
Ndinomdla kakhulu kuba ndineegesi ezininzi kwaye ndiqhuma kakhulu. Andinayo i-nauceas okanye ukugabha. Ndingaluthatha uvavanyo emva kweentsuku ezingaphi ukuze ndenze ichane ngakumbi?
Uvavanyo lwasekhaya emva kwe-15 emva "kobudlelwane obukrokrisayo", uvavanyo lwegazi kwiveki enye emva kobudlelwane.
Molweni ngemini elungileyo !!
Ndibe nobudlelwane kunye nesithandwa sam ukusukela ngo-Okthobha kwaye ukuza kuthi ga kule mini yonke into iphantse yaqheleka kodwa ixesha lam lihlala lincinci kwaye liyehla lincinci kakhulu xa ngokwenyani liye lehla kakhulu kwiintsuku zokuqala ze-2. Ngexesha leveki ephelileyo ndiye ndaphawula ukuba iyandilalisa kakhulu, ndifuna ukuya kwigumbi lokuhlambela ebusuku, ndineminqweno emininzi, kwaye izolo ndiqaphele ukuba iimpahla ngokuthe ngqo esinqeni zindenze andakhululeka, Oko kukuthi; Njengokuba ndifumana ubunzima, intloko yam ibuhlungu amaxesha amaninzi, kwaye mva nje ndinokukhutshwa okuninzi kwilungu lobufazi.
Andazi ukuba ndenze ntoni kuba ngelaxesha ndasela ipilisi ngosuku olulandelayo kwaye ndacinga ukuba andisayi kuba nangxaki, ingaba kusenokwenzeka ukuba ndikhulelwe?
Molweni .. Ndifuna ukuxelela kodwa .. Ndinomlingane wam ndihlala naye kodwa akazange aphume ngaphakathi kum kodwa ixesha lam alide lifike kum .. ixesha lokugqibela km weza ngoMatshi 30 de kwaba nguAprili 2 sele Nge-11 kaMeyi kwaye ayizukuza kum - andinasisiyezi okanye isicaphucaphu, isisu sam siyadumba kwaye ndinentlungu esiswini sam njengengxaki yokuya exesheni .. Ndilala kakhulu kwaye kwakanye ndisitya into endandiyenyanyeka kwaye Impahla yam yangaphantsi iyandinceda xfavorç !!!!!!!!!!!!!
Isenokuba kukukhulelwa kodwa luvavanyo kuphela olukunika impendulo eqinisekileyo. Zama ukuthatha uvavanyo kwaye ukuba awunayo i-negative, yiya kugqirha ukubona ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kuwe.
Molo, ndiyakuxelela ukuba ngenyanga ka-Epreli ndandinobudlelwane nenkwenkwe yam ngaphandle kokukhuselwa kwaye ixesha lam lokugqibela lalingu-Matshi 31, andizukuchaneka kwiinyanga zam nangona zihlala zihlala phakathi kweentsuku ezingama-32 ukuya kwezingama-36, into engaqhelekanga yile ukuba bendineentsuku ezingama-50 ngoku iyandithoba, iimpawu ndinaso kuphela isitshisa, iintlungu kwizibeleko kunye nempumlo eyome kakhulu kunye nokukhutshwa kancinci ingaba kukukhulelwa? Inyani yile yokuba ndinamathandabuzo ngoba abandiniki isiyezi okanye isicaphucaphu okanye nantoni na ke andazi nokuba ndikhulelwe na okanye hayi kwaye uvavanyo lwasekhaya luphume lungekho ngaphezulu kweveki ephelileyo.
Ukuba uvavanyo lubi, kufuneka ubone ugqirha ukuze ubone ukuba kutheni ixesha lakho lingaphantsi.
Molo, ndineempawu ezifanayo, bendikhe ndaya kugqirha, bandijongile babini kwaye khange balwenze uvavanyo lwegazi, bandenzele uhlobo lokuchukumisa ngaphezulu kwesinqe esibelekweni, kodwa bandixelela ukuba ayikokukhulelwa, izolo nge-23 ka-Agasti 2015 ndiphinde ndaya exesheni .. kodwa ndiziva ndingumnqa kakhulu kuyakuba kukuba kufuneka ndenze isichazi-magama ndedwa ukuthintela naziphi na izehlo, kwaye ukuba ndikhulelwe khathalela ukukhulelwa kwam kwaye ndisele.
Mholo! Mhlawumbi ezo mpawu azinanto yakwenza nokukhulelwa. Ugqirha wakho kufuneka aphonononge ityala lakho. Ndiyabulisa!
Molo, ungandinceda, ndishiywe ziintsuku ezi-6 kwaye ngomhla wamashumi amabini anesixhenxe kwinyanga ephelileyo ugqirha wam ukrokrela ukuba ukhulelwe kwaye wandithumela ukuba ndiyokwenza uvavanyo oluninzi kodwa yaphuma ingekhoyo, umbuzo uthi andothuki okanye ndinento yoxinzelelo kodwa ixesha lam lilibazisekile, ndiziva ndinesicaphucaphu kwaye ukulala kwam nokudinwa akuyeki, bayandinceda ukuqinisekisa i-porfis
Mholo! Oku kwenzeka kum:
Ndabelana ngesondo malunga neentsuku ezisi-7 ngaphambi kokuba ndiphume, ndiyazi ukuba zincinci iintsuku kodwa bekufanele ukuba ndehle ngomhla we-10 kule nyanga kwaye ndilungile, ndandisele ndineentsuku ezili-14 ndilibele, ndifuna ukukhulelwa kodwa inyani yile ndizive ndisiba buhlungu emabeleni kwaye Njengesikrweqe esiswini sam kwicala lasekhohlo, ndikhe ndaziva ndinesiyezi kunye nesicaphucaphu imini yonke kunye nentloko ebuhlungu, mva nje ndibethe iqhosha kwaye inkwenkwana yam inciphile, into eyenzayo akwenzeki kum kuba nditya kakhulu kwaye ngoku ndivele ndizilinganisele ekutyeni okufunekayo, andazi ukuba ndicinga ntoni kuba nam ndicinga ukuba ndiyazicebisa kodwa andazi !!! Ngesiquphe banikela ndinqwenela iingono zam haha andazi ukuba ndicinge ntoni !! Ndizakukhulelwa ????? Enkosi… Ndilindele izimvo zakho! Ngamana zingalunga !! Ndiyabulisa !!! kunye nethamsanqa kubo bonke abakhulelweyo !!!
Kungenzeka ukuba kukukhulelwa, unokuthatha uvavanyo ukuqinisekisa. Ukuba kuvavanyo olubi, yiya kugqirha ukuze ubone ukuba kwenzeka ntoni, ngethamsanqa!
Molweni nonke .. Ndalala ngesithandwa sam kwiiveki ezimbini ezidlulileyo, bendisiya exesheni kodwa bendiziva ukuba ifike ngaphambili kwaye ndiphume nini .. Kwahlala iintsuku ezimbini kuphela, ngaphandle kweekram .. Kwaye ndifumana okuncinci kakhulu .. Ndikhutshwe kwilungu lobufazi, ndinengxaki yokuphuthelwa: ewe ndilambile imini yonke .. Ndicaphuka msinya, ndichama kakhulu .. Amaxesha amaninzi iinyawo zam ziyangcangcazela kwaye ndiziva ngathi ndinomngxunya esiswini sam, into engaqhelekanga kukuba mna Sele ndenze uvavanyo lwasekhaya kwaye bekungalunganga ngandlela thile, ndingakhulelwa na? Ucinga ntoni? Nceda!!
Molo !! Kudala ndiphanda la magqabaza iinyanga ezimbini ... ndiza kukuxelela ibali lam: kuyenzeka ukuba kwiinyanga ezi-2 ezidlulileyo, ndilahlekelwe lusana lweeveki ezisi-2 + ezi-8, oko kundenze ndadandatheka kakhulu ... Ndibe nobudlelwane nomyeni wam ngaphandle kokukhuselwa Amaxesha amaninzi, ndifuna ukuba nosana ngokukhawuleza ... Ndiyoyika ukuba into efanayo izakwenzeka kum, ndineminyaka engama-5 ubudala kwaye ndinabantwana aba-37 abaneminyaka eli-2 neli-16, kodwa elaqokobhe lincinci lalindonwabisile kakhulu! Umcimbi kukuba kwiveki ezi-14 ndisiva iintlungu emazantsi esisu, nokuba ndizakugula nini kwaye oko kuphuma kungafihlisiyo, iintlungu kancinci emsileni, kodwa andazi ukuba ndikhulelwe, ixesha kufuneka lehlise i2 .. ndizobe ndikhulelwe ?? Xa ndilahlekelwe lusana lwam, amaqanda kunye nomsila wabuhlungu, kodwa ndawuphulukana nawo ... ndiyoyika, ndiyathemba ukuba andizukuhamba kwinto enye, ndingafa sisizi, kwenzeke into efanayo umntu othile?
Hellooo !!!!!! Ndinombuzo, mna nomyeni wam sabelana ngesondo, ikhondom yaphuka kwaye asizange siyiqonde kude kube sekupheleni, kwakungumhla wam ovundisayo, i-13 yomjikelezo wam. Ndinemithungo esibelekweni, ezingwevu, isicaphucaphu, ukuxinana kwempumlo. Kusasele iintsuku ezimbalwa ukuba ixesha lam lokuza lifike kwaye kuba ndineminyaka engama-31 ubudala bandixelela ukuba kuyamangalisa ukuba kube kanye sele ndikhulelwe ukusukela kwiminyaka yam akukho lula kangako, inyani kukuba besingayi Khathalela nokuba asiyikhangeli. Ngaba umntu unokundixelela into
Mhlawumbi ubethe i-bullseye okokuqala! Uvavanyo kuphela olunokukunika impendulo eqinisekileyo.
Eyona nto inokwenzeka kukuba ukuba ungoyena uphucukileyo kuvavanyo lwegazi LUCK
Inyaniso ndiyintombazana ukuba bendikhe ndalala nentombazana endithandana nayo sia ngaphambi kokuba ifike kum eyayimalunga neenyanga ezi-4 kwaye ukusuka apho ndiziva izinto ezingaqhelekanga Ayindiniki phantse umdla wokutya ndilungile kwaye ukusuka kumzuzu omnye ukuya enye ndiyirhalela into eyamthatha yafa kokunye ukutya ndamrhaxa kakhulu kwaye eyona nto imbi kunazo zonke ngu K Ndiziva ngathi kukho into eshukumayo esinqeni sam uen iyandinceda uba andazi Q Aser _ndifuna impendulo
Molweni NDINOKUTHANDABUZEKA NGOMHLA 01/08 NDAKHUTHAZA UKUHUMBULA IIVEKI EZIYI-9 NGENXA YOKUFA KWELUNGU LOSAPHO, KWANDIXABISA UKUKHULELWA. Kude kube ngumhla andikaze ndibone ukubonwa kwaye iintsuku ezingama-65 sele zidlulile. Malunga neentsuku ezili-15 ezidlulileyo bendinendawo ezithile ezipinki kwaye emva koko ndimdaka kodwa ibiziintsuku ezi-3 kuphela, mva nje ndinomdla wokutya, isicaphucaphu kunye nokuhamba kakhulu, kuya kuba Ndiimithi
Molweni nonke, umjikelo wam wawuneentsuku ezingama-23 kwaye namhlanje u-Okthobha 22 Ndihlala ndinesifo esisezantsi esiswini ngathi kukuya exesheni, ndiziva ndidiniwe kwaye ndinesicaphucaphu bendikunye neqabane lam ngeentsuku zam ezichumileyo kodwa bekuphindwe kabini .. ukufika nge-6 ukuya kwi-7 kaNovemba .. Ndifuna ukwazi ukuba ndikhulelwe.
Enkosi ukuba uyandixelela.
Molo IGAMA LAM NDinguSONIA NDINESIVIKI EZI-8 ndikhulelwe kwaye ndiziva ndityhafile kwaye ndilele ngendlela eqhelekileyo.
Ewe kuyinto eqhelekileyo, ukudinwa kuqhelekile ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwaye kuya kuhamba nawe kwikota yokuqala. Ndiyakuvuyela ngomntwana wakho ozayo! 😉
molo ndineentsuku ezisi-7 zokuya ngaphambi kokuba kufike ixesha lam kwaye YER NDIYA KWI-STAN STOWN EBENOKUBA
Molweni, umbuzo, ndikhulelwe ndineeveki ezili-17, kuphela mva nje isisu sam sibuhlungu kakhulu, ndinexhala, kuyinto eqhelekileyo.
Andazi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kum kwinyanga ephelileyo ndiphuma kancinci kwaye kulenyanga akukho nto indinika njengokuthunga esifubeni kwaye ndiziva ngathi ndisisikroba esiswini sam ukuba ndingamitha ndizikhathalela ngekhondom kodwa kanye sasiqala ngaphandle kwekhondom kodwa isithandwa sam asigqibanga ngaphakathi ndifuna impendulo
Mholo ngalentsasa! Ndimtsha koku kwaye ndifuna ukukuxelela ngeempawu zam ukuze undincede nceda !! ... Mna neqabane lam singabantu abathandana kakhulu ngokwesondo, kwiiveki ezimbini ezidlulileyo ndiqale ndaziva ndinesicaphucaphu, umlomo wam womile, isisu sam sibuhlungu kwaye ndilambile kakhulu ... kodwa umhla wokuba ndinciphise ixesha lam ufikile, kwaye oko kwandenza ndadana, kodwa bendinayo kuphela iintsuku ezimbini, xa ngesiqhelo iintsuku ze-5 indithoba ngamandla kwaye ngeli xesha lusuku olunye kuphela bendinalo kwinto yesiqhelo kwaye ezinye iintsuku amabala kuphela, xa ndisusa ixesha lam, isisu sam sibuhlungu, ndinentloko, impumlo exineneyo, iintlungu zonyawo, ndiyoyika, ingaba umntu angandicebisa nceda !!
Molo, ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba ihambe njani? Ukuba ukhulelwe?
Molweni, ndingathanda uncedo lomntu, bendikunye neqabane lam nge7th yalenyanga sayenza kwaye mzuzu afika ngawo, wayenza ngaphandle kwangoko saphinda sanobudlelwane, akazange acoce okanye ahlambe ngalo mini, besichumile kumjikelo wam Kulungile, besikunye kwakhona ngale mini ngoMgqibelo umhla we-14 kwaye ngeCawa ibala elimdaka kuphela ixesha elinye ndinesifo esiswini kunye negesi bendiziva ndilambile kakhulu andazi nokuba ndicebisa okanye ndingakhulelwa. Ixesha lam kufuneka lifike kule 1
Hola
Nge-16 kaFebruwari bendinobudlelwane kunye nesithandwa sam sangaphambili, kodwa okokugqibela ukuphuma kwam yayiyiveki yokugqibela kaJanuwari, kodwa andiqhelekanga, inyani kukuba ndineentlungu ezisezantsi, bandinika isicaphucaphu, isilungulela, isezantsi umqolo obuhlungu, kwaye ndifumana uhlobo lweenwele ezimhlophe kubunzima kwaye andazi nokuba ndikhulelwe
Ndincede Nceda
Molweni ndineentsuku eziyi-6 kwaye amabele am ababuhlungu kancinci ndiqhuma kakhulu kwaye ndiziva ingathi ziintlungu esiswini ndizokhulelwa.
Mholweni. Igama lam ndinguLérida. Ndandinolwalamano kwiintsuku zam ezichumileyo nomyeni wam kuba sele sifuna ukuba neentsana, umbuzo wam ngowokuba ingaba iimpawu zingaqala ngeentsuku ezi-6 oko ndinesicaphucaphu, ndilambile kakhulu, ndilala, ndinegesi eninzi, ndinxaniwe rhoqo kwaye Iintsuku eziyi-8 amabele am aqala ukuba buhlungu kancinci
Molweni, ndabelana ngesondo ngo-Epreli 6 ibilixesha lam lokuqala kwaye khange siyikhathalele nekota ngaphandle kwaye ndisele ipilisi ngosuku olulandelayo kodwa kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo isisu sam sibuhlungu kwaye ndinesiyezi, ingaba ndingakhulelwa ?
Mholo! Ndineentsuku ezi-3 zokuya ngaphambi kokuba ixesha lam lehle kodwa iimpawu zam zezi zilandelayo: ekuqaleni ndandisozela ngoku, andisabhodli, ndiyabhodla kakhulu, isisu sam sibuhlungu kodwa hayi iintlungu zokuya exesheni, ndinamaqhakuva amaninzi kule yokugqibela iveki kwaye ndinokuhamba kolwelo, ingaba ndimithi? Ngethamsanqa kubo bonke
Molweni mantombazana, nditshatile kulenyanga, bendikunye nomyeni wam ebesele eneentsuku ezintathu okanye ezi-4 emveni kokuya exesheni, 16, 17, 19, kwaye ngo-Epreli 20 ndithathe ipilisi engxamisekileyo, ingxaki kukuba ndineeveki ezimbini zentlungu , isicaphucaphu, ukudinwa okuninzi kunye nokulala kunye nendlala engapheliyo, ngaphandle ndibona ezinye iibhola ziphume kumabala amabele am, namhlanje ngoMeyi 2 ndenze uvavanyo kwaye kwakukubi, ndinalo ixhala Andazi nokuba ndiphume ndiphume ndilinde ithutyana, uluvo lwakho luya kuba luncedo kakhulu, enkosi 🙂
molo ndalala phakathi kweentsuku zam ezichumileyo ngaphandle kokukhuselwa kwaye emva kweentsuku ezi-5 ndafumana ukukhutshwa okungafihlisiyo ngemisonto yegazi ngaphandle kwevumba kwaye emva kweentsuku ezi-4 koku kuphinda kubuye okunye ukukhutshwa kwakungathi kuxutywe negazi elincinci kwaye emva koko Iintsuku ze-4 ukuhamba okucacileyo kwehla kwakhona ngemisonto ye-sngre ukusukela ngoko ayiphindanga yehla, kuphela ii-ovari zam zibuhlungu, ngakumbi ekhohlo, ngamanye amaxesha isisu sam sivakala ngathi asinalutho, ndiyabanjwa kwaye ngamanye amaxesha andinawo ukutya kwaye andikuva incasa yokutya, ndiyakuva akunambitheki, nokuba yintoni, andazi nokuba kungenxa yokumitha, nceda, ukuba kwenzeka into efanayo komnye umntu, ndiyakucela, Ndixelele ukuba kwenzeke ntoni kuwe kamva, enkosi
Ndisalinde ixesha lam, kuya kufuneka ndingene malunga neentsuku ezisi-8 ngaphezulu
Molo ndineminyaka engama-37 ubudala, cm 5 kwiminyaka eyadlulayo ndenziwa utyando, basika iityhubhu zam kwaye bathatha cm iiveki ezintathu kodwa kancinci ndizive kakubi ndisiva iintlungu kwizibele zam ukutshisa kwi-ka ye-stomago andilali ebusuku Kwaye phantse yonke imini ingaba lisikizi elingakanani?
Molo, imithambo-luvo yam iyandibulala ngomhla we-30/04/15 bendiqala ukuza nesoka lam kwaye isisu sam siyabindeka ukusukela ngoLwesibini, ngaphandle komqolo wam, intloko yam kunye nokuthungwa okumbalwa emabeleni am a. Ukukhupha okuninzi kwilungu lobufazi.Ndinoyika ukuba olu sosuleleko lobufazi kuba ndifunde kwi-intanethi malunga nento ebonakalisa iintlungu esiswini kunye nokukhupha okungaqhelekanga ngaphandle kweentlungu zomchamo.Ndindedwa.Ndinezimbini ezinokundinceda ngalo mbuzo ukuba kukukhulelwa okanye uphawu kwesi sifo kuthiwa yi-chlamydia
Ndalala ngesondo ngomhla we-11 kwaye ngomhla we-13 ndaye ndakhutshwa emdaka, umhla wokufika kwenyanga yam kwaye oko kuqukuqela kuyaqhubeka nokuzingisa, ndinesicaphucaphu, ndine-gassy, ndinesiyezi kwaye isisu sam siziva singaqhelekanga kwaye ndinayo Intloko eninzi, iyanceda !!!!
molo ndinezinto ezininzi ezixhalabisayo nceda ubancede…. into eyenzekileyo kukuba kuye kwafuneka ifike nge-15 nange-3 yeentsuku sele idlulile kwaye akukho nto !!!!! Ndenze uvavanyo lwegazi lwaphuma lungekho, ndineentlungu ngokungathi sele zize kum kodwa akukho nto …… Ndingakhulelwa ??????? : OKANYE
Molo, unyaka we-1 odlulileyo ndikhulelwe i-etopic, enqamle ityhubhu ... kwiinyanga ezi-2 ezidlulileyo bendinesiqhelo esiqhelekileyo, kodwa kwinyanga elandelayo, hayi ... bendisopha kancinci ... amathontsi ... kunye nentlungu ... bendinegazi ndaza wandinika i-100.00 ... ngeveki wandinika olunye uvavanyo wandinika u-1.86 ... u-doc undixelela ukuba akukho kumitha kwaye ndinosulelo lomchamo ... wandinika amayeza okubulala iintsholongwane ,,, kwaye ndiziva ndimbi, ndinesicaphucaphu ... ndinesisu ... kunye nentloko ... izakuba yintoni ... andithandabuzi kwaye ndinexhala ... iyanceda ...
Molo, ndincede, ndabelana ngesondo ngeentsuku zam zokuchuma ngaphandle kokukhuselwa kwaye umyeni wam ungene ngaphakathi kum, amaxesha amaninzi, ixesha lam belingoMeyi 20 kwaye alizange lehle namhlanje sele ndinentsuku ezi-6 ndilibele kwaye amabele am abuhlungu kakhulu, bandinika iintetho esiswini sam kwaye ndinxaniwe kakhulu, isiyezi amaxesha ngamaxesha, ukulala kunye negesi eninzi, kuyakuba ngathi ndikhulelwe andifuni ukuba nemincili ... ..
Molweni, igama lam ndingu Micaela.Ndineminyaka eli-15 ubudala. NgoLwesibini umhla wamashumi amabini anesibini bendinobudlelwane, andizihoyanga kodwa andiphelelanga ngaphakathi. NgoMgqibelo bekungathi ndimdaka ngentseni nangoMgqibelo bendingenanto konke konke, oko kukuthi, ihlale iintsuku ezimbini ngoku ngoLwesibini wama-22 ndiyehla kancinci kwaye akukho nto imdaka ngoluhlobo kwaye ihlala ihlala iintsuku ezintlanu inyanga nenyanga, bendizibuza umakazi kwaye bekucingelwa ukuba kule mihla bendilala ngayo bendikhupha i-ovating kwaye bendichuma ngakumbi kwiintsuku ezi-26 okanye ezi-5 phambi kokuba ndiye exesheni kwaye bendifuna ukwazi ukuba ibiyintoni ukuba kungenzeka ukuba ndikhulelwe okanye ibiyintoni enye? Nceda uphendule ingxamisekile
Molo igama lam ndingu yanina ndineeveki ezisi-7 ndikhulelwe kwaye ndinendawo emnyama emnyama ekhutshiweyo bendifuna ukwazi ukuba le yinto eqhelekileyo enkosi
Molo, ndalala ngesondo (ndaphazanyiswa) ngentsasa yosuku lwam lokuhamba, kusekho malunga neentsuku ezisi-7 de kufike ixesha lam kodwa ndinemvakalelo ezingaqhelekanga esiswini sam, into eyahluke mpela kwi-colic yangaphambi kokuya exesheni, ndinento eninzi zerhasi, ezinye iintsuku ngokuqhinwa, ezinye isisu esincinci, ndilambile kakhulu, ndinxaniwe, kwaye ndikhutshiwe kwilungu lobufazi, ndifuna ukwazi ukuba ndingalwenza nini uvavanyo? Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ukhulelwe nge-precum? Enkosi
Molo, Nanini na xa kukho ukungena okungakhuselekanga kukho ithuba lokukhulelwa. Ndiyabulisa!
molo… ndinexhala! Ngexesha lenyanga ka-Epreli ndaqala ukuthatha iipilisi zokuthintela ukukhulelwa kodwa kuba ndandinovakalelo kakhulu ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndizitshintshe kwinyanga ka-Meyi, ndandiye ndibenolwazelelelo ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndizishiye ngoMeyi 9 kwaye kwiintsuku ezimbini kamva (ngoMeyi 11) ixesha eliqhelekileyo lifikile. Emva koko ndiye ndabelana ngesondo kodwa khange eze kum kwaye iveki enesiqingatha ndinentloko ezininzi, isiyezi, isicaphucaphu, naliphi na ivumba elimnandi okanye uhambo lundenza ndibe nesiyezi .. ngamanye amaxesha ndiziva ndilambile kakhulu kwaye nditya ndinomnqweno. Kwaye emveni kokuba ndigqibile kundenza ukuba ndigabhe, okanye ngamanye amaxesha andiziva ndifuna ukutya nantoni na 🙁… ingaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ndikhulelwe?
molo… ndinexhala! Ngexesha lenyanga ka-Epreli, ndaqala ukusela iipilisi zokuthintela ukukhulelwa, kodwa kuba ndandinovakalelo kakhulu, ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndizitshintshe ngenyanga kaMeyi, ndandiye ndibenolwazelelelo, ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndizishiye ngoMeyi 9 nakwiintsuku ezimbini kamva. (NgoMeyi 11) ixesha eliqhelekileyo lifikile. Emva koko ndiye ndabelana ngesondo kodwa khange eze kum kwaye iveki enesiqingatha bendineentloko ezininzi, isiyezi, isicaphucaphu, naliphi na ivumba elimnandi okanye uhambo lundenza ndibe nesiyezi sometimes .. ngamanye amaxesha ndiziva ndilambile kakhulu kwaye nditya nam umnqweno kwaye emveni kokuba ndigqibile kundenza ukuba ndifune ukugabha, okanye ngamanye amaxesha andiziva ndifuna ukutya nantoni na 🙁… ingaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ndikhulelwe? I-AHH nayo indinika INTSHOLO eninzi! kodwa LOT kwaye ndine-colic - iintlungu ezincinci! ndincede! Nika uluvo lwakho
Molo, iqabane lam kwaye andikhathalelani nangayiphi na indlela, umthetho wam wango-Epreli wawungomhla we-16 kwaye usebenze ngaphezulu kweentsuku ezintathu kule nyanga ndandiphambi kwe-10 kwaye ndafumana kancinci ngoMeyi 08 ndaziva iimpawu ezibandayo Ndichama qho ndinesisu kwaye ndigcwele iigesi ndizive ngathi ndiyarhawuzelelwa bubuso bam kwaye ndiyalila yonke imimoya yam isemgangathweni kuyakwenzeka ukuba lo ukhulelweyo ancede pliss
Molo, igama lam ndinguJazmin, kutshanje ndiye ndaqala ukuba neentlobano zesini neqabane lam kwaye ixesha lam laqala ngoMeyi 18, ndihlala ndihlala rhoqo. Kwaye namhlanje i-28 ndifumana ukukhutshwa okumdaka kwaye andazi ukuba kutheni, ndiyoyika. Ungandinceda?
Molo, ndithatha izinto zokuthintela ukukhulelwa kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ndiyalibala ukuzithatha bendingenazo iintlobano zesini ndingazikhuselanga bendinokukhutshwa okumdaka ngombala ndinentloko kwaye amaqanda am abuhlungu bekuya kufuneka ndize ngomhla we-10 kwenye inyanga
Sijonge umntwana, kushiyeke iveki phambi kokuba ndichukumise ixesha lam ... ndiye ndaziva iintsuku ezimbini ezidlulileyo ... iintlungu zesisu, nditya kancinci kwaye ndiziva ndihluthi kakhulu. Ngaphandle koko ndinokungonwabi kwibele lasekhohlo..ngathi ibinditshisa kodwa khange ndizibethe ... ezi ndizibiza ngegama..ziimpawu zokukhulelwa?
Ndifuna ngokukodwa ukwazi ukuba ndingakhulelwa na okanye hayi …………. Ngaphezulu kweentsuku ezisibhozo ezidlulileyo ngomhla we-10 kaMeyi ndalala ngesondo ndingakhuselekanga, emva kweentsuku ezintathu ndopha usuku olunesiqingatha kodwa ngoku ndiziva ndibi kuba ndiziva ngathi yonke into iyashukuma, ndinesicaphucaphu kodwa isisu sam asibuyi, isisu sam kubuhlungu, isibeleko sam kunye nemilenze yam, kukho amaxesha apho ndirhalela izinto kwaye ndiye nditye kakhulu kwaye ndingakuboni ukutya kuyandonyanyisa kodwa andisijiki isisu sam, ndiye ndilale kakhulu ………… .. inokuba yintoni?
Iveki e-1 kunye nesiqingatha esidlulileyo umfana wam endithandana naye wayendipinkile eyinxalenye yam, andikhange ndibenabo ubudlelwane naye kwaye ndazisa i-vondon, bekufanele ukuba ndiye ezantsi ngosuku lwe-1 kodwa andikayi ezantsi kwaye andiyi yazi ucinga ntoni ndizive nditshiswa sisisu nceda nceda
ngokukhawuleza ukukhupha ukukhulelwa. Unokuba neengxaki zamathumbu okanye i-colitis, jonga ugqirha wakho.
Nditya ipilisi ye-anti concetiva usuku olunye ngaphandle kokuyithatha »'ngoku ndibala umbala omnyama kwaye ndinentlungu esiswini» »» kukumitha na?
Molweni ... ndinengxaki ndinenyanga e-1 engandihlisi kodwa andinaso isicaphucaphu okanye isiyezi, into endinika yona kukuphola, kwaye kwinyanga ephelileyo ndiye exesheni yonke into yahamba ngokugqibeleleyo ndagqiba ubudlelwane kodwa ngosuku olulandelayo ndabuya ukuze ndifumane umxube !! Iyandenza ndothuke kakhulu kuba andisaphumi kulenyanga !! ... Ngaba umntu angawuphendula umbuzo wam ukuba ndikhona okanye andikho .. ???
Molweni nonke. Ndifuna ukuphawula ngesimpawu esingaqhelekanga ebendinaso kwinyanga yam yokuqala yokukhulelwa, (nditsho bendingazi ukuba yiyo), kodwa okokuqala ndaziva ndisiba namandla njenge tachycardia. Ndiyakhumbula ukuba ndiye eklinikhi kwaye abafumananga nto iphosakeleyo kodwa ukubetha kwentliziyo yam kwakomelele kakhulu, kwiveki elandelayo ndafumanisa ukuba ndikhulelwe, ukusukela ngelo xesha de kwaba kukukhulelwa kwam konke, ndaziva ukuba andinangxaki. ngaphezu kweveki ye-20 yokukhulelwa kwaye ngoku ndikwiiveki ezingama-37 ndinento eninzi kakhulu kwaye andinabulungisa ngesiyezi kunye nokuphefumla kancinci. Andazi ukuba kulindelwe ntoni kuba ugqirha undijongile kwaye uxinzelelo lwam lulungile, ngakumbi ukuwisa, kwaye undixelela ukuba yonke into iqhelekile. Nangona usongeza zonke ezinye iimpawu zokukhulelwa kwaye ingakumbi umde, oku kusenokungathandeki.
Molo, ndinombuzo, bendenziwe utyando, bandinqumle ukuze ndingabi nentsana kwiminyaka esi-7 eyadlulayo kodwa umqolo wam ubuhlungu kuba xa ndifuna ukwehla kodwa ndigqibile kwaye ndiziva ngathi ndiyahamba esiswini kwaye ngokukhawuleza ndiluma amabele ndifuna ukwazi ukuba kungenxa yantoni
Jonga ndaye ndalala nesithandwa sam kwezintsuku zingachumanga kwaye iimpawu zam zifana necramp, isicaphucaphu kwaye ndifumana ukuhamba kwegazi okuninzi negazi.
Ndinengxaki kwinyanga ephelileyo ndiphume iintsuku ezi-3 phambi kokuba umthetho wam wethambo undichukumise nge-13 kaMeyi kwaye ndehle nge-10 kaMeyi kodwa kwaphela iintsuku ezi-4 kwaye yehla kancinci kakhulu phantse akukho nto ndathatha uvavanyo lokukhulelwa kwaye yaphuma Andilunganga kwaye kule nyanga kuye kwanyanzeleka ukuba ndehle nge-10 kaJuni kwaye namhlanje nge-7 ka-Agasti bendinendawo ethe nca kancinci, kuphela amathontsi egazi acace gca Umbuzo apha uthi: Ndingakhulelwa na?
