Ngemuva kwenkohliso kaKhisimusi kanye naMakhosi Amathathu, kungenzeka ukuthi izingane zakho ziqoqane nezipho eziningi nokuthi indlu yakho ibukeka njengengxenye yamathoyizi enxanxathela yezitolo. Namuhla izingane zivame ukuthola izipho ngoKhisimusi naseKhosini. Yini enye, Kujwayelekile ukuthi umndeni nabangane bafune ukunika okuthile kubancane abasendlini ngoba ubuso babo benkohliso abulutho.
Akukho okwenzekayo, amathoyizi ayasiza ekuzijabuliseni, ekuthuthukiseni nasekufundeni kwezingane zethu. Inkinga ifika lapho intaba yamathoyizi ikhuphuka futhi, futhi esikhundleni sokuthi bazizwe bejabule, izingane zigcina zikhungathekile futhi zicindezelwe yizipho eziningi kangaka. Yilokho ochwepheshe abakubizayo »Isifo Sengane Esiphiwe Ngesihe». Ingane, ebhekene nezipho ezinkulu kangaka, igcina isuka komunye iye komunye, ingagxili noma idlale lutho. Lokhu, ngaphezu kokuthanda ukungabi nokugxila, ukucabanga nokukhathazeka, Kuvimbela izingane zethu ukuthi zifunde ukukwazisa lokho ezinakho futhi kungabi yinqwaba futhi kunganeliseki ngokwenza izinto ngokuzikhandla.
Yiqiniso, izingane zethu azinacala. Thina bantu abadala okufanele siphathe kokubili ubuningi nekhwalithi yezipho abazitholayo. Ngakho-ke, kusuka Madres hoy, Sikunikeza imibono yokuthi izingane zakho zijabulele izipho zazo futhi ngasikhathi sinye zifunde ukuzazisa.
Yini esingayenza uma sinamathoyizi amaningi kakhulu ngemuva kukaKhisimusi?
Nikela ngamathoyizi angasasetshenziswa.
Lesi yisikhathi esihle sokuthi khuthaza ingane yakho ukuba iphane futhi isekele. Uma emdala, ungakhetha amathoyizi asesimweni esihle kepha angasasebenzisi futhi awahambise ku-NGO, esibhedlela, esikoleni noma aze awanikeze ilungu lomndeni noma umngani. Into ebalulekile ukuthi ubanikeze impilo yesibili esebenzisekayo nokuthi izingane zakho zazi ukuthi ngokuncane kakhulu, abanye abantu abangathandwa kangako bangajabula kakhulu.
Gcina futhi uvuselele.
Ungenza ukukhetha kwamathoyizi bese uwagcina lawo angawasebenzisi ngoba awafanele iminyaka yawo noma ngoba ebhorekile ngawo. Ngale ndlela, indlu yakho izocaca ngokwengeziwe futhi ungakwazi uzikhiphe unyaka wonke kuye ngeminyaka nezintshisekelo zezingane. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngale ndlela bayohlala benokukhohlisa kokusha futhi ngeke balahle isithakazelo kubo ngokushesha okukhulu.
Yabelana noma shintshana nabangani.
Kujwayelekile ukuthi, yize benamathoyizi amaningi, bavele bathande omunye womngani omncane. Ungaphakamisa ukuthi izingane zakho zenze ifayili le- imakethe yamathoyizi lapho ngamunye ethatha lokho angakusebenzisi futhi akushintshanise nalokho kwabangane babo njengokushintshana. Ushintsho kungaba yimali mboleko yesikhashana noma ehlala unomphela, njengoba bethanda. Ngale ndlela bazoba nesikhathi esimnandi ngenkathi befunda amanani afana nokuphana, ukusebenzisa kabusha nokuzibandakanya ezintweni ezibonakalayo.
Dlala nezingane.
Sivame ukucabanga ukuthi ngokunika izingane zethu izipho zezinto ezibonakalayo, singabuyisa isikhathi esincane esibe naso ngeshwa ngabo. Kuvamile ukubona izingane zinezipho ezingenakubalwa, kodwa zidabukile futhi zinesithukuthezi ngoba azinabani ongabelana nobani ngazo izinto ezintsha nenjabulo. Zinike isikhathi sokudlala nezingane zakho, yehla nazo phansi futhi ujabulele lelo thoyizi elipholile elethwe Amakhosi. Ngale ndlela, uzobasiza ukuthi bagxilise ukunaka kwabo umdlalo, bazizwe behambisana futhi uzokugwema isithukuthezi.
Lena nje eminye yemibono yokuthi ukwazi ukuphatha amathoyizi amaningi ngemuva kwamaholide kaKhisimusi, kepha ngokuqinisekile ungacabanga ngokunye okuningi. Ngiyethemba bakusizile futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, ukuthi wena nezingane zakho, nijabulele izikhathi eziningi zokudlala, ubumnandi nokuhleka.
Isibonelo, ngithanda kakhulu ukufundisa inqwaba yami ukubeka amathoyizi emashalofini ngendlela eyi-montessori kakhulu. Nginamashalofu amabili ukuphakama kwakhe ukuze akwazi ukuwafinyelela futhi ukubeka amathoyizi kuyingxenye yomdlalo wakhe.