Imiyalo eyi-10 Bonke Abazali Kufanele Bayazi Ngobuzali Obuhle

umndeni ojabulayo ensimini

Umndeni ngamunye wehlukile futhi umama nobaba ngamunye babheka ukukhuliswa okuhle abakwenzayo ngendlela ehlukile. Kuyisihlobo ukukwazi ukusho ukuthi abanye abazali baphumelela kakhulu kunabanye ekukhuliseni izingane zabo. Yize kuliqiniso ukuthi kunabazali abathile abanemikhuba ethile eyenza ubuzali bube ngcono nokuthi izingane zabo zikhula zizinzile ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo.

Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukwazi le miyalo eyi-10 ukuze bonke abazali bayisebenzise ezimpilweni zabo. Noma imiyalo ingenziwa nsuku zonke, uzoyenza iningi ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ngabe ufuna ukuba ngumzali ophumelelayo? Bese ubhala phansi le miyalo eyi-10 ngoba udinga ukuyazi kusukela manje kuqhubeke.

Uzokhuluma nezingane zakho

Abazali abakhuliswe kahle baxhumana njalo nangempumelelo nezingane zabo. Esikhundleni sokuhlala ndawonye ebusuku babukele ithelevishini, badlale imidlalo yevidiyo, noma bavule i-Internet, abazali abaphumelele nezingane zabo bachithe isikhathi bekhuluma ndawonye. Akuzona zonke izingxoxo okufanele zibucayi, kepha ezinye zizobakhona.

umndeni uhlanganiswe ngumzali omuhle

Ukwakha isiko lokuxhumana, okuhle nokubi, kuvula umnyango wezingxoxo ezibucayi nezizwelayo njengoba izingane zikhula. Kepha lolo hlobo lobudlelwano luqala kuqala ngokuxhumana.

Uzochitha isikhathi esikhethiwe nezingane zakho

Iningi lemindeni linemisebenzi eminingi yomndeni futhi lichitha isikhathi ndawonye. Kepha abazali abaphumelele ngokweqiniso bachitha isikhathi namandla basebenzisa isikhathi nezingane zabo umuntu ngamunye. Bakhuluma nabo ngendlela eqondene nabo ukuthola ukuthi baqhuba kanjani esikoleni, ukuthola ukukhathazeka kwabo, izintshisekelo zabo, njll.

Abanye abazali bathanda ukuphuma babhekane ubuso nobuso nezingane zabo. Isikhathi esezingeni abazali abasichitha nezingane zabo sakha ubuhlobo obubalulekile futhi sibikezela impumelelo.

Uzobeka imithetho

Ukuthi izingane zakho zikhula ziphilile futhi nendlela okhule ngayo ikusiza kahle akusho nje kuphela ukuzijabulisa. Kuphathelene nokugxilisa izindinganiso nokwakha abantu abadala abaziphethe kahle. Ukusungula imithetho yomndeni nokuphila ngayo kungenye yezindlela zokufundisa ukungaguquguquki nokuzibophezela. Emndenini, izikhathi zokufika ekhaya zilandelwa ngokuqinile futhi kusetshenziswa nemiphumela uma kungalandelwa imithetho.

Izingane zazi kusengaphambili okulindelekile nokuthi izinto zizoba njani uma zingathobeli. Eminye imindeni iqala ukufundisa lezi zimiso kusenesikhathi ngama- “task charts” amnandi nakhayo akhuthaza izingane ukuthi ziqedele izabelo zazo futhi zilandele imithetho yomndeni.

umndeni ojabulayo ensimini

Ngeke uzitotose izingane zakho

Ukunikeza ingane yonke into ayifunayo ngesikhathi ayifunayo kuyifundisa ukuba ibe nethemba elingafinyeleleki empilweni. Ukufunda ukubaluleka kokweneliseka kokubambezeleka kubalulekile ukuze ube umuntu omdala onokwethenjelwa. Ngokufanayo, ukusiza izingane zifunde ukubaluleka kokonga okuthile ezikufunayo nokulindela ukuba nazo lifundisa ikhono lempilo elizokusiza ingunaphakade.