Molo, uyazi ukuba kwiiveki ezi-4 ezidlulileyo bendikhe ndabelana ngesondo, kwaye bekufanele ukuba ndehle nge-5th yale nyanga kwaye akukho nto yehlileyo, kwezi veki zine ndaziva ndiqaqanjelwa kumazantsi esisu, ngolunye usuku ndeva ivumba Kwaye kwafuneka ndimke kuba bandinika isicaphucaphu, ndandinqwenela nokutya iiyure zonke kwaye kwiveki ephelileyo ndandihamba ndinemvakalelo yengqele, kwezi ntsuku zimbini zidlulileyo ndikhutshwe mhlophe ikwangqaqambo nokudumba emabeleni am izolo ndenze I pregnancy test kwaye I It came out negative andazi nokuba inokuba yintoni
Molweni mantombazana kwenzeke into engaqhelekanga kum. Kwiintsuku ezili-11 emva kokudibana kwam bendinokuphuma kancinci emdaka kwaye ndinentlungu encinci ye-ovari. oko kwenzeka kum kwaba kanye. Owu, ngosuku olulandelayo ndaye ndaneentlungu kwisibeleko sam sasekhohlo kodwa umzuzwana .. Ndiye ndaphithizela i-natis kwaye ndiziva ndidiniwe kakhulu. Kukho amaxesha apho ndifumana isiyezi kwaye uxinzelelo lwam luyehla. Khange ndizikhathalele mna neqabane lam. Ndifuna ukwazi ukuba ingaba yintoni. Ndifuna impendulo nceda
Mholweni!!
Ixesha lam lalibambezeleka ngeentsuku ezi-3 kwaye emva kweentsuku ezi-3 ndaye ndopha kancinci ngosuku olulandelayo, indawo emdaka inqabile kuba ayiqhelekanga kum, amaxesha am ahlala iintsuku ezi-4 ubuncinci kunye neveki ephezulu kwaye zininzi kakhulu, kuGqirha wam, kuba ndinosulelo lwegwele, uye wamisela isibeleko wandixelela ukuba uzolinda iintsuku ezili-15 enze uvavanyo lwegazi kunye nomchamo.suku oludlulileyo ndaye ndagula sisifo sorhudo kunye nesicaphucaphu usuku nje olunye ngoku Umqolo obuhlungu kunye neengono ezirhawuzelayo Ndikhe ndakhulelwa kathathu kwaye ukukhulelwa ngakunye kuye kwahluka ngokupheleleyo. Ndingakhulelwa?
Mva kwemini, bendisoloko ndichanekile kwithuba lam kwinyanga ephelileyo, ibingu-Meyi 12 kodwa bendiziva ndingaqhelekanga iiveki ezimbini ndinesiyezi, isisu sam siguqula ukutya endingakuthandiyo, ngoku ndinqwenela intloko kuphela. Ndilele kwaye ndiziva ndingaqhelekanga esiswini phambi kokuba bandinike iimpawu ngaphambi kokuba ndiye exesheni kwaye ke bendisazi ukuba lithuba lam kodwa kulenyanga khange ndiziveze ezo mpawu kwaye ndenze uvavanyo lwasekhaya kodwa akukho nto izakundinceda.
Ndidinga uncedo, nceda, ndinexhala. Ndihleli neqabane lam kabini, akaphelelanga ngaphakathi kodwa ixesha alide lifike kum oko ndibeleka usana lwam iinyanga ezisixhenxe kwaye usathatha ibele. Kodwa bendiziva ndibuhlungu mva nje bendinesisu esibuhlungu rhoqo igesi ibuhlungu kakhulu kwicala lasekunene le-adomen yam eliza kunceda kwaye enkosi
Molo, unjani? Ndinombuzo kangangeeveki ezi-2 ukuba awuzange wehle, kodwa kwiveki enye phambi kokuba ndiphume igazi okwexeshana nangosuku olunye kwaye khange liphindwe, kule veki ndikhulelweyo uvavanyo oluthi ekuqaleni ndimakishe u-negative kodwa emva kwemizuzu emi-3 ndiphawule omnye umgca njengelungileyo, indawo yam esiswini ibuhlungu kakhulu kwaye ndikhawuleze ndibone ivumba, ezinye zibangela isicaphucaphu, abanye banqwenela amavumba kwaye ndizamile ukuphanda isiphumo esilinganayo le yenzekileyo kuvavanyo kodwa andifumani mpendulo umntu angandinceda nceda.
U-Ola ndineempawu ezingaqhelekanga eziqale kwisiyezi emva kokuba amathontsi ambalwa egazi kwimpahla yam yangaphantsi, kwaye ngoku ndineentlungu kwilungu lobufazi kunye nerhashalala ndiziva ndidiniwe kancinci kwaye umqolo wam ubuhlungu.
Andisazi ukuba ndicinge ntoni kwaye ndisathandabuza ukuba ndenze uvavanyo phambi komhla ochaziweyo okanye emva kwenyani ukuba ukuya exesheni kungafiki
Molo ndiyathemba ukuba niyandiphendula.
Kulungile andifani, amaxesha am ayahluka phakathi kweentsuku ezingama-35 ukuya kwezingama-46, ndabelana ngesondo ngoMeyi 24, kwaye ixesha lam lokugqibela laqala ngo-Epreli 26 ukuya kuMeyi 2. Inyani yile yokuba khange agqibe ngaphakathi, kodwa kulenyanga andikalifumani ixesha lam, sele ndikhona ngomhla we-50 kwaye akukho nto, kunyaka ophelileyo andizange ndibenomjikelo omkhulu kune-46 (yayintathu kuphela leyo ixesha elide, ezinye bezincinci), andinazimpawu zininzi, kuphuma ubumhlophe ngaphakathi, iintlungu ezincinci esiswini, ngokuchaseneyo nokuqunjelwa, ndiye kwigumbi lokuhlambela rhoqo kwaye oko akuqhelekanga kum, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ndiye ndibenesiyezi, kodwa ndicinga ukuba inokuba ndiyicinga. Ngaba umntu angandixelela ukuba kwenzeka into efanayo kuye? Ndifuna ukuphuma kumathandabuzo, kwaye ndiyazi ukuba ingaba kukukhulelwa na okanye hayi, kuba kunjalo, ndicinga ukuba kuya kuba nzima kakhulu, kuba ayiphelelanga ngaphakathi kwaye ngenxa yesitenxo sam.
Okokuqala, Enkosi: ')
Ndilibele ukuphawula ukuba ndikhutshiwe ngokucacileyo ndinomjelo wegazi obhityileyo.
Molweni, ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba ndikhulelwe na, ndicela undiphendule iiveki ezimbini ndinentlungu engathethekiyo, isiyezi kakhulu, ubuthathaka obuninzi kwaye ndifumana ukukhutshwa okumhlophe, khange ndilwenze uvavanyo kuba ndi ndisoyika isiphumo, bangandinceda ukuba ndikhulelwe?
UDaniela, sele ulibazisile? Ndifana nawe, kunye neempawu ezifanayo… eyona nto ibaxekileyo.
U-Ola chikas ndiyakuxelela ukuba ndaye ndalala ne boyfriend yam ngo April andisalukhumbuli usuku kodwa kwakungo May kwaye ixesha lalingafiki kum nokutya kwakundonyanyisa ndaziva ndinemariad isisu sam sidumbile ndandinokuhamba kakhulu ukuba kufuneka ndisebenzise itawuli sanitary ukuze ndingamanzisi ibhlukhwe yam ndathambisa igazi elipinki elinombala opha kwaye ndafumana uvavanyo kodwa yandinika kakubi xa ichukumisa isisu sam ndiziva ngathi nditshiswa yinto enjalo kwaye kubuhlungu ukuba ndicofa Ndinexesha lam phakathi kwinyanga kaCanzibe kodwa iicramps zazomelele kakhulu zinganyamezeleki kwaye ndiphiliswa iintsuku ezi-3 kuphela xa ihlala iveki kwaye mva nje ndizisa isicaphucaphu kunye ne-bomito xa ndisitya kakhulu umzimba wam ubungawuthandi umzimba wam ndeva ipikete kwenye yechiche yam kwaye izolo ndaye ndaya kudanisa ndadanisa icumbia saltadita ndathi ukugqiba kwam wandinika Intlungu ebukhali epansa ndiziva ngathi yipikete endinika yona kwaye ndiyazi ukuba andenzi njalo. yazi ukuba wenzeni Ndixhalabile
Molo bendifuna ukukuxelela kwaye ndibone ukuba ukhona umntu onokundixelela kwaye ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kum kuqhelekile. Kulenyanga bendilindele ukuba ndiye exesheni ngomhla we-13, kodwa ngomhla we-9 emva kwemini ndadyobha umkhuseli ngekofu emva koko ndaya kwigumbi lokuhlambela kwaye ndabona ukukhutshwa okucacileyo okunegazi elibomvu kakhulu. I-10 yeza kum yonke imini kakhulu, i-11, efanayo ne-12, akukho nto kwaphela. Nge-13th amaxesha ngamaxesha ndiyazi ukuhla kwegazi kwaye ibiyinto yokugqibela. Ndingumntu oza kum ngobuninzi benyanga nenyanga. Kwaye ngentlungu. Kulenyanga akukho nto ukuba namhlanje 16 ndizive nditshisa esifubeni kwaye ngalo mzuzu ndinentlungu encinci esiswini.
Molo, mva kwemini elungileyo, kulungile, jonga ukuba ngolwesiHlanu ndifumanise ukuba ndikhulelwe kwaye ukusuka apho ndafumana isisu esibuhlungu kunye nobunzima obubi, andazi ukuba ndisuse ntoni kwaye zingaphelanga iintsuku ezi-3 bandenza i-inshurensi andazi ukuba ndenzeni, ndiya kusuku lwam lwesithandathu ndinentlungu esiswini nangona ukukhululeka kungekho kangako iintlungu azinyamezeleki ngamanye amaxesha kwaye ukwanda kwegesi kuyinto eqhelekileyo?
Molweni mantombazana, ndiza kunixelela ukuba ndiyekile ukuza nge-4 kaFebruwari ngenyanga ukusukela oko ndiphosakeleyo kwinyanga yam endiyenzileyo kuvavanyo ndabuya ndingenayo kodwa kuhlala kukho lo mqondo wesithandathu okuxelela ukuba uchitha enye inyanga kwaye khange ndifumane Ndigqibe kwelokuba ndenze enye kwaye ukuba ibindim, yintoni eyandenza ndarhanela ukuba ibuhlungu kwaye ibuhlungu empumlweni, ke qhubeka ukuba iphuma imbi kwaye ayizukuphumla kwaye, qhubeka nokuthatha iimvavanyo, Sele ndinenyanga ezine kwaye ndonwabile
Andazi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kum. Ndigabhe kwakanye, ndinerhasi eninzi, ndirhalela kwa {cheescake} efanayo, isicaphucaphu, isiyezi nje, onke amavumba eza kum, ndidiniwe kwaye ndiyozela, ukulala, ukuqaqanjelwa sisisu kwaye ndiye kwigumbi lokuhlambela yonke imihla, ayiqhelekanga kum .. Ndiye ndaya exesheni ngesiqhelo {Ndiqhelekile} kwaye ngomhla wesi-3 nowesi-5 exesheni ndaba namabala amdaka.Ngobusuku bokugqibela umzimba wam ucele amanzi abandayo …….
Molweni umntu ondixelelayo andiyazi into engalunganga kum, sele ndinenyanga eziyi3 iperiod yam yehla 2beces ngenyanga ndaziva ndinesiyezi igazi liphume ngempumlo, kosa zange yenzeke kum Ndiziva ngathi ndimncinci
esiswini
Mholweni. Ndabelana ngesondo ngoMvulo ngaphandle kokukhuselwa. Kwaye ngolwesiThathu nangoLwesine bendineentlungu zomqolo ezifana neekram Ngolwesihlanu ke bendinentloko ebhlungu. Kwaye andinamdla wokutya kwaye isisu sam sivakala kakhulu njengezikratshi kwaye ngaphandle kokuphuma kwam kwilungu lobufazi kuninzi kwezi ntsuku zine zidlulileyo ... Ngaba ndikhulelwe okanye yenye into? Ngaba kusekutsha kakhulu ukuxelela? Ngokufuthi iintsuku ezi-4 zidlulile.
Molo phantse kwinyanga ephelileyo apho ndingakhange ndibone umyeni wam x ke ngoko khange sibe nolwalamano, weza ngqo kwiintsuku ezili-13 ezidlulileyo ukuba salalana kwaye kwiveki ephelileyo ukuba bendinokukhutshwa okumthubi okumthubi ngaphandle kokunuka okanye ukurhawuzelela, zilulwelo kakhulu kwaye kuye kwafuneka ndize nge-18th kodwa andilunganga ezinyangeni ezidlulileyo lo mhla weza kum kwaye namhlanje ndenze umgca obalulekileyo wombala omnyama omnyama kwaye akukho enye into x ngalo mzuzu ndingakhulelwa?
Molweni ixesha lam lifike kum ngesiqhelo inyanga nenyanga lifikile ngokuchanekileyo kodwa kwiinyanga ezimbini ezidlulileyo zafika iintsuku ezimbini kuphela kwaye liphelile ndiziva ndinesiyezi andinaso nesifiso sokutya ndinayo into eninzi yokubhinqa kunye negesi. Andiyi kwigumbi lokuhlambela njengesiqhelo (ukuqunjelwa) isisu sam sidumbile inyanga eyi-1 kwaye ndiye kwigumbi lokuhlambela rhoqo, ndicela undincede.
Molo, ingaba umntu angandikhokela, umqolo wam ubuhlungu kakhulu, kwaye amabele am, ndenze uvavanyo lwegazi andinika ukuba ndi-positive, ndiye ndehla nge-14 kodwa ndenza i-ekko kwaye bandixelela ukuba ndizisa iintambo kwizibeleko xfa ndincede ndibhideke kakhulu andazi nokuba ndicinga njani, kuba bandixelela ukuba ndithathe ipastiya okanye ndazihlaba
Molweni imeko yam kukuba sexesheni liqhelekile kwaye lihlala lifika nge-21 kwaye lihlala iintsuku ezintathu, kodwa ngoku lifikile ngomhla we-18 kwaye lahlala usuku olunye kuphela, kwaye ngezinye iintsuku ndopha nje xa yenza i-pee kunye nentlungu ngokungathi yi-cytitis. Ukugqibela kwam ukulala ngesondo ngokungakhuselekanga kwakungoMgqibelo umhla we-13.Kutheni yahlala usuku olunye kuphela ukuba andinanto okanye ndenze nantoni na endingazange ndayenza ngaphambili?
Molo, umntu angandinceda, bendinobudlelwane ngomhla wokugqibela wam wokuya exesheni kwaye kwinyanga elandelayo bekushiyeke iintsuku ezi-3 kodwa xa kufika ixesha lam bekumdaka, bekungaqhelekanga kwaye bendineekram okanye uthunge esiswini, umntu unokunceda
Ndiyakuxelela ukuba ixesha lam lihlala lihlala iintsuku ezi-3 kodwa kulenyanga ihlale iintsuku ezi-2 kuphela ezazili-16 ne-17 zale nyanga izolo andisafumani nto kodwa namhlanje ndizise njengenkunkuma ebomvu, ndihamba nesicaphucaphu, iintlungu zentloko Kwixesha elidlulileyo ndifumene imithungo kwicala lasekhohlo lesisu sam kunye necramp elunyaweni lwasekunene ndihamba nomsele omncinci wokuhambisa amanzi. Oko akuzange kwenzeke kum!
Xa ndabelana ngesondo nenkosi yam uyabaphosa ngaphandle (iimpundu okanye umva) kodwa babendixelele ukuba ngaphambi kokuba bafike bayazilahla njengamanzi (andilazi igama) ukuba inokuzisa isidoda kwaye ingakwenza ukhulelwe.
Ngaba ndingakhulelwa?
Okokuqala, ENKOSI.
Hola
Ndinamathandabuzo amaninzi ukuba ndinazo zonke iimpawu.Ngentla, hayi indlela engaqhelekanga ngayo. !!
Kwanangaphambi kokuba kufike ixesha lam, kodwa ndafumana i-menses ngomhla we-17 emva kwemini kwaye nge-19 emva kwemini iyekile kwaye ukopha bekukuncinci kakhulu, bendikubona qho xa nditshintsha.Andizisebenzisanga iitamponi njengesiqhelo.
Kwaye iimpawu endisenazo sisicaphucaphu, ukuxinana kwempumlo, amabele abuthathaka kwaye Isisu sidumbile njani ndingatsho kuba bendingenayo ipanita kwaye ndiziva izikhonkwane neenaliti esiswini yinto eqhelekileyo le?
Okanye inoba ukhulelwe !!
Uvavanyo lokukhulelwa lunokuthenjwa nini?
Andizange ndibhale kwaye ukuba abazukuphendula, kungcono ndingayenzi. Enkosi
Molo, kwezi veki zimbalwa zidlulileyo bendiziva ndidiniwe kwaye ndilele kakhulu, ndizisa isitshisa yonke imini kwaye ngamanye amaxesha isicaphucaphu. Isisu sam siziva sidumbile, kunzima ukuba ndiphefumle kwaye andikwazi ukulala ngesisu. ixesha lam lafika kwinyanga ephelileyo. Kuyakuthi ndikhulelwe
Molo, molweni ekuseni, ndinexhala elincinci kuba bendijonge ukukhulelwa kwakhona iminyaka emibini, sele ndinentombazana eneminyaka eyi-7 kodwa ndifuna omnye umntwana, ke kudala ndizama ukukhulelwa kwaye khange ndikwazi, okwangoku ndineentsuku eziyi-2 emva kwexesha kwaye ndihlala ndihlala ndihlala rhoqo, ixesha lam lehla ngoMeyi 8 kwaye inguJuni 14 kwaye ayihli, ndikhokelela kubomi besondo obusebenzayo kunye iimpawu endinazo zininzi iintlungu esiswini sam kwaye isibeleko sam sasekunene siyandihlaba kakhulu, ndinokukhutshwa kwilungu lobufazi kwaye ngokuchasene nokuqunjelwa ndenza okuqhelekileyo .. Ndiyathemba ukuba ungaphendula umbuzo wam, enkosi, imibuliso.
Molo unjani?
Ndiyakuxelela ukuba ndinolibaziseko lweentsuku ezili-14 kwaye namhlanje, nge-24 kaJuni, ndifumana ukukhutshwa okumdaka ... zingaphelanga iintsuku ezili-14 ndinokubanda, ndinesicaphucaphu, imvakalelo yokuphelelwa ngamandla, ndiyakonyanya ukutya endikuthandayo, iinwele esilevini sam nasemabeleni, ngenxa yokuba sonke sinobudlelwane ngaphandle kokuzikhathalela, ndingomnye wenu.
Ndifuna ukubuza ukuba ngaba olu luphawu olungaqhelekanga lokukhulelwa.
Nceda, ndifuna ingcaciso yokuthandabuza kwam kuba ukubonisana nodokotela wezifo zabasetyhini akubizi mali ininzi kwaye abasebenzi ababizelweyo badiniwe balinde ukubonisana ...
Enkosi kwangaphambili kwaye ndilindele impendulo kumbuzo wam.
Ukubulisa 🙂
Uxolo ndiphawule ukuba ndifuna ukubeka i-23 kaJuni ke i-cyal namhlanje iwaka lokuxolisa.
Ukubulisa 🙂
Hola
Bendikhe ndaya exesheni kwiveki enesiqingatha eyadlulayo kwaye namhlanje lusuku lwam oluchumileyo mva nje ndinobuthongo obuninzi ndidumbile amabele kwaye andikwazi kumelana nentlungu kumqolo ongezantsi kwaye ngale ntsasa bendiphuma igazi kancinci yazi kwenzeka ntoni ndineminyaka emi-3 kunye neqabane lam kwaye khange sikhathalele kunokwenzeka ukuba ukhulelwe
Molweni, ndiyisusile i-IUD ngoJuni 4 kuba mna nomyeni wam sifuna ukunika umntana wam oneminyaka eyi-4 umntana wakowabo, siye salala iintsuku ezisibhozo ndinentlungu esinqeni, iintlungu ezincinci emabeleni nasezithungwini. amaqanda. Ngezinye iintsuku bendinxanwe kakhulu, ingaba kukuba sele ndikhulelwe? Okanye ngaba kusekuqaleni kakhulu ukuba ube? Ukukhulelwa kwam kokuqala kwandilimaza esinqeni njengesilumkiso sokuba ixesha lam liza kunye namabele am, kodwa kakhulu. Kungenxa yoko le nto ngoku iimpawu zahlukile kwaye yiyo loo nto ndingasazi nokuba kukukhulelwa okanye iimpawu zokuya exesheni kwam. Umntu angandiphendula. Enkosi
Molo, bendinobudlelwane kunye nesithandwa sam ngoMeyi 18 kwaye ukuya exesheni kwam kwenzeka ngoMeyi 24 kodwa kunqabile kwaye usuku olunye kuphela ludlulile ngoJuni 24 kwaye andikabikho kwaye ndineempawu ezingaqhelekanga kakhulu, bendinamaqhuqhuva am ulusu nam Iinyawo zam zibuhlungu ndiyolala emva kwemini kwaye isisu sam sibuhlungu kunye nokutya isidlo sangokuhlwa, intloko, kwaye kusasa ndigcina impumlo yam yomile kwaye ndilamba kakhulu.Kunoko, ndiziva ngathi ndiyagabha kwaye ndizokufa njani . Ndilindele iimpendulo zakho ukubona ukuba ndikhulelwe na… Enkosi ngenkxaso yakho kule ndawo
Molweni, ndiqala nje nge-naucia kunye neentloko kunye nokudinwa kancinci kwaye ndabelana ngesondo ngeentsuku zam zokuchuma kwaye andazi nokuba ndikhulelwe na. Kuya kufuneka ndiye ezantsi enye iveki kodwa ukusukela ekuseni ndiqale ukuze umntu andincede
Ndibambekile kancinci evekini ngomhla wama-24 umthetho wafika kum kwathi ngomhla wama-29 washiyeka emva koko ndalala nabantu endibathandana nabo ngaphandle kokulumka.Ndinesisu esibuhlungu iintsuku ezibangelwe kukufuna ukuba mncinci nokubi kunye nentloko eqinileyo kwaye andazi nokuba ndingakhulelwa na
Molo, igama lam ndinguGriselda .. Ndiyakuxelela ukuba kwiinyanga ezi-3 ezidlulileyo bendinombala omdaka ngombala wehla kwaye kwezi nyanga zintathu khange ndifumane ukuya exesheni kwam kubomvu njengoko bekufanele ukuba kunjalo .. ndiye ndehla. umbala wekhofi ohamba ngombala omdaka kwaye inyani kukuba andazi ukuba ndenze ntoni ndenza ii-3 tes kwaye yaphuma imbi
Molo, kanye kwinyanga ephelileyo bayisusile i-IUD yobhedu kuba ndifuna ukunika umntana wam umntana wakowethu, kulenyanga ndiphinde ndiphinde ndaya exesheni, kodwa ndiza kuhlala iintsuku ezisibhozo, ngoku ihlale iintsuku ezi-4, kufanelekile?
Molo, bendiziva ezinye iimpawu ezingaqhelekanga ezingakhange zenzeke kum ngaphambi kokuba ezinye ziyeke ukuya exesheni. Bebendinika iintlungu ezivela kwiindawo eziphakamileyo eziyinto eqhelekileyo emfazini kodwa njengeentsuku ezintathu abasandiniki zintlungu esiswini, kubonakala kuyinto engaqhelekanga kuba bendabelana ngesondo ngaphandle kokuzikhusela kodwa bendithatha ezinye iipilisi Izinto zokuthintela ukukhulelwa ndaphantse ndazigqiba kwaye njengoko benditshilo kwiintsuku ezintathu ezidlulileyo bayeka ukundinika iicramps kwaye ngoku iintlungu abandinika zona ziyadumba emabeleni nasezintlungwini yilento ndiyivayo xa kuzakufika ixesha lam kwaye nam Ndiziva ndidumbile esiswini sam xa ndisitya into nokuba kusekuseni, emva kwemini okanye nangaliphi na ixesha losuku, mva nje ndifuna ukuya kwigumbi lokuhlambela ndiyochama kwaye ndinokuxinana kwaye ndinokuxinana kwempumlo, ukuxinana kwempumlo I yitya iintsuku ezimbini, mvanje ndinaso nesokulala.Ndingayivuyela into yokuba ungandiphendula, ndifuna impendulo ngokungxamisekileyo ukuba ngaba bekukho iimpawu zokukhulelwa, zinqumle iipilisi zokucwangcisa :)
Molo ndiyathemba ukuba umntu undiphendule! Ndalala ngesondo ndingazihoyanga, ngengomso ndathatha intsasa emva kwepilisi! Ngosuku olulandelayo ndifumana i-gelatinous brown, kwiintsuku ezimbalwa emva koko ndabelana ngesondo ngaphandle kokuzihoya kwaye waphela kuyo, iintsuku ndineentlungu esiswini, ingxolo ekhitshini, isisu sam sibuhlungu, ndichama rhoqo, ndinayo livumba elibi! Andilambile kakhulu, ndiyoyika kakhulu, ndenze iimvavanyo ezi-5 kunye nazo zonke ezi-negative! Kwaye ndafumana ukukhutshwa okumhlophe, kwepasty, kwejelatin! Ngaba ukhona umntu onokundinceda? Ndiyacela!!! Enkosi!
Ndiziva ndidiniwe! Isisu sam siziva sidumbile, ndiziva ndisezantsi, amabele am abuhlungu, kukho umntu owaziyo? Ingaba izokhulelwa okanye izakuba yintoni? Kanye nge-29 ndibenethuba! Ndinexhala kakhulu .. Ngaba ukhona umntu owaziyo into? Ndiyacela! Abanye! izimvo! ENKOSI!!
Molo ndinoloyiko, ndalala nomntu endiza kutshata naye ngomhla wamashumi amabini anesibini kwinyanga yeSilimela ndaziva ndinesicaphucaphu.Ndenze uvavanyo lwaphuma lungekho. Emva koko ndaye ndalala ngoJulayi 22 kwaye andizange ndizive ndinesicaphucaphu kude kube emva kweveki umqolo wam ubuhlungu, isicaphucaphu, iintlungu kwilungu lobufazi, ngamanye amaxesha iintlungu zesinus ... Andifani ngexesha lam.
Umbuzo wam ngulo! Ngaba ndingakhulelwa?
Molo, bendine-rrelasuones kwaye kusafuneka ndifumane ixesha lokuvutha, kodwa isisu sam saziva singaqhelekanga njengoko xa ubambe kakhulu ukuya kwigumbi lokuhlambela kwaye lidumbile kwaye ndinayo negesi eninzi, umntu unako ndixelele ukuba le yenzekile kuye.
Ami ndafumana ixesha lam ngoJuni 29, ndiqinisekile, ndaye ndaphinda ndabuya ngoJulayi 2 kwaye ngoku ndinesiyezi esinesiyezi kwaye ndilala kakhulu, kuya kuba ngathi ndikhulelwe, ndiyoyika kakhulu, andikhathali Ngokwam nangalo naluphi na ucwangciso lwezinto kwaye ngoSeptemba 15 ndiphulukene nosana lwam lweenyanga ezisibhozo. Ndilindile kwaye uyandiphendula kwaye enkosi kakhulu kwangaphambili! 🙂
Molo igama lam ndinguMelisa ndiqala ukutyelela le ndawo. Kodwa iimpawu zam zezi zilandelayo ndinesilungulela kunye nesiyezi esincinci, ukutya endikuthandayo, sele ndinako, kwaye ngoku sendineentsuku ezimbini emva kwexesha andazi nokuba ndingakhulelwa ngamanye amaxesha ndinentlungu encinci kwilungu lobufazi, umntu angaxela mna ukuba ndikhulelwe
Molo! Ixesha lam ngoJuni yayiliveki phambi kwam, kwaye yayiziintsuku ezisi-7 zombala omdaka mnyama, kwaye ngoJulayi andilifumananga ibango lokuba ndinesicaphucaphu, ukuqaqanjelwa yintlungu, iintlungu phantsi kwesisu, amabele am abuhlungu ndaza ndanegypsy encinci neengono ngaphaya. Ngaba kuya kuba kukukhulelwa? Ndithathe uvavanyo yabuya ingenayo !!
Molo, ixesha lam alikho mgaqweni, ndize kwiintsuku ezi-5 kwaza kwali-4 emva kwexesha ndabuya bendinomlingane wam ngoJuni 29 kwaye sele inguJulayi 15 kwaye akukho xesha, ndineentlungu ezinyaweni, ukudinwa, iintlungu umva ongezantsi iintsuku ezi-2 kunye nokukhutshwa okumhlophe okumhlophe ngaphandle kwevumba. ingaba angamitha? Enkosi
Molo, ndinombuzo.Ndine-amenorrhea ephambili kodwa kwinyanga ephelileyo ndiye exesheni ngomhla we-10 nowe-11.
Kwaye ke malunga neveki bendineentlungu zesisu ezingaqhelekanga, bendilele ngathi ndiyadlala kwaye ngoku andikwazi ... andinakulala ecaleni kwam: / kwaye ziintlungu ezindinika iintlungu ngequbuliso nakweyiphi na ixesha losuku ... Iintlungu ngesiquphe ziyacaphukisa, andikwazi ukuwela imilenze yam kwaye kukho amavumba endandikade ndawathanda kwaye ngoku ayandonyanyisa ... Ndinokuba yintoni ukwazi ukuba ndikhulelwe okanye akunjalo
Molo, ndinombuzo.Ndine-amenorrhea ephambili kodwa kwinyanga ephelileyo ndiye exesheni ngomhla we-10 nowe-11.
Kwaye ke malunga neveki bendineentlungu zesisu ezingaqhelekanga, bendilele ngathi ndiyadlala kwaye ngoku andikwazi ... andinakulala ecaleni kwam: / kwaye ziintlungu ezindinika iintlungu ngequbuliso nakweyiphi na ixesha losuku ... Iintlungu ngesiquphe ziyacaphukisa, andikwazi ukuwela imilenze yam kwaye kukho amavumba endandikade ndawathanda kwaye ngoku ayandonyanyisa ... Ndinokuba yintoni ukwazi ukuba ndikhulelwe okanye akunjalo
Ndinexhala ngoJanuary ndakhupha isisu ngokuzenzekelayo ndaye ndalala nomyeni wam engasihoyanga nangoku andikayeki kwinyanga ephelileyo ixesha lam lokufika lafika ngomhla we-18 saza salalana ngeentsuku ezichumileyo kwaye ndifumana okuninzi I-nauceas, intloko ebuhlungu kunye nokudinwa, iintlungu kwi-vaja yinxalenye yesisu zinokutya i-wmbraada kuba iphupha lethu elibi linganceda
Molo, bendifuna ukukuxelela ukuba ndinobudlelane ngeentsuku zokugqibela zenyanga ephelileyo kwaye bendiphambi kweentsuku zam ezili-10 ngaphambili. Kwaye ngoku ndineentlungu ezininzi zomqolo kwaye ndihlala ndisiba ngathi yinkampu epanini. Kwaye iintlungu ezininzi. Ndizokhulelwa
Molo, unjani ,,, U-NAUSEAS AKANABUNZIMA KODWA ANDIZI UKUBA INGABE I-XQ NDINgena KWIMPAHLA ...
Molweni, kwinyanga ephelileyo ndaye ndazisela iipilisi ezine zokucwangcisa, ndazisela kwiminyaka emi-4 eyadlulayo, kwaye kule nyanga ndizithatha njengesiqhelo. Kwinyanga ephelileyo bendinosuku lwe-2 kuphela. Ngomso bekufanele ukuba ndifikile kodwa ndifumana ukuphuma okumdaka okumnyama namhlanje kwaye kucace gca, akukho kuphuma gazi, ndisiva iintlungu zesisu kangange veki, amabele andile kodwa awonzakali, ndiziva ndidiniwe kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ndilala, ngamanye amaxesha ukuqunjelwa, ndiziva Ndidumbile, nazo izandla zam zikhukhumele. Ndinexesha elibi kwaye ndikhathazekile kakhulu, andazi nokuba inokubangelwa luxinzelelo….
