Iningi lethu liyazi noma lizwile ngeMethessori Method. Inzuzo ukuthi ithambekele ekuphambukeni kancane ezindleleni zendabuko zemfundo, ngu nikeza ingane inkululeko ekhetheke kakhulu lapho umuntu omdala cishe ngaso sonke isikhathi esebenza njengomhlahlandlela.
Sibhekene nohlobo lokufundisa lapho kuqashelwa khona umthwalo wemfanelo, bobabili abazali uqobo kanye nengane uqobo ukuba ifunde ukuzimela. Futhi ukuze sizimele kumele ngaphezu kwakho konke sibanikeze ithuba lokuhlola, ukusebenzisana, futhi ikakhulukazi, ukuthuthukisa ilukuluku labo. Ku "Madres hoy»Sifuna ukukuchazela ukuthi ungayisebenzisa kanjani indlela yeMontessori ekhaya, ukufundisa izingane eziphakathi kweminyaka emithathu nengu-3 ubudala.
Ilukuluku njengesikhali samandla nabazali njengabagqugquzeli
Uma kukhona isici esibalulekile sobuchopho bezinsana amandla ayo amakhulu okufunda, futhi izindlela zokuchaza lezi zifundo ngokungangabazeki ukudlulisa ilukuluku labo. Uma sisebenzisa uhlobo lobuzali lapho sivimba njalo izingane zethu ukuthi zingathinti lokhu nalokhuya, noma ukuhlala zinganyakazi, sizobe "sinciphisa" ithuba labo lokukhula nokufunda.
"Umsebenzi wokuqala wemfundo ukunyakazisa impilo, kepha ukuyishiya ikhululekile ukuze ithuthuke."
UMaria Montessori
Yini-ke indima yethu njengomama nobaba? Gcina lezi zimiso ezilula engqondweni ukuthi uMontessori uqobo usishiyile, nokuthi, ngaphandle kokungabaza, usuvele usebenza usuku nosuku.
- Ingane ezizwa ithandwa izizwa iphephile ukuhlola umhlaba
- Hlala ulalele ingane yakho ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho eza ngombuzo, yiba nesikhathi sayo nsuku zonke.
- Hlonipha ingane yakho noma ngabe yenze iphutha. Ungalokothi umvimbe phambi kwabantu.
- Kufanele uzimisele ukusiza ingane yakho lapho ifuna ukuthola okuthile. Manje futhi kubalulekile ukuthi umvumele ukuthi azitholele izinto yedwa.
- Gwema ukugxeka ingane yakho. Ngokwenza njalo, into yokuqala azoyifunda ngukwahlulela yena.
- Uma umdumisa ngokungaguquguquki futhi lapho kumfanele, uzofunda ukuzazisa yena.
- Qiniseka ukuthi izingane zakho zizizwa ziphephile ngawo wonke umzuzu. Ingane enokuzethemba izizwa izethemba ngokwengeziwe ukuhlola umhlaba ngokufuna ukwazi.
- Lalela imibono yabo bese uyayazisa. Ngaleyo ndlela uzozizwa uhlanganisiwe futhi wazi ukuthi izwi lakho, amagama akho, abalulekile.
Izingane ezineminyaka emi-3 kuya kwengu-6: ingqondo edonsa
UMaría Montessori ukhulume nathi ngokubaluleka kwezikhathi ezibucayi ezifakiwe empilweni yengane kuze kube yiminyaka eyi-6. Uma ingane yakho ikule minyaka, kufanele ukwazi lokho Awusoze waba nethuba elinamandla kangako lokukhula ngokomzwelo nangokwengqondo futhi.
Kungalesi sikhathi esithakazelisa kakhulu lapho izingane zakho zizolinganisa umhlaba wazo, futhi kufanele ube ngumqondisi wazo. Umakhi wezinyathelo zakhe zonke, lapho kufanele ukwazi ukudala hhayi ukukhawulela, lapho ungathanda khona futhi ungalokothi uvikele ngokweqile.
- Kusukela eminyakeni engu-3, ilukuluku ezinganeni lithola amandla wokunquma. Ngonyaka wesithathu sekuvele kukhona ukukhula okukhulu kwe-cortical, okunikeza indlela yokuvuthwa okuhle kwe-neuronal. Ama-neurons ezineminyaka emithathu ubudala ayakwazi ukuphendula ekuziphatheni noma ekuziphatheni okuyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu.
- Phakathi kweminyaka engu-4 nengu-5: ngalesi sikhathi izingane seziyazazi. Bathuthukisa ukucabanga kwemilingo, lapho ilukuluku liyisikhali samandla sangempela. Futhi khumbula ukuthi kule minyaka yobudala bazoba nezidingo eziningi ezingokomzwelo nokuqashelwa.
