Indodana yami inamahloni okuya esikoleni, ngingayisiza kanjani?

Unyaka wesikole uyaqala futhi izingane eziningi kufanele shintsha inqubo yakho yeholide iye esimisweni esisha sesikole. Ushintsho lusho amashejuli amasha, imisebenzi emisha futhi mhlawumbe no ushintsho kothisha noma kontanga.

Lolu hlobo loshintsho lungaba impendulo engeyinhle ngomqondo wakho ongokomzwelo futhi kulapha lapho ingane ingase izwe ukwesaba nokukhathazeka. Kuyinto ejwayelekile ukuphendula kulokhu kwehluka futhi kuzoba yingxenye yenqubo yokuzivumelanisa nezimo, lapho kuzodingeka khona ukuqonda nokubheka ezinye izindlela ezinembile zokubhekana nakho.

Ungazibona kanjani lezi zimpawu

Esinye sezimpawu eziyinhloko ngukuthi uma sekuyisikhathi sokuya esikoleni nengane iyakhala. Izinsuku zokuqala kujwayelekile kakhulu ukuthi lokhu kwenzeke nengane ingakwazi ukuya esikoleni izokwenza uchungechunge lwezaba ukuthi bangakwazi ukubambezeleka okwamanje. Uzobambezeleka ekuqedeleni i- ibhulakufesi nokugqoka, uzoba nokuntuleka okukhulu kolawulo ku ukunakekelwa kwempahla yakho yesikole, ukuziphatha kwakho ekilasini kuzoba nolaka noma izohlala bebodwa eqenjini lonke.

Phakathi kwezimpawu zayo zomzimba kuzovela okuphindayo ubuhlungu besisu, ukuhlanza, isifo sohudo. La ukungezwani kwemisipha nokujuluka ezandleni nasemzimbeni kungabuye kube nezimpawu eziningi. Okuvamile ikhanda futhi ingajwayelekile futhi a ukuguqulwa emikhubeni yokudla nokulala.

Konke okuphathelene nesikole kubangela ukwesabaLo muzwa uyanyamalala kuphela lapho ubuya esikoleni uphinde uvele lapho ubuyela kuwo. Lokhu kwesaba akukho lapho izimpelasonto zifika nangezikhathi zamaholide.

Mayelana nokuziphatha kwakhe, ngokwenqubo yakhe kunezikhathi lapho akwazi khona yenza umsindo ezintweni ezikhethekile njengalapho ugqoka noma udla, ungabuyela futhi cela usizo ukukusiza wenze lezi zenzo eziyisisekelo ukuthola ukunakwa.

Ungakugwema kanjani lokhu kwesaba

Isiqalo esihle sokukwazi ukujwayela izingane bayise enkulisa besebancane. Ngale ndlela bathola ukunakwa okuningi futhi uhlelo lwabo lwemisebenzi luguquguquka kalula kakhulu. Uma singakwazanga ukukuthatha ngaphambi konyaka wakho wesikole kufanele sizijwayeze isikhathi sokuzivumelanisa nezimo.

Singasebenza kanjani iseluleko esisebenzayo kukukhumbuza izikhathi ezihlekisayo okujabulele esikoleni futhi wenze nobhakha ukupakisha kube mnandi. Ukuvalelisa kufanele kube okujabulisayo hhayi okude kakhulu futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke ukugweme ukungasheshi ukuya ekilasini.

Indodana yami inamahloni okuya esikoleni

Kubalulekile ungaxoxisani nengane noma uyiqambe amanga ngamabinzana athi "Ngizobuyela kuwe khona manjalo" futhi asivumelani nama-blackmails abo angokomzwelo, ngoba kuzobe kuyisinyathelo sokubuyela emuva futhi sizokwenza isimo sibe nzima nakakhulu.

Uma inkinga iba nesipiliyoni esibi esikoleni, akufanele siphuthelwe ukukhuluma nothisha noma uthisha ukuze akwazi ngokushesha okukhulu ukunciphisa inkinga ebange le ndlela yokuziphatha.


Ngesikhathi kwenzeka ukungqubuzana okunjalo, kufanele zama ukulalela ingane futhi myeke chaza konke ukwesaba kwakho futhi ikakhulukazi uma ekhala, ungazami ukumenza acabange ngokushesha kepha mvumele yehlisa umoya bese uzama ukukhuluma naye ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.

Kufanele silucele nini usizo

Izingane ziqonda lesi simo njengengxabano. Kubukeka njengesimo esibi kithina nakubo futhi. Izikhathi eziningi isikhathi esibi kakhulu lapho sifika, kepha uma sebesesikoleni umfana ihlanganisa ngokuphelele futhi iyakujabulela.

Indodana yami inamahloni okuya esikoleni

Kufanele sakhe isikhathi sokuzivumelanisa nezimo ukuze ukuthuthukiswa kokwesaba ixazululwa ngendlela enhle. Uma uthola indawo yokwamukela esikoleni, imiphumela izoba mihle kakhulu.

Ukwesaba okungenasisekelo nokuthi bahlala benqatshwa ngokuphelele ngokweqile futhi okungenangqondo okuhlala ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kusenza sicabange ukuthi ingane idinga usizo kochwepheshe. Kunjalo odokotela bezingane kanye nodokotela bezengqondo bezingane labo abazohlola bazobe sebelisiza leli cala. Ingane kungenzeka ihlupheke kakhulu ukuphazamiseka kokukhathazeka ngokwehlukana nokuthi kufanele unakekele.


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