Molweni, ndiyazihoya ngenaliti kwaye iza kum kodwa kulenyanga ifike kum kwangamaxesha ama-3 kwaye eyokuqala ize kum usuku olunye kuphela kwaye ezinye zize ngeyure kwaye zafika kum njengombala omdaka kwaye ndine snot eninzi xa ndivuthela impumlo ngamanye amaxesha ndifumana igazi Kwaye ebusuku andikwazi ukulala kwaye isisu sam siyadumba, phantse zonke izinto endizenzileyo ziyenzeka kum, kodwa andikhulelwanga? Enkosi
Molo ngobusuku obuhle ndiye ndajika i-18 kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo
Umlingane wam kunye nam andikaze ndibenobudlelwane obupheleleyo bezesondo, kuphela wangena kum kwaye wandishiya, akuzange kufike njengoko besitsho kum
Kwaye, ndiyoyika kuba kwinyanga ephelileyo ixesha lam lokufika lafika kodwa lincinci kakhulu kwaye ndinokuhamba okuninzi kwaye kule nyanga inene ukuba ichanekile, ngoku ndifana nenyanga ephelileyo
Andazi ukuba ndenzeni kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ndisiya eyunivesithi
Jonga kwi-13 benze i-oparesheni kuba bendine-cyst enkulu kakhulu kwaye xa beyisusayo, isokethi ye-fallopian indonakalisile, bandixelele ukuba ndizakusokola ukufumana abantwana kuba kusetyenzwa umbhobho omnye kuphela.
Ndiyoyika
Bacinga ukuba ndingakhulelwa
Nanini na xa ixesha lam lifika ndandineegesi ezichazwe ngasentla kwaye ndandifakwe i-mega kwaye namhlanje akunjalo
Andazi ukuba ndenzeni, ndiyoyika kakhulu, ndicela undincede
Molo ndaye ndalala nentombazana endithandana nayo kodwa ikhondomu yaphuka ... kodwa wathi wayeziva ukuba uzokuba sexesheni kwaye akamthobanga, wayenemizwa kuphela emva koko wayeka ukuyiva, yintoni ube?
Sawubona uJosep, jonga ukuba wena nentombi yakho nibe nobudlelwane kunye neentsuku ezimbalwa ezisele ukuba sexesheni, akunakulindeleka ukuba ukhulelwe kuba kwiintsuku ezisi-7 ngaphambi kokuba sexesheni umfazi uyeke ukubamba ngoko ke ndicinga ukuba kungenxa yoxinzelelo olunganciphisi okanye kuba ulibaziseko njengayo nayiphi na enye kodwa icebiso lam kukuba ulinde iiveki ezi-2 kwaye wenze uvavanyo lokukhulelwa oluyigazi kuba iimvavanyo zasekhaya zihlala zitshintsha ngokulula kodwa khumbula ukulinda malunga neeveki ezi-2 kuba ukuba uyenzile phambi kovavanyo izakukunika ngoba akakayiboni kuba mncinci kakhulu ungakhathazeki kwaye chwayita, ndiyayazi ukuba ndithetha ngantoni kuba ndingumongikazi
Molo, jonga iinyanga eziyi-8 ezidlulileyo khange ndiphume kuba bendiceba iinyanga ezimbini ezidlulileyo ndiyekile ukucwangcisa kodwa ndihlala ndilindele ukuba ndehle kwaye ayikho enye into yokuba amabele am abuhlungu, andinika ikrampu kodwa sekuphele iminyaka eli-15 , ndiyakucela ndifuna ukukhulelwa kodwa akhonto abanokundixelela ukuba ndiyasela ukuze ndehle ngoba ndiyaqonda ukuba ngaphandle kwexesha andikhuphisi kwaye andikhulelwa….
Molweni, ndiyoyika kancinci ngoba ngenye imini bendinobudlelwane kwaye isithandwa sam siphele kum ngaphezulu kwamaxesha amathathu kwaye ingxaki yam ibikukuba khange ndiwubone umhla esikuwo kwaye iintsuku ezi-2 ezidlulileyo inaliti yokucwangcisa iphelile. siye salala emva kweeyure ezimbalwa ndaqala ukuziva ukuba ndiqalisiwe kwaye ukusuka esiswini nasesiswini kwaye ndandonyanyisiwe ngokungathi yonke into endiyityayo yahlala emqaleni wam kwaye ndaziva ndifuna ukugabha kuba kuyandikhathaza kuba andikakwazi ukwenza uvavanyo olunye lokukhulelwa. kuba kusekutsha kakhulu kodwa ukuba ndingathanda ukuba undinike uluvo lwakho nceda ndingayixabisa kakhulu
Molo, uxolo
Igama lam ndinguDani kwaye kuyacaca ukuba khange ndizinyamekele malunga nonyaka, mhlawumbi ngaphezulu ...
Ndifuna ukukhulelwa, kodwa ndiziva ngathi inyanga nenyanga ndiyadana.
Ngokukhawuleza ndilibaziseka kwaye ndiziva ndingalunganga kwaye ixesha lam lokuya liyehla kunzima kakhulu.Ngaba kungenzeka ukuba iqabane lam lenza uthando lube namandla kakhulu kum? Ngaba kungenxa yokuba bendihlala ndizitofa?
Kuya kufuneka ndiye exesheni ekupheleni kwenyanga, kodwa ndinentlungu kwicala lasekhohlo lesisu, ngaphezulu kwesinqe, amabele abuhlungu kancinci (kuyenzeka nakum ngokuya exesheni), ndixinekile, kakhulu ukuba kufuneka ndiphefumle ngomlomo wam (hayi ndinobanda) kwaye ndiziva ngathi ndichama rhoqo, kungenjalo isisu sam siziva sidumbile
ukuba nobudlelwane, ndiziva ndicinezelekile
Ndifanele ndivuye okanye hayi?
Molo, bendinemeko yokungqubana nenkwenkwe yam ... ndiyintombi enyulu, kodwa ngokwekhalenda yam bendikwimihla yam echumileyo ngoJulayi 4 noJulayi 5 ibilusuku apho kunokwenzeka khona ukuba ndikhulelwe, ixesha lam kufuneka liye ukwehla ngoJulayi 19 nangaphantsi kukaJulayi 17, phambi komhla ocwangcisiweyo ... ikhalenda yam ihlala isebenza ngomhla kuphela ngamanye amaxesha ifika emva kweentsuku ezimbini.Inqaku kukuba ngokwekhalenda yam ndibuyile kwiintsuku zam ezichumileyo kodwa Ndizive ndahlukile nge cramp kwinxalenye yam ye-pelvic, ukudinwa, isisu sidumbile kwaye izolo, nge-24 kaJulayi, ndaziva ndinentloko ebuhlungu kwaye ndaye ndaphola kabini ngaphandle kwamandla, ndaziva ndonyanyile ngathi sisisu esikhathazekile sisicaphucaphu, ngoLwesithathu wama-23 kulenyanga ndithathe ipilisi zokuthintela ukukhulelwa (EVITAL) kwaye ndaziva ndinesikrufu se-pelvic kwaye kufuneka ndiye kwigumbi lokuhlambela kwaye kwiintsuku ezi-3 bendiziva ezi mpawu. Ngaba ndingakhulelwa ngenxa ye-pre-cum yakhe xa wayekwindawo yam (V) ngexesha lolonwabo lwabo bobabini?
Nceda ulinde iimpendulo ezingxamisekileyo. Andazi ukuba iimpawu zam ziyinyithi kodwa ndiziva kwiveki emva kwentlanganiso kaJulayi 4.
Molo, ndiyisusile i-IUD ngoJuni 4 kwaye ndaba neentlobano zesini kwiintsuku zam ezichumileyo, kodwa ukuba ndinciphisa ixesha lam, into embi kukuba ihlala ihleli iintsuku eziyi-8 kwaye elo xesha landisika ngosuku lwesithandathu nolwesixhenxe kwaye yehla uye kweyesibhozo, Ukusuka apho kwakhona wayenobudlelwane ngokufanayo kwiintsuku zam zokuchuma, namhlanje bekufanele ukuba ndehlile kodwa okwangoku, ndineentlungu ezininzi emabeleni kodwa ngakumbi ekunene nakwiintsuku ngaphambi kokuba ndizive amaqanda, kutheni kunjalo? Ekugqibeleni ndiza kuphinda ndikhulelwe okanye hayi !!
Molo, ndalala ngesondo kwiintsuku ezingama-22 ezidlulileyo kwaye ndinayo ukusukela kule veki kodwa ngequbuliso iyandonyanyisa ndinerhasi eninzi kwaye isisu sam sinyukile ndiziva ndiziva ndithintekile amabele am abuhlungu kakhulu ndingakhulelwa kwaye mva nje ukukhutshwa okuninzi kakhulu kwaye kuyabonakala
xfa ndincede, andazi ukuba ndenza ntoni, ndineminyaka eli-18 kuphela, ndiyoyika ukuthetha ngayo kwaye ndixelele umama ngento eyenzekayo kum
molo kufuneka ndazi ukuba ndikhulelwe kodwa sele kukufuphi! Kwinyanga enesiqingatha ndizive ndidiniwe, ndicaphuka, ndinesiyezi esincinci, ndinayo negesi eninzi, kwaye kwiintsuku ezimbini ezidlulileyo amabele am aqale ukuba buhlungu emazantsi, iintlungu sele zinyamalele, isiqingatha Kwinyanga ephelileyo ndandisele ndikrokrela ukuba ndikhulelwe, nangona kunjalo, ndaye ndaya exesheni, nangona kwakusoloko kubuhlungu kusuku lokuqala, ngeli xesha kwakubuhlungu lonke ixesha kwaye yayiziintsuku ezi-5, umbala oqhelekileyo, isisu sam sidumbile kancinci! Nceda undincede!
Mholweni. Ewe ndiyakuxelela, bendihleli neqabane lam iinyanga ezintathu. Kwaye iinyanga ezi-3 zizama ukukhulelwa. Ndihlala ndishiywe ziintsuku ezimbini ukuya kwezine. Ngoku ndifike emva kweentsuku ezi-6. Kodwa zonke iimpawu. Ukuba nesiyezi, intloko ebuhlungu, ukulila, ukungonwabisi, andilambanga, ndinesicaphucaphu, andikwazi ukulala ngesisu kuba amabele am abuhlungu. Ndipompe kanye kuphela nge-3 am. Mna nomyeni wam sifuna umntwana kakhulu. Kodwa ndiyoyika ukukhohlisa kwakhona. Ndincede.
Molo mantombazana, ewe, ndiyakuxelela, bendilala kunye nesithandwa sam kwiintsuku zam ezichumileyo kwaye ndangena ngaphakathi ngaphakathi ndinolibaziseko lweentsuku ze-10 kwaye ndehla ngaphantsi kwesiqhelo kwaye eli xesha yayiliveki phambi kwam kwaye ngokufanayo ndehle kancinci kakhulu kwaye la maxesha mabini ndiphantsi ngaphandle kwentlungu yokuya exesheni (ixesha lam lithatha iintsuku ezi-6 kwaye ndifumana iicramps ezininzi kwaye ndihlala ndihlala ndikhona) ndicela undincede ndizokhulelwa
Ukwazi ukuba umntu angandinceda na ndineentsuku ezili-13 emva kwexesha amabele am avutha, ndiya kwigumbi lokuhlambela rhoqo, ndihlala ndiziva ndidiniwe ndingafuni kwenza nto, kodwa ndenze iimvavanyo ezi-2 zokukhulelwa kwaye ezi-2 zazingalunganga, ke Andazi ndineminyaka eli-16 ubudala kwaye ndinoloyiko loncedo
Ngenyanga kaJulayi, eyokugqibela neka-Agasti, namhlanje ndiye ndanesiyezi esomeleleyo ngokungathi ndizokufa isiqaqa kwaye sikhatshwa seso isicaphucaphu kwaye ndiyagabha ukuba andazi ukuba yintoni kanye kanye, ndingakhulelwa okanye yintoni Kwaye siyifuna ngokwenene iqabane lam kunye nam
Molweni mantombazana, jongani, andazi ukuba ndikhulelwe na okanye hayi kuba iintsuku ezi-3 emva kokuba bandibekele ibhetri, ndaba nobudlelwane kwaye wangena ngaphandle ndathambisa iminwe yam ndadlula apho, kuyakubakho apho ngamathuba okukhulelwa
Molo, ndingathanda ukuba uwususe lo mbuzo NGOKU. ! Ndishiywe liintsuku eziyi-9, bekufanele ukuba ndifike nge-26, ndenza uvavanyo lwasekhaya lwaphuma lungelulo. Ndalala ngo-3/8, ngaba kungenzeka ukuba oku kuvavanye ukungabi nam? Ndiqhelekile kwaye kuyandikhathaza! Umntu andinike impendulo nceda!
Molweni mantombazana amnandi emva kwemini!
Ndiziva ndixakekile mva nje.
Ndiye ndalala ngesithandwa sam ngaphandle kokukhuselwa. Indlela yethu iphazanyiswa kukulalana.
Kwaye kwinyanga ephelileyo ndaye ndangena ngaphakathi ngaphakathi kwam kodwa ixesha lam lafika ngesiqhelo, ngoku ndiziva ndingaqhelekanga ngomzimba wam bandinike amanqindi kumazantsi esisu kwicala lasekhohlo kwaye ndiye ndaya ezantsi ukuba bendinomvandedwa kwaye isisu sam sikhule Bandixelele ukuba ndinenyanga ezingaphi ndikhulelwe, bade bandixelela ukuba babale ezi-3 kodwa andazi ukuba bendisaya nini kwaye elandelayo izezintsuku ezi-4. Ndiyoyika kakhulu kwaye ndibhidekile
Ngaba umntu angandixelela ukuba ndingakhulelwa?
Mvakwemini emnandi nakulabo balindayo bby HALALISANI !!
Molweni nonke!!! Ndingathanda uluvo oluvela kuni mantombazana kwaye nindincede kancinci ukuba ndiphume ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo. Kuyavela ukuba bendikunye neqabane lam ngoJulayi 21 ngaphandle kokukhuselwa kwaye kwangolo suku ndayeka ukuya exesheni, iqabane lam lacinga ukuba bendisekho ngeentsuku zam ngoko ke ndiphume ngaphakathi kum. Ngaphezulu kweveki bendineempawu ezingaqhelekanga kwaye ndiziva ngokwahlukileyo, kulungile apha ndikuxelela iimpawu zam, ndiqale ngezikratshi ezimbi, iigesi ezininzi kunye neeruts, ndiziva ndibanda kwaye ndidiniwe kakhulu, ndingenamoya, yonke ixesha lokutya into ndinemvakalelo yokugcwala kwaye bandinika ukuphazamiseka kwesisu. Ndiphinde ndazimanzise ipanty yam njengokuba ndikhe ndazichamela. Ndinovalo kakhulu kwaye ndinxanelwe ukwazi ukuba ndikhulelwe. Eyona nto inomdla yayikukuba kwiintsuku ezisibhozo emva kokuba ndabelana ngesondo, ndahamba ndathenga uvavanyo ndaza ndenza uvavanyo, kwaye uvavanyo lwabuya lubi kodwa kwimizuzu engephi ndaphinda ndakhangela kwaye ndaba nomgca ococekileyo ongenakubona. Ndiyazi ukuba kwakusekutsha kakhulu kodwa ndaphinda ndaphinda ndenza into enye, kuqala into engalunganga emva koko ilayini encinci. Andazi, mhlawumbi uvavanyo belungalunganga okanye ibingumtya womphunga, bendingafuni ukufumana ithemba lam kodwa ke andilungelanga ngaphakathi kwam ukwazi, ixesha lam kufuneka lifike nge-15 ka-Agasti kodwa Ndinoxinzelelo olukhulu kwaye ndinovalo ngaxeshanye ukuze ndazi ukuba ndiza kuba nosana okanye hayi. Nceda mantombazana, ukuba kukho nabani na kuni ofumene into efanayo, ndicela undinike izimvo kunye nezimvo zakho, ndingazixabisa kwangaphambili ngexesha lakho, ukuvuyisana okuninzi kwabo balindileyo bb !!! Mva kwemini emnandi
Molo Yanet, ngokubhekisele kuvavanyo lokukhulelwa, imigca emibini ihlala ilungile ngaphandle kombala ... kum kukuba xa ukhulelwe!
Enkosi Melii, ndiyathemba njalo, ndiza kukuxelela kwiintsuku ezili-10, ndiyathemba njalo !!!?
Molo ntombazana, ndinguYessica! Ndikweli phepha ndinengxaki encinci kwaye ndingathanda uncedo lwakho, ndiyakuxelela ukuba ndinamaxesha angaqhelekanga kodwa ngaphandle kwam beza inyanga nenyanga kodwa ndishiywe liiveki ezili-10 kwaye iyandothusa ngoba bendiqhele ukuza qho ngenyanga Andinampawu kodwa kwiiveki ezimbini ezidlulileyo ndiqale ukuva iintlungu kancinci esiswini emilenzeni kwaye kancinci kancinci ndenze uvavanyo lokukhulelwa phantse kwinyanga ezimbini kwaye yaphuma imbi kwaye ixesha alikafiki
Molo, ndinguMia waseSan Juan eArgentina.Ndinabantwana aba-3 abahle, amantombazana ama-2 kunye nenkwenkwe enye, kwaye sele zinyanga ezi-1 oko ndaphulukana nokukhulelwa kweenyanga ezi-7 kwaye bendizakuba mfutshane ukuba ndibone usana lwam olutsha kodwa Khange ndikwazi ukuba ... ngoku ndiye ndafumanisa ukuba ndineeveki ezi-4 ndikhulelwe kwaye ndonwabile kodwa kwangaxeshanye ndiyoyika kakhulu kuba eyam ibikukuqhomfa okuzenzekelayo kwaye ndiyeke ndabuhlungu kakhulu ngokufanayo ndingathanda ukunika isiqwenga seengcebiso ukuze ndibone ukuba ungalahlekelwa njani lolu sana luhle bendiluphethe ngaphakathi kwam ukusukela Enkosi kakhulu… i-imeyile yam yile mialuisa10@gmail.com Niyanibona nonke ngokwanga nangethamsanqa… ..
Molo, ndinguSabrina de Rosario, eArgentina!. Ndinentombazana entle eneenyanga ezisixhenxe ubudala kwaye ndamfumana ngecandelo lokuhlinzwa. Kodwa kwiintsuku ezili-7 ezidlulileyo bendikhe ndalala nomyeni wam kodwa khange ndiphelele ngaphakathi kwaye ukusukela kwiintsuku ezi-10 ezidlulileyo bendihamba ngokuhamba okumdaka kwaye ndinentlungu kwi-ovari yam.Ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba ndingamitha na? enkosi kakhulu ukwanga
Molo, mva kwemini entle. Ndineminyaka engama-26 ubudala, kwaye kangangenyanga ndiyekile ukusebenzisa iipilisi zokuthintela inzala emva kweminyaka esibhozo. Kulenyanga bendinokuphuma kumdaka ngombala omdaka ngombala opinki, kwaye ayisiyonto iqhelekileyo leyo kum, bendineentlungu ezininzi zomqolo, kwaye ndinentloko ebuhlungu. Ngaba kukukhulelwa? Kwiinyanga ezimbini ezidlulileyo bendikhe ndakhangela i-gynecologist yam kwaye yonke into yayingaphezulu kokulungileyo! Iimpendulo nceda !!!
Molo, ndinguMaria, bendinobudlelwane nesoka lam ngoJulayi 18,19,20 kwaye ixesha lam lafika ngomhla we-24, kwaye kwezi ntsuku ndiziva ndinentloko eninzi, nokoma empumlweni, nase Umqala, kunye neentlungu emanqeni kunye nokungonwabi kuya kubakho ukuba kukho umngcipheko wokukhulelwa nceda umntu `` eyenzeke le nto ''
Molo Maria, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba uzive ezi mpawu, zihlala zisenzeka kum xa ndikwithuba lokuya exesheni nasemva kokuba ndiye exesheni, nokuba sele wehlile, awunakukhathazeka, khumbula ukuba kuzo zombini ezi meko, nokuba hayi okanye hayi ukhulelwe, iimpawu ziphantse zafana, nokuba ufuna ukuphuma ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo ndicebisa uvavanyo lwegazi ngokuchaneka ngakumbi, ngethamsanqa !!!!
Molo, ndinombuzo, bendikhe ndabelana ngesondo kwiinyanga ezintathu ezidlulileyo, kodwa khange ndisebenzise nayiphi na indlela yothintelo kwinyanga yokuqala, bendinesicaphucaphu ndaye ndenza iimvavanyo ezintathu zokukhulelwa, zontathu zazingalunganga kwaye zilungile, andinawo iimpawu, kodwa kwezi zinyanga zintathu kuphela kuye kwawa into enye okanye ezimbini.iintsuku kwaye kukukhutshwa okumdaka kunye negazi elincinci ngesiquphe bandinika njengohlobo lweekram zangaphantsi kwesisu kwaye mva nje kwezi ntsuku ndiye ndanezicaphucaphu kodwa ndiphakathi kakhulu kwaye ndinesiyezi Andazi ukuba ndingalwenza olunye uvavanyo
Ungandinceda ukusombulula umbuzo wam?
Enkosi !
Nceda undincede !! Andazi ngenzenjani kwaye andizithembi nokuxelela nabani na ukuba ndineminyaka eli-15 ubudala kwaye ndiyoyika ukukhulelwa
Molo, andazi nokuba ndikhulelwe na, ndabelana ngesondo ngeentsuku zam zokuchuma, kodwa kulenyanga ndizive ndidiniwe kakhulu yintloko, ndinesicaphucaphu, ndifuna ukungqengqa imini yonke
Ndikhuphe kakhulu kwaye ndimhlophe kakhulu
Kwakhona iintlungu zesisu zihlala zomelele
Ndifanele ukwehla ngomso bacinga ukuba ndingathatha uvavanyo lokukhulelwa okanye hayi okanye ndilinde ixesha elingakanani inyani endirhalela ukuyazi
Molo, igama lam ndinguNicole kwinyanga ephelileyo kunye neeveki ezi-1 ezidlulileyo ndiyekile ukuzikhathalela kwaye kwiiveki ezi-3 ezidlulileyo ndiye ndakhutshwa ngombala omdaka kodwa xa ndandineeveki ezi-6 ubudala akukho nto iyehla, kuphela kukhutshwa okucacileyo okumhlophe ndicinga ukuba ndingakhulelwa kuba xa ndikhutshelwa emdaka ngokuya ndandisiya egazini, khange ndifumane xesha lam, eyona nto yayisihla ngokuqhubekayo yayikukukhutshwa okumdaka. Nceda undincede
Molweni, ninjani ixesha lam lonke ukufika kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo, kwaye into eqhelekileyo kum kukuba ziintsuku ezi-4 kodwa kule nyanga ifike ngo-3 kuye ku-4 ngaphandle kokudyobheka nangama-5 kodwa kucacile ukuba ndineentlungu raviar ndilinde uvavanyo lokukhulelwa endiluthengayo andazi ukuba ndicinga ntoni ndizama ukukhulelwa malunga neenyanga ezisixhenxe kwaye akukho nto ukuba kukho into enokuthabatha amathandabuzo am kancinci enkosi
Ewe, andikaze ndilale ndidiniwe, ndifika nje ebhedini yam ndize ndinqamule emhlabeni, isicaphucaphu, kwaye loo mnqweno wokuya kwindlu yangasese ngeyure enesiqingatha, namhlanje ndiye kwigumbi lokuhlambela amaxesha amathathu , Ndinesiyezi kwaye namhlanje ndimbambe Ndonyanya isicefe: / Andazi nokuba ndikhulelwe, andikalwenzi uvavanyo, ndiyoyika isiphumo
Molo, ndabelana ngesondo kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokuba ndiye exesheni, endingazange ndafumana, ngoku, kulungile, bendikunye ne-ascos iintsuku ezintathu, ibinguJulayi 5 no-6 lo, bendabelana ngesondo kwaye ndinentlungu esiswini sam ukuba ibikhona.Thoba zonke iimpawu endinazo nyani.Ndiyonyanya kwaye ndisozela, amabele am awonzakali okanye nantoni na, sisisu sam kuphela esinokuncediswa mntu !!!
Molo, ndincede, baton… .. Ndifana nolwelo olungqindilili oluvela kumalungu am, ingathi yincindi kodwa isisu sam sidumba simhlophe kwaye siba nzima, ndifumana irhasi eninzi ixesha elide kwigumbi lokuhlambela nobabini (: kodwa andazi ukuba ndisela amanzi amaninzi, kanye xa ndigabhe kathathu ngoku ndiziva ndigula, andinabuthongo ... ndilambile kakhulu, sele ndenze uvavanyo kodwa andenzi khumbula ... andikhumbuli ukuba ixesha lam lokugqibela lalinini, ndizikhathalela ngeepilisi eziphindwe kabini endizilibeleyo ukuzisela ngexesha endiqhele ukuzisela emva kweeyure ezi-3…. ndingenanto, izakuba yinto eyenzekayo kum, ndicela undincede, andazi nokuba ndikhulelwe mhlawumbi, ndinamacala amabini kwaye ndiziva iimpawu ezithile njengokukhulelwa kokuqala kodwa andazi ukuba ndikhona, ndincede owam wokuqala ukukhulelwa, isisu sam sasidumbe kakhulu kwaye ndaziva ndigula kwaye ndinesicaphucaphu kodwa ngoku andazi ukuba ndi ... ndineentsuku ezisi-4 ndingabinabudlelwane nomyeni wam kuba usebenza ngaphandle kodwa andinakukhulelwa…. Nceda uncede
Molweni mantombazana,
Ndiyakuxelela ukuba nge-14 ka-Agasti ndandinobudlelwane obungena ngaphakathi kwaye namhlanje iintsuku zam ezichumileyo ziqala. Mva nje ndiziva ndibuthathaka, ndinomoya ophefumlayo kwaye ndiziva ngathi ndingonwabanga kwangaphambi kokuba ndiye exesheni nangona ixesha lam linganyanzelekanga ukuba lifike ngeli xesha.
Ucinga ndikhulelwe?
Molweni mantombazana ... imeko yam yile: kwinyanga ephelileyo bendinolwalamano nesoka lam kunye ne-ava ngeentsuku zam zokuchuma kwaye waphela ngaphakathi ngosuku olulandelayo ndasela ipilisi yosuku olulandelayo kodwa ngaphambi koko, malunga nenyanga edlulileyo ndandisele ndiyithathile, into engaqhelekanga isk Ngeentsuku ze-13 ndehlile kodwa kuqala usuku lonke umbala omdaka kunye nokuhamba okuninzi kwaye ngosuku olulandelayo lwafika kum ngesiqhelo lwaluhlala iintsuku ezintathu ... ngaphambi kokuba i-km ifike ixesha endandiziva ngalo Nditshatile, ndine-naueseas ndide ndigabhe ngamanye amaxesha, bendiziva ndinomsindo pz ifikile ixesha lam kwaye kude kube namhlanje ndiziva ndinempawu ezifanayo kwaye ndifumana ilaphu ebusweni, ndidlamkile kwaye ndiyaxoka kubo kodwa mna Ndiva ukuba ikhona into endivotelayo esiswini sam, ndinazo zonke iimpawu zokumitha kodwa ndilibazise hayi ... ndizokhulelwa? ndiphendule ndinqwenela ukuqala kwam umsebenzi wobungcali kwaye ndifuna ukwazi!
Molweni mantombazana ... imeko yam yile: kwinyanga ephelileyo ndaye ndalala kunye ne-boyfriend yam kunye neentsuku zam zokuchuma kwaye waphela ngaphakathi ngosuku olulandelayo ndasela ipilisi yosuku olulandelayo kodwa ngaphambili malunga nenyanga kwaye ndaye ndathatha i-avia, into engaqhelekanga isk Ngeentsuku ze-13 ndehlile kodwa kuqala usuku lonke umbala omdaka kunye nokuhamba okuninzi kwaye ngosuku olulandelayo lwafika kum ngesiqhelo lwaluhlala iintsuku ezi-3 ... ngaphambi kokuba i-km ifike ixesha endiziva nditshatile ngalo, I-naueseas ndaze ndagabha ngamanye amaxesha, ndaziva ndicaphuka ipz yam yafika ixesha kwaye kude kube namhlanje ndiziva ndinempawu ezifanayo kwaye ndifumana ilaphu ebusweni, ndidlamkile kwaye ndiyaxoka kubo kodwa ndiziva ngathi ikhona into kundivotela esiswini sam, ndinazo zonke iimpawu zokumitha kodwa ndilibazise hayi ... ndizobe ndikhulelwe? Kuyangxamiseka ukwazi !!
Ndineentlungu kwizibeleko phantse yonke imihla kwaye ngalo lonke ixesha ndabelana ngesondo ndopha kancinci kodwa izolo ukuba bendisoyika kutheni ndilala nje ndopha kakhulu
Molweni mantombazana, inyani kukuba zimbini kuphela ezo mpawu? Andinayo kodwa andazi ukuba ndenze ntoni kuba ndikwiintsuku ezingama-35 kwaye andikayi exesheni !! Kwaye ndinengxaki ye-thyroid! Iyandibhida ke leyo!
Molo, andazi ukuba ungandinceda kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo ndiyekile ukuya exesheni, umzekelo ndiye ndehla ngoFebruwari kwaye khange siphinde sehle kude kube ngoku ngoJuni kodwa ngoJuni ndehle kabini kwakokuqala kwaye enye yokugqibela kunye nexesha ngoJulayi akukho nto kwaye akukho nto ngo-Agasti kodwa ndin phantse inyanga ndinentlungu yamabele okanye ukuthamba kwaye ndiziva isisu sam sidumbile ngamanye amaxesha andikwazi nokulala ndiye ndiye kwigumbi lokuhlambela rhoqo kodwa andiyenzi ' t yazi ukuba kungenxa yokuba ndisela amanzi amaninzi sele ndifumana iimvavanyo zokukhulelwa kwaye akukho nto. Ndineentshukumo ezininzi kwisisu esisezantsi. Yintoni endinokuyazi? Ndincede!!!!!!
Molo, ndabelana ngesondo ngeentsuku zam zokuchuma, kanye ngala mini bekufanele ukuba ndiyikhuphe, ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba kukho ithuba lokukhulelwa okuhle okoko mna nomyeni wam besikhangela iicyst ngaphambili kodwa ndashiywa ngamayeza athile kwaye ndaye ndathatha i-clomiphene yoNcedo lwe-ovulation nceda umntu andincede ndixhalabile kakhulu ukwazi ukuba ndikhulelwe andinakulinda de kufike ixesha lam endinethemba lokuba kuThixo alifiki.
Molweni mantombazana angandinceda umntu ondicaphukisile ndineentsuku ezili-17 ndifikile ngomhla wamashumi amabini anesibini ndifumana igazi andazi nokuba ndikhulelwe na kodwa ndineempawu ezininzi
Ukuba ubunegazi elincinci, inokuba ibiyinto yokumiliselwa ngenxa yokulibaziseka kwexesha (ukukhulelwa okunokwenzeka), kodwa ukuba ubunesiqhelo, ungakhathazeki, ibilulibaziseko nje olude.
Molo ngokuhlwa
Ndinombuzo kwaye kukuba ixesha lam lokugqibela lalingo-Agasti 4 kude kube nge-7 kwaye ndaba neentlobano zesini ngomhla we-14 usuku lwam lokuqala lokuchuma mva nje ndaziva ndidiniwe kwaye ndifuna ngokwenene ukuchama ixesha lam kufuneka lifike ngoSeptemba 2 iyakuba ukuba kukukhathazeka okanye cha
Molweni ... ndinolwalamano iintsuku ezintathu ngoku, ndisela iipilisi zemihla ngemihla kwaye andizisebenzisi ngokukhawuleza, izolo ndinentlungu ebuhlungu esiswini sam, kuba bendilila kunokuba ndibandezeleke kwaye ezo ntlungu azivelanga ndawo .. kungakanani okulindelweyo ukuba ndenze uvavanyo?
Mholo. Ndandinobudlelwane iintsuku ezili-12. Kamva. Ukuphela kwexesha lokuya esikhathini kunokwenzeka. Q. ukhulelwe?
Molo, ndifikelwe ziiveki ezi-2 emva kwexesha kodwa ndiye ndaneeveki ezi-3 ndinempawu ezingaqhelekanga ukudumba kwesisu kubonakala ngathi ndityile kakhulu kwaye uziva ugcwele ... Amabele am ayonwabanga kodwa awonzakalisi, ndine isicaphucaphu kwaye ngamanye amaxesha iintlungu zentloko kwaye ndozela kakhulu. Ndithathe iimvavanyo ezimbini zokukhulelwa, enye yaphuma ingenayo kodwa ecaleni kwayo bekukho i-hairline evulekileyo engabonakaliyo, kunzima kakhulu ukuyibona ngeveki ndiphinda uvavanyo kwaye yaphuma imbi kwaye andisaboni naluphina unwele ... Kodwa ngaba ndisazokhulelwa? … Ngaba uvavanyo lokukhulelwa aluphumelelanga?
