Unyaka omusha wesikole usuqalile, izingane zabo bonke ubudala sezivele zicwile emisebenzini, ezifundweni nasekufundeni okusha okuzonothisa izimpilo zabo. Kepha ngaphezu kokufunda nokuthuthukela ekubeni ngongoti abaqeqeshiwe bakusasa, izingane zifunda esikoleni ukuhlobana nontanga yazo. Ukudlala nezinye izingane kuyingxenye yesikole futhi ngeshwa, ezimweni eziningi kuba semdlalweni lapho iqala khona Ukuqinela abanye.
Eminyakeni yamuva, ukuxhashazwa kuye kwaba ukukhathazeka okuyinhloko kwabazali. Ayikho ingane ekhululekile kulolu hlobo lomonakalo, ezimweni eziningi engalungiseki. Ngakho-ke, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqaphela izimpawu abasithumela zona abancane. Ngoba ingane yakho kungenzeka yesabe ukukhuluma nawe ngokukhululekile, noma ngabe izethemba kangakanani.
Ukulalela izingane kubalulekile, yize kungahle kubonakale ngathi akusho lutho olubalulekile, amagama abo angakusiza ukuthi wazi ingane yakho ngokujulile. Futhi, kufanele unake indlela abaziphethe ngayo, njengoba noma yiluphi ushintsho ebuntwini bakho kungakhombisa okuthile okubalulekile. Kodwa-ke, kubaluleke kakhulu ukwehlukanisa okuxhashazayo kokungekhona.
Kuyini ukuqinela?
Izingane ziyalwa, into yokuqala okufanele uyenze ukuthi lokhu kunjalo ngisho noma indodana noma indodakazi yakho inesimo esihle kakhulu futhi ungakaze umbone elwa. Mhlawumbe ngelinye ilanga indodana yakho ikutshela ukuthi isike yaxabana nomunye umfana, noma ukuthi bathukuthele ngoba bobabili bebefuna ukudlala ngethoyizi elilodwa. Kulokhu, akufanele uyinikeze ukubaluleka kokuqala okokuqala.
Ngokuvamile, lezi zimpi ziyahlukaniswa futhi ezinsukwini ezimbalwa izingane ziyazikhohlwa ziphinde zibe abangane futhi. Okunye okuhluke kakhulu ukuthukwa okuqhubekayo, ukuklolodelwa, ukusongelwa noma ukuhlaselwa. Lolo hlobo lokuziphatha luyaphindwa, iphenduka inhlamba uma sekuvamile. Kodwa-ke, akufanele neze uyishaye indiva impi elula, ngoba ingaphenduka kube ukuhlukumeza kalula.
La isisulu sokuhlukunyezwa ngokuvamile shintsha indlela yakho yokuziphatha ejwayelekile ngezindlela ezihlukile, lawa amanye amafulegi abomvu.
Izinguquko ekuziphatheni kwakho
Into ephephe kunazo zonke ukuthi lolu shintsho lwenzeka ngendlela ethuthuka kakhulu, ingane izoshintsha kancane kancane isimo sayo sengqondo. Uzonqena ukuya esikoleni, uzozama ukugwema ukuya ekilasini ngezaba ezifana nokugula okungazelelwe. Ungambona ethukile futhi ehlaliseka, ezimweni eziningi ukhuluma nje ngesikole noma ukwenza umsebenzi wesikole.
Lapho isimo sisibi kakhulu, ingane ingathola iziqephu zokukhathazeka. Lokhu kungadala ukukhala okungazelelwe, ukuhlanza, kanye nezinkinga ezahlukahlukene zomzimba ezivela ezinzwa.
Izinkinga zokudla
Esinye sezibonakaliso ezivame kakhulu ezinganeni ezixhashazwa wushintsho ngesikhathi sokudla. Ngokuvamile, ingane ulahlekelwe isifiso sokudla futhi izikhathi zokudla zingesinye isizathu salokhu ukukhathazeka ngomncane. Ngokufanayo, izinzwa zingadala ukuthi ingane idle ngokweqile ngenxa yokukhathazeka.
Izimpawu zomzimba zokuhlukumeza
Izimpawu zomzimba zisobala, yize zingezona njalo izimpawu zokuhlukumeza ngakho-ke kufanele uqaphele ngazo. Uma ubona ukuklwebheka, izimpawu zokulunywa, amanxeba noma yikuphi ukulimala, buza ingane yakho ngomoya ophansi. Yiba nokuzola ukuze omncane azole futhi azizwe ekhululeke kakhudlwana ukukhuluma nawe. Mhlawumbe kungumphumela wokulwa okukodwa, ukuwa egcekeni lesikole noma ecaleni elingalodwa.
Kunoma yikuphi, qiniseka ukuthi ayiphindaphindwe nsuku zonke ngoba kuleso simo ingane yakho ingaba yisisulu sokuxhashazwa.
Kodwa-ke, izimpawu ezibonakalayo, noma ngabe zisobala ngokwengeziwe, akusizo njalo izimpawu zokuqala eziyisixwayiso. Ukuhlukumeza kuvame ukuqala ngomlomo. Ngokuthukwa, ukuhlekwa usulu, ubuqili obudalulwa yisikole njll, konke lokhu kubanga ukulimala okukhulu emphefumulweni enganeni. Umonakalo ngeshwa ezimweni eziningi, akunakwenzeka ukuwulungisa.