Iminyaka ephakathi kwezinyanga eziyi-12 neminyaka emi-3 ngokungangabazeki isikhathi semilingo kulokho uMaría Montessori akubiza ngokuthi yizikhathi ezibucayi. Sikuleso sikhathi sokuvuthwa lapho izingane zethu zizoba ngaphezu kwabo bonke "abahloli abakhulu"Bafuna ukuthinta yonke into, umhlaba usuvele uvule phambi kwabo ngezinkulungwane zezinto abafuna ukuzenza nokuthi bazokufinyelela ngokwelula izandla zabo: ukuhamba nokukhuluma ekugcineni.
Sivele sikuleso sigaba lapho ukuxhumana kuqala khona ukuthuthuka futhi lapho thina, Sizoba yilabo baklami bezakhiwo usuku nosuku okufanele sithande ukuvuthwa kwabo, ukwanda kwabo, ukuqonda kwabo konke okubazungezile.. Kuyisikhathi esimangalisayo empilweni yengane yakho naku- «Madres Hoy»sifuna ukukunikeza imihlahlandlela eyanele esuselwe kuyo amasu ukuthi Montessori wasishiya. Ngokuqinisekile bazoba usizo kuwe.
Amasu e-Montessori: ukufunda ngokudlala
Sivele sikuleso sikhathi lapho izingane zingasalali isikhathi eside. Amehlo abo avulelwe lowo mhlaba osondele obazungezile futhi nsuku zonke bayakumangaza ngegama elisha, ngenkulumo ekwenza umangale futhi ube nesinyathelo esidlula leyo mingcele lapho ngokungazelelwe, konke sekuvele kutholakale kalula.
Indodana yakho iba ngumhloli wamazwe omkhulu nawe, kufanele ubeke umhlaba phambi kwakhe unakekele ukuphepha kwakhe, kepha uthande ukufunda kwakhe ngangokunokwenzeka. Futhi singayifinyelela kanjani? Ngokudlala.
Kulungile manje akusho neze ukumshiya kuleyo paki yokudlala egumbini lakhe namacube anemibala nonodoli. Ngale ndlela, esikwenzayo "ukukhawulela" eziningi zalezo zinto esingazinikeza ekhaya.
- UMaría Montessori unamathisele ukubaluleka okukhulu ekudlaleni njengecebo lokufunda. Ukuze enze lokhu, wasungula izinto ezifanele nempahla ukufeza lokhu.
- Ukutotosa ekhaya nakho kungakwenza. Umqondo ukuhlinzeka ngokuvuselelwa okukhulu kwezinzwa.
- Ukudlala ukuhlola. Ngayo sithuthukisa lokho okubizwa ngokuthi "ukuthenwa kwe-synapse"Ngamanye amagama, siqhubeka ngokukhethekile ubuchopho, bese sithuthukisa izinqubo eziyisisekelo zokuqonda.
- Ngokudlala, izingane kufanele zizame imvelo yazo ngendlela ephephile, ukuze zifunde izindlela ezintsha zokuziphatha, zixazulule izinkinga futhi zivumelane nezimo ezintsha.
- LAmasu omdlalo weMontessori asekelwe ngaphezu kwakho konke ekwakheni izimo ezisondele emhlabeni wangempela ngangokunokwenzeka. Ngale ndlela, sihlanganisa ingane nezwe, futhi sithuthukise ukuphepha kwabo, ubungane nokwethembana kwabo.
- Kufanele sibe ngabahlanganyeli emdlalweni, futhi nathi, futhi njengoba ingane ikhula, kuyadingeka ukuthi ingane ihlangane ukumvumela ukuthi adlale nabanye abangane, noma ngabe beminyaka ehlukene.
Thola umhlaba ngezimo zangempela
Akufanele sikhawulele izingane zethu kuphela endaweni yegumbi labo. Siyazi ukuthi leyo minyaka ephakathi kwezinyanga eziyi-12 neminyaka emi-3 ubudala, zisabonakala njenge "zinsana" kithina, kepha yisikhathi lapho ukweqa kwabo ngokomqondo kucishe kube yinto emangalisayo. Ngakho-ke, isidingo sokuvuselela, ukubasondeza ezimeni ezintsha, ukusebenza njengabaqondisi bansuku zonke ezinyathelweni zabo, nakuwo wonke amagama abo.
Siyazi ukuthi akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthola izinto ezifanele zasekhaya, kepha kukhona uhlobo "lwamapaki" amancane okhuni lapho singahambisa khona ingane noma kuphi endlini ngomoya ophansi. Kuzona ungama noma uhlale. Ngaphakathi kwamasu e-Montessori, inhloso kungaba lokhu okulandelayo:
- Menze abambe iqhaza emisebenzini yasekhaya. Uma sisekhishini, ngokwesibonelo, singayivumela ukuthi idlale ngemifino, nesinkwa, nefolomu le-silicone lapho senza khona uphudingi. Kungenzeka wenze iresiphi elula nabo, ubavumele ukuthi bangcoliswe ngofulawa, bezwe iphunga.