Molo Alicia! Lindela iveki kwaye uphinde uvavanyo. Ndiyabulisa!
Molo mvakwemini, mtsha kule nto, nge-10 ka-Agasti bendikunye neqabane lam, bendisebenzisa ukhuseleko, siqwalasele yonke into ilungile, ixesha lam lokugqibela belingoJulayi 24 kwaye sele ikho ngoJulayi 26 yayisusa, oko kuthetha ukuthatha iiakhawunti kwaye yonke enye into kukuba i-ovulation yam ibinokuba nge-9 ka-Agasti, ngoku ukuya exesheni kufanele ukuba kufike iintsuku ezi-2 ezidlulileyo, khange ndibenazo naziphi na iimpawu ndinobuncinane bokuphuma kwilungu lobufazi kodwa ndingenavumba, bendihlala ndinengxaki yokuya exesheni Oko kukuthi, andiqhelekanga okanye ndilungile de ndaqala ukuthatha iipilisi zehomoni ezibizwa ngokuba yi-noal kunye nazo bendihlala ndifumana phantse usuku olufanayo nepilisi yokugqibela, ngoku ngoku ndiyekayo ukuzithatha kuba zazenzelwe unyango lweenyanga ezi-6 kwaye Ndibashiyile sele phantse iinyanga ezi-2 ndicinga ukuba ingxaki yokungahambi kakuhle kwezinto isekhona. Ndiyathemba? Ngaba ndenza uvavanyo? Okanye ndiphumle nje kuba, njengoko benditshilo kuwe, sobabini siyijongile ikhondom kwaye ayilunganga, khange kuphume nto. Ndiyabulela kakhulu kwangaphambili.
Molo, mva kwemini, andiqinisekanga ukuba ikukukhulelwa na ndinexhala noko, kwenzeka ntoni kum kukuba ndineentlungu kwisinqe kwicala lasekunene kwaye kuphela loo ndawo idumbileyo, le ntlungu yehlele emlenzeni wam xa Ndiyichukumise ingathi yinto yokubetha kanye. Ukuba sexesheni kwam okokugqibela ibiyinyanga ephelileyo kwaye ndiye ndathatha uthintelo lokuthintela ukukhulelwa okungxamisekileyo iinyanga ezi-2 kwaye andazi ukuba oko kuye kwenza ukuphambana. Sele ziintsuku ezili-10 okoko kufike ixesha lam. Ngaba kukukhulelwa?
Molweni mantombazana, ndiza kunixelela ukuba ndiye kugqirha wam wezifo zabasetyhini kuba ndandineentlungu kwizibeleko zam ezinjengothungelwano kunye nokudumba kwaye amabele am adumbile kwaye ekhupha okucacileyo ngaphandle kwevumba kwaye ixesha lam alizange linciphise ugqirha wandixelela ukuba sisifo ke amayeza sele evekini ndiyaphuma exesheni eliqhelekileyo ndithi yiya kugqirha wezifo zabasetyhini ukuze ususe ukungathandabuzeki kwakho kwaye ukuba kukukhulelwa ukuze bakunike iivithamini kwaye imibuliso ye-xd
Kwenzeka into efanayo kum nguJaneth, ndinokufika emva kweeveki ezi-2, iimvavanyo ezi-3 ezimbi kwaye enye bendingazi ukuba yintoni kuba iphume ecaleni kolusu olukhanyayo kodwa ibingabonakali ncam namhlanje izintso zam zibuhlungu kakhulu amaqanda am amaxesha ngamaxesha ndaya kwigumbi likaxakeka Bandenza uvavanyo lomchamo ukukhusela ukukhulelwa kwaye bandixelela ukuba iyakuba sisifo somchamo se-cystitis ... Kuba andiyeki ukuchama qho emva kwesibini ... Bathumele iimvulophu ukuba ndithathe enye namhlanje ngomso kwaye ndicinge ukuba kuya kufuneka ndiye ezantsi xa ndiphilisiwe.Kunokubonakala ukuba ekubeni nam ndingaqhelekanga kwaye ndinentsholongwane, iyalibazisa ixesha lam ngaphezulu ... ndiza kuyithatha Ndiyabona ukuba ayisihli, ndiza kubuyela kwagqirha ndiye kubona ... Bayeke benze iimvavanyo ezingaphezulu ... Into endiyiyo ngoku ngumgca nje ukuba akunjalo Sisifo kunye nencindi yedlala efumanisa ukukhulelwa. ungaphumi ... njengoko ndifundile iimeko ezininzi kuba andisazi ... Masibone ukuba kuhamba njani.
amathamsanqa alicia ndiyathemba ukuba niyabulisa!
Isithandwa sam kunye nam sazama ukulala ngeveki ephelileyo kodwa khange senze njalo, ndichukumisa nje ubufazi bam kunye nelungu lakhe kwaye ndinoloyiko oluncinci kuba andikayi exesheni, ingaba kukumitha okanye yintoni?
Molo zinjani izinto? Igama lam ndinguMacarena ndinombuzo, weza kum nge-11/8 kwaye wemka nge-18/8 kwaye kwangolo suku lunye, ndaphantse ndaba li-19/8 lobudlelwane. Endikhathalele kuyo ukuthandabuza kwam kukuba, iintsuku eziqhelekileyo zaye zafika kum njengenyanga nenyanga, kodwa into engaqhelekanga kukuba iintsuku ezi-4 zidlulile kwaye ukopha nokuhamba kwam kwehla kwakhona, andinazimpawu, kuphela yinxalenye amaqanda abuhlungu ndopha.
Molo zinjani izinto ?! Andithandabuzi ..
Ukusukela ngoMeyi andizukuhla, kwinyanga elandelayo! (EyeSilimela) ndiyehla kodwa nditya into engamanzi emdaka, kodwa kuncinci kakhulu, ngoJulayi khange ndibenazimpawu zohlobo lokukhulelwa, malunga neveki okanye nangaphezulu ndiye ndaqala intloko ebuhlungu ... Intlungu ibendikhubekisile, kodwa ukuba uyiphawule njani, ndiye emtshatweni kwaye inyonga yam yaqala ukwenzakalisa into engaqhelekanga kuba ayenzeki kum, nangona kunjalo ngaphezulu kweeyure ezili-10 ndihleli khange kwenzeke kum, kwezi veki zidlulileyo isisu sam siyadumba, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kubuhlungu kancinci ... andazi ngenene ukuba kutheni, ndicela undincede ndimncinci!
Molo, Angela, ukuba awuzange ube nolwalamano ngokwesondo kwaye unale ngxaki, unokwenza into enxulumene nee-cysts kwizibeleko, usulelo okanye enye ingxaki efanayo ... kwaye ukuba umncinci, amaxesha amaninzi ukuqala kwethu ukuba sexesheni kuhlala kukho iingxaki ezinokukuhlisa inyanga uyeke ukwehla kwi-3 okanye kunjalo kungenxa yokuba isingqisho sakho siyahlengahlengiswa kodwa ndicebisa ukuba uye kugqirha wamazinyo ukuze uphume ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, amathamsanqa Sihlobo, khathalela!
Molo Goodnight. Ndinombuzo kwaye ndiyakucela ndingathanda ukuba undincede ukusombulula, kwiiveki ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo ndalala ngesondo nokhuselo, ixesha lam belifanele ukufika ngeli xesha kodwa akukho nto, ndibonisa rhoqo isisu esibuhlungu kodwa kuphela . Oku sele kwenzekile kum ukuba ayide ifike kwinyanga e-1 okanye kwiinyanga ezi-2 kamva, kuba ixesha lam alikho mgaqweni. Kodwa bendifuna ukwazi uba kungenzeka ukuba ukhulelwe okanye kuqhelekile? Ndiyoyika kakhulu
Molo Dey, ukuba usebenzise ukhuseleko, akunakulindeleka ukuba ibe kukukhulelwa kwaye ukuba awukho mgaqweni, kuqhelekile ukuba ungalahli i-1 okanye iinyanga ezi-2 kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba ngenxa yehomoni unentlungu ethile. Ndiyakuxelela ukuba andilunganga kwaye khange ndiye ezantsi kude kube ziinyanga ze-6 kwaye okwangoku isinqe sam sibuhlungu, iintlungu zebele, iintlungu ze-ovari, njl. ndahamba nogqirha wam wezifo zabasetyhini wandinceda ngenaliti eza kwehla inyanga nenyanga kwaye ngoku ndiziva ndibhetele, ndiyabulisa mfondini kwaye ukuba uneempawu ezingaphezulu, yiya kugqirha wakho, ithamsanqa! 🙂
Molo, lala kakuhle, ndineminyaka eli-19 ubudala kwaye bendifuna ukuxela elam ityala kwaye ukuba ungandinika impendulo nceda. Ngomhla wamashumi amabini anesihlanu kuJulayi yayilixesha lokugqibela lokufika kwam kwaye amabele am ababuhlungu kakhulu emva koko ukusuka apho khange iphinde yehle enye inyanga kwaye andiyi ezantsi kwaye izolo nge-25 ka-Agasti bendinegazi elintsundu kunye negazi elincinci Ngaba ndingakhulelwa? .Ndithi kwenzeke njani inyanga neentsuku ezi-29 okanye ndingakhange ndize emva koko ndehle ndakhangela kwi-intanethi ndathi ndinokuba namatyala kwaye ndikhulelwe.inqe yam nayo ibuhlungu kakhulu xa ndihamba kwaye iyenza ndilambe kakhulu kunale yesiqhelo ngesiquphe kwaye ndigcwalisa ngokukhawuleza.Ndifuna nokugabha kwaye ndinentloko, ndingathanda ukukhulelwa. Nceda ulinde impendulo.
Ukuba ubukhe wabelana ngesondo ngokungakhuselekanga kunokwenzeka, kuya kufuneka wenze uvavanyo ukufumanisa. Unethamsanqa!
Mholweni!! Ndineziyezi ezininzi, ubuninzi beasidi, ukuzothuka, kunye nokugabha okuncinci, bendikhe ndalala iintsuku ezi-5 ngaphambi kokuba ndiye exesheni kwaye ndiphuma kuphela kusuku olunye kwaye ngesiqhelo zihlala kum iintsuku ezi-3 ukuya kwezi-4, ndilinde ukuya exesheni kodwa andazi okwangoku Ukuba ndikhulelwe okanye andikhulelwanga, kufuneka ndenze uvavanyo lokukhulelwa ekhaya kungekudala kodwa nge-8 kaSeptemba / 2015 ndibekelwe ixesha lokuya kugqirha wam ukuze andixelele ukuba ndikhulelwe okanye hayi, kodwa ndicela undincede ndingayivuyela
Molo, Esme, kuba andinakukunceda kuba ndifana nawe, ndinamathandabuzo, ndiye kwigumbi lokuhlambela rhoqo kwaye indenza ndozele kakhulu kwaye ndijonge phambili ekubeni ngumama kwiveki ezayo. iindaba 🙂
nethamsanqa! 🙂
Kuya kufuneka uthathe uvavanyo kwaye uthethe nogqirha wakho malunga netyala lakho. Ndiyabulisa!
Molo, ndinayo i-IUD malunga neminyaka emi-4. Kwaye bendihlala ndihlala rhoqo rhoqo exesheni lam, ifika qho ngeentsuku ezingama-28 kwaye ihlala malunga neveki, kule nyanga kuye kwafuneka ukuba ndehle nge-30 ka-Agasti kwaye ndehle nge-2 kaSeptemba bendineentsuku ezimbini kunye nexesha lam eliqhelekileyo Ngomhla wesithathu khange ndiye ezantsi phantse ndinanto kwaye ndineentlungu ezininzi xa ndichama kwaye emazantsi omqolo (umsila)
Mholo! Andithandabuzeki, ndiyazinyamekela ngeepilisi zokucwangcisa kwaye ndehla ngo-Agasti-24 kwaye usuku lwam lokugqibela yayingu-Agasti-30, kwangalo mini ndalala ngesondo, ndiyazi ukuba ngeepilisi andikho semngciphekweni kodwa iintsuku ezi-2 ngaphambi kokuba ndibenobudlelwane ndalibala ipilisi, ndayithatha kwiintsuku ezimbini zokugqibela kwaye nge-30 ka-Agasti ndabelana ngesondo, kwaye ndeva ukulunywa okumbalwa esiswini sam kwaye ndachitha kakhulu ... ingaba ndingamitha?
Molo ityala lam kukuba ixesha lam kufanele ukuba lifikile ngomhla we-10 kwaye lafika kum ngomhla we-3 ndehla kancinci kakhulu ngoku kwezi ntsuku zininzi kakhulu bendinje ngale mihla ye-5 kwaye ayikhange inike Iintlungu okanye iintlungu zebele xa zisiza kum ngesiqhelo ndiyoyika, ungandinika ingcebiso ukuba ndingakhulelwa okanye enye into
Ukuba ixesha lakho lehlisiwe, akukho ngxaki. Ndiyabulisa!
hello wandinika pre-lesspus kwiminyaka engama-35 ubudala kwaye emva ko-40 ndandisiya exesheni kanye ngonyaka kwaye ukusuka apho ndayeka ukuzikhathalela kwaye ndabelana ngesondo kabini ngeveki kwaye andizange ndikhulelwe ukusukela ndandineminyaka engama-35 ngoku ndina-43 kwaye ndiyothusa Kwinyanga ezimbini zokuqala, iinwele ezininzi zathi cwaka, zaza iintlungu zam zaqaqamba, emva koko ndafumana amabala esiswini nasemilenzeni njengokulunywa yingcongconi, ndaya kugqirha wesikhumba kodwa bendingazi ukuba kukuthwala, ngoku ndiyozela kakhulu, kwaye ndifumana ubisi emabeleni am kwaye isisu sam siyahamba kwaye siyakhula ahh ndilibele ukuba ulusu lwam lwesisu luyazolula kwaye ubona imithambo emininzi ebomvu yinto eqhelekileyo kwaye ukuba sele ndinenwele ezininzi kuyo yonke macala kwaye andinazinwele ndinenwele ezincinci, kulungile ngomso bayandinika isiphumo ukuba si-positive okanye hayi kodwa ndineemvavanyo ezimbini zokukhulelwa ekhemesti kwaye ziphume zingenanto kuba andazi kodwa iyahamba xd ngummangaliso ubudala bam bendingayilindelanga, ndicela nje uYesu noMariya ukuba beze bazokuzalwa bephilile, bomelele kwaye angabinasifo Ndiyoyika ngokwenene kodwa kwangaxeshanye ndibambelele emthandazweni. Ndithandazeleni ndinguEmma.
Hee, mamela i-kiero.qe me.suswe amanye amathandabuzo endikhe ndehla ngawo ngo-Agasti 1 ukuya ku-5 kwaye bendonwabile nge-28, besele sihambile okanye kodwa ukusukela nge-22 ka-Agasti, ikomo ukuya kwi-26 ndiye ndehla ngombala omdaka izolo bendizi tets ndaphuma ndi negative ndabe ndisiva iintlungu kumqolo ongezantsi ndinamaqhuma amancinci esiswini komo kolikos avese yenzeke kum nge period yam komo 2 days before kodwa ixesha alisahambi ndine pain ezininzi zokuveza ukusukela Iiveki ezi-2 zininzi iigesi ze-ambre poko de nausias kakhulu ndilala emini kwaye amanye amabala ayavela kulusu lwam kolor kafe ebusuku ndiyavuka ndiyochama andisakwazi ukulala ndiyolala boka phantsi ngoku ndiyakwazi andisayiva i-stasis komo yam engaqhelekanga yokuba into ethile indenza ndizive ndikhululekile qe agoo ppr Nceda undixelele ukuba ndingaqiniseka, ndifuna ngokungxamisekileyo ukwazi, ukuba ngaba ndisesitokhweni okanye hayi !!!!!! Oonxibelelwano xfa
Molo ndinombuzo ngethemba kwaye bayandiphendula !! Ndibe nobudlelwane nomyeni wam ngo-Agasti kwaye khange sisebenzise ukhuseleko kwaye yawela ngaphakathi kum kwaye kwafuneka ndehle nge-5 kaSeptemba kwaye ndehla nge-10 kaSeptemba ndehla kodwa kakhulu, ndimdaka kakhulu kwaye ndilala kakhulu , ndidiniwe kwaye indinika ndilambile kakhulu kwaye amabele am abuhlungu kancinci, andazi ukuba ndiyi-hembarasada enceda amantombazana xf: / 🙂
Lindela ixesha elilandelayo, kodwa ukuba ubunobudlelwane obungakhuselekanga kwaye ixesha lakho alikhange liyehle njengoko lihlala lisenza, kuya kufuneka uthathe uvavanyo. Ndiyabulisa!
Molo, ndinamathandabuzo, bendinolwalamano kunye nesithandwa sam emva kwexesha lam, ndinombono wokuba intloko yam ibuhlungu, ndinesicaphucaphu, amaqanda wam enzakalisa ixesha lam ukuba lifike kwiiveki ezimbini, ndifuna nje ukwazi ukuba into eqhelekileyo iqhelekile Ngena ngaphakathi, izimvo ziyaxatyiswa
Zizimpawu eziqhelekileyo zokukhutshwa kweqanda kodwa ukuba ubukhe wabelana ngesondo ngokungakhuselekanga, kunokubakho umngcipheko wokukhulelwa. Ndiyabulisa!
Molo, ndalala ngesondo (ndikhuselekile) kunye nentombi endandithandana nayo kwiintsuku ezi-5 emva (29-08) ngexesha lokugqibela endamfumana ngalo kwaye kwathiwa ngowama-23, 24,25 wama-XNUMX; Kodwa undixelela ukuba unesicaphucaphu, upholile, kwaye ukuba kwiintsuku ezimbini ezidlulileyo kubuhlungu, waziva kunzima ukusuka kwimifudlana kwaye ndiba nexhala, kubangelwa yintoni oku? ndicela undiphendule pls, ndikhathazekile kakhulu, enkosi
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Molo, andazi nokuba ndikhulelwe…. Ukuhamba kwam kutshintshile kwaye ukuba nobudlelwane nomyeni wam kundishiye neentlungu zesisu…. Ukuhlala ixesha elide kusitshisa isisu sam kwaye kubuhlungu…. Emini iyandilalisa kwaye iphindwe kabini yenzeke kum into yokuba ndilale nomyeni wam ndiphume ngokungathi ligazi kodwa belipinki kakhulu bendicinga ukuba yinja yam kodwa ibingulo mzuzu kuphela kwaye khange phuma kwakhona emva kweentsuku ezi-4. kwakhona kwaye khange yenzeke kwakhona ndiyoyika kuba uvavanyo lomchamo lubuyile lungelulo kodwa andazi ukuba ndikwenze kwakamsinya enkosi
Molo Maria De los Angeles.
Ndithi kuni ndiyekile ukuzikhathalela ngeepilisi zolawulo lokuzalwa emva kweminyaka esithoba ngoku kuJulayi. Umlingane wam akazange azikhathalele. Ukuhamba kwam ngoJulayi nango-Agasti kutshintshile. Ngo-Agasti yayipinki. Kwaye uSeptemba akasandiphindanga kwaye kwabonakala kungaqhelekanga kum. Ndenze iimvavanyo ezimbini zokumitha kwaye baphuma bePOSITIVE kwangoko !!!! Kwaye ugqirha wam wezigulana wandithumela ubungakanani be-beta encinci, eluvavanyo lwegazi. Bakwenzela elebhu ngaphandle kommiselo. Kwaye kwaphuma ukuba ngoku ndineeveki ezintlanu neentsuku ezine!
Unethamsanqa! Kwaye ndiyathemba ukuba ikukhonze ...
Mholo! Kuya kufuneka uphinde uthathe uvavanyo kwakhona ukuze ususe nakuphi na ukuthandabuza. Ndiyabulisa!
Molo, kwenzeka into efanayo kakhulu kum.Nditshate kwiinyanga ezi-6 ezidlulileyo kwaye andikaze ndizinyamekele kodwa ixesha lam lihla ngesiqhelo kodwa iimpawu zokukhulelwa ziqhelekile; Ndifuna ukukhulelwa kwaye akukho nto
Ngamanye amaxesha iimpawu zolawulo ziyafana nezo zokukhulelwa, yiyo loo nto ngamanye amaxesha kukho abantu basetyhini abadidayo. Qhubeka uzama! Ndikunqwenelela ithamsanqa. Ndiyabulisa.
Molweni mantombazana, ndiza kunixelela ngetyala lam, kuye kwafuneka ndize nge-8 kwaye andizanga bendinentsuku ezisixhenxe emva kwexesha .. Ndifumene iintsuku ezi-7 ezingaphantsi kunoko ndiye exesheni kodwa hayi hayi kancinci. Andazi nokuba iyakuba sexesheni na. Ndidumbile kakhulu esiswini sam, ndikufumanisa kunzima ukulala ebusuku ndidiniwe, impumlo ixinene, ndifuna ukuchama rhoqo. Ukuxinana okwenzeka rhoqo esiswini kunye nokudumba okuninzi, ndiza kuthatha uvavanyo ngoku ukuphuma kwegazi. Ngaba ukhona umntu owaziyo ukuba okwenzekayo kum kukuba ndikhulelwe?
Ukuba uye wabelana ngesondo ngaphandle kokuthintela kunokwenzeka, kuya kufuneka uthathe uvavanyo! Ukubulisa.
Molweni ... ndinezandi esiswini sam njengombane kunye norhudo oluncinci ... NgoLwesibini bendiphume emdaka, ngosuku olulandelayo bendisexesheni ecaleni kwangoLwesine kwanamhlanje uLwesihlanu ndivuke ndingenanto ... inokuba iimpawu zokukhulelwa?
Kuya kufuneka uye kugqirha wakho nokuba yintsholongwane esiswini. Ndiyabulisa!
Molo, ndingu yamo, Yovanka, ndifuna uluvo oluvela kuwe.Ndikudikile ukutya.Ndikuthanda ngakumbi kwaye ndinesiyezi.
Mholo! Ezi mpawu zinokuba zizizathu ezahlukeneyo, kuya kufuneka uvavanye ukuba kutheni kunokuba njalo. Ndiyabulisa!
Molo, molweni ekuseni, jonga, ndiyakuxelela, kwinyanga ephelileyo ngaphambili kwaye ndigqibele ukulala nomntu endithandana naye, sobabini sizama ukukhulelwa kakuhle, isiqhulo sesokuba kwinyanga ephelileyo ndehlile kodwa ndimdaka ngebala (uBrown Flow) Umthetho wonke kwaye kulenyanga andikhange ndehle bendihleli neColicos iveki iphelekezelwa zizikrufu esiswini kwaye zibuhlungu kakhulu njengokurhawuzelela iinkawu impumlo yam yomile ngokungathi sisebusika Andizange ndiyenze kuba kanye xa ugqirha wathi kude kube sekupheleni kwenyanga uza kuyenza kum ukuze azi ukuba ndizazi izinto ngokuzithemba, kuphela ukuba iintlungu ziyandoyikisa.
Molo Jenny, ukuba iintlungu azipheli, yiya kugqirha wakho kwakhona. Ndiyabulisa!
Molo, ndifuna uncedo, ndiva ukukhukhumala esiswini kwaye kwilungu lobufazi kusenokwenzeka ukuba ndikhulelwe ukusukela oko mna nomyeni wam sifunana nomntwana kangangeminyaka emi-2, ndinenyanga emva kwexesha, ndingenamthetho, kwaye ndinesicaphucaphu, ukulala, ukunqwenela, ndingakhulelwa?
Ndandinobudlelwane ngeCawa nangoMvulo kwaye namhlanje ndiye kwigumbi lokuhlambela kwaye kubuhlungu ukuchama, ibingazange yenzeke kum ngaphambili, ndinemibala emdaka ngombala, kunye nerosemary empumlweni yam, kwaye ngathi ndizakufumana impumlo enkulu kodwa hayi ndiyifumene, ngaba umntu ebeya kundiphendula, nceda nceda?
Ndalala ngesondo, kwaye ngoMvulo nanamhlanje xa ndibona ukuba ibuhlungu, ayikaze yenzeke ngaphambili, ndikwanombala omdaka ngebala kunye nerosemary empumlweni yam, kwaye ngathi ndiza kuba nkulu empumlweni yam ngekhe iphume & ndinuka igazi ngeempumlo zam, ukhona umntu owaziyo ukuba yintoni le ingalunganga ngam?
Molweni ndinombuzo ngomhla we-17 kulenyanga kuye kwafuneka ndifumane ixesha lokuya exesheni elingafikanga kwaye ndinentlungu emsileni kwaye njengentlungu yesibeleko ndafumana ingqele eyoyikisayo andazi nokuba ndikhulelwe
U-Ami uyenzeka kum ukuba ndifumene amabala amhlophe ezandleni zam, indinika iintlungu ezininzi kwii-ovari zam ngelixa ndilele phantsi, ayindiniki, ndihlala okanye ndiyeke, indinika iintlungu kwaye ndiyachitha ngokungahambi kakuhle
Molo, ndishiywe ziintsuku ezi-3, ndaya kugqirha wababhinqileyo bandixelela ukuba yonke into ilungile ukuba ukuba ndikhulelwe isenokukhawuleza kakhulu ukuba ingavela kwi-echo izolo, nge-23 kaSeptemba, ndiqale ukubala njengamdaka mnyama Kuncinci kakhulu kwaye kubuhlungu ngokungathi ukuya exesheni kwam kodwa hayi namhlanje 24 kwaye ndiphinde ndanabala kwakhona kancinci kwaye ndinombala omdaka ngombala isisu sam sibuhlungu ndineempawu zokukhulelwa isiyezi bomito amaxesha ngamaxesha isifuba sam sibuhlungu andazi ukuba kukukhulelwa ndingathanda ukuba undincede ndibulise enkosi
Molweni bendisexesheni ngoSeptemba 1 kwaye bendabelana ngesondo iintsuku zam ezichumileyo bezisuka kwi-12 ukuya kwi-19 kwaye nge-21 kunye ne-22 ubona ezinye iintlungu ezinjengokuya exesheni kodwa kwaphela iintsuku ezi-2 ngoku andinamasikizi amancinci kwaye kubuhlungu embindini we amabele ngokungathi ayakrwitshwa kodwa iintlungu ziyanda emabeleni wam kwaye muxa ambre ndifuna ukuba nomntwana kwaye kakuhle kwiintsuku ezi-6 ndilinde ukuya exesheni kwam, ucinga ukuba inganguphawu lokumitha ... kuba ukuba am rhoqo ... xa becebisa k Ndinike uvavanyo lokukhulelwa nceda ungandinceda .... ??? Enkosi….!!!!
Molo mantombazana, bendikhe ndaya exesheni nge-5 kaSeptemba, yeza kum kwangoko kunokuba bekulindelwe, yeza kum incinci ngeentsuku kwaye ngobuninzi yayihlala iintsuku ze-3, iqhelekile yi-5 kwiveki ephelileyo okanye nangaphezulu, amabele am abuhlungu ndinesicaphucaphu kwaye ndiye ndaqala ukutya kakhulu ndinokukhutshwa kwilungu lobufazi okukruqulayo ekubeni ingamanzi kwaye ikhangeleka ngathi ngumchamo, ndinosana olune-1 kunye ne-5 lwenyanga ubudala oluthiwa ngu-Eidriany Ximena onayo uraña kakhulu, isisu sam sibuhlungu kakhulu ngokungathi bendiqokelele iigesi ... andazi nokuba ndizakukhulelwa na oko ngaphandle kokuphela kweempawu ozikholelwayo zi-chiacas…. aaaah nge-bb yam yangaphambili bendinexesha eliqhelekileyo, hee
Molo andazi nokuba ndikhulelwe na kodwa ukuba kunjani k ndinesicaphucaphu imini yonke kunye nokuhamba okuninzi kunye nokutyeba bendine-tegla yam nge-29d agst kodwa ibiyinto eyahlukileyo kusuku lokuqala ibininzi kwaye ezinye iintsuku ayonto kwaye umbala owahlukileyo omdaka ndinayo Ezinye iintlungu kwii-ovari, umntu angathi iyenzeka xfis
Molo, andazi nokuba ndikhulelwe, ixesha lam liyaya ezantsi kwaye ngengomso liye laphela, emva koko ndaqhubeka ndenza ibala ngokungathi yi-brown surrapa, ngoku ndilahla ukukhutshwa okumhlophe nakwicala lasekhohlo mna ndeva into kodwa ndenze uvavanyo lwasekhaya lwaphuma lubi. ungandixelela ntoni
Molo apho kwiintsuku ezimbini ezidlulileyo ngaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi ndivotele indawo emdaka usuku kwaye ngoku ndivota ukuhamba ukuba nditya amanzi kwaye ndinemvakalelo enje xa umthetho usiza kuwe onokuthi undincede umthetho wam awunjalo Ndifikelele kwiinyanga ezi-7 kuba ndinee-avies ze-polycystic kwaye ayiqhelekanga
Molweni mantombazana ndinolibaziseko lweentsuku ezi-5 emva kwalolo suku ebusuku ndafumana indawo kwaye bendineentsuku ezintathu njengamabala anegazi elincinci kodwa namhlanje alikhange lehle kodwa ndiyazi ukuba ayiqhelekanga kwaye ndinentlungu esiswini kwaye ukufa okuninzi ukuya kwigumbi lokuhlambela kunye neepunons ezininzi esiswini. Ndincede
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Ukuya kwam exesheni kwakungoAgasti nangoSeptemba 22, ndandinebala nje elincinci xa ndicoca emva kokuchama kwaye yayikukuba sexesheni kwam ndiwava amabele am ukuba buhlungu kwaye eshushu, ulusu oluqinileyo, iintlungu zikuyo yonke into ... ndineasidi kwaye ndinokukhululwa okwaneleyo kwilungu lobufazi… ndizakukhulelwa? ???
Molo, ndinamathandabuzo malunga nezo mpawu, ndinesi-3 ndaphinda ndabuya umva kwaye ndandisela iipilisi kodwa ndandisopha kwaye ndingazichukumisi, ndemka ndaza kwaphuma ukopha ngomhla wesibini k ubudlelwane
U-Ola ndinamathandabuzo malunga nezo mpawu ndine-3 kwaye ndiye ndaphinda ndabuya umva kwaye bendisela iipilisi kodwa bendisopha kwaye yonke indlela khange ndibambe, ndiye ndahamba kwaphuma ukopha ngomhla wesibini k Ndinobudlelwane bam
Molweni ndisozela kakhulu kwaye isifuba sam sibuhlungu kodwa bahlala I have a week andazi noba ndikhulelwe ndinceda njani xga
Molo, andithandabuzi
Molo, ndinombuzo, andizikhathalelanga.Ndandinobudlelwane neqabane lam limi ngaphezulu kwenyanga ngesihlandlo esinye xa sasinegazi. Kwaye kunjalo. Kuphela lelo xesha ke lafika kum ngexesha lalo libomvu iintsuku ezimbini kuphela kodwa umlenze wam wasekunene kunye nehips zibuhlungu kakhulu. Isisu sifana noxinzelelo olomeleleyo kwaye ndinomchamo kunye nokuhamba kwekristall ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kum
Andithandabuzi ukuba andizinakekeli bendinobuhlobo neqabane lam limi ngaphezulu kwenyanga kwityeli elinye esinegazi. Kwaye kunjalo. Kuphela lelo xesha ke lafika kum ngexesha lalo libomvu iintsuku ezimbini kuphela kodwa umlenze wam wasekunene kunye nehips zibuhlungu kakhulu. Isisu sifana noxinzelelo olomeleleyo kwaye ndinomchamo kunye nekristale yokuhamba andizokuqunjelwa kwaye ndinentloko endinqwenela ukuyazi ukuba yintoni, nceda ubancede
Andazi ukuba ndikhulelwe, ndichanekile kwaye ngomhla we-19 wokulibaziseka, kwafika njengolawulo lwam manche uncedo oluncinci
Ndinentloko, andikuthandi ukutya, umzimba, ndiziva ndisozela kakhulu kwaye
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Molo, ndabelana ngesondo ngo-Agasti ophelileyo we-29, kwaye sele sikwi-Okthobha kwaye bekufanele ukuba ndize nge-XNUMX kaSeptemba, ukuza kuthi ga ngoku andinasicaphucaphu okanye ukugabha, ndiqaphele ukudumba emabeleni am, iingono zam zibuhlungu, ukudumba esiswini sam, ukudinwa ngalo lonke ixesha, ndilamba rhoqo kunqabile, ngamanye amaxesha ukuphuthelwa. Ndiyoyika, ucinga ntoni wena? Phendula nceda
Molweni, nge-10 ka-Agasti bendinobudlelwane kwaye andizikhathalelanga, eziza kum nge-12 ixesha kodwa hayi ngo-Agasti, wafika uSeptemba, ndenze uvavanyo lwe-2 kwaye babengenayo, kunzima kum ukulala e ubusuku ndine asidi kwaye ngoMvulo ndibala okuncinci bathi ndizakuba okanye andizukuba, kwaye ndiziva nebhola esiswini sam kwaye ndityhafileaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
Molo ndinayo. ngokungathandabuzekiyo andizinakekeli bendinobuhlobo neqabane lam ixesha elingaphezulu kwenyanga ngesihlandlo esinye esinegazi. Kwaye kunjalo. Lixesha kuphela elize kum ngexesha lam libomvu iintsuku ezimbini kuphela kodwa umlenze wam wasekunene kunye nehips zibuhlungu kakhulu. Isisu sifana noxinzelelo olomeleleyo kwaye ndinomchamo kunye nekristale yokuhamba ndiyaqhinwa kwaye ndinentloko eyomileyo umqala ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba yintoni nceda uncede
Molo, umbuzo wam ngulo ulandelayo, ndiqhelekile ngamanye amaxesha ixesha lam lilibaziseka ukuya kwiinyanga ezi-4, ukugqibela kwam ukuba inyanga ibide kwaye ndilale kwaye ikhondom yaphuka kwaye ndathatha i-ultra ppms, ngeentsuku ezisi-8 ndi Ulwelo lwaphuma ngathi lupinki lwaze lwamdaka, oku kwahlala phantse iintsuku eziyi-8 kwaye i-chichis ndiziva ngathi zibotshwe kuphela, olu luphawu lwe-ultra ppms? okanye inokuba iqanda lalichunyisiwe?
