Okungenzeka ukuthi, abazali abaningi abakhethe ukukhetha ukuyisa izingane zabo esikoleni sezinkulisa, sebevele bakhethe ngaphambi kwamaholide ngisho nesikhungo semfundo abazofunda kuso. Kepha, ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi imindeni embalwa isiqala ukubheka manje ngoba useholidini futhi unesikhathi esithe xaxa sokuvakashela zonke izikole ezinkulisa.
Yize ngingakabi ngumama, ngiyazi ukuthi ukuzivumelanisa nesikole sezinkulisa Ayisiyinkimbinkimbi kuphela kwabancane. Abazali nabo banenkinga enzima futhi badinga ngisho nezinsuku ezimbalwa ukubamba ukuthi konke kuzolunga nokuthi akukho okubi okufanele kwenzeke. Mhlawumbe, uma kungokokuqala ukuthi uhambise izingane zakho esikoleni sezinkulisa, uzizwa wesaba, wethukile futhi ungakhululeki. Ngakho-ke, ngizokunikeza amathiphu amahlanu engithemba ukuthi azokusiza ukujwayela lesi sigaba esisha.
Vakashela isikole sabantwana abangaphezu kwesisodwa futhi ungashiywa nemibuzo
Uma uqala ukubheka isikole sezingane manje, ngincoma ukuthi uvakashele izinketho ezimbalwa. Ngiyazi ukuthi cishe zonke izikhungo zemfundo zinayo iwebhusayithi lapho zichaza khona konke ukuphelela. Kepha kungcono kakhulu ukuthi uzibonele isikole sezinkulisa nokuthi ukhulume nomqondisi wesikhungo. Ngikutshela lokhu ngoba kusuka ezithombeni kuya eqinisweni kungaba nokuhlukahluka okuningi.
Ngiyazi ngabazali ababhalise izingane zabo ku-inthanethi ngaphandle kokuvakashela lutho nhlobo bese bebeka izandla zabo emakhanda ekuqaleni konyaka. Ngincoma nokuthi ukhulume, ubuze nokuthi ungangabazi. (noma ngabe kubonakala kungenangqondo noma kujwayelekile kanjani). Futhi ngikweluleka ukuthi ufunde ngakho iphrojekthi yezemfundo wesikole ngasinye sezingane osivakashelayo uma kungenzeka kube khona umehluko ongeke wehlulwe kwimfundo obuyifunela izingane zakho.
Ingqondo nesimo sengqondo esihle maqondana nesigaba esisha
Ngesikhathi sokuzijwayeza isikole sezingane kubalulekile ukuthi ube naso isimo sengqondo nesimo sengqondo esihle. Kuyacaca ukuthi uzobakhumbula abancane bakho. Kepha futhi kufanele ucabange ukuthi bazofunda izinto eziningi ezintsha, ukuthi bazoba nesikhathi esimnandi nokuthi bazoba nokuhlangenwe nakho okuningi. Ukucabanga ngale ndlela, isigaba esisha sizoba nzima kakhulu kuwe.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi lapho ushiya inkulisa izingane zakho zikubone ezolile, ekhululekile futhi ejabule. Khumbula ukuthi akusizi kangako ukucabanga ngaso sonke isikhathi ngokuthi bazobe benzani, uma bezokhala nokuthi bazoba nosuku oluhle yini. Uma wenza lokho, ungahle uhlaselwe isimo sengqondo esingesihle nethemba. Futhi lokho bekungeke kunconywe nakancane.
Ungakhathazeki uma izingane zakho zithatha isikhathi eside ukujwayela isikole sabantwana
Abazali abaningi bakhungathekile futhi bakhathazekile ngokuthi izingane zabo zinezinguquko ezingezinhle esikoleni sabahlengikazi. Kepha kwesinye isikhathi bayakukhohlwa lokho Yonke ingane iyizwe. Kuzoba nezingane ezithi ezinsukwini ezimbili zikhululeke ngendlela eyisimanga esikoleni sabahlengikazi kanti ezinye ezithatha amasonto ukuba zikhona. Kepha akukubi lokho! Ngamunye unesigqi sakhe. Futhi ingane ngayinye idinga isikhathi esehlukile. Khumbula ukuthi kubo (kanye nakuwe) ushintsho olukhulu.
Ngakho-ke, ungacabangi ukuthi izingane zakho zikuthola kunzima ukuzihlanganisa noma ukuthi zincike kakhulu kunabanye. Kumele kucace ukuthi abancane basendaweni futhi banabantu abangazi lutho. Ungaphili ngokukhathazeka ngosuku lapho bezoyeka khona ukukhala noma lapho bezoqala ukuxhumana nezinye izingane. Ngale ndlela, uzokhungatheka kakhulu futhi udlulisele isimo esibi ezinganeni zakho.
Ungazizwa kabi ngokuyisa izingane zakho esikoleni sezinkulisa
Ngempela, ungaphatheki kabi lapho uyisa izingane zakho esikoleni sezinkulisa. Awenzi lutho olubi. Ubaseshele wavakashela izinketho ezinhle kakhulu kubo. Izingane aziyi kunoma iyiphi indawo. Baya esikhungweni semfundo lapho kukhona ochwepheshe bezemfundo abazobasekela ekuzivumelaniseni nasekuthuthukisweni kwabo. Futhi bazokusiza kakhulu.
Mhlawumbe izinsuku zokuqala ezimbalwa ziyahlukumeza. Ungaba nomuzwa wokuthi uyabalahla abancane bakho. Kepha akukho okungaba kude neqiniso, ngikholwe. Aninabazali ababi kakhulu noma abangcono ngokuyisa izingane esikoleni samabanga aphansi. Kuyisinqumo osithathile. Futhi lokho kuhlonishwa ngokuphelele.
Lalela yebo, kepha ungathonyelwa yikho konke ukuphawula
Usuyazi vele ukuthi kunabantu abaningi abathanda ukugxeka bangene ezimpilweni zabanye. Ungahlangana nabantu abakumangalela abazali ababi ngokuyisa izingane zakho esikoleni samabanga aphansi noma ngamazwi ahlaselayo angapheli maqondana nesinqumo sakho. Ungabalalela (uma ufuna, kunjalo) kepha ungathonywa yibo. Ezimweni eziningi, bangabantu abanesikhathi esiningi esikhululekile, ababekezeleli noma abahloniphi.
Okufanayo kuya ezindabeni zemfundo nemibono. Ungase uzwe abanye abazali bethi ingane yabo eneminyaka emithathu isivele isazi isamba esiyisisekelo (iphutha elikhulu kuye, kunjalo) futhi iyafunda (ngokufanayo okufanayo). Noma, mhlawumbe, bazokunikeza izeluleko ukuze izingane zakho nazo zikwazi ukukwenza futhi zigqame ekilasini. Ngikukhumbuza lokho esikhulume ngakho ngaphambili: kubalulekile ukuhlonipha isigqi sengane ngayinye.