- Singenza okufanayo nangezibopho zasekhaya. Kuthanda ukuthi bahambe kancane kancane, babeke amathoyizi abo, balalise imibhede yabo, bazi ukuthi izingubo zabo ziya kuphi.
- Sincoma nokuba nesikhala esincane semvelo. Izitshalo okufanele zinakekelwe, imbewu yokubona ihluma njengama-lentils akudala, ama-chickpeas ... Konke lokhu kuyizisusa ezinhle.
- Amathoyizi kufanele abe mathupha, athande ukudlala okungokomfanekiso, ukusebenzisana kwamehlo.
Sithuthukisa ulimi lwakho ngomoya ophansi, ngaphandle kwengcindezi
Siyazi ukuthi bakuleso sikhathi lapho esikhathazeke khona kakhulu ngukuthi baqala ukukhuluma futhi bakwazi ukulungisa lolu limi ngokushesha, ngokufanele nangendlela efanelekile. Manje dKumele sikhululeke futhi sinake ukuthi ingane ngayinye inesigqi sayo sokuvuthwa, nokuthi ukukhathazeka, noma ingcindezi yethu ayisiye umngane omuhle kulezi zimo.
- Ulimi ngokungangabazeki luyisici esivelele kakhulu kumuntu, futhi sizoba inkomba yalo yansuku zonke. Thina baklami bayo.
- Khuluma nengane yakho ngaso sonke isikhathi ngomoya ophansi, uyinike ukuzethemba, ukuphepha. Ingane izokwazi usuku nosuku ngaleyo misindo, ngezincazelo zayo zokuvezwa kwayo ... Futhi leyo yinto ezokwenzeka ngokwesikhathi sabo sokuvuthwa. Akudingeki ukhathazeke.
- EKuhle ukuthi uyethule ezimeni zansuku zonke. Khuluma naye ngenkathi uyothenga, lapho ubuka ithelevishini, ekhishini, ngenkathi utshala leyo mbewu ezimbizeni. Izimo zansuku zonke zibangela ukuthi izinto ezibukwayo zihlobane nemizwa namagama.
Ukuthuthukiswa kwengqondo ngenkathi kutholwa umhlaba
Indlu yethu ingaba yindawo enhle yokuthola izinto, futhi ngasikhathi sinye, ukukhula nokukhulisa amakhono abo we-psychomotor ngendlela efanelekile. ¿Kungayiphi indlela esingakhuphula ngayo ukuvuthwa kwengqondo yabo, ngenkathi sikhuthaza ukuzimela kwabo nokuzimela?
UMaría Montessori usiphakamisele lokhu okulandelayo:
Indawo evuselelayo futhi elawulwayo
Sifuna ukuthuthukisa amakhono abo ezimoto, futhi lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu thuthukisa ukuxhumana kwezandla zakho (isibopho sedijithali), kanye nekhono labo lokumangala, lokufuna ukwazi. Ngakho-ke unganqikazi ukudala izinto ezintsha nsuku zonke:
- Uma sisekhishini mnike uphizi awathathe uwafake enkomishini.
- Makube nguyena otshala imbewu ebhodweni
- Beka izinto endlini eziphakeme futhi ezingakwazi ukusingatha: izincwadi ezisemashalofini aphansi, izinto zazo ematafuleni aphansi futhi zihlala zigcina ukuhleleka.
- Ithanda ukuthi inokuxhumana nezindawo ezinokwakheka okungafani nokuthungwa: ukhuni, umhlaba, isihlabathi, amatshe, izindwangu, ipulasitiki, ukudla ... Konke lokhu kuyizisusa ezinhle esingazibeka ezandleni zakho ngokugadwa okufanele.
Nakulokhu futhi kufanele sikhumbule ukuthi ingane ngayinye inesigqi, futhi kungumsebenzi wethu njengabazali ukuthi sisihloniphe. Ungakhathazeki uma befika ezinyangeni eziyi-16 futhi namanje abahambi. Ngokwendlela yeMontessori, kuzohlala kungcono njalo ukuhlonipha isikhathi sengane futhi uyivumele ikhule ngokukhululeka.
Lokho kusho ukuthi, akudingeki sibathenge i-playpen noma i- "tacataca" yakudala. Mayihambe ngokukhululeka nangokuphepha, ake ahlole, asukume lapho efuna, akhase, akhase… Izingane eziphakathi kwezinyanga eziyi-12 neminyaka emi-3 ubudala zingabahloli bemvelo, futhi lezi zigemegeme zansuku zonke zenkululeko nangaphansi kokugadwa kwakho zizokuvumela ukuba zikhule ngokuzwana okuhle.
Kamuva kuzofika eminye imithwalo yemfanelo, phakathi kweminyaka emi-3 nengu-6 lezi zikhathi ezibucayi ziyaqhubeka futhi ukusuka lapha, sikukhuthaza futhi ukuthi ubazi ngokombono weMontessori.