Ngumbuzo, ndiwele kanye sexesheni ekuqaleni kwenyanga, kwaye ndaba neentlobano zesini phakathi enyangeni, ndaphinda ndawa, ndaye ndalala, ngoku ndiyagula ndinesicaphucaphu, ndacheba umzekelo namhlanje kwaye ngomso ndiphinda ndifumana iinwele kwaye ndivota kakhulu ukukhutshwa kwilungu lobufazi ndingakhulelwa
Ola ps ndiza kukuxelela ukuba nge-1 kaSeptemba, ndandilala nomyeni wam yonke imihla yesithathu kwaye wayehlala ephela kum, khange sikhathalelane ngomhla weshumi elinanye kwaye ndaye ndalala naye kwaye ebengathi mandihambe nge 30 kaSeptemba kwaye bendingazukuba phantsi ndifikile emva kweveki ndiphume umhlophe ndingakhulelwa ungamhoyi xfa ndineminyaka eli-18 nditshatile
Molo, jonga, ndinomdla wokuya kwigumbi lokuhlambela kodwa awuphumi umchamo okanye ewe kodwa umncinci kwaye kubuhlungu kakhulu, kwaye igazi elincinci lizama ukuphuma kwaye ixesha lam lokugqibela liphele ngo-Okthobha 1. Ngaba kukukhulelwa? Okanye ungabhekisa kwindlela yam yokuthintela ukukhulelwa, yeyiphi inaliti yenyanga yecyclofemin?
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Molo, ndinombuzo, kwiintsuku ezili-13 ezidlulileyo ukuya exesheni kwam kuyekisiwe kodwa izolo nangaphambi kwezolo bendinendawo encinci epinki kumkhuseli wam. Kwiveki ephelileyo ndize nokulala emini, intloko ebuhlungu, kwiindawo ezi-2 bendonyanyekile Qhotsa i-fitura kunye nenyama ephekwe kancinci ndidumbile kwaye andilambi kakhulu ndinesiyezi somelele kancinci, ndiyathandabuza kakhulu ukuba kukukhulelwa oko ndine-IUD kangangeminyaka emibini, ke ndifuna umntu onondixelela ukuba ingaba yintoni Ndifuna impendulo nceda
Molo, ndinombuzo, ndishiywe lixesha ngeentsuku ezisixhenxe, ndenze uvavanyo lwegazi lwaphuma lungekho, kodwa ndineentlungu kwingono zam endingenakuyimela.
Molo ndingu-bn kunqabile mva nje ndinokuqhuma okuninzi isisu sam sibuhlungu amaqanda am andonzakalisa ndiba nesiyezi kwaye ndidinwe ukuba andifuni kwenza nto ndivele ndilale phantsi ndiphelelwe lithemba kushiyeke iintsuku ezi-2 zokuya exesheni kwam andazi ukuba ndikhulelwe ndabelana ngesondo kwiintsuku zam zokuchuma
Molo, ndineminyaka engama-35 ubudala, basebenzise iityhubhu zam kunyaka ophelileyo, enye yazo yayigqunywe ngokupheleleyo kwenye, kukho indawo enamanzi, ndinolibaziseko lweentsuku ezisi-7, ndenze uvavanyo lwegazi lwaphuma lungelulo , Bendinokungaphumeleli kuvavanyo kwaye ndingakhulelwa.ubushushu beentlungu kunye nokutsha kwemilenze ndicela undincede
Yenza uvavanyo kwakhona kwaye ukuba lubuya lungelulo kuya kufuneka uye kwagqirha, imibuliso!
U-Ola ndineminyaka eli-15 ubudala kunye neentsuku ezisi-7 ezidlulileyo bendinobudlelwane kunye nesithandwa sam kwaye kule veki bendinesicaphucaphu, ndiziva ndidiniwe kwaye ndifuna ukuya kwigumbi lokuhlambela rhoqo
Molweni, ngaphezulu kwenyanga ndilala nesithandwa sam, ithambo ebesinalo ebudeni benyanga kwaye ukuya kwam exesheni bekungafiki, uqhele aphele ngaphakathi namhlanje bendibambe umthambo nosisi wam kwaye ndinentlungu ebuhlungu kakhulu , ukukhathazeka kwam kwakubuhlungu kakhulu Kwakungathi basikrazula isisu sam ngendlela endandibuhlungu ngayo emlenzeni ndandisoyika ukuba ndingakhulelwa ngoko ke ndilikhoboka lokudanisa kwaye ndaphuma ndabaleka ukusukela phuma yonke imini andazi nokuba ndikhulelwe na
Molo ntombazana ndiyathemba uyandinceda ndive ngathi kukho into eshukumayo epanini yam. Ndiyozela kakhulu emini andiyiqondi kwaye ndiyatya kwaye ndinqwenela ukutya. Umyeni wam urhona kakhulu kwaye impumlo edumbileyo inokubangela ezinye zeempawu zam. Okanye ngamanye amaxesha besithe ukutya. Andazi ukuba bangandinceda na kwaye yandoyikisa kakhulu kuba ndifumene ukuhamba kancinci okumdaka nokumhlophe kodwa ukuya exesheni akuzange kuvele
Ukuba ixesha lakho alinciphi njengoko lihlala lisenza, linda iintsuku ezili-14 emva kwexesha kwaye uthathe uvavanyo. Ndiyabulisa!
Mholweni…
Nge-8 kaSeptemba ndalala ngesondo ndingakhuselekanga, ndaye ndaya exesheni emva komhla kunokuba bekulindelwe kwaye kwaphela iintsuku zam ezi-5 eziqhelekileyo ... nangona kunjalo, emva kokuba ndalala, ndaba nombala oluhlaza-tyheli ndade ndaya exesheni nasemva koko iintlungu esiswini esisezantsi, ezinje ngeekram kunye neentlungu ngasemva ... inokuba yintoni ???
Ukuba ixesha lakho lihla ngesiqhelo kodwa unayo ukuhamba okungaqhelekanga kunye nentlungu, kuya kufuneka uye kugqirha wakho ukuze ahlole okwenzekayo. Ndiyabulisa!
Molo umbuzo bendikhe ndabelana ngesondo kwiintsuku zam zokuchuma kwi-ovulation I ixesha phantsi kukaSeptemba 20 ukuya kuSeptemba 25 iintsuku zam zokuchuma zivela ngo-Okthobha 29 ukuya ku-4. Baqhelekile ziintsuku ezingama-28. Ndinovalo kakhulu ndilinde ukuba lufike kwiintsuku ezi-6 ngaphezulu. Ndilindile okanye ukuba ndishiywe lixesha ndenza uvavanyo ????
Ukuba ulibazisekile, linda iintsuku ezili-14 ngaphambi kokuba uthathe uvavanyo. Ndiyabulisa!
Umbuzo ukuba ndine-polycystic cyst., Kwaye ixesha lam alinciphisi iinyanga ezi-8 .. iya kuba kukukhulelwa .. umntu andixelele i-xfa ..
Kuya kufuneka uye kugqirha wakho ukuze wenze iimvavanyo ezifanelekileyo. Unethamsanqa!
Molweni, umbuzo ndaye ndaya exesheni nge-26 kaSeptemba yahlala kuphela iintsuku ezi-2 emva koko umyeni wam wafika kuhambo kwaye sasihlala iintsuku ezintandathu ngaphandle kokukhuselwa ixesha lam ziintsuku ezingama-27 kukho umngcipheko wokuba ndikhulelwe kuthathelwa ingqalelo ukuba kwezi ntsuku ndikhe ndeva ukungonwabi okunje ngechramp, ukuqaqanjelwa yintloko, ukukhutshwa ngaphandle kokunuka kunye nokufuna ukuchama rhoqo, kunye nokuqhuma kwento yonke kwaye akukho nto kunye nesiyezi ... ngaba kunokwenzeka? Umntu ozakundinceda sekuyiminyaka ephantse ibe li-14 okokoko ndafumana unyana wam ekuphela kwakhe.Ndineminyaka engama-36 ubudala.
Ngapha koko, andifuni ukwenza izisombululo ezininzi, nangona ndingathanda ukuba njalo, ukusukela ngo-Matshi ndalahlekelwa lusana, yayiyinto ebuhlungu nebuhlungu kakhulu.
Andiqondi ukuba kutheni ixesha lam liza amaxesha ama-2 ngenyanga bandinika uninzi lweekram kwaye ndifuna ukwazi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kum bendikhe ndabelana ngesondo kwinyanga ephelileyo kwaye bandinika inkampu ezininzi
Molo, igama lam ndinguRoxana oo kwenzekayo kukuba bendifumana unyango ngoSeptemba walo nyaka kwaye ndiyazinyamekela nge-ampoya yenyanga kodwa isi-saver saver xk ndinoloyiko oluncinci ndiyintsuku ndifumana isiyezi sokuba Ngelixa kwaye ndinokuninzi ndifuna ukuchama kwaye izidlo zam zilikhulu zilikhulu kwaye zibuhlungu kancinci kwaye ndixinekile kwaye umqolo wam ubuhlungu nge-ko esezantsi kwaye ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba kutheni kunjalo ndizikhathalele
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Molo, ndiza kukuxelela: bendithatha into yokuthintela ukukhulelwa kwinyanga kaSeptemba kuloo nyanga, njengoko ingeyonto iqhelekileyo, ndiye ndazixobula iipilisi malunga namaxesha amabini kwaye ukusukela ukuba beziwele kakubi ndiye ndazishiya, i-gyne ibacebise kum ngenxa kwiingxaki ze-ovary polycystic. Sele ikule nyanga kumhla wokuba kuye kufuneke ndiye ezantsi nge-Okthobha 07. phantsi kwe-3 kwaye waqala njenge-maroon flow ngomhla we-1 waginya igazi elincinci kwaye wahlala malunga neentsuku ezintandathu ngokuhamba okumdaka .. bendikunye neqabane lam ngomhla wokugqibela wokuba sexesheni, asikaze sikhathalelane kuba kunzima ukukhulelwa NDIYACINGA? ?? Kuthekani ukuba ndineentlungu esiswini KUNYE NOKUZIVA Ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba ndikhulelwe na ekubeni ndifuna ukuba nomntwana! Ndinonyaka ndawukhangela oko ndafumana Ukuqhomfa okuzenzekelayo kunyaka odlulileyo .. 🙁 Ndilindele impendulo yakho
Molo, ndinamathandabuzo amaninzi, andisazi ukuba ndinxunguphele ixesha elithile ndaye ndalala nentombazana endithandana nayo kwinyanga yokuqala kaSeptemba bandixelela ukuba ndikhulelwe, ndaya kugqirha wezifo zabasetyhini ndaya kuvalelwa kunye novavanyo lokukhulelwa. kwaye yaphuma imbi apha, ityala kukuba khange Ibe sehlile ukusukela nge-15 ka-Agasti kwaye ndineenyanga ezi-2 ukuba ingxaki yam ayizukundithoba, nantsi kukuba ndineempawu ezininzi ezindikhupha kwi-ondaa Ngamanye amaxesha yonke into iyanyanyisa mna ngamanye amaxesha indenza ndilambe kakhulu kwaye ndinxanwe kakhulu !! Khange ndikwazi ukuphuma kwigumbi lokuhlambela ndiyaqhinwa Ndiva kabuhlungu ndinentlungu ebuhlungu emhadini wesisu sam, ingaba umntu angandixelela apha?
Zimbini iinyanga ndizitofa nooidia ndafumana i-regl kwaye kwilungu lobufazi ndafumana igazi elincinci kunye namanzi amancinci kwaye kwaphuma into enjengokubambelela kwegazi ngoku ndinenaliti yesithathu kwaye andazi izakundinceda Nceda // Ndilindele iimpendulo zakho //
Ndibe nobudlelwane ixesha elingaphezulu kwenyanga kunye nesithandwa sam kwaye ixesha lam alifikanga, ndiye ndaqaphela ukuba ndincipha kakhulu kwaye ndiziva ndonwabile ngayo yonke into, ndiyichithile ndisitya kwaye ndinemhlophe kakhulu ukukhutshwa kwilungu lobufazi ngaphandle kwevumba !!! Ndimithi ???
Molo, igama lam ndingu-beth .. Ndinexhala lokuba ungaphendula. Ndehle ngo-Sep 12 ndalala nesithandwa sam ngo-Sep 16 ndasela ipilisi kusuku olulandelayo. kwaye emva koko saba neentlobano zesini ngaphezulu kweentsuku ngaphandle kokukhuselwa, kodwa ayizange ingene ngaphakathi kum. Kuya kufuneka andibone ndihambile ngo-Okthobha 9 kwaye akazanga. Kwaye ngoku ndinentlungu enkulu esiswini sam njenge-colic, kwaye ke iyenzeka kum xa ndizakuhamba kwaye akukho nto ize kum .. ungaphendula nceda ..
Molweni, ndinolibaziseko lweentsuku ezi-6, yafika ngomhla we-13 kwinyanga ephelileyo, kwafuneka ifike ngomhla we-9 kuleyo nyanga kwaye ndisenentlungu esiswini ngokungathi ndiza kuhla kwaye ukungakhululeki kundenza ndibe nesiyezi kodwa ukuya exesheni kuyehla Kukho amaxesha apho andinika iintlungu ngokungathi ndizokwehla kwaye xa ndiye kwigumbi lokuhlambela, ucebisa ntoni?
Molo, bendinobudlelwane ngeCawe ephelileyo kwaye khange azinakekele kwaye kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo bendinayo kodwa ngoMgqibelo ndiye ndehla kwaye ngoku iyehla kakhulu, Kodwa ndinomqolo obuhlungu, kubuhlungu phantsi kwepani, kwaye ndifumana isiyezi kakhulu kwaye ndinamabala amaninzi ..
Molo: Kulungile, bendizikhathalela kangangesithuba seminyaka emi-4 ngenaliti kwaye ndiyekile ukukhathalela le nyanga iphelileyo. Ukuya kwam esikhathini kwehla nge-25 kaSeptemba kwaye ndalala ngo-Okthobha u-2, emva koko ndaphinda ndalala ngo-Okthobha u-9 kwaye yayiziintsuku nje ezili-14 zokuba umntu abhinqileyo aphume, Njengeentsuku ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo bendifana neentsuku ezi-3 ukuya kwezi-4 ndisopha kancinci, Ndifuna ukutya ngalo lonke ixesha kwaye andazi nokuba kungenxa yokuba ndinovalo okanye akunjalo, kodwa ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba le yenzekile emntwini okanye ingaba ukhulelwe.
Molo, bendinobudlelwane obungakhuselekanga kwaye ndiye ndaphela kwaye babekhona kwiintsuku zam zokuchuma kwaye bekulungile, sasicinga ukuba unguye emva koko saqhubeka nokumbamba ngoluhlobo amaxesha kwaye ndilibazisekile kuba ndicinga ukuba ndikhulelwe ... kodwa usuku lwesithathu emva kwexesha. Ndiye ndathoba ukuya exesheni kodwa ibiyi re pokito kwaye ibingafundanga ukuba ndibane bala kuphela xa ndicocekile, ibingathi yinja kusuku olulandelayo yandithoba okomphini kwaye iyamangalisa kuba ndifumana itango eninzi kwaye yehla kakhulu kwaye andazi ukuba kutheni ndiza kunyanzelwa ukuba kunjalo ndiphela ngaphakathi amaxesha amaninzi, uthini .. ndiyehla ngolunye usuku kwaye ngoku ndibuya maron
Mva kwemini ndinokudideka bendinobudlelwane kwiintsuku ezintlanu ngaphambi kokuba ixesha lam lifike kwiintsuku ezi-5 ndiyehla ngomhla wokuqala kwakuyinto yesiqhelo, kodwa kwiintsuku ezine ezalandelayo yayifana nekofu yayiqhelekile ngokufanayo kum ingathi besifikile hayi bendizokhulelwa, ndinempambano ndiyakuzonda ukutya ngamanye amaxesha intloko yam ibuhlungu kwaye ndihleli iveki epheleleyo ndineengono ezibuhlungu…. Ukuba ungandinceda ndicime amathandabuzo, ndiyabulela kuwe, ndenze uvavanyo malunga neentsuku ezili-10 kamva kwaye zaphuma zingalunganga.
molo .. oiie ndingakhulelwa esklo qkpaza k andikho rhoqo kwaye into emdaka ngombala iyehla ngezinye iintsuku kwaye ngezinye iintsuku igazi ndingakhulelwa ???
Molweni mantombazana, ndifuna ukuba nindincede, ndinezi mpawu ... Isitshisa esigqithisileyo ... Intlungu yesisu kunye nomlenze wam wasekunene uyaqaqamba, iintlungu zamabele ... ndiye kwagqirha kuba ndiziva ndinovalo ngaphandle kokuba yonke into indenza ndibuhlungu kwaye ndiyaziyeka ndilile ... Iguam ndiyacaphuka qho xa ndithetha kuba umsi wam uyanditshintsha ngalo lonke ixesha, ndicela undincede ukuba kukho umntu owaziyo ...
Andazi nokuba ndikhulelwe na kodwa ndiziva ndibambekile ngeentsuku ezimbalwa emva kwexesha kodwa isisu sam sibuhlungu kakhulu kwaye ndilala ngokudinwa kwesisu esibuhlungu esinqeni
U-spy claudia I ngo-Okthobha 13 kunye no-14 ndaye ndalala kunye neqabane lam langaphambili kwaye khange sikhathalelane kodwa ndaye ndaya ejaculate ngaphandle kwaye ngoko nangoko saqhubeka nokuba nobudlelwane ndingakhulelwa
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Molweni, ndinombuzo, ndineeveki ezimbini ndine-colic kodwa sexesheni lam alizi, ingaba kukumitha na?
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molo ndinengxaki ndifuna undincedise !! Kwakuyintsuku ezintathu ukusukela ekubeni sexesheni liphelile kwaye ndinobudlelwane nesithandwa sam ... emva koko saqala ukubabuhlungu ngayo yonke ingono yam esekunene yonke imihla rhoqo kwaye andazi ukuba kutheni ... masijonge ukuba kwenzeka komnye umntu ngokufanayo ...
Molo, igama lam ndinguAbigail, ndingathanda ukukuxelela ukuba ndikhangele ukuba ndikhulelwe okokuqala kwaye kwiintsuku ezidlulileyo bendisela iwayini esikiweyo njengoko ndenza ngeempelaveki kwaye ndiqale ndaziva ndikhathazekile ndaphela ndigabha emva koko ndahlala ebhedini kwaye ndandingathi ndothukile kwaye nditshonile Uya kubona ukuba kwenzeka njani kum ngaphambi kwexesha lam kunye nokukhutshwa kwamabele kunye nokugqobhoza kwizibeleko kunye nasezinqeni kule nyanga ixesha lam sele lifikile, bekungu-9, imihla yam itshintshiwe xro ndiye ndaziva ndinzima kwaye xa ndithatha amaqabane ambalwa ndishiye isisu sam sicaphuka iihempe ezixineneyo ngoku zindihlupha kancinci kwaye ngenye imini ndibeke umlomo wam ndalala ndabe ndingava ungakhululekanga inoba kukumitha oku? ??? Enkosi
Hayi, ndaye ndalala ngesondo ngomhla we-10, kwaye ndafika emva kweeveki ezimbini emva koko kwafika ixesha lam lokugqibela, ndandicaphukile kwaye ndisozela kakhulu x imini x ubusuku kungekudala kwaye ndifuna ukutya kwaye Bendifuna ukuchama rhoqo.ukudumba kwesisu kwaye nje andazi nokuba ndikhulelwe, ndincede, ndingowokuqala kulento
Molo, ndishiywe lixesha ngeentsuku ezingama-22 kwaye ndiziva ndinesicaphucaphu malunga nokutya obefudula kubonakala kumnandi kum, ngoku ndiyakonyanya. Ndiziva ndidimazeke kakhulu ahm kunye nentlungu enzulu kwilungu lobufazi.
Molo, ndishiyekile ndihlambile kodwa andiziva zimpawu okanye uzothekile okanye isicaphucaphu kwaye ndihlala nditya ngokufanayo
Ixesha lam alikahli iinyanga ezimbini kwaye ndalala ngaphandle kokuzihoya kwaye ndiqala nje ukuva iintlungu ezomeleleyo kumngxunya wesisu sam kodwa andinazo iimpawu eziqhelekileyo zokukhulelwa. nam, ungandinceda ukuba ndiphumle nceda?
Ndalala ngo-Okthobha u-18 kwaye ibilusuku lwam lwesine lwexesha lam, isoka lam lingene nje. Ukusuka mmi. Kwaye, andazi nokuba ndingakhulelwa na, ibikade iphuma njengefinyila kwilungu lobufazi kwaye ndiziva ngathi ndinesisu. I-ambre yam ihambile kwaye kusasa ndifumana ukukhwehlela kwaye ndiza kube ndicaphuka ndiza kumitha
Molo u-Anamaria unditsalele umnxeba emva koko kwafika isikhalazo sam esiqhelekileyo kwaye emva kweentsuku zeentsuku zam zokuchuma bendikunye nesithandwa sam kwaye izono zam zibuhlungu kakhulu ndinokuxinana okuninzi kwempumlo kwaye ndiza kuba ndikhulelwe, banokundinceda enkosi
Molo, umyeni wam, ndangena ngaphakathi nge-25 ne-26th ebusuku ndiye exesheni, kungenzeka ukuba ndikhulelwe
Ixesha lam lahlala kwiinyanga ezimbini ezidlulileyo malunga neentsuku ezintathu okanye ezine okanye ixesha lam labuya kodwa ndalala ngesondo kwangoko kwaye iminyaka nayo kwaye ukuhamba kwam kuhlala kuyanda kwaye kuyanda ndinexinzelelo lokuqaqanjelwa kunye nomkhuhlane esinqeni kodwa andazi ukuba Ndikhulelwe. ucinga? ?
Molo, ndibhidekile, ndineminyaka engama-35, kuba ixesha lam belingekho phambi kwam, kodwa lincinci kakhulu xa lithelekiswa nalo, lihlala lifika kum, impelaveki ibilungile kodwa ekuqaleni kweveki Ubufazi abulawuleki andikwazi ukuyeka ukuyokuchama, ngokungathi kufuneka ndiye kwigumbi lokuhlambela ngoko nangoko, ndiye ndaziva ndinesiyezi kwaye ndinentlungu kwindawo yam engezantsi, akukho kutsha, imilenze yam ibuhlungu, umqolo wam kunye namadolo asokola ukunyuka izinyuko, ngenxa yokuba indlu yam ikumgangatho wesithathu kwaye ndiMele ndiyenze, ekunzima ukuyenza, kubonakala kumangalisa kum ukuba ndingatshintsha njani kwakamsinya nje ngoMgqibelo kwaye ukusukela ngoLwesibini ndibola kakhulu, andenzi umfanekiso wokwehla kwelungu lobufazi okanye ndithetha ukuba ukhulelwe, ukuba kukho umntu odibanise nento esele ichaziwe ukuba ungandicebisa, nanjengoko bendixelele kugqirha wezifo zabasetyhini andinako ukuhamba de kudlule olu hlobo lwexesha
Molo, bendinobuhlobo phantse inyanga kwaye ndinentlungu ye-ovari kunye nokugaya, ixesha lam alikafiki, ndifuna uyazi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kum ndineminyaka eli-16 ubudala
Molweni mantombazana, inqaku lelokuba ndineasidi eninzi, umlomo wam owomileyo, ixesha lam lokufika kwexesha belilixesha le-10 kwaye isisu sam sibuhlungu, iingono zam zirhawuzelela kakhulu kwaye sele ziintsuku ezi-4 ndingafuni kutya, yintoni ndinayo? Ndikhulelwe? 1
Molo, ndineminyaka eli-18 ubudala kwaye bendilala nesithandwa sam ngononophelo kodwa besingaqinisekanga, ndiye ndathatha intsasa emva kwepilisi kwaye emva kweentsuku ezimbalwa saphinda sanobudlelwane ngeli xesha ngaphandle kokulumka kodwa akwenzekanga nto, andiphelanga phezulu ngaphakathi okanye kuyo nayiphi na into kwaye ngoku ukuhamba kuyahla kumhlophe kwaye kusele iintsuku ezi-3 ngaphambi kokuba ixesha lam liqale ndifuna uncedoaaa.
Ukuba awufuni ukukhulelwa, kuya kufuneka uhlale usabelana ngesondo ngokukhusela. Ungasebenzisa ulawulo lokuzalwa kwehomoni okanye ikhondom. Ukuhamba kunokuba yinto eqhelekileyo, kodwa kuya kufuneka ubelane ngesondo ngokukhuselekileyo ukuze ungabi naxhala kwakhona. Ndiyabulisa!
Molweni mantombazana ndinixelele ukuba ndinobudlelwane obungakhuselekanga kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo kwaye ixesha lam lokufika liye lafika ngoNovemba 10 kwaye kuyabonakala ukuba andizanga ngaphambi komhla we-7 kwaye andikaze ndiqhubele phambili kwaye eyona nto imangalisayo kukuba kwaphela iintsuku ezimbini Ndicinga ukuba ndingamitha ???
Molweni ngemini elungileyo! Andithandabuzi ukuba andazi ukuba umntu angandinceda na .. Ndibe nobudlelwane neqabane lam nge-31 ka-Okthobha ngeentsuku zam ezichumileyo .. Kuya kufuneka ndiye ezantsi ngo-Novemba 15 ... namhlanje ndiqaphele xa ndichama ndacoca ukuhamba okucacileyo okumdaka kwaye isifuba sam besindikhathaza kangangeentsuku ezi-3-… ingaba ndingakhulelwa?
Molweni mantombazana, ndineminyaka engama-31 ubudala ndimtsha ngale ndlela, ityala lam lilandelayo, ukuya exesheni ngomhla we-22/09 kwaye ukuza kuthi ga kumhla we-09/11 andizanga kwenza echo iintsuku ezili-15 ezidlulileyo apho kwavela khona i-endometrium eshinyeneyo kodwa ngathi bendineentsuku ezimbalwa emva kwexesha, ndiyathetha, iintsuku ezi-4 i-doc indixelele ukuba kufuneka ndilinde ukuthatha uvavanyo lokukhulelwa, ndinamabala amancinci apinki kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ndimdaka, ndinamabele adumbileyo, isisu sam sibuhlungu, ndine isicaphucaphu, ukudumba kwesisu, ukubandayo, ukungaboni kakuhle, yonke into iyandenza ndilile njlnjl. Ndiyoyika ukwenza uvavanyo kwaye luza kuphuma lungelulo, umbuzo wam ngowokuba ndiyawenza kwaye uphume ungenanto kuba i-endometrium yayixinekile ngexesha le-echo kwaye ukuya kwam exesheni akukabikho? Ndiyaluxabisa kakhulu uncedo lwakho kunye nemibono yokubulela
Molo, igama lam ndinguLourdes kwaye ityala lam lelokuba ndihleli inkunkuma iintsuku ezi-6 ndisesibhedlele saseSanta Ana Motril kwaye ndine-indoscopy kwaye bathi andinanto kwaye ezona mpawu ndizibonisayo xa ndisitya nantoni na Ukusuka kwi-camomile ukuya kugabha i-danones kodwa ke kukuba akukho kugrumba apho emva kokugabha i-hostamago yam iqala ukwenzakala ngendlela engcangcazelayo kwaye indinika iparacetamol, ndisebenzisa i-serum ene-potassium nezinye izinto kunye nentlungu ayipheli. Kwaye ndithetha ne kiver ukuba kukho umntu owaziyo okanye owehlelwe yinto efanayo kuye, enkosi nemibuliso.
Sawubona uLourdes, ndandineempawu ezifanayo kwiminyaka eli-11 eyadlulayo, zonke iimvavanyo zam zaphuma zisiqhelo kodwa andabinakutya kwanto kuba ndayihlanza kwaye ndagodola kakhulu kwaye kwavela ukuba yi-appendicitis. ityala lakho, into ebalulekileyo kukuba usezandleni zeengcali, ndiyathemba ukuba akukho nto imbi kwaye banokuyichonga ngexesha, impumelelo ...
Molo, ndinguTamara… jonga, nditshatile kwaye sifuna ukuba nomntwana ukusukela umamazala wam enesifo somhlaza kwaye wasicela ukuba simnike umzukulwana kuba ngoku simgcina kwaye inguye lowo Ndinqwenela ukwazi umzukulwana… ndikhe ndalala nomyeni wam malunga neeveki ezi-3 ndiziva ngathi ndibuyisa intloko ebuhlungu kodwa ukuba bendinentlungu zangaphambi kokuya exesheni, bendilale neqabane lam izolo kwaye bendifuna ukugabha kwangoko ii-ovari zam zibuhlungu ndingathanda ukuba ungandinceda nceda, ndingavuya kakhulu
Molo, igama lam ndinguKarina, ingxaki yam kukuba ndifike ngosuku lwenyanga yam kwaye ndiyehla ngoMgqibelo kwaye ihlala kuphela iintsuku ezi-2 xa ngesiqhelo ziintsuku ezi-4, iintsuku ezimbini endiphuma ngazo ndiyehla kakhulu, kungenzeka ukuba ndikhulelwe?
Molo, ndaye ndalala neqabane lam, iintlobano zesini zaphazanyiswa.Ngoku ndinokudinwa, ukungaphatheki kakuhle esiswini, ukukhutshwa okungaphezulu kwilungu lobufazi, intloko ebuhlungu, isicaphucaphu kunye neentlungu emilenzeni yam.
Ewe, nangaliphi na ixesha indoda ifaka ipeni yayo kwilungu lobufazi ngaphandle kokukhuselwa kunokubakho umngcipheko wokukhulelwa. Phambi kokuphuma, le ndoda ikhupha ulwelo olungafihlisiyo, sisiqalo kwaye siqulathe isidoda esinokuchumisa iqanda. Ndiyabulisa!
Ndinamathandabuzo ... Ndizilolongela ukulala nomntu endithandana naye xa efuna ukukhupha umchiza, ilawulwa ke kulapho sime khona okwethutyana kwaye siqhubeke kwakhona.Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ukhulelwe?
Nanini na xa indoda ifaka incanca yayo kwilungu lobufazi ngaphandle kokuzikhusela, kunokubakho umngcipheko wokukhulelwa. Phambi kokuphuma, le ndoda ikhupha ulwelo olungafihlisiyo, sisiqalo kwaye siqulathe isidoda esinokuchumisa iqanda. Ndiyabulisa!