Uzokhombisa izingane zakho uthando lwakho ngolimi

Ulimi kungaba ulimi lothando. Izingane zizwa uthando ngezindlela ezihluke kakhulu. Ukuvumelanisa ukukhuluma kwakho kothando nolimi lothando lomntanakho kuzozisiza ziluzwe uthando lwazo ngendlela egxile kakhudlwana. Uthando lukhonjiswa ngezenzo nangezenzo, kepha ukusetshenziswa kolimi namazwi nakho kunamandla amakhulu ngoba kufana nokucindezela emphefumulweni.

Uzofunda nezingane zakho

Ukufunda akusona isibopho, kufanele kubhekwe njengokujabulisa. Lapho izingane zihlakulela uthando lokufunda, zinekhono elihlukile nesiqondiso ezimpilweni zazo. Ukukwazi kwabo ukufunda nokuqonda kubanikeza ithuba elihle lokuphumelela ngokuzayo. Abazali abaphumelelayo bachitha isikhathi befunda futhi nezingane zabo kusuka ezigabeni zokuqala zempilo yabo.

Uzothanda umama wezingane zakho ohlala nazo

Yize kungebona bonke abazali abahlala nomama wezingane zabo, uma wenza kanjalo, ukuthanda umama wabo kungesinye sezipho ezinhle kakhulu ongasinikeza ingane. Izingane zinethuba elihle kakhulu lokuphumelela lapho zihlala nomama wazo nobaba. Abazali abaphumelelayo batshala imali ebudlelwaneni babo nomama wezingane zabo. Kuyafana nokubuyela emuva.

ukukhuliswa okuhle komndeni

Ngeke ukhulume kabi ngomama (noma ubaba) wezingane zakho

Ikakhulukazi ngemuva kwesehlukaniso, kunesilingo esikhulu sokuba abazali bakhulume kabi ngomunye umzali. Kubukeka sengathi isidingo sokuncintisana nothando lwezingane siyabonakala. Abazali abakhuliswe kahle bayamelana nalesi silingo. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, izingane zizokuthokozela ukuthi uthathe lesi sikhundla.

Ngokusobala, uma umama noma ubaba wabo ehlukumeza noma esebenzisa izinto ezithile, kuzodingeka uvikele izingane zakho kepha akudingekile ukuthi uthuke noma wehlise noma ngubani. Uma umama noma ubaba enesimo esinobuthi ezinganeni, khona-ke kufanele baqonde ukuthi ubaba noma umama ngeke abavikele kuphela, kepha futhi bazoba yisibonelo esihle sokuzinza nothando ezimpilweni zabo.

Uzohlangana nabangane bezingane zakho

Abazali abakhule kahle benza isiqiniseko sokuthi bayazazi izingane izingane zabo ezihlala nazo. Mema abangani bezingane zakho ekhaya lakho ukuhlanganyela futhi ubazi ngendlela. Ngokufanelekile, ngaphezu kokuhlangana nabangane, uhlangana nabazali babo.  Ngale ndlela uzokwazi ukwazi ukuthi laba bangani banamthelela muni ezinganeni zakho futhi uzobasiza ukuba baqondise izingane zakho ziye kwabangcono kulaba bantu.

Uzovikela izingane zakho engozini

Abazali kumele bazi ngezingozi ezisezweni lethu lanamuhla futhi basize izingane zabo ukuba zizigweme. Ukuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi, ukusetshenziswa kabi kwezidakamizwa, amaqembu ezigelekeqe, ubuxhwanguxhwangu, izithombe zobulili ezingcolile, nezinye izingozi kubonakala sengathi kuhlale kukhona. Fundisa izingane zakho amagugu namandla okuthi cha kulabo abazofaka izimpilo zabo nenhlalakahle engcupheni. Abazali abakhuliswe kahle balungiselela izingane zabo futhi bazivikele.


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  2. Inhloso yedatha: Lawula Ugaxekile, ukuphathwa kwamazwana.
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  4. Ukuxhumana kwemininingwane: Imininingwane ngeke idluliselwe kubantu besithathu ngaphandle kwesibopho esisemthethweni.
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