Kunabantu abaningi abadukisa izingane njengababi noma 'abangazinzile'. Kepha abantu abakhohlwayo ukuthi okokuqala, izingane akufanele zifakwe ilebula, futhi okwesibili, ukuthi izingane azizimbi noma azizinzile (azikho kuzo). Izingane azizalwa zazi ukuthi zilawula kanjani imizwa yazo, futhi aziziqondi futhi zidinga ukuholwa nokuxhaswa njalo ukuze zifeze lokhu.
Abazali abaningi bangazizwa bengavikelekile ngandlela thile uma kukhulunywa ngokusiza izingane zabo ukulawula imizwa yazo ngoba kungelula ngabazali abaningi ukukufeza lokhu ngokwabo. Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuvela kwezingane kanye nemvelaphi yemizwa ukuze uqondise izingane ukuthi zikwazi ukulawula okuhle ngokomzwelo. Yazi okhiye bokukufeza.
Izindlela zokuthuthukisa ukulawulwa kwezingane ngokomzwelo
Yiba isibonelo esihle sokulawulwa ngokomzwelo
Uma ufuna ingane yakho ifunde ukulawula ngokomzwelo, into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ube yisibonelo esihle sokulawulwa ngokomzwelo. Uma ungafuni ukuthi ingane yakho ithukuthele igane unwabu, ungakwenzi kuqala. Uma ufuna ingane yakho yehlise umoya futhi ibheke izixazululo ezingxabanweni zansuku zonke empilweni, khona-ke kufanele ibone kuwe isibonelo esihle sokuthola izixazululo empilweni yansuku zonke nasezingxabanweni ezibaluleke kakhulu ezingavela empilweni. Yiba yisibonelo sabo futhi bazofunda okuhle kakhulu kuwe, ube yisibonelo esibi futhi bazofunda okubi kakhulu, nakuwe.
Beka amagama emizweni
Ukuze kulawulwe imizwa, kuyadingeka ukuthi izingane zifunde ukubeka amagama emizweni, ukuthi zazi ukuthi zingazikhomba kanjani futhi zikhulume ngazo. Ingane ethukuthele kufanele ikwazi ukusho ukuthi ithukuthele futhi ibheke imbangela emenze yathukuthela, ngale ndlela izokwazi ukuthola izixazululo eziyibuyisela esimweni sokuzola nokusutha. Yini enye, Uzozwa amandla okuzithiba, kubalulekile ukuze uzethembe ngokwengeziwe ezinqumweni zakho.
Cabangela i-cortex yabo yangaphambili
Lapho izingane zicasulwa kakhulu noma ziziphatha ngokuxhamazela, kuyadingeka ukuthi usebenze nazo kubhekwe i-prefrontal cortex yazo nokuzola. Izingane ezincane zisenobuchopho obukhulayo futhi lesi ngesinye sezizathu zokuthi kungani zingenza ngokuxhamazela, zithathwa yimizwa enamandla kakhulu. Kungakho kubalulekile ukuthi umfundise ukuhlala ezolile ngokuba ngumsekeli wakhe ... Kancane kancane, iLelokhono bazolifunda kubo. Uyaqhubeka nokugcina imingcele ekhaya, akhulume ngezinto ngokuxhumana okuvulekile futhi kwesinye isikhathi, noma ngabe kunezinxushunxushu, mvumele azizwe futhi abe eceleni kwakhe ukuthuthukisa ukuthula kwakhe.
Shintsha ukugxila
Ukuze izingane zifunde kuzodingeka ziqonde amandla azo namaphuzu lapho zizodinga khona ukwesekwa okuthe xaxa. Uma ingane yakho encane idinga ukufundela ukulawula imizwa yabo, bazokudinga eceleni kwabo ukuze ufunde leli khono. Bazodinga ukunakekelwa kwakho esikhundleni sokubhala ngokuziphatha kwabo okubi. Ukushintsha ukugxila ekuziphatheni okubi kufanele kuguqulwe kube ngamakhono adinga ukuqiniswa ... Kubukeka kufana, kepha ushintsho alunasisekelo ... Uzobe unikeza ingane yakho amandla athe xaxa. Ingane yakho idinga ukuzizwa sengathi useqenjini layo hhayi ukuthi uyaphikisana nayo.
Bafundise ibhuloho lokufunda
Izingane zidinga ukuthi unikeze ibhuloho phakathi kwalokhu ezikwaziyo nokuthi zikwazi ukwenza ini ngamakhono adinga ukuwafunda. Nikeza ingane yakho amandla ukuze yazi ukuqhubekela phambili, yazi lapho kufanele ihambe khona. Izingane kufanele zifunde ukuthola amagama azowasebenzisa ukuveza lokho ezizwa ngakho, azidingi ukuthi ugijime ukuze uzixazululele isimo.
Ingane yakho izokudinga ukuthi uyilalele futhi uzizwe uqinisekisiwe. Khuluma naye ngokwenzekile nokuthi uzizwa kanjani, yenza iziphakamiso zokwenza ngcono. Umqondo wukuthi ngokuzayo lapho kuvela udweshu, ingane izokwazi ukukhumbula lezi zinto ukuze isingathe kangcono isimo.
Ukucindezeleka okuncane
Kungumqondo omuhle ukuveza izingane ngobumnene kwingcindezi encane ukuzisiza zifunde ukuzilawula. Ingcindezi elawulwayo kepha lokho kunika amandla izingane, zikwazi ukusebenzela ukuqashelwa kwemizwa futhi, ukuze zikwazi ukuthola izixazululo nokuthi ngokuzayo, zingazisebenzisa noma nini lapho kudingeka. Ingqondo ifunda ngokuhlangenwe nakho nokuhlangenwe nakho okuningi, ingane yakho iyoba namandla futhi ifunde kangcono ukuzilawula ngokomzwelo. Kulezi zimo ezicindezelayo, kufanele uqondiswe uthando nenhlonipho.
Bafundise ukubheka ngombono
Leli yikhono elibaluleke kakhulu kuzo zombili izingane nentsha. Ukubheka ngombono kufana nokuthatha isinyathelo sokubuyela emuva phakathi kwabo nokuziphatha kwabo. Isinyathelo sokubuyela emuva sikhulu kakhulu ukuthi ungabona okwenzekile kusuka komunye umbono, kube sengathi bekuyizibukeli zalokho okwenzekile. Lapho isigameko somzwelo omkhulu senzekile futhi izingane zisendleleni ukuthola ukuthula, zingacelwa ukuthi zicabange ukuthatha isinyathelo emuva ukuze zikwazi ukubona okwenzekile sengathi yibhayisikobho.
Ungabatshela izinto ezinjengalezi: 'Uma omunye umuntu enza lokhu obukwenza, ubungacabangani ngaye?' 'Ucabanga ukuthi uzizwa kanjani / ucabanga ini / udinga ini?' 'Ungathanda ukuthini kuye?' Leli yikhono elihle elizokwakha uzwela futhi liqinise leyo ngxenye yobuchopho engabheka isimo ngokunengqondo nangokunengqondo. Ungakhathazeki uma ngokushesha wenza izingane zakho zifunde ukubukeka ngendlela efanele, zidinga umkhuba omncane ukwenza lokho. Lapho unamathuba amaningi okuzijwayeza, isikhathi esiningi uzokwazi ukukwenza ngokwakho.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, kubaluleke kakhulu ukubanikeza ithuba lokuthi bakwazi ukucabanga ngokwenzekile nokuthi kungani sekwenzekile.