Molo ntombazana, ndineminyaka eli-17 ubudala, ndinokukhutshwa okuninzi kwilungu lobufazi kwaye ndiziva ndinento engaqhelekanga esiswini sam. Ndiyozela kakhulu emini. Ndachama kakhulu, nditsho isicatshulwa esinike impazamo n aser. Ayindifanelanga kumhla endiziva ngawo emva kweeveki ezimbini okanye iintsuku ezisi-7 ngaphambili, indishiya ngeentsuku ezi-4. Emva kokubuyela umva xa uchama, iyanditshisa ...
Mhlawumbi unesifo somchamo. Yiya kugqirha akuvavanye ukuba ngaba awuhambi. Ndiyabulisa!
Molo, ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba ndikhulelwe. Ndalala ngesondo nomyeni wam ngeentsuku zam zokuchuma kwiintsuku ezimbini ngaphambi kwe-ovulation, kwiintsuku ezili-13 ezidlulileyo. I-ovary yam yasekunene ibuhlungu njengokugqobhoza kunye nomlenze wam wasekunene, ngamanye amaxesha iintlungu ezomeleleyo xa ndizolula kakhulu okanye xa ndiziphakamisa okanye ngokulula xa ndihleli okanye ndilele. Ndiphinde ndachama kakhulu isisu sam sidumbile ziintlungu ezininzi nasemqolo. Ixesha lam liintsuku ezi-4 kude. Kodwa inyaniso ayifuni ukukhohlisa. Ezi mpawu zazingazange zenzeke kum. Ndidinga uncedo, enkosi
Kuyenzeka kodwa banokuba ziimpawu zangaphambi kokuya exesheni. Ukuba umthetho awuthobi, linda iintsuku ezili-14 emva koko uthathe uvavanyo. Ukubulisa kunye nenhlanhla!
Molo mihla le! Enkosi kuqala kwiinto zonke ngokusifunda. Ngenxa yamathandabuzo osithumela wona kunye nokungonwabi osibonisayo, sicebisa ngaphezu kwako konke ukuba uye kugqirha wakho wezifo zabasetyhini ukuze ulahle amathandabuzo, kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke, wazi imvelaphi yaloo ntlungu.
NDISELE IINYANGA EZIMBINI KWAKUDALA NDIFUNA UKWAZI UKUBA KUQHELEKILE UKUBA UMZIMBA WAM UTSHISE
Ewe, Ami kukuba ndihlala ndilawula kakhulu, ngoku ndiziphatha kancinci kwaye ndinombala omnyama kakhulu. Ngaphandle koko, uhlala endilumkisa ngeentlungu esiswini sam kwaye ngoku andiva nto, kuba ndihlala ndifumana iicramps ezimbi, ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ndikhulelwe?
Logama nje kukho ukungena okungakhuselekanga, kunokuba nokubakho kokukhulelwa, ngokubhekisele
kwaye andizihoyi yena undikhathalela ngentshukumo!
Molo, busuku obuhle, ndiyakuxelela ukuba ndine-IUD ngoMeyi 10, ixesha lam lafika ngesiqhelo kwaye kwafuneka ndize ngo-Novemba 20 kwaye leza kum ngo-Novemba 21, ndilala nesithandwa sam rhoqo kwaye uphuma ngaphakathi kum kuba ndinentembelo yokuthintela inzalo endikunxibileyo, kodwa ukuthandabuza kwam kukuba ndiziva ndingaqhelekanga, amabele am eme nkqo, ndinomlomo osondeleyo kwaye ndinomdla omncinci wokutya, ndifuna ukwazi ukuba ungakhulelwa i-IUD , have By the way, ndizohamba ngolwesithathu usuku lokumitha ndaye ndenza uvavanyo lomchamo ebusuku lwaphuma lunge-negative, kungenzeka ukuba i-IUD ibalekile kwaye ndikhulelwe?
Molo sweetie, andicingi ukuba ubenengxaki ye-IUD. Kodwa ukuba uyabona ukuba awuziva ukhuselekile okanye ukuba ixesha lakho liyalibaziseka kwaye alihli, yiya kugqirha wakho wezifo zabasetyhini. Ndiyabulisa!
Molweni .. kulungile ndingathanda undincede .. ixesha lam lokugqibela ibingu-Okthobha 23 kwaye ingo-Novemba 24 kwaye andisehli. Ngomhla wamashumi amabini anesithathu kaNovemba ebusuku ndaye ndalala nomyeni wam ndathi xa ndizokuchama ndafumana incwadana encinci ephepheni .. kwaye ngoku, ndinamabala amaninzi, enye okanye enye intlungu phantsi kwesisu ukuba ndinayo iintlungu emilenzeni, ukungcamla kakubi emlonyeni, iintlungu ezingapheliyo kunye nomqolo ongezantsi, ukudinwa kwaye andilali ebusuku kuphela emini ... Sele ndinabantwana ababini kwaye kowokuqala ukuba ndine-asidi neentlungu amabele am ... kwaye nge-baron bendinezikhewu ezininzi .. kodwa hayi ngazo naziphi na ezinye iimpawu ... ukuba ungandinceda ndazi ukuba ndikhulelwe na okanye hayi ndingavuya !!!
Molo uCarol! Kuxhomekeka ekubeni amaxesha akho engaqhelekanga okanye aqhelekileyo, iimpawu zinokuba ziimpawu zangaphambi kokuya exesheni. Ukuba ubona ukuba ixesha lakho alihambi ngomhla we-14 emva kokungabikho, thatha uvavanyo lokukhulelwa. Ndiyabulisa!
maria jose roldan .. molo, ukuba ndiqhelekile, enyanisweni emva kokuba ndibhalele kuwe ndibone indawo emdaka, oku emva kosuku ndifumene phakathi kwequatrain kwindawo yokuhamba ngekristali .. bendicinga ukuba sele ndifikile .. kodwa hayi .. Yayiyiyo kuphela kwaye yiyo loo nto .. kodwa ndisenazo iintlungu kwizidlo sangokuhlwa. isitshisa, isisu, intloko kunye nokunye ukucaphuka
Molweni, ndabona ukuba sexesheni ukusuka nge-1 ukuya kwi-10 ka-Okthobha kwaye ndalala emva kweentsuku ezi-4, inguNovemba 25 kwaye akukho nto iyehla, ndineentlungu emabeleni am ngakumbi kwiingono zam, akukho kutya, incasa ekrakra emlonyeni wam, isicaphucaphu xa kunuka ukutya okuthile kunye nokulala
Molo, ungandinceda, ndicinga ukuba ndinenyanga enye ubudala ukusukela ukuba ndinomntu endithandana naye nge-12 ka-Okthobha bendinobudlelwane obungakhuselekanga kwaye phakathi evekini, ndifumene i-evatest ekhemesti kwaye wandinika into engeyiyo, kwenzeka ntoni kukuba iyandihlisa Incinci kakhulu, phantse ayina nto kwaye inombala okhanyayo ngaphandle kwamahlwili ndiyabamba isisu sam esisezantsi kwaye ndiziva ndincedekile
Ukuba ubunobudlelwane ngaphandle kokukhuselwa kwalo naluphi na uhlobo, kunokuhlala kukho ithuba lokukhulelwa, ukubulisa!
Molo ndinoloyiko kuba ndenze uvavanyo lwaza lwaphuma lungelulo kodwa ndinazo zonke iimpawu akufuneki ndinciphise ukuya exesheni kodwa ndiyagula kuba ndiyekile ukuba nesiyezi isicaphucaphu ndanezothe isifuba sam sonke sidumbile kodwa ndenza tes kwaye iphuma imbi
Mva kwemini, ndiyoyika kancinci, ixesha lam eliqhelekileyo lalingoSeptemba 8 kwaye lahlala iintsuku ezi-2 kuphela, emva koko ngo-Okthobha lahla nje amathontsi amdaka kwaye lahlala malunga neentsuku ezi-3 kodwa zazingalandelani, ndidiniwe, ukungabikho ukutya, isicaphucaphu Emva kokuba ndityile, ukuba nesiyezi, amabele amarhawuzela kwaye ndikhaphu-khaphu kakhulu, iya kuba ziimpawu zokukhulelwa, kwaye ndiziva ngathi ndinomkhuhlane
Molo uEliana, ukuba ubunobudlelwane obungakhuselekanga kwaye ixesha lakho alisehli, kuya kufuneka uthathe uvavanyo lokukhulelwa ukuze ulahle amathandabuzo, imibuliso!
Molo, ndinoloyiko oluncinci, ndineentsuku ezisixhenxe emva kwexesha kwaye andikaze ndikuphose oko kwaye isisu sam siziva sinzima, bandinika i-naucias, kodwa andikwazi ukwenza i-bomitar, ndiziva ndikrakra, ndiziva ndimfutshane, Amabele am abuhlungu kakhulu, intloko yam kwaye ndiziva ndidiniwe andazi ukuba kuyakuba yintoni, ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba kwenzekani?
Ukuba uye wabelana ngesondo ngokungakhuselekanga kwaye ixesha lakho lihlala liqhelekileyo, unokukhulelwa, kodwa akukhuselekanga. Mhlawumbi zii-Syndromes zangaphambi kokuya exesheni. Lindela kude kube ngumhla we-14 ukuba uthathe uvavanyo lokukhulelwa. Ndiyabulisa!
Molo, uthini malunga nomcimbi wam kukuba ndalala ngaphambi komhla wam ngaphandle kokukhusela, kuba ixesha lam laqhubeka ngesiqhelo emva kokuba ndingazange ndilale kodwa ndinolibaziseko lweentsuku ezili-12, kunokwenzeka ukuba ndikhulelwe emva kwexesha lokugqibela. Ndandinalo ngaphambi kwexesha lam langaphambili?
Molo, bendigqobhoza kakhulu iiveki ezimbalwa kwaye iyandigulisa, ingaba umntu angandixelela ukuba kutheni kusenzeka lento?
Isenokuba ziingxaki zesisu. Yiya kugqirha ukuba uziva ungaphilanga. Ndiyabulisa!
Ewe, andikazazi ukuba ndikhulelwe - yintoni amabele am kunye namaqanda endibuhlungu kwaye ndinerhasi, kwaye ndinayo iday? Ndiyathemba ukuba ayisiyiyo le, nangona iyakuba sisifo, kodwa Ndiyoyika, ndicinga ukuba ingangumhlaza wesibeleko okanye ndazi ntoni… ukwanga.
Ukuba uziva ungalunganga, yiya kugqirha wakho ukuze ufumanise. Uya kubona ukuba ayizukuba yinto, imibuliso kunye nethamsanqa!
Molweni mantombazana, ndiyanixelela ukuba ndikwiveki yesithandathu ndikhulelwe.Ndinobudlelwane obabuyingozi, oko kukuthi, mhla ndakhulelwa kwiintsuku ezimbini emva kosuku lokugqibela lokuya exesheni.Sele sazi ukuba bekungafanelekanga ukuba Ngelo xesha kodwa siyabona ukuba ewe, iintsuku ezimbini ezingafikanga kum inyanga elandelayo, ndaye ndenza uvavanyo lwaza lwandinika ithemba elibi.Ngoku ndithetha ukuba, akukho nto inokwenzeka, kuhlala kukho umngcipheko okoko Ukungena kunye nokunye ukuba banokulibaziseka! kugcwele ukuvavanywa kwaye ukuba ayisi gine. musa ukushiya amathandabuzo.ebesos kubo bonke abahle !!
Enkosi ngokuxelela amava akho uJime. Konke okugqibelele!
Molo, mantombazana alungileyo, ndineminyaka eli-18 ubudala, ixesha lam alikho mgaqweni, bendinayo ngo-Novemba 18, ndalala ngesondo, ixesha lam lahlala kwiintsuku ze-5 okanye i-4 xa ndigqibile emva kwe-2 okanye i-3 okanye iintsuku ze-4 endizigcinileyo ukusukela ngoko Ndibe nobudlelwane yonke imihla iqabane lam khange ndibethe ngaphakathi kodwa bandixelele ukuba nge-preseminal ungahlala kunye nezixhobo ezibuyela umva ngamanye amaxesha ngamanye amaxesha njengezinye iintlungu zokuya exesheni kodwa ndingomelelanga kakhulu intloko yam ibuhlungu kakhulu nobuso bam Ukutshintsha kundinceda nam le nto ihlawulwe ndingazi kakuhle kunokuba yiyo loo nto intloko
Nanini na xa kukho ukungena okungakhuselekanga, kukho ithuba lokukhulelwa, kwi-precum kukho isidoda esinokuchumisa iqanda. Ndiyabulisa!
Mva kwemini, ukungathandabuzeki kwam kunye nombuzo wam, ndiyazinakekela ngeepilisi zokucwangcisa, ezibizwa ngokuba yi-carmin, kwaye ugqirha wam undixelele ukuba ezo pilisi bezingazukundivumela ukunciphisa inyanga, kodwa andigulanga inyanga kunye nesiqingatha. Kodwa kanye ngoNovemba 1 ndagula, ukusuka apho ndithatha iiakhawunti kwaye kufuneka ndiphinde ndigule ngoDisemba 15, kodwa uloyiko lwam kukuba namhlanje, ndinegazi kwaye ndinombala omdaka kakhulu omdaka, kwaye ndihamba ndinentlungu indawo ye-pelvic, ukongeza ekubeni udiniwe kakhulu kwaye ulele, intloko kunye nokurhawuzelela ngaphandle kwempumlo. Andazi nokuba ndizakukhulelwa na okanye hayi ???
Ukuba ulandele ukuselwa kweepilisi ngokuchanekileyo akufuneki ube nabungozi. Ngamanye amaxesha iipilisi zolawulo lokuzalwa zinokuba neziphumo ebezingalindelekanga emzimbeni. Ubona ugqirha wakho kwakhona kwaye umbuze ukuba yinto eqhelekileyo na. Ukubulisa
Kudala ndizama ukukhulelwa iinyanga ezintathu, kodwa andiphumelelanga kwaye ndiyazi ukuba ngumcimbi wokunyamezela. Ngalenyanga ndandilala nomyeni wam ngeentsuku zokuzala kakhulu kwaye ixesha lam lokufika kufuneka lifike ngomso. Inkxalabo yam kungenxa yokuba ndiziva ndilale kakhulu kwaye ndidiniwe, isitshisa kunye negesi. Inokuba ndikhulelwe?
Molo, mva kwemini elungileyo, ndingathanda ukwenza lo mbuzo ulandelayo: Kudala ndisebenzisa i-mesigyna iinyanga ezi-6, banditofa nge-11, umbuzo endinawo ngulo ulandelayo: ngo-Okthobha nge-11 banditofa kwaye kwabakho ukuphuma kancinci kulwelo oluvela kwinaliti, ngomhla wamashumi amathathu ananye ndaya exesheni kwaye ngoNovemba 31 ndaye ndabelana ngesondo neqabane lam ngaphandle kwekhondom, kwakungekho kuchama ngaphakathi kwilungu lobufazi, ingaba ukukhulelwa kunokwenzeka? Ukuza kuthi ga namhlanje ukuya exesheni kwam ayikafiki.
Kwakuloo nyanga ka-Okthobha, ukuya exesheni kwam kabini ngo-Okthobha u-2 kunye no-Okthobha u-31, inokuba kungalibazisa ngenxa yoxinzelelo? Ndidlula kwiimviwo zokugqibela eyunivesithi kunye nenyanga kaNovemba kwaye ukuqala koku kuye kwaba noxinzelelo olukhulu. Ndingayivuyela kakhulu impendulo yakho.
Molweni, molweni ekuseni, ndineminyaka engama-24 ubudala kwaye ndinenyanga ezintathu nditshatile; Mna nomyeni wam sifuna ukuba nomntwana. NgoSeptemba nge-28th ndaya esibhedlele ukuyokukhupha i-IUD apho ihlala khona unyaka omnye, ke ngo-Okthobha ndafumana ukulibaziseka kweentsuku ezi-1 kwaye ndehla ngo-Okthobha u-5 xa kufanele ukuba yehle ngomhla wama-28, ndacinga ukuba umjikelo wam wahlengahlengiswa ukurhoxiswa kwe-IUD.
Le ka-Novemba andilahleki tu kwaphela, kufanelekile ukuba ndikhankanye ukuba ndithatha i-folic acid ukusukela ngoSeptemba kwaye andizikhathalelanga xa ndilala nomyeni wam. SingoDisemba 4 kwaye andikaphumi okanye ndibonise ukuba ixesha lam liyeza, ngaba kuya kuba lula ukwenza uvavanyo lokukhulelwa? Kutshanje ndiye ndanolwazelelelo, ndilila ngento yonke kwaye ndinomsindo ngayo yonke into, ndiziva ndidiniwe kwaye ebusuku ndiyalala kodwa andiphumli, ndiyaqaphela ukuba amabele am ayinto engaqhelekanga kwaye abuthathaka. Andizukuba nayo nayiphi na into engekhoyo kodwa ndinexhala kuba ndifuna ukuzikhathalela i-100% kwaye umsebenzi wam ziiyure ezili-12.
Ndifuna ukuphawula ukuba ndinoluvo lokuya kwigumbi lokuhlambela, ndiziva ngathi andinakuma ukuba kufuneka ndiye kwangoko.
Ukuba uye wabelana ngesondo ngokungakhuselekanga unokukhulelwa, thatha uvavanyo. Ukuba uvavanyo luthi awunayo into kungenxa yokuba ukuya exesheni kulawula, into eqhelekileyo emva kwe-IUD. Umzimba ngamnye lihlabathi, thatha uvavanyo ukuze ufumanise. Ukubulisa kunye nenhlanhla! 🙂
Olaa xfaa ndingathanda ukuba undincede ukuba xfaa esqe kwenye iveki ndiyehla kunye nokopha kancinci kwaye ndifumana urhudo kunye nentloko kunye nokulala kwaye andazi nokuba ndikhulelwe ndinalo uvavanyo kwaye luphume lungelulo kwaye xfa ngubani oza kundinceda ndifuna ukwazi ukuba ndikhona okanye hayi
Ukuba awuzange ubelane ngesondo ngokungakhuselekanga, unokuba nentsholongwane yesisu, jonga ugqirha wakho ukuba uyaqhubeka unje. Ndiyabulisa!
Molo .. Ndiyakuxelela ukuba ndaye ndalala nesithandwa sam kwimihla yam echumileyo kodwa yangena kabini kwaye yathatha imizuzwana embalwa, ayizange ikhuphe ... Ukuya exesheni kwam kuphantsi kodwa akuqhelekanga kangangeentsuku ezi-5 kwaye ndinesihlunu .. Ndivile ukuba akho amatyala apho ukhulelwe khona kodwa ixesha eliqhelekileyo lifika kuwe iinyanga zokuqala izakuba lityala lam? Please nceda nceda
Nanini na xa kukho ukungena okungakhuselekanga kukho umngcipheko wokukhulelwa, kodwa ukuba ixesha lakho lehlile andicingi ukuba kuya kubakho iingxaki. Ukuziva ukhuselekile, ungathatha uvavanyo lokukhulelwa, kodwa isiphumo saso sinokuba sibi. Ndiyabulisa!
Molweni zihlobo, ndifuna uncedo, andazi nokuba ndikhulelwe na, ixesha lam alikhange lehle kangangeenyanga ezimbini, andikho semgaqweni kodwa liyehla inyanga nenyanga, ndineentloko ezininzi ezingapheliyo kwaye azinyamezeleki, kwezi ntsuku nam bendilambe kakhulu andazi kwenzeka ntoni kum, ndicela undincede ?????
Molo, kuya kufuneka uthathe uvavanyo lokukhulelwa ukufumanisa, imibuliso!
Molo, kwiminyaka emi-5 eyadlulayo ndandisebenzisa i-mecigyna apho kunqabile ukuba ixesha lam linciphise ixesha lam, babehlala benamachaphaza angaphezu kwanto, kwiinyanga ezi-4 ezidlulileyo ndiyekile ukuzitofa kwaye akukho nto iwileyo umbuzo wam: ingaba ndizakukhulelwa na? okanye yinto yesiqhelo k ukufika kade kwiinyanga ezimbalwa? Ngapha koko, ndiye ndaziva ndingaqhelekanga ngentlungu emazantsi esisu kwaye kukho ukutya kunye namavumba ayandonyanyisa… ngoNovemba ndenza uvavanyo lwaza lwaphuma lungelulo….
Kungenzeka ukuba umzimba wakho uziqhelanisa notshintsho, kodwa ukuba uye wabelana ngesondo ngokungakhuselekanga kwaye awuphumi kwaye uvavanyo lubuye lungelulo, yiya kugqirha wakho ukujonga ukuba konke kulungile. Ndiyabulisa!
Molo, ixesha lam lokugqibela lalingu-21/10/2015 Ndasebenzisa ipilisi engxamisekileyo kuba andizange ndizinyamekele kwaye ngomhla we-09/11/2015 ndaye ndopha kancinci amathontsi amabini iintsuku ezi-4 andazi ukuba ixesha lam ukusukela oko lihamba kakhulu ukusuka apho ukuza kuthi ga ngoku andikayi exesheni kwaye ndiye ndabona utshintsho emzimbeni wam njengokuthamba kwebele, ukudinwa, ukudumba esiswini esisezantsi, intloko ebuhlungu, bendisele ndiluthathile uvavanyo lokukhulelwa kodwa yabuya imbi. Kuza kwenzeka ntoni kule meko?
Thatha uvavanyo kwakhona ukuba kunokwenzeka emva kweentsuku ezimbalwa. Ndiyabulisa!
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Molo ... Ndineentsuku ezintandathu emva kwexesha, ibingakaze yenzeke kum ... bendinexesha lam lokugqibela ngoNovemba 9 kwaye ndineentlungu esiswini kunye nesiyezi kunye nokuqaqanjelwa bubuthongo nokulala emini, namhlanje ndenze njalo ukuvavanywa kokukhulelwa kwegazi kwaye kwakukubi .. Ngokwenyani, andikaze ndizive ngoluhlobo kwaye ndihlala ndisexesheni
Ndabelana ngesondo ngoDisemba 4…. Khange ndisebenzise ikhondom kodwa ukusukela apho ndiziva ndinentliziyo ebilayo, kwaye ngathi ndihluthi ngalo lonke ixesha ..
Khange ndiphawule kwisithandwa sam kodwa ngalo lonke ixesha ndilala naye ndiziva ... ndifuna ukuya kwigumbi lokuhlambela kwaye isinqe sam sihlala siqinile ngaphambi nasemva .... Ngaba unokukhulelwa?
Sawubona Ana, ukuba nje unesondo esingakhuselekanga ungakhulelwa. Kodwa ihlala ithatha malunga nenyanga ukuba iimpawu zibonakale (kwiiveki ezimbini kwangoko). Ndiyabulisa!
Molo, bendifuna ukufumanisa ukuba ndineminyaka eli-18 ubudala, bendinesihlandlo sam sokuqala ngaphambi kokuba ndibenexesha lam lokuqala, umhla wenyanga wawungu-1 ukuya ku-5 kwaye emva komhla we-15 wenyanga enye endandiqala ukuwuqala ngo-19 ukuya ku-23 XNUMX, andazi kutheni ndiphinde ndehla ngoku bekunyanzelekile ndiye ezantsi ngoDisemba kwaye andikafuni kuphuma ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo ndine-inchason kuphela kunye neentlungu zesisu.
Molo, bendifuna ukufumanisa ngokungathandabuzeki, ndineminyaka eli-18 ubudala kwinyanga ephelileyo ixesha lam lokuya exesheni lihlala lisuka kwi-1 kuye kwi-5 kwaye ngo-Novemba ngo-15 bendinesihlandlo sam sokuqala kwaye phantse ndaphela inyanga nge-19 ukuya exesheni kwam kwaqala kwakhona kwade Ixesha le-23 yayingamaxesha ama-2 ngenyanga inyathelo elilungileyo ukuba andizikhathalelanga kwaye kwiintsuku ezi-3 ndibone i-intshiason engazange ndibenayo kunye neentlungu ezininzi kwii-hobarios zomelele kwaye ndinqwenela ukupheka ezininzi andizenzi Ndifuna ukushiya amathandabuzo ...
Molo, jonga iimpawu zam zezi:
Intlungu yesisu (emhadini wesisu)
Ukuqhuma ... kwaye ngamanye amaxesha igesi, kwaye kanye ngesiyezi, ndiziva ndilambile ngakumbi kunesiqhelo kunye nobunzima esiswini sam.
Ngokwamntu, khange ndingene kodwa bendisopha kwinyanga ezi-2 ezidlulileyo kwaye emva kwalomhla ukuya exesheni kwenyanga kwawa kwaye yonke into yathatha iintsuku ezi-4 zokuba kufuneka iqhubeke kwaye igazi lawa njengamanye amaxesha ngesiquphe yonke into yanqunyulwa ... ndikhulelwe okanye hayi?
AMI namhlanje eli yenzeke kum ngokufanayo nawe, eyona nto ikhuselekileyo ukuba sisicatshulwa
molo ndinombuzo mva nje ndinentloko ebuhlungu, isiyezi, iintlungu, indlala eninzi, iintlungu rhoqo ze-ovari kunye nokulala kunye nokudinwa ... ngaba umntu angandixelela ukuba bakhuselekile? ? Ndingayivuyela ... enkosi
Molo Brenda, kuxhomekeke ekubeni ubukhe wabelana ngesondo ngokungakhuselekanga okanye hayi. Ndiyabulisa!
Andazi nokuba lo mntwana ulindileyo kwaye ixesha lam belingomhla wamashumi amabini anesixhenxe kwinyanga ephelileyo kodwa bekufana neeveki ezimbini okanye ezintathu ezidlulileyo endiziva ngathi kukuqaqanjelwa sisisu ngokungathi isifuba sam sibuhlungu kwaye eyona nto ingumnqa kukuba iqabane lam Uyaguga kwaye andazi ukuba yintoni ingxaki ngam, andazi ukuba ungandinceda na
Molweni mantombazana, phantse kwenzeka into efanayo kum, ndinolawulo lokuya exesheni kwam ngoDisemba 13 okanye 17, kodwa ngomhla we-10 ndaba nobudlelwane nesithandwa sam, kwaye ndandibuthathaka kakhulu, emva koko akukho nto iyehla…. Ndaye ndenza novavanyo ngomhla wama-22 zaze zabuya zisithi, kodwa kwangalo mini ndandineempawu ezibuhlungu zesisu esiswini sam kwaye nesisu sam sele sikhulile… Ingaba ndikhulelwe ngokupheleleyo?
Molo Erika, ukuba ngaba unalo uvavanyo oluchanekileyo, kunokwenzeka kakhulu ukuba ukhulelwe. Ndiyabulisa!
Umbuzo wenzekile kum wokuba ixesha lam beliziintsuku ezili-10 ngaphambili, bekungafani nokuhlala kunjalo, enyanisweni khange ndizive ndopha kancinci kwaye akukho zintlungu emva koko ndizive ndibuhlungu emabeleni nasesiswini.
Molo, ndiziva iimpawu ezingaqhelekanga, isisu sam sibuhlungu, siyamangalisa, iintlungu ezisinika zona, kutheni ingesiso isisu, yinto esihlala isisu kwaye indinika ukubanda, i-naucia kunye nobuso bam buhlumile, uthathe uvavanyo lokukhulelwa landlady waphuma engekho? Inokuba lixesha lam, andizanga, kuye kwafuneka ndize ngoDisemba 20 kodwa kunzima kuba ixesha lam alikho mgaqweni. Nceda uncede ..
Molo ngokuLungileyo, yenza uvavanyo kwakhona emva kweentsuku ezimbalwa. Ndiyabulisa!
Molo ulungile, ndineminyaka eli-17 ubudala kwinyanga kaJulayi ndiqale ukucwangcisa kwade kwango-Okthobha ... ngo-Novemba bendifumana ixesha lam eliqhelekileyo kwaye ngoDisemba bendinokuhamba okumdaka ngeveki ezimbini kwaye khange ndifumane xesha lam liqhelekileyo kulenyanga. ka January bendinombala omdaka nge pain ezininzi esiswini nasemqolo ndicela uncede umntu andicacisele ngento eyenzekayo ndiseneentsuku ezili-10 zokuya exesheni ... enkosi !!
Kusenokwenzeka ukuba lutshintsho lwehomoni olufumanayo ngenxa yehomoni, ukuba uyaqhubeka nokuba neentlungu, yiya kugqirha. Ndiyabulisa!
Molo, igama lam ndinguVanessa kwaye ixesha lam bekufanele ukuba lifikile ngomhla wama-28 kodwa lafika ngomhla wama-25 lahlala iintsuku ezi-3. Ngoku ndiziva ndidumbile kwaye ndinerhasi, ingaba ndingakhulelwa?
Ukuba kufike ixesha lakho, nokuba lihlale iintsuku ezintathu kuphela, andicingi ukuba ukhulelwe, imibuliso!
Ndiyakuxelela ukuba ixesha lam lihlala lithatha iintsuku ezi-3 kodwa kulenyanga ihlale iintsuku ezi-2 kuphela ezazili-16 kunye ne-17 zale nyanga izolo andisafumani nto kodwa namhlanje ndizise njengenkunkuma ebomvu, ndihamba nesicaphucaphu, iintlungu zinentloko Kwixesha elidlulileyo ndifumene imithungo kwicala lasekhohlo lesisu sam kunye necramp elunyaweni lwasekunene ndihamba nomsele omncinci wokuhambisa amanzi. Oko akuzange kwenzeke kum!
Xa ndabelana ngesondo nenkosi yam uyabaphosa ngaphandle (iimpundu okanye umva) kodwa babendixelele ukuba ngaphambi kokuba bafike bayazilahla njengamanzi (andilazi igama) ukuba inokuzisa isidoda kwaye ingakwenza ukhulelwe.
Ngaba ndingakhulelwa?
UKUFANELEKILE KWAKHO
Ndinenyanga enesiqingatha ndikhulelwe kwaye ndineentlungu zesisu ezininzi, ndikwanazo ngathi kukucaphuka, ingaba kuyinto eqhelekileyo?
Molo UMBUZO OMKHULU INYANGA EDLULE NDANDINOBUDLELWANO NESITHANDWA SAM, ASIBakhathalele NDINOKUXELWA KWIINTSUKU EZI-23 NDIBE NDIVAKALELWA KAKUDALA NGAMANYE AMAXESHA NGAMANYE NDIKUDANYA UKUTYA KWAM AND NDIFUNA UKUBUYA NDIBUYISE NEZIFUNDO ZAM. UKUDINEKA KAKHULU NDINIKE NDINIKELA AMANYE AMABANGO KWI-TUMMY YAM KODWA NGOKUGQIBELA BABE NDINIKEZA KUNYE KWELINYE ILIBELE LESIBHEDLEYO KANYE BESE BENDINIKELA AMANYE AMAXABISO KWI-OVARIE ZAM BACINGA UKUBA LE MALI IYANCEDA BANCEDE .
Molo, ndinombuzo kwiveki enesiqingatha eyadlulayo, ixesha lam layeka ukuba ne-colic eninzi kwaye ngeCawa ndalala ngesondo kunye neqabane lam kwaye ngoku ndiziva ndinesifo esifana nexesha kodwa ndingenamandla, kodwa ngaphezulu kwako konke ndinako ukukhutshwa okumhlophe okuninzi :(
Ngaphandle koko, ndinama-cysts kwaye andicingi ukuba ndingakhulelwa okanye ndim ?:
Pd Ndineminyaka eli-18 ubudala :(
Zizimpawu zokuba ukhulelwe, uneetets kwiintsuku ezili-10 ukuze ususe amathandabuzo kwaye ukuba awulindeli ixesha lakho elizayo, ukuba kunjalo, kufuneka uzikhathalele
U-Ola bendinomthetho ukusuka kwi-21 kuye kwi-26 kwaye andazi kakuhle ukuba zithini iintsuku zam ezichumileyo, namhlanje bendinobudlelwane kunye neqabane lam ngaphandle kokukhuselwa ubaleke wangena ngaphakathi kudala ndifuna ukubona umama kwaye andihlali ukuba Umntu othile angandinceda ukuba ndibenamathandabuzo enkosi
Molo Maria, ukuba unemijikelezo yeentsuku ezingama-28 rhoqo, i-ovulation yenzeka malunga nemini ye-14 (kubalwa ukusuka kwixesha lokuqala), kwaye iintsuku ezichumileyo zijikeleze loo mini.
A ubingelele.