- Phakathi kweminyaka emi-5 nengu-6: yisikhathi lapho abangane sebenenani elibaluleke kakhulu. Bakha izibopho zobungane futhi bayakujabulela ukudlala nontanga yabo. Yilapho-ke lapho kufanele sikhuthaze ukuzibandakanya kwabo, indlela efanelekile yokuthuthukisa ubuhlakani babo bezemizwa kanye "nelukuluku labo lomphakathi"
Ungayisebenzisa kanjani iMontessori Method ekhaya ukuthuthukisa ilukuluku
Indawo elungiselelwe
Siyazi ukuthi indlela yaseMontessori isetshenziswa ikakhulukazi ohlotsheni oluthile lwamakilasi, lapho Ifuna ukukhuthaza inkululeko kanye nokuhlola amandla engane. Manje, kepha singenza okufanayo ekhaya ngaphandle kokuchitha imali eningi?
Kunjalo. Lawa kungaba amaphuzu alandelayo okufanele ubhekwe.
- Phakathi kweminyaka emi-3 nengu-6 sinezingane ezingenakho ukuthula, ngakho-ke, kufanele lawula zonke izinhlobo zobungozi.
- Kubalulekile ukulinganisela ithuba lokuxhumana nezingozi ezikhawulelayo.
- Ikhaya lingahle lihlelwe ngezindawo ezinentshisekelo yansuku zonke enganeni. Singavumela izindawo ezihlale zisezingeni lakho futhi ezingakusiza ukuthi uhlanganyele, usebenze futhi ufunde.
- Igumbi lakho lokulala liyindawo yakho yokudlala. Kubalulekile ukuthi bathathe umthwalo wemfanelo kusukela eminyakeni engu-3 ukugcina ukuhleleka. Bakhuthaze ukuthi bathathe amathoyizi abo ngemuva kokuwasebenzisa, bakhathazeke ngokuthi kuzokwakhiwa umbhede, ukukusiza ukulahla izingubo.
- I-Podemos ube nendawo ehlobene nemvelo. Isikhala lapho kunezitshalo (noma ngabe siyitreyi elilula elineziqukathi zeyogathi lapho sitshala khona imbewu enjengezinkukhu noma udali)
- Enye indawo izonikezelwa ekufundeni. Kuzoba idilowa lakho elinezincwadi.
- Enye indawo kuzoba ngeyekhishi. Lapho bangaba nethreyi labo elinezithelo, ngezikhunta ezimnandi ze-silicone zokwenza ama-muffin, abangazilungiselela kanye nawe.
Imayelana nokubandakanya ingane kuyo yonke imisebenzi yasendlini. Ngale ndlela sikhuthaza ilukuluku labo nomthwalo wabo wemfanelo.
Inselelo yansuku zonke yokukhuthaza ilukuluku
Esihlokweni sethu esedlule ku «IMontessori pedagogy yezingane eziphakathi kwezinyanga eziyisithupha nezingu-6»Besikhuluma nawe mayelana lula ukudala "idrowa lokumangala" lapho ungenisa khona into entsha nehlukile nsuku zonke.
Kulesi senzakalo, futhi njengoba izingane zikhula, kufanele sikhulise ubunzima. Noma kunjalo, isu elihle lokukhuthaza imizwa, inselelo, isibopho kanye nelukuluku wezingane. Manje, khumbula ukuthi ukuze uthole imiphumela emihle, kudinga ukuzinikela kwethu.
Singakwenza kanjani lokho? Yini okufanele idilowa yelukuluku libe nayo?
Akudingeki ukuthi sitshale imali. Ukucabanga kwethu kungumthombo omuhle kakhulu, futhi indlela enhle yokubopha izingane zethu.
- Kungaba inselelo encane, isivivinyo esinomvuzo wokugcina. Mfihle uswidi, amanye amnandi noma "imininingwane" okumele ayithole ngokulandela imihlahlandlela ethile: encwadini yokupheka eshalofini kunenkomba, leyo nkomba izomyisa kwelinye ikona lendlu, kuze kube yilapho ethola kancane ingcebo yakhe.
- Olunye usuku singakwazi beka ebhokisini lethu lezilangazelelo a «umthwalo». Noma ngomdwebo noma ngenothi elincane, singanikeza ingane umthwalo omusha ekhaya omenza azizwe esebenziseka futhi ehlanganisiwe.
- Ebhokisini, Ungathula izinto ezifana "nembewu ongayitshala", "ubuciko", "incwadi" nsuku zonke ngisho namakhadi alula lapho ungamtshela ngokusobala ukuthi umthanda kangakanani nokuthi uyaziqhenya ngaye.
Okuthile okulula njengokubeka lesi sigxobo selukuluku endaweni ethile kuzokwenza ingane yakho izizwe ikhuthazeka nsuku zonke ukuthi ifunde futhi ithole izinto ezintsha. Futhi uzoba ngumhlahlandlela wakho, uzoba ngumdali wayo wansuku zonke wemizwa nenjabulo.
Futhi unganqikazi ukumkhuthaza ukuthi ashiye izinto zakhe kulowo mzimbaNgale ndlela sakha ukuxhumana komndeni esingazuza kukho sonke. Ngabe unesibindi sokuqala indlela yaseMontessori ekhaya?