(Unokujonga umxholo wethu kwimijikelo yokuya exesheni okanye kwiintsuku ezichumileyo)
Molo kwiinyanga ezi-3 ezidlulileyo bendikhe ndabelana ngesondo ngeentsuku zam zokuchuma kwaye ndaye ndaphelela ngaphakathi ngaphakathi, ngosuku olulandelayo bendizokuthenga ipilisi engxamisekileyo kwaye ukuya exesheni kwam kwehlile, kwiinyanga ezi-2 ezidlulileyo ixesha lam lalisekuqaleni ndandingacingi ukuba kuya kwenzeka nto kwaye Ndineenguqu kwimood ... ngoku malunga nenyanga edlulileyo bendikhe ndaya exesheni kodwa kwiintsuku kuphela kodwa bekungekho nto bekufana nokopha okungabalulekanga, bendingacingi ukuba kuya kwenzeka into engaqhelekanga ... kwaye ixesha lam kufuneka lize kum ngoku nge-23 kaJanuwari ... nakwiintsuku ezi-3 ezidlulileyo ndafumana igazi ndicinga ukuba ixesha lam liqala kodwa yayiyimizuzu engama-30 kuphela, ngoku ndidumbile kwaye ndineentlungu ezininzi esiswini, bendigabha kodwa Ndimnyama ngokwebala ndaya kwagqirha bandixelela ukuba kufanele ukuba sesesisu kodwa akukho nto indithethelelayo ngokudumba kunye nentlungu esiswini. Andazi ukuba ndicinge ntoni. Ungandicebisa into?
Enkosi kakhulu
Molo ulungile, ndifuna uncedo okwenzekayo neqabane lam bendinamajelo okuchopha ngaphandle kwaye bandixelele ukuba ukuba baphela ngaphandle ndingakhulelwa, into eyenzekayo kukuba andikho semthethweni kwaye namhlanje ndinegazi elimdaka kwaye kuncinci kakhulu emva koko pinki kodwa incinci kakhulu. Namhlanje ndihambe ndahamba ndathi xa ndihamba ndaziva ndicaphuka isisu sam nemilenze yam ibuhlungu ngathi andisakwazi ukuyithatha kwaye kwiveki ephelileyo bendinosuku olunamageza kunye nesiyezi .. ndingabona ukuba ndikhulelwe ndicela uncedo Ndifuna ingcebiso nceda
Ubusuku obuhle, uxolo ngexesha, kodwa ndinexhala kakhulu, ndishiywe lixesha ngeentsuku ezili-17 kwaye ndiziva ndinesicaphucaphu kunye neentlungu esiswini, ndiye ndenza uvavanyo lokuchama kodwa lwaphuma lungelulo, ndenze ntoni ngokungxamisekileyo? Ndikhathazekile
Molo, ungaqhagamshelana nogqirha wabasetyhini okanye uphinde uvavanyo emva kweveki. Konke okugqibelele.
Molo, ndineminyaka eli-18 ubudala, ndineentsuku ezili-14 emva kwexesha, ngokubanzi, ukuya exesheni kuhlala kulibaziseka kodwa ngeli xesha kwahlukile kwiiveki ezi-3 ezidlulileyo ukuba ayizizo ii-ovari zam zibuhlungu kakhulu kwaye kwiveki ephelileyo ndaqala ngamaqhuma.
Kwaye iintlungu ze-ovari njenge-asides esiswini sam, imilenze yam ibuhlungu kwaye ndidiniwe ngaphandle kwamandla, ngaba ndizakukhulelwa?
Molo Lin, ekuphela kwendlela omele uyazi ngayo ukuba ukhulelwe (ewe, ekuphela kwendlela, kodwa hayi ethembekileyo) kukuthatha uvavanyo lokukhulelwa. Ukuba awunayo imali yokuyithenga, yiya kwiziko locwangciso losapho elikufutshane kwaye bakwenzele lona. Konke okugqibelele.
Eyona nto intle kukuba wenze idinga nogqirha wakho kwaye ubuze uvavanyo lokukhulelwa kwegazi ukuze uqiniseke ukuba ukhulelwe okanye awukhulelwanga.
Ngokuchanekileyo, leyo yeyona ndlela ilungileyo. Enkosi kakhulu ngokuphawula.
Ungxamiseko nceda !!. Ndinobudlelwane kunye nesithandwa sam iinyanga ezintlanu .. Inyanga yokuqala ndithathe ipilisi engxamisekileyo kathathu .. Iinyanga ezine khange sikhathalelane kwaye ndenze iimvavanyo ezimbini kwaye eyokugqibela ndiyenzile malunga Kwiinyanga ezimbini ezidlulileyo .. Zonke iimpawu zam ziyangqinelana ngaphandle kokuya exesheni, kodwa okokugqibela bendifumana ikofu.Kodwa ndinyangwa izintso apho ndiyoyika ukuba xa ndikhulelwe kungachaphazela usana lwam. Ndiphinde ndafunda ukuba iingxaki zomchamo kunye nezintso ziimpawu zokukhulelwa kwaye ndinokuphelelwa ngamandla, isicaphucaphu kunye neentloko ukongeza kwi-cramps, ukudinwa, ndilila kuyo yonke into kunye nentlungu esifubeni nangona ndingakhange ndiluqaphele utshintsho ngokukhawuleza undixelele ukuba iindawo zam zokuphefumla ziyavutha .. Zeziphi izinto ezinokwenzeka xa ukhulelwe! Ndincede .. Enkosi.
Molo, ukuba ngaba iimvavanyo zenziwe ngexesha ukuze zinike iziphumo ezilungileyo kwaye ziphume zingenayo, uya kugqirha uyokwenza uvavanyo lwegazi ubone ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kuwe. Ndiyabulisa!
Ndineminyaka eli-17 enkosi kuba akukho gqirha ufuna ukundimema ngaphandle kwenkampani kamama, ndincede ndisombulule amathandabuzo am nceda ndinazo zonke iimpawu kwaye indithoba kumanqaku ecaphulo aqhelekileyo umahluko kukuba ujika umbala omdaka .. Nceda .
Molo, ukuba unamathandabuzo, jonga ugqirha wezamama kunye nonyoko kuba inguchwephesha ongcono onokukunceda. Nangona ungasichazeli ngokuthe ngqo ukuba ungathandabuzi ntoni, imibuliso!
Molo zinjani izinto? Into enqabileyo yenzekile kum, inyani ayikaze yenzeke kum kwaye ndingathanda ukundinceda ndiyazi into eyenzekileyo.
Ngo-Novemba yayikokokugqibela ukulala ngesondo kodwa kwiinyanga ezilandelayo ndaphuma kwesiqhelo ngexesha nayo yonke into. Ngoku ngoFebruwari bendinempawu zaphambi kokuya exesheni kwaye ndiye ndaphuma kwiintsuku ezimbini kwaye bekufutshane kakhulu emva kokuba ndibuyile bendinezona mpawu zomeleleyo zaphambi kokuya exesheni kwaye benditshiswe sisisu ndinentloko ebambekayo ngalo lonke ixesha (Ndihlala ndihlala) ikwanika ukulala kakhulu ekupheleni kosuku kwaye kusasa ndivuka ndinomdla wokungenzi nto ngaphandle kokuhlala ekhaya ndilale. Kodwa bendiphantsi koxinzelelo olukhulu kwaye ndinje, andifane nditye.
Ukuba ungandinceda ndingavuya kakhulu kuba ndinexhala.
Nceda, ndingavuya kakhulu ukuba ungandiphendula! Ndixhalabile kakhulu ukuba le nto khange yenzeke kum
Molo Kika, yiya kugqirha wakho wezifo zabasetyhini ukuze akwazi ukukulandela. Ndiyabulisa!
Molo, kulungile, ndiza kukuxelela ukuba nge-1,2,3 kaMatshi, 4, 8, kwaye nge-10,11 ka-Matshi ixesha lam lafika emva koko nge-12, XNUMX, XNUMX, no-XNUMX ndibala umbala omdaka kwaye ndineentlungu ezininzi esinqeni sam kwaye Intlungu encinci esiswini endinokuyenza ah andizithathi izinto zokucwangcisa ndiyathemba ukuba ungandinceda enkosi kakhulu
Ngaba ungandinceda ngale nto ngo-Matshi 8 ndalala nesithandwa sam, yayilixesha lokuqala kuthi sobabini, (ngo-Matshi 5 ndawugqiba umjikelo wam wokuya exesheni, ngoko ke koko bandixelela kona iintsuku zam zokungachumi kuya kuvela 6-Matshi ukuya malunga ne-10 Matshi). Ukunyuka ngaphakathi kwam, emva kweeyure ezingama-5 ndathatha ipilisi ngosuku olulandelayo njengoko kubonisiwe, kwandinika ezinye iimpawu kodwa andizange ndiphume, ngokuqinisekileyo into yokuba ngo-Matshi 10 ndaphinda ndalala ngesondo, kodwa i-ejaculation ebephumile .kodwa ngala mini emva kwegazi leyure kodwa kancinci, kwezi ntsuku isisu sam besitshisa, ukukhutshwa okumhlophe kuyehla kwaye ndive iicazones kumqolo wam. Ndiziva ndixinekile, kwaye andazi ngenene ukuba ndenzeni ndingathanda ukundicebisa ukuba kungenzeka ukuba yenzeke kum okanye ukuba kukho ithuba lokuba iqanda lifakwe isichumiso, ndiyabulela kwangaphambili.
Molo Daya, asinokwazi ukuba yintoni engalunganga ngawe, kuya kufuneka uye kugqirha okanye kwiziko lokucwangcisa usapho ukuze ufumane. Kwaye sifuna ukukukhumbuza ukuba ngokungasebenzisi amanyathelo okuthintela ukwabelana ngesondo, akukho kuphela umngcipheko wokukhulelwa, kodwa kunye nokuhanjiswa kwe-STD. Konke okugqibelele.
Molo, ndinazo phantse zonke iimpawu kodwa ukuya exesheni kwam kuyehla, hayi ngendlela efanayo nangesixa esifanayo, kodwa ndiyehla.
Ndinoluvo loxinzelelo esiswini sam, iintlungu esibelekweni sam esinqeni.
Ugqirha wam wenze inkcubeko yokuchama kunye novavanyo olupheleleyo lomchamo kwaye babengenayo, andinalo usulelo lomchamo.
Inokuba yeyiphi. Ndiza kubona ugqirha wam wamabhinqa kwakhona kodwa ndifuna ukuba nombono.
Molo, ndibhidekile. Ndalala ngesithandwa sam kusuku olungaphambi kokuba kufike ixesha lam lokuya exesheni (kwinyanga ephelileyo), kwaye wayophula ikhondom, into endingayaziyo kukuba wakhupha ngaphakathi ngaphakathi, okanye wagxotha yonke into kwakamsinya nje akhupha . Ixesha lam lehla ngokumangalisayo, ewe lahlala kwiintsuku ze-7 njengesiqhelo kodwa ingekhoyo i-tab njengoko kuhlala kunjalo. Kwiveki emva kwexesha elishiyekileyo, salala ngesondo kwaye kwenzeka into efanayo nangekhondom kwaye andazi ukuba ikhona into etsalwe ngaphakathi kum, ukukhutshwa kuye kwaphuma kakhulu emva nje kokuba ndiyochama, nto leyo yandenza ndabhideka . Inqaku lelokuba ngosuku olulandelayo ndaye ndaphelelwa ligazi kancinci, njalo-njalo phantse iveki, kodwa yayincinci kancinci ngosuku. Ndikhe ndane-nausea mva nje, ukuphazamiseka endingazange ndibenako ebomini bam, kunye nomnqweno wokuchama rhoqo. Ndingumntu omncinci ngokwakha kwaye ndiyaqaphela ukuba ngalo lonke ixesha ndiphakama (ndingakhange nditye nantoni na) isinqe sam sidumbile. Ndiyozela imini yonke kodwa iyandiphazamisa kuba ndihlala ndisozela ... zimbini iintsuku phambi kokuba ixesha lam liphinde libuye kwakhona kwaye izolo xa ndicocekile ndabona iqhekeza legazi njenge-2 mm mini clot, kodwa akukho nto iyenye , Bendicinga ukuba ndizokwehla kwaye ndibhinqe itawuli, kodwa akukho nto yehlayo ngaphandle kokukhutshwa okumthubi njengaxa kungumhla wokugqibela wexesha ... andazi ukuba mandicinge ntoni ...
Andazi ma ndehlise i-rgla se m dbio d yehlisa i-11 ityhubhu ehambelana ne-26 d kaFebruwari bendineentsuku ezintlanu emva kwexesha bendiluvavanyo lokukhulelwa kwaye bendingenayo pro m bendinosuku olunye kamva iyakuba kukuba star okhulelweyo nam ndancancisa usana lwam
Molo, nge-3 ka-Matshi ndalala nesithandwa sam ngaphandle kokukhuselwa, andizange ndiphume ngaphakathi kum kwaye ebusuku ndithathe usuku lwasemva komhla kodwa nge-15 saphinda saphinda kwaye andisathathi kwanto. Ngomhla we-16 kweyoKwindla ndiye exesheni eliqhelekileyo kodwa ndiye ndaziva kakubi, kusasa ndivuka kakuhle, kodwa ngokuhlwa okanye emva kwemini ukuba nditye into ndiziva ndihluthi kakhulu, ndikhe ndaziva ndinesiyezi kwaye ndinexhala kakhulu. Ungandinceda kwaye undixelele ukuba ngawaphi amathuba endinawo okuba ndikhulelwe? Ndilindele impendulo yakho, enkosi!
Molo, kwenzeka ntoni ukuba nge-3 ka-Matshi ndalala ngesondo ngokungakhuselekanga kwaye isoka lam alizange lichithe ngaphakathi kum, ebusuku ndathatha usuku lwasemva komhla kodwa ngomhla we-15 saphinda salala (ngaphandle kokukhuselwa) kwaye ngeli xesha andikhange ndisele nto. . Ngo-Matshi 16 yehla yaya esiqhelweni kodwa kwimpelaveki yonke bendiziva ndingaqhelekanga, andikwazi kutya into kuba ndiziva ndihluthi kwaye ndinesiyezi
Ngawaphi amathuba okuba ndikhulelwe?
Ndilindele impendulo yakho ekhawulezileyo, enkosi!
Mholweni. Ndinamathandabuzo kwaye ndiyathemba ukuba umntu othile angandinceda. Ndinexesha leentsuku ezingama-30. Ndigcina ixesha kakhulu. Le nyanga yeza kum ngoMatshi 4. Ndakhe ndabelana ngesondo ngomhla we-11, 12, 15 nowe-19. Into engaqhelekanga kukuba ndidla ngokuba nokuhamba okuninzi nangemihla ye-ovulation, kodwa kulenyanga ndiye ndoma. Kuphela xa kucocwa ndibona ukuhamba kolwelo kakhulu kunye nokufuma okuthile emini. Ngomhla we-15 ndandinentloko ebuhlungu, isiyezi, isicaphucaphu, irhasi kunye nokungazinzi emathunjini, kunye nentlungu encinci kwi-ovary elungileyo. Umbuzo wam ngulo. Ezi mpawu zinokubangelwa kukukhulelwa? Ndikhangela umntwana wam wesibini.
Ndiyalungisa. Ubunzima endandinabo ngomhla we 17. Ngaba inokuba luphawu lokuchumisa?
Into endibhidayo kancinci kwaye kukuba kwezinye iiforamu ndifunde ukuba usuku lokuqala lokuya exesheni kukusukela wopha, kodwa ugqirha wam wamanina undixelele ukuba ndibala ukusukela ngala mhla kuqalwa ngayo ukukhutshwa okumdaka. Ke andazi ukuba ndibala njani i-ovulation yam emva koko. Ukuba ukusukela nge-2 kaMatshi yayikukuhamba okanye ukusukela nge-4 oko kwakusopha. Nceda uncede !!
Sawubona uJessica: usuku lokuqala lomjikelo wokuzala lubalwa ukususela kumhla wexesha lakho lokuhla.
Hola
Okwam kunqabile kakhulu ndinabantwana aba-3 kwaye umyeni wam une-vasectomy ye-2 kunye nesiqingatha seminyaka ndinolibaziseko lweentsuku ezili-12 exesheni kwaye ndidiniwe kakhulu kwaye ndinentlungu yomqolo ezi mpawu khange ndikhe ndikhulelwe ngaphambili kodwa nangoku ndiyathandabuza andikaze ndilale nenye into ngaphandle komyeni wam, ingaba ndingamitha?
Ayifanelanga ukuba yenzeke, kodwa ukuba sele ineentsuku ezili-12 kungcono uthathe uvavanyo ukuze uphume.
Molo, mva kwemini entle, ndinexhala kuba ngomhla wamashumi amathathu anesihlanu kuFebruwari ukuya exesheni kwam kwaye ngomhla weshumi elinesibhozo kwinyanga enye ndalala nomntu endithandana naye kodwa ayisiyiyo le indikhathazayo into endikhathazayo ndizokumitha kuba asizisebenzisi iikhondom ixesha lam yayilixesha lakhe ngo-Matshi 13 kwaye andiphumi ndiba nexhala kuba ndihlala ndiqhelekile malunga noku, sele inentsuku eziyi-18 kwaye ingekaphumi ndinentloko, isiyezi, ukuqina esiswini nokunye iimpawu. Igama lam ndinguLaura, ndinexhala, ndicela undincede. Ndiyabulela kwangaphambili.
Molweni kwaye nithethe uxolo ngokungazi
Ndandinobudlelwane nge-10 kaFebruwari kwangolo suku ndandikhe ndaya exesheni kodwa usuku lokuqala umntu akaphalazi gazi
Ndilinde iintsuku ezili-14 ukuba ndivavanywe kwaye kwakukubi ekhaya nasegazini
Kwiintsuku kamva ndaba neentlungu zesisu kunye nesicaphucaphu
Ndaphinda ndenza uvavanyo lwegazi, uvavanyo lomchamo kunye nesonogram yelungu lobufazi. Kwavela ukuba ndinee-cysts kwaye andikhulelwanga
Namhlanje nguMatshi 23 kwaye okwangoku andikaphumi
Ucinga ukuba ndenze ntoni?! 🙁
Molweni, ndim kwakhona, ndishiywe lixesha ngeentsuku ezingama-20, oko kukuthi, ngo-Matshi, ixesha lam alifikanga, alikafiki ngoFebruwari 10, ngomso ndiya kugqirha, nokuba andicingi ukuba ndikhulelwe kuba umyeni wam enayo i-vasectomy, ndikuthandabuza ukuba uvile ukuba iyasilela
Molweni ndineminyaka eli-19 ubudala kwinyanga yoMqungu andikhange ndiye exesheni, niyabona ubudlelwane ngoJanuwari 16 no-24 kwaye ngosuku olulandelayo bekufanele ukuba ndifikile kwaye ngoFebruwari yafika kodwa ayizange ihlale kangangeentsuku ezi-3 kodwa yayi Yayimbala omdaka ngombala kwaye kwakopha kancinci, kwaye ngenyanga kaMatshi ndafumana ipinki kwaye yathatha iintsuku ezi-2 kwaye ndabelana ngesondo kwiveki ephelileyo… ..
Ndidiniwe kakhulu, izinto ebendizenza ngaphambili kodwa ndidiniwe kakhulu indlela yokufika etrakhiweni iibhloko ezi-5 kwaye ndinomoya omfutshane ndiphelelwa yinzondo ngamanye amaxesha ndifuna ukutya imini yonke ndicatshukiswa yiyo nantoni na nditshintshe imeko yam rhoqo ndiyozela kwaye ebusuku ndifumana ubuthongo okokugqibela ndavasa iimpahla zam kwaye zindinika iintlungu esiswini kwaye zenyuka umqolo wam andazi ukuba kutheni kodwa ngoFebruwari ndenze u-D. uvavanyo lokukhulelwa kwaye ndandingenayo kwaye bandixelela ukuba akuqinisekanga kakhulu ukuba ndiyoyika kakhulu kwaye ndinexhala lomntu onokundinceda nceda andazi ukuba ndikhulelwe ndinamathandabuzo amaninzi andazi ukuba ndicinge ntoni .. .
Molweni mvakwemini
Ndineminyaka eli-19 ubudala kwaye kulungile kukho izinto endaziyo ukuba ziyenzeka iinyanga ezi-6 ndisela iipilisi yonke imihla kodwa kwiinyanga ezi-2 bendineentsuku endingazithathiyo kwaye xa ndiziphinda ndaphinda ndabelana ngesondo kwaye ngoku ndiyazenza Andazi ukuba ndikhulelwe phantse ndine-1 iveki k isisu sam sixhuma kwaye kuba ndinesiyezi ndiyayicekisa iminqweno yokutya okungekho mpilweni endingakuthandiyo. Kwiintsuku ezili-15 ezidlulileyo ndehle kodwa ibingathi yinkunkuma kwaye imdaka, akukho gazi ndingamitha ngalo
Molo, ndinombuzo omkhulu.
Ngenyanga ephelileyo ixesha lam belifikelwe ziintsuku ezintlanu (ndicinga ukuba kungenxa yesikizi esikhulu endinalo) Ndazinika inaliti ye-atrimon (enikwa ngosuku lwe-5th emva kokuba ixesha lakho lehlile) kwiinyanga ezili-8 ezidlulileyo ndayinika kwaye zange bendinazo naziphi na iingxaki, bekuhlala kusiza xa kufuneka ndize nesixa esiqhelekileyo, kungekho zimpawu zingaqhelekanga.
Kwinyanga ephelileyo kwavela kwi-9 ukuya kwi-17 (Oko kukuthi, iintsuku ezi-5 emva komhla endifanele ukufika ngawo). Ndalala ngo-24, 25 no-26 (kathathu ngemini) emva kweveki ndandine-naucias, ndagabha kube kanye, isitshisa, intloko ebuhlungu (nangona ndingakhange ndithathe nantoni na kwiintlungu ezihlala okwexeshana) ukuhamba ngamanye amaxesha isiqingatha sobisi, ukubhinqa, ndandibanda kangangesiqingatha seentsuku ezimbini, ndiye kwigumbi lokuhlambela ndichame rhoqo kwaye ndinobunzima bokulala ebusuku, nangona ndilala emva kweeyure ezimbini okanye ezintathu, bendinentlungu ye-ovari okuhlala kancinci kwaye kuphela kwicala lasekhohlo bekuthambile njengesiqhelo.
kwiveki ephelileyo, oko kukuthi, ngoMgqibelo odlulileyo ndenze uvavanyo lokukhulelwa olwalungenayo, kodwa kuye kwafuneka ndize ngomhla we-4 zeza kum ngomhla we-5, nangona ibala elimdaka kuphela kwaye namhlanje ndifumana obomvu kancinci kodwa amaxesha ngamaxesha kunye nenani elincinci kakhulu.
Kukho amathuba okuba ndikhulelwe, andifuni ukwenza olunye uvavanyo kwaye iya kuphinda ibe negative kwakhona.
Molo, igama lam ndinguBeatriz, ndinentandabuzo enkulu.Ngeentsuku ezi-4 ezidlulileyo ndihamba ngokungathi ndinorhudo oluhle, ewe ngaphambili kwaye esiswini ingxolo eyoyikekayo yegesi evakalayo kwaye isisu sam sikhangeleka sikhulu kwaye namhlanje lusuku lwe-4 kwaye yandinika impumlo evuzayo ... iinyawo zam zidumbile ... Kwaye izolo umqolo wam ububuhlungu ngokungathi ixesha lam lizokwehla ... Kwaye inyani yile, andicingi okanye ndizive ngathi ndikhulelwe , Nditsho kuba umyeni wam ebene vasectomy malunga neminyaka eli-12 ... .. Ngaba ndingakhulelwa ???? Ndincede Nceda
Kwaye andithathanga kwanto ngenxa yeegesi
Molo ndineminyaka engama-43 ubudala kwaye ndifake i-novafen rhoqo ngeentsuku ezi-4, kodwa ixesha elide belingaqhelekanga malunga nonyaka kodwa andikayeki ukujova, ngamanye amaxesha alifikeleli kum, kodwa ngoku ndinexhala kuba ndi Qaphela ukuba ndiyoyika ukukhulelwa kule minyaka impilo yam ayisiyiyo eyokujongana nokukhulelwa okutsha, ngomntwana wam wesibini ndibaleke iingozi ezininzi. Ndinento eyoyikisayo, eshushu, ebandayo yesisu kunye nentlungu esiswini sam.
Molo, ndifuna uluvo lwakho. Ndineminyaka engama-26 ubudala kwaye ukusukela ukuphela kukaJanuwari andikhange ndiyisele ipilisi yokuthintela ukukhawula. Khange ndilale ngesondo malunga nenyanga e-1 kodwa umqolo wam ubuhlungu, ndinamaqhakuva angaphezulu kobomi bam bonke, igesi kunye nokubetha, ukubola kwentliziyo, urhudo kwaye ndifumene phantse ikhilogla enesiqingatha. Into engadibanisi nam kukuba ixesha lam lifikile (emva kwexesha). Ucinga ntoni? Ndiyabulisa kwaye ndiyabulela
Molo, ndiyathemba ukuba ungandiphendula, ndithatha iipilisi zokuthintela inzala kwaye ndaba neentlobano zesini ngokuchanekileyo ngoFebruwari 25 xa ndandikwiintsuku zam zokungabikho kwaye ndingenaxesha, ngo-Matshi ekupheleni kwebhokisi ndafumana ixesha leentsuku ezi-3 , Ukusuka apho ndaqala ibhokisi entsha, Kodwa ndaqala ukuziva iimpawu ezingaqhelekanga kakhulu, ukudumba okuninzi, iintlungu ezisezantsi, iintlungu ze-ovari imini yonke nakweyiphi na imeko, ubuthathaka, iintlungu zebele, usuku olu-1 ngokugabha nokuninzi yomnqweno wokuchama, iintsini zam zaphuma igazi xa ndihlamba amazinyo kwaye ndafumana induna.
Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ndikhulelwe ukuba ndiye exesheni ngenyanga kaMatshi?
Ndikunye nonyana wam bendineempawu esele zikhankanyiwe apha ngasentla kodwa kubonakala kuyinto engaqhelekanga kum (ndikhulelwe ndithatha iipilisi)
Ndiyathemba ukuba ungandiphendula
Molweni, bendilinde ukuya exesheni ngosuku lokuqala ndaye ndehla ndedwa.Iintsuku ezimbini zokuya exesheni, elinye linamabala elinye ligazi, kwaye akukho enye into, ndinesisu esidumbileyo kwaye nabani na angathi ndikhulelwe, into kukuba ndenze uvavanyo lwaza lwaphuma lune-negative andazi ukuba ndicinge ntoni. Ndicela undixelele into nceda
UBlanca, asazi ukuba zingaphi iintsuku emva kokuba uthathe uvavanyo, kuya kucetyiswa (ukukunika ukuzithemba ngakumbi) ukuba ukwenzile emva kweentsuku ezisi-7 zokulibaziseka. Unokuqhagamshelana nodokotela wakho.
A ubingelele.
Molo, umbuzo wam yile: malunga neentsuku ezili-15 ezidlulileyo kuye kwafuneka ndize exesheni, bendinemvakalelo yokuba indithatha ngokomzekelo, i-colic encinci, ayinakuqondakala ngamanye amaxesha yomelele kancinci kodwa ayisihlisi, namhlanje ndiqale qaphela ilaphu elijikeleze iingono zam kunye nokudumba ndaziva ndibuhlungu kodwa zasuswa kwaye zazifana nokudumba, ndiye ndafumana enye okanye enye yeempawu ezingaqhelekanga (phakathi kwazo njengokuxinana kwempumlo okunqabileyo kunene kum, ukuphuthelwa, ndidinwe kakhulu ), Ndalala ngesondo ngaphandle kokuzikhathalela kuyo yonke inyanga, kwaye ngoku ayikatshoni, ndinengxaki yehyperthyroidism kwaye ndilawulwa, andizikhathalelanga kuba ndiqonda ukuba abantu ababhinqileyo abaphethwe yiyo kuthatha ixesha elide ukukhulelwa ngoko ke ndiyithatha kancinci, andifuni ukuba ndenze uvavanyo ndisoyika ukuba izakuphuma ingekhoyo kwaye ndibone amanye amagqabantshintshi kubafazi ukuba kwenzeka into efanayo kubo kodwa abayiyo kwaye ndinqwenela ukuyazi ukuba iphantsi ... kwaye kubi ukufumana ithemba lakho kwaye ubone ukuba akulunganga ... kuya kulunga ukundenza uvavanyo, okanye Ngaba zinokuba ziimpawu zenye into?
Molweni, Zintombi, ewe, andiqhelekanga, ndisele unyaka onesiqingatha iipilisi, ndazishiya ngoAgasti ngoNovemba nangoDisemba, kwaye ukuya exesheni akukabuyi kule nyanga ka-Epreli, bendinendawo emdaka nge-5. iintsuku ezinqabileyo ngamanye amaxesha I ingaba ibuhlungu, ndingamitha kangakanani? kakuhle andifuni ukuba nemincili
Mholweni…. Ndimtsha apha kwaye ndiyathemba ukuba ungandinceda, ndihlala rhoqo imihla yokugqibela kaFebruwari ndirhoxisa i-IUD ngaloo nyanga ixesha lam ngoFebruwari 19, ndiyabelana ngesondo kwaye ndigcina ubudlelwane neqabane lam ngaphandle kokukhuselwa, ngenyanga ka-Matshi 9, ndaye ndopha ngokungaqhelekanga, ndingamanzi kakhulu kwaye ndingenaphunga, eyathatha iintsuku ezintathu, yayingaqhelekanga kwaye kwiveki phambi kokuba ndiye exesheni ndenza uvavanyo olwaphuma lungelulo, emva koko andizange ndiye exesheni emva kweeveki ezimbini ndaye ndaphinda ndenza uvavanyo olwalunezinto ezimbi, kodwa ixesha lam alizange lifike, nge-3 ka-Epreli ndandinendawo emdaka kunye nento ebomvu kodwa kwaphela iintsuku ezimbini ... kumhla oko kukuthi ngo-Epreli 3 Ndaphinde ndadaka umbala omdaka kwakhona kwaye kwahlala iintsuku ezimbini, oko kukuthi, namhlanje andinayo namhlanje… kufanele kuqatshelwe ukuba ngalo lonke elixesha bendinobudlelwane neqabane lam ngaphandle kokukhuselwa kwaye amaxesha amaninzi uninzi lwabo lungena ngaphakathi me .. Ndifuna ukwazi ukuba akhona amathuba okuba ukhulelwe kwaye ikwipr Kuvele into engeyonyani .. oku kundixakile kuba bendineempawu ezifana nesiyezi, isicaphucaphu, irhasi eninzi, umnqweno wokuya kwigumbi lokuhlambela umzuzu ngamnye, ukuqaqanjelwa yintliziyo kunye nokutshintsha kwemeko… enkosi, ndiyathemba ukuba inganceda
Amantombazana ancede!
Ndiphantse emva kweeveki ezi-3 kwaye andizukuhla. Kwiveki ephelileyo ndithathe uvavanyo lwe-2 yokukhulelwa komchamo kunye novavanyo lwegazi, bobathathu baphuma bengenayo. Phantse kwinyanga ephelileyo bendinobuhlobo apho usuku beluchume kakhulu, nangona kunjalo, ibiyinyanga ephelileyo yiyo loo nto ndenze iimvavanyo kwaye zaphuma zimbi. Kodwa kwiveki enesiqingatha eyadlulayo bendinolwalamano lwam lokugqibela kwaye bekufanele ukuba ndiphumile ngoku. Andinazimpawu kwaye khange ndibenalo ukopha. Ndiyaphinda, bendisele ndineemvavanyo ezi-3 kwaye bezingenayo, ucinga ukuba ndikhulelwe okanye ukuba ubudlelwane bokugqibela butshintshe uvavanyo lwam lwegazi? Nceda!!!
Molo, bendinesondo elikhuselayo malunga neeveki ezi-2 ezidlulileyo kwaye ndigqibele ngeveki enye, iingono zam zibuhlungu kwaye zinzima, ndinesisu esidumbileyo, ukukhutshwa okumhlophe mva nje ndinamaqhakuva. Into endikhathazayo kukuba ndihlala ndikhona kwaye andilibaziseki ngaphezulu kweentsuku ezi-1 okanye ezi-1 kwaye nokuba sisebenzisa kangakanani na ukhuselo, iikhondom zinokugqojozwa. Ungandinceda !!?
molo ndabelana ngesondo emva kokuba sexesheni kodwa akazange angene ngaphakathi kum
kodwa ndilala kakhulu ndilambile ndiziva ndidiniwe ukuxinana kwempumlo
Bendifuna ukwazi ukuba kuqhelekile okanye kukumitha?
MHOLWENI EMINI NJE.
UMBUZO OMNYE KULE VEKI NDINESIQHUBA SOKUZIVA NGENDLELA EPHUMELELAYO, UKUQALISEKA NGOKUPHANTSI, IXESHA LOKUQHUBEKA, UKUXAKEKA KWEBELE LAM, NDIVA NGOKUFANELEKILEYO. NDINCEDE EZO ZIIMPAWU ZOKUKHULELWA NDIVA KABI
Molo PS NGOKWENENE ANDIZI UKUBA NDIKHULELWE NDIZIVA NDIDINIWE, IINTLUNGU ZOMlotha NGOKU NDIVA I-CM UKUBA BABEKIWE NGAPHAKATHI KWESIBHEDLE, BANDINIKEZA IXABISO LOKUBA NDIYEKE UKUTSHINTSHA KODWA IXESHA LAM ELIQHELEKILEYO NDILIVALE. Andimangaleli.NASAL ENSIAS USIHLAWULELA EBAMBELELA NDINGABONI
Ubusuku obuhle, ndingathanda ukuba undiphendule, ixesha lam lifike nge-2 kaMeyi kulo nyaka ka-2017, lahlala iintsuku ezi-4 kwisicelo esinye kwathiwa iintsuku zam zokuchuma zivela kwi-7 ukuya kwi-13 kwaye umhla we-ovulation wawuyi-12 kwaye kwesinye isicelo ibisithi isuka kwi-13 ukuya kwi-16 kwaye umhla wokukhutshwa kweqanda yi-16, andazi ukuba ndiza kuhlala ndihlala rhoqo okanye ukuba umjikelo uhlala ixesha elingakanani, uthini ukuba ndiyazi ukuba ngamanye amaxesha ilibaziseka ngumhla okanye 1, Inyani yile yokuba ndalala nomyeni wam ngomhla we-2 ngoMeyi nango-7 kusasa kwezi ntsuku ndineentloko ezimbalwa kwaye namhlanje ndinempumlo encinci kwaye umqala wam utshise kancinci bacinga ukuba ndinethuba lokuba ndikhulelwe ndifuna ukumitha, phendula
Molweni, ndinombuzo, ndineminyaka eli-13 emva kwexesha, ndifuna umntwana endinaye neqabane lam, ndinengxaki kwisisu, isicaphucaphu (ngakumbi ekuseni), intloko ebuhlungu, ukurhawuzelela imilenze neengalo, iintlungu emabeleni Ndiziva ndidumbile kwaye kunzima.ingaba kukhulelwa? Andikalufumani uvavanyo, andifuni ukuphoxeka. Yintoni egqithisile. Ndine-discharge emhlophe kwaye ndinexhala elininzi ngezinto ezimnandi ezifana netshokholethi kwaye ndiyacacisa andikaze ndithande.umntu onento enjalo kuye? Ndingathanda ukuba nezimvo
Molo, ndinombuzo, ndinolibaziseko lweentsuku, amabele am abuhlungu kakhulu, ndivota ukukhutshwa okumhlophe kunye nesisu esibuhlungu kwaye ndifuna ukugabha
Mholweni!!! Ndidumbe kakhulu kwaye ndineegesi ezininzi ndinosana oluneenyanga ezili-11 ubudala bendine-IUD kodwa bayisusile kuba ibangele ukuba ndopha kwaye mhla bayisusayo bandinika inaliti yokunqanda ukopha kwaye ixesha lam lafika kodwa ngesixa esincinci q phantse akukho nto kwaye ke bendineentsuku ezi-3 x kwaye ndabelana ngesondo ngaphandle kokukhuselwa kwaye ndinolibaziseko lwenyanga eyi-1 ngeveki kwaye andazi nokuba kungenxa yokuba inaliti leyo okanye ndikhulelwe ndifuna uncedo ... !!!
Sawubona!
Ndandinobudlelwane neqabane lam inyanga yonke ngaphandle kokukhuselwa, ndifuna umntwana, kwafuneka ndifike ngoMeyi 25, kodwa kwakungekho njalo nge-31, phantsi kwepinki kunye nasemini enzima, kwiiyure ezimbalwa kamva, yayikukukhutshwa okumdaka ngemini enye ebusuku.Iintsuku ezi-2 zokuhamba okumdaka kwabuya.
Ngaba kuya kumiliselwa?
Kulungile ndinobudlelwane ngaphandle kokuzikhathalela ndiziva ndothukile ndinolwandle amabele am abuhlungu ndiziva iintlungu ngathi ndiyeza kodwa ndikwanaso isicaphucaphu siyayitshintsha imo yam bayandonyanyisa ezinye izinto endinqwenela ukuzazi ukuba kukukhulelwa na? Ndiyathemba impendulo, ngokubhekisele kuVeronica
Mva kwemini namhlanje ndivuke ndinentlungu eqaqambayo kunye nesisu esibuhlungu ngaphezu kwesisu, kwaye ndigqibele iintsuku ezi-3 xa ngokwenyani ihlala isiza kum ngeentsuku ezi-5, kutheni lento isenzeka kum kuba nam ndinento eninzi isicaphucaphu?
Molweni, bendineentlanzi kangangeenyanga ezintathu kwaye ndigabhe iasidi eninzi kwaye ulusu lwam luphume amabala amaninzi endingazange ndaba nawo kodwa ukuya exesheni kwam bekuza nokulibaziseka kunye neentsuku ezimbalwa, ndidumbile, ndizakukhulelwa?
Molo, ndinengxaki yokubona ukuba ungandinceda na, bendinomhlaza wamabele kwiminyaka esithoba eyadlulayo, imithetho yam ihlala iphambi kwam, ndakhulelwa kwiminyaka emibini edlulileyo kwaye babini abangakhange bathuthuke kwaye babenazo k kitar , into ebendinayo ngexesha elibi, iqabane lam kwaye sisajonga kwakhona, nge-10 kaMeyi ndafumana ixesha elingaphantsi kwe k kwezinye iinyanga kwaye ngoMeyi 30 ndaye ndanegazi elipinki elikhanyayo xa kanye ndizicoca kwaye kwiintsuku ezimbini wayehambile. ..Ndishiywe ziintsuku ezimbini ngoku, izolo bendineentlungu ezininzi esiswini ndenze uvavanyo olungelulo kwaye ugqirha wababhinqileyo uthi kusekutsha, ndinxunguphele kakhulu kukutya, amaqanda esibeleko kunye nesibeleko sam sibuhlungu, ndinesiyezi Ndinephupha elihlasimlis 'umzimba kwaye ndidiniwe kakhulu kwi-knt esifubeni andiyiboni i-xk bafaka i-kitaron ngokubeka i-prostheses kwaye ndilungile k ndixhalabile kwaye ndothukile ndiyathemba ukuba eli lixesha li-K umbono olungileyo ??? Enkosi nonke
Molo, bendine-implanon iminyaka emi-2, kunye nexesha okoko ndibeke ngokungaqhelekanga, kunye neempawu ezingaqhelekanga, ukulala okuninzi, iintlungu ezincinci esinqeni, andinakuma umyeni wam andanga xa silele kuba ndiziva ngathi ndiyafuthaniseleka, ewe ndinendawo eyophayo kwilungu lobufazi kodwa njengoko benditshilo ukuba ixesha lam alikho mgaqweni, ndihlupheka kakhulu ngexesha nasemva kokukhulelwa kukhupha kwilungu lobufazi kunye nosulelo kwaye nakwisisu sam sokuqala ndaye ndalala esibhedlele ngenxa yoko .. Ndinengxaki yokuqhinwa .. Ndinomdla wokutya kunangaphambili .. Ndinesisu esikhulileyo kwaye xa sindibonisa ngakumbi ... kungenzeka ukuba ndikhulelwe?
Molo Andrea, kuya kufuneka uthathe uvavanyo lokukhulelwa. Ukubulisa.
Mva kwemini, ndinexhala kakhulu kuba bendiphantsi kwexesha lam leentsuku ezili-15 kodwa kuncinci kakhulu kuhlala iintsuku ezili-10, xa ndigqibele nge-5 kwaye kuninzi. Namhlanje kwenzeke into engaqhelekanga kum ngelaxesha ndema khona kwavela iintlungu esinqeni nasemilenzeni ukuya kuthi ga kwiinyawo zam.Iintlungu bezisiya ziqatha esinqeni.Ndalala ndasela ipilisi intlungu kodwa isabuhlungu. Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ndikhulelwe nokuba ndinayo i-IUD?
Molweni, umhla wam wokugqibela wokuya exesheni ibinguJulayi 4, ndizikhathalele ngeziqwengana, bekufanele ukuba ndibeke entsha ngoJulayi 14 kodwa andisayibeki, ndalala ngeshumi elinesithandathu ndingakhuselekanga, ndandineentsuku ezi-16 ndilibele kwaye ndaye ndaya kuvavanywa ikhemesti yabuya ingenayo, ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ukhulelwe emva kokusebenzisa amabala e-Evra iminyaka emi-6?
Molweni, uxolo, mantombazana. Kwenzeka ntoni ukuba ndizive ndimbi kakhulu, ngaba bendinesicaphucaphu, isilungulela, iintlungu esiswini, intloko ebuhlungu kunye nesiyezi ingakumbi ukulala okuninzi? Indenza ndilambe kwaye nditya iswekile. Ndibe nobudlelwane obungakhuselekanga nomyeni wam amatyeli aliqela kodwa ndaye ndenza uvavanyo lokukhulelwa lwabuya lubi? Andazi ukuba yintoni enye endinokuyenza ukuze ndazi ukuba ndikhona okanye andixinezelekanga, ndicela undincede Ndibulele kwaye ndiyathemba iimpendulo?
Asazi ukuba uthathe uvavanyo: usuku lokuqala lokungabikho? Kanye le uyenzayo (iba nexhala) yeyona nto yokugqibela ekufuneka uyenzile.
hol ndiboshwe iminyaka esi-7 kodwa ndinentloko, isicaphucaphu, iingono ezibuhlungu kunye neentlungu kumhadi wesisu sam
Molo, kwinyanga ephelileyo i-preriod ibimnene kakhulu, ihlale iintsuku ezimbalwa kunesiqhelo. Kwaye kule nyanga bendinolibaziseko lweentsuku ezi-4 de kwakhanya kwamnyama, emva koko wopha iintsuku ezimbini kuphela. Xa ngokwenyani ihlala iintsuku ezi-5 ukuya kwezi-7. Kufuneka ndenze uvavanyo? Kuba ndinesicaphucaphu kwaye yonke into endiyityayo iyandigulisa. Ngaba ingcebiso?
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Molweni mantombazana ndinombuzo kulenyanga ndinolibaziseko lweentsuku ezi-5 xa ndafumana usuku olunesiqingatha emva koko lwandishiya ndingekho ndawo ... ndafumana ukuhamba okuninzi ngaphandle kokunuka .. ndandilala ngesondo ndingathathi ndizikhathalele kuba ndifuna ukuba nomntwana. Ndilindele impendulo yakho kungekudala (ndenze uvavanyo kwaye yayingalunganga)
Ngaba ndingakhulelwa ukuba bendikhe ndabelana ngesondo ngokungakhuselekanga kwaye emva kweeyure ndifumana ukuba sexesheni?
Molo ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba ngosuku lwam lokugqibela lokuba sexesheni ndingasenabala ndingaphantse ndikhulelwe kukuba ungene ngaphakathi kwaye akazange ahambe iintsuku ezimbalwa ezinqabileyo kakhulu andisalali kwaye lonke ixesha ndilambile a umbuliso ndiyathemba ngempendulo enkosi
Molo iintsuku ezingama-22 ngaphandle kwexesha, uvavanyo olu-4 lomchamo olubi, andifani, ixesha lam lokugqibela belingoJulayi 28, isisu sam sibuhlungu kunye nentlungu encinci kumaxesha ngamaxesha kwindawo esezantsi yamaqanda njengoko kukho into eshukumayo, ndenze ntoni
Molo, ndishiywe ziintsuku ezingama-22 nge-ewgla yokugqibela 28/07/17 kwaye namhlanje ngumhla we-19/09/17 ngaphandle komkhondo, ezine ezinezinto ezimbi, eyokugqibela namhlanje yonke imchamo abacinga ukuba inokuba yiyo, ngomso ndiya ugqirha ukuba abenale nto andixelela yona
Ndingamitha ukuba ndiyazikhathalela…. umzekelo nge-3 yenyanga ephelileyo kuye kwafuneka ndibeke i-ampoule yenyanga kodwa andiyenzanga kwaye ndayifaka ngomhla we-4 ukusuka apho ndehla njengegazi elimdaka phantse iintsuku eziyi-8 kuphela iintsuku ezi-2 ligazi elibomvu kwaye phaya emva umdaka…. Ukusuka apho ndibuyisele iblister ngomhla we-4 kulenyanga kodwa okwenzekayo kukuba ndiziva ndonyanyeka njengokutsha kwentliziyo kwaye kundenza ndozele kakhulu, ndiyeke ukunqwenela, isisu sam siziva sidumbile kwaye ndinerhasi eninzi, andiyenzi Andazi ukuba ndikhulelwe okanye hayi
Molo uNahomi, nam ndinjalo, ixesha lam lokugqibela belingoJulayi 26 kwaye ukuza kuthi ga ngoku akukho nto kodwa ndinayo i-IUD andazi nokuba ndikhulelwe nyani na okanye, namhlanje bendibekelwe unyango kwaye ugqirha undixelela ukuba i-otina iimvavanyo zinokungaphumeleli, undimisele elinye igazi kwaye ndicinga ukuba kufanele uyenze kwaye ushiye ukuthandabuza ndikubulisa!
Molo, ndinombuzo kwiveki ephelileyo okoko ndinazo ezi mpawu xa ndivuka ekuseni ndingonwabanga emhadini wesisu kunye nesicaphucaphu xa ndifumana isidlo sakusasa okanye kukho into eyenzekayo kum kwaye ndingatya ngesiqhelo imini yonke kodwa ubusuku kuza kwaye ukungahambi kakuhle kubuya kakhulu isicaphucaphu somelele ndingumntu otshaya icuba andikwazi nokuyichukumisa kuba isisu sam siyajika kwaye ndinenyanga emva kwexesha kodwa andikho semthethweni nceda ndifuna uncedo ngaba likho ithuba lokuba ndikhulelwe? ?
Molo intsasa emnandi. Inyanga kaSeptemba yayi devio kum ukuba ndehlise i. 15 kodwa ngaphambi kwalo mhla ndandabelana ngesondo ngokungakhuselekanga. Weza kum ndineentloko ezininzi ... yonke into endiyityayo andiyiva zabor. Ndiva ivumba elingaqhelekanga emva koko libuhlungu. Inxalenye esezantsi. Kwesisu kunye nesiqu sam matris indawo yasekhohlo cazi n ziemto akukho ntlungu. Ndisela amanzi kodwa ayithathi xesha ukuqhuma kwaye kwisithuba esingaphantsi komzuzu omnye sele ndigabhe amanzi endiye ndawenza kuvavanyo lokuzingela aphuma sele ene-positive kodwa andiziva ndidiniwe kwaphela ... kwaye isicaphucaphu kwaye kakuhle bathi Iingono zitshintsha umbala perp miaaa akhonto. Andazi ukuba. Kholelwa kuvavanyo oh n xfvor ndincede ...
Mholo!!!
Ndishiywe lixesha ngeentsuku ezi-4, kwaye bendikhupha izinto ezimhlophe ezininzi iintsuku ezininzi, kwiintsuku ezingaphambi kokuba ndiye exesheni zindixelela ukuba ukuya exesheni….
Izolo ndenze uvavanyo lwasekhaya lwaphuma lungelulo, ndiyenze emva kwemini ukusukela ngoku andinakubamba kude kube namhlanje,
Ndihlala rhoqo kwiintsuku ezingama-27 okanye ezingama-28,
Andazi ukuba ndilinde ixesha elingakanani ukwenza enye into ukuba umgaqo awufiki….
Mva ntambama:
Andazi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kum, kubonakala ngathi ndikhulelwe kuba sele ndinentsuku ezili-15 ndilibele, nangona kungaqinisekanga kuba ngamanye amaxesha kundithatha ukuya kwiinyanga ezi-3 kwaye ukuya exesheni kwam akwehli, Iinyanga ezintathu ukusukela oko ifika rhoqo, kodwa kwinyanga ephelileyo ndalala ngesondo emva kwexesha lam kwaye sele ndinentsuku ezili-15 ndilibazisekile, ndiziva ngathi nditya kakhulu, kwaye ndizisa ubuthongo obuninzi, kwaye kufuneka nditye ndinento ethile qho kungenjalo ndiziva ndingonwabanga, ukhona uThixo ndizakukhulelwa. thatha uvavanyo lokukhulelwa…
Molo Goodnight…
Ndidinga umntu oza kundicacisela ukuba kutheni endinika ukungangcungcutheki kodwa ndicaphukisa kancinci kumbindi wesisu nakwindawo ephezulu yelungu lobufazi.Ndifunde ezinye izinto kwi-intanethi kodwa azikacacisi amathandabuzo am andazi ukuba ndingakhulelwa na ... kwaye uza kuba njalo ukuba kuyinto eqhelekileyo okanye hayi ...
Ndidinga uncedo, enkosi.
Kuyenzeka kum oko kundinika ukugodola x ebusuku andikhathazeki ndinamabala ebusweni bam naseluswini lwam iingono zam zimdaka ngombala kwaye ndinemithambo efana nepenti ndiziva ndinesiyezi kwaye ndilele kakhulu
Molo, ndiyathemba kwaye ndiphendule umbuzo wam, kuba ndiye ndalibaziseka ixesha lam ngaphezulu kweentsuku ezingama-20, kwinyanga ephelileyo kuye kwafuneka ndehle ngo-Okthobha u-26 kodwa ndandiphambi kukaSeptemba 23 kodwa ngaphambi kokuba ifike malunga neeveki ezi-2 ndandinovakalelo , amabele am aba buhlungu kwaye ndaziva ndiziva ukuba ukuya exesheni kuya kwehla, kwaye ukusukela nge-23 ka-Okthobha andizukuhla bendikhe ndangaphezulu kweentsuku ezingama-20 ixesha nexesha ndinemvakalelo yokuba izakwehla, ndiyaxhuzula kunye neentlungu zenyonga, ndinike iingcebiso mantombazana.
Inkosi ikusikelele mantombazana, I am 4 months late, I am irregular, eyona ndi late yona ziinyanga ezimbini.Ndenze uvavanyo lokukhulelwa lwaphuma lune-negative.
Isifuba sam sibuhlungu kwiiveki ezimbini ezidlulileyo, kodwa sibuhlungu nangakumbi ebusuku. Ucinga ukuba yintoni?
Molo, ndifuna ukuba undincede kule mihla kwaye bendinomnqweno omkhulu wokugqobhoza Intloko yam ibuhlungu kakhulu Amabele am atshintshe umbala kodwa inyani kukuba andilwenzi uvavanyo lokukhulelwa kuba umthetho ufike kum kodwa u-Ew brown umbala kodwa wawungekho mninzi ukuba ungandicebisa?
Ola daniela ami nayo into efanayo yenzekile kum ndiyehla njengebala elimdaka kwaye ndehla kancinci
Ndikwanokungathandabuzi.Ndineentsuku ndiqaqanjelwa sisisu nomqolo wam ububuhlungu kwaye ndiziva ngathi ndiginya isibeleko esiwileyo
U-EH wayeneminqweno kwaye ndiziva ngathi ndidiniwe kwaye ndizisa isicaphucaphu kwaye ndiza kuchama kakhulu kodwa ndisela ipilisi ngosuku olulandelayo?
Kuyakuba ngathi ndikhulelwe, nceda undincede
Molo, ndiqhelekile kancinci, kodwa kwiinyanga ezi-3 okanye ezi-4 ezidlulileyo ndifike ngokwesiqhelo kwaye ngoku andisafiki iiveki ezintathu emva kwemini endandinayo. Iphupha eliqale emva kokutya lavala ii-onos ngokungathi akukho kwanto kamva kwaye akusekho kwiveki elandelayo eqala ngolwesiThathu emva kwemini ndiqale ngentloko kunye nesicaphucaphu kwaye kwezi ntsuku zilandelayo iintlungu zincinci zadlula kwaye ngokulandelayo ndahamba ngeeStrong iintlungu zesisu Iveki ekufanele ukuba ize kum kwaye khange ndive ukuba inyani phantse yonke iveki imbi kakhulu kwaye inyani ayifikanga kwaye ndihamba ngenxa yokugqobhoza entlokweni ... Kodwa zezokwexeshana kwaye ndihamba kakhulu. Kukho amaxesha atshisayo endifuna ukulila emva koko ahambe kwaye ndiyoyika xa ndenza uvavanyo…. Ngaba kungenzeka ukuba ndingene kwi-barbarada…? ?
Molo, ndiqhelekile kancinci kodwa iinyanga ezi-3 okanye ezi-4 zokugqibela ndafika ziqhelekile kwaye ngeyure andifikanga kwiiveki ezintathu emva kwemini endandinayo. Iphupha eliqale emva kokutya lavala ii-onos ngokungathi akukho kwanto kamva kwaye akusekho kwiveki elandelayo eqala ngolwesiThathu emva kwemini ndiqale ngentloko kunye nesicaphucaphu kwaye kwezi ntsuku zilandelayo iintlungu zincinci kwaye zadlula kwaye ngokulandelayo ndahamba ngeentlungu ezomeleleyo Iveki ekufanele ukuba ize kum kwaye khange ndive ukuba inyani phantse yonke iveki imbi kakhulu kwaye inyani ayifikanga kwaye ndihamba ngenxa yokugqobhoza entlokweni ... Kodwa zezokwexeshana kwaye ndihamba kakhulu. Kukho amaxesha atshisayo endifuna ukulila emva koko ahambe kwaye ndiyoyika xa ndenza uvavanyo…. Ngaba kungenzeka ukuba ndingene enbarrazada… ?? ? ndikhuphe ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo
Molo, ndishiywe lixesha ngeentsuku ezili-9, kodwa ndinazo zonke iimpawu zokuba ixesha lam liza kuncipha. Nge-25 kaNovemba, bayisusa i-IUD, ngayo ndandingaphezulu nje kweenyanga ezi-2 .. Kwangolo suku linye ndaqala ukuthatha iipilisi zokuthintela inzala, kodwa ndaqhubeka nobomi bam obuqhelekileyo bokwabelana ngesondo.
Mhlawumbi ndiyakumitha xa kutshintshwa indlela yothintelo lokuthintela ukukhawula. ??? Nceda..!!
Molo, ukuba nabani na unokundinceda, ndingavuya.
Ngokuchanekileyo kwiminyaka esi-7 eyadlulayo ndasebenza ukuze ndingabi nabantwana bambi, ndinamantombazana amabini, i-10 kunye ne-7 yeminyaka ubudala, ngoJanuwari 12 ixesha lam lalifanelekile, (ndilungile kakhulu nemihla yokuya esikhathini, bafika rhoqo ngenyanga Ngomhla we-14, ndafumana ukuhamba okumdaka, kwaye bandinika ii-coicos ezomeleleyo kakhulu, zohlobo lwe-occlusions, babephakathi kwaye besomelela, iintlungu zazihlala yonke imva kwemini, kwaye ebusuku ndandinamandla kodwa babeyinkampu yexesha lam, ixesha lam lihlala lininzi, kufuneka ndisebenzise itawuli kunye netampu kwaye kufuneka nditshintshe rhoqo emva kweeyure ezimbini okanye ndicoleke, ngeli xesha kwakunzima kakhulu kwaye ndafumana ukukhutshwa okumhlophe kodwa kwakwanele, xa kuxutywe Ukuya exesheni okuncinci endikwenzileyo kwajika kwaba pinki, ukuhamba kwegazi okunqabileyo (ngeli xesha kwakwahluke kakhulu, ndandisoloko ndifumana igazi elimnyama kakhulu, ngeli xesha lalibomvu) ixesha »lahlala kangangeentsuku ezi-3» kodwa lalinqabile, kwaye umqolo obuhlungu wenzakele kakhulu, intloko ebuhlungu, namhlanje 17 andisasebenzi, akukho gazi okanye gazi limhlophe, kodwa bandinike into Ukulunywa okunamandla kakhulu emazantsi esisu, njengakwisinqe, iintlungu zomelele kangangokuba kufuneka ndoyame isifuba sam emadolweni, kodwa zihlala kuphela imizuzwana engama-20 kwaye zidlule. Ndiziva ndingaqhelekanga. ingaba yeyiphi? Ngaba kuye kwenzeka komnye wabo? Ukuba nabani na kuni uyazi ukuba inokuba yintoni, ncedani nindixelele, ndiya kubonana noLwesine, ukuze bandithumelele iimvavanyo. Enkosi ngokundifunda
Molweni, nge-20 ka-Epreli sabelana ngesondo nesithandwa sam, sasebenzisa ikhondom ene-spermicide ukusuka ekuqaleni ukuya esiphelweni kwaye andizange ndichithe kwaye sayigcwalisa ngamanzi kwaye yayilungile emva kweentsuku ezi-2 ixesha lam lokufika lafika kodwa ngendlela eyahlukileyo Ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba ndingakhulelwa na ???
Imva kwemini elungileyo kukubona ukuba ungandinceda na kukuba amabele am kudala abuhlungu kwaye ukusukela kwiveki ephelileyo ngaphezulu kwesiqhelo kwaye xa ndiyikhama, aphuma njengamanzi kwaye isisu sam sikhulu kwaye sidumbile nosapho lwam. nabahlobo bathi ndijongeka ngathi ndikhulelwe kwaye andazi ukuba mandikholelwe ntoni kwaye ndinexhala kuba inokuba undibonile ezantsi ngoJuni 5 kwaye sele kudlule iintsuku ezisixhenxe kwaye andazi ukuba ibingathini ndiyoyika kakhulu
Imini emnandi kakhulu kukuba amabele am abuhlungu kakhulu ixesha elide, ndigcina isisu sam sikhulu, kuyabonakala ukuba ndingathi sidumbile, kodwa usapho kunye nabahlobo bandixelela ukuba ndibonakala ngathi ndikhulelwe okwethutyana Bonzakele ngaphezu kwesiqhelo ukuba andinokwazi nokuyenza.i-tacar engenanto, kodwa xa ndiyikhama kancinci iphuma njengamanzi kuwo omabini amabele endiye ndalala ngaphandle kokuzikhusela, ixesha lam lehliswa ngoJuni 5 kwaye andikayifikeleli andazi ukuba ndenzeni ndoyika kakhulu
KUKHANGELEKA KUM UKWENZEKA KAKHULU KWIHLABATHI UKUBA BAKHO NGOKUTHETHA UKUFUNA IIMBONO UKUBA BAKHULEKILE OKANYE BANGAYI, ESONA SISOMBULULO SOKUPHUMA EMTHANDWENI YIMVIWO, UNGABUZI WONKE UMNTU APHA, YIBA NGQONDI NGOKUQINISEKILEYO NOKUQINISEKISA NGU-Q BAQALA UKUBA BABE NOLWALAMANO NGAPHANDLE KOKUKHUSELA
molweni mantombazana ndifuna uncedo !! Jonga kunyaka ophelileyo phakathi kuNovemba ndiphulukane nokukhulelwa kwenyanga enye kwaye yandibangela ukuba nditshintshe ihomoni.Iinyanga ezimbini zihamba kwaye ifika kum njengenyanga yonke yonke imihla endiphuma ngayo, okanye iinyanga ezingenanto .. okwenyani hayi iinyanga ezimbini ezidlulileyo bendinobudlelwane kwaye kule nyanga ifike kum ekuqaleni kweveki enye ndaphinda ndayisika enye kwakhona ngoku. what if iyenzeka kum ngoku ndiziva ndidumbile kakhulu ndinotshintsho kwaye ndiyazibona. iqabane lam alizikhathaleli kodwa «ayipheleli kwi ...
Ndinamaqanda amaninzi amhlophe ahambayo ... andazi ukuba kubonisiwe ukwenza uvavanyo kodwa uthini wena?
Molweni ndineentsuku eziyi-8 ezisele ukuba ndiye exesheni kodwa ndinentlungu esiswini kunye nentlungu encinci emabeleni am ndinamathandabuzo malunga nokuba ingaba kukumitha okanye ukuya exesheni kuthathelwa ingqalelo ukuba ndinobudlelwane obungakhuselekanga kuba ndifuna ukukhulelwa ndincede, nini Ndingalwenza olu vavanyo? Ndenze uvavanyo lwasekhaya ngeoyile lwabuya luchanekile kodwa andithembi kangako, ucinga ntoni?
Molweni, umthetho wam wafika iintsuku ezi-3, ndandinzima, ndenza uvavanyo lwaphuma ndilu-negative, ndinaso isicaphucaphu kunye nentloko kunye nentlungu yomqolo. Ndandinobudlelwane obungakhuselekanga. Andikho mthethweni ku-mr mr kuye kwafuneka ndinciphise ixesha lam ngo-Novemba 12 kwaye ndehla nge-20 kwaye ngalo mini ndehla kwiintsuku ezi-3 nje ngepinki encinci kwaye ebomvu ebomvu. Andazi ukuba ndenzeni umntu oza kundinceda. A kwaye ndiziva ndinento ngaphakathi kwam kodwa andazi
Molo, mva kwemini entle, igama lam ndinguPaola, ibiyintoni inyanga kaSeptemba, Okthobha nango-Novemba, bendinesiqhelo kodwa kule nyanga bekufuneka ndize ngoDisemba 6 kwaye sele ndishiywe lixesha ngeentsuku ezili-9 kodwa eyona nto ingumnqa kukuba isinqe sibuhlungu ngokungathi ndiza kufika ikhulu njengengcinezelo esiswini sam ndiye ndibiwe bubuthongo emva kwemini nobusuku buyeza kwaye ngokungathi andilelanga ndifumana iintlungu zesisu esincinci kwaye ndilambile kodwa xa ndibona ukutya kuyasusa kwaye ndifuna ngokwenene ukuchama kunye namabele anengqondo ndiyoyika kuba andazi ukuba ndingakhulelwa ndiyathemba ukuba bangandinceda
Molweni kum ndehle nge-23 kaDisemba kwaye ayikahli kakuhle ndifumene ipinki kwaye zimbini kuphela iintsuku kodwa zimbini kuphela amathontsi angaya ezantsi ngoku kungoJanuwari 26 kwaye ayikahli ndishiywe ziintsuku ezi-5. Ndinesicaphucaphu xa ndisitya impendulo xfa
Molo Goodnight. Kwenzeka ntoni kum yile ilandelayo. Andihlali rhoqo kwiixesha zam kodwa kulenyanga ndiphume iintsuku eziyi-4 kodwa ke ndiyaqhubeka ndiziva ndidiniwe kwaye ndinesicaphucaphu. Kwaye kwiintsuku ezimbini ezidlulileyo bendinethontsi legazi elipinki. Umqolo wam ongezantsi ubuhlungu kwaye ndinentliziyo ebuhlungu.Ndiyakucaphukela nokutya.Nyanisweni, ndiyatshaya kwaye necuba liyandonyanyisa, ingathi izidlo zitshisa ngaphakathi. Ngaba ndingakhulelwa ukuba ndiye exesheni? Ndicela umntu andixelele okanye andicebise ndikhumbula omnye umntwana kodwa ndiziva ndibhidekile
Ndinaso isitshisa, isisu.
Molo, ndinenkxalabo ngo-Okthobha bendisenza utshintsho oluninzi emzimbeni wam kodwa ixesha lam lihlala liqhelekile, olu tshintsho sisisu sam siyakhula kunye neasidi eninzi embindini womqolo ndinomngxunya ngathi xa kukhula isisu sakho Ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba yinto eqhelekileyo na
Molo, ixesha lam belisekuqaleni kweentsuku ezi-3 ngaphambi kokuba libe nalo kwaye lahlala iintsuku ezintathu kuphela.
Ndiye ndaziva ndingaqhelekanga kangangeentsuku ezili-10, ndinesiyezi kakhulu, ndifumana iipunctiki phantsi kwesisu sam, intloko yam ihlala ibuhlungu kakhulu, umqolo wam uhlala undenza ndifune ukubuyisa lonke ixesha ndisitya kodwa ndibuyisa kancinci kwaye ndihlala ndilila Ngaphandle kokwazi ukuba kutheni ungandinceda kuba ndinovalo kakhulu kwaye andazi ukuba yintoni ingxaki ngam