Abantu baseNarcissistic bangabantu abacabanga ukuthi bangaphezulu kwabanye, Abanalo uzwela oluncane futhi bazokwehlisa izinga lokuzuzwa kwabanye, bethi bangcono. Bacabanga ukuthi amalungelo abo abaluleke ngaphezu kwamanye. Izingane ezikhuliswa ngumzali othanda ukukhuluma kabi zikhula zididekile, zingaqondi ukuthi kungani abazali bazo beziphatha ngale ndlela ebhubhisayo.
Uma umlingani wakho engumuntu othanda ukuhlanekezela, awukwazi ukumshintsha, kepha ungagxila ekuzameni ukuba nobudlelwano obuphephile nothando nezingane, ukuze umthelela ongemuhle wokuziphatha kwakhe wehliswe.
Uma, ngokwesibonelo, ingane izizwa kabi ngempendulo embi evela kumzali wayo othanda ukucasula, ungasho umusho ofana nalokhu: 'Ububukeka uphatheke kabi lapho ubaba ekutshela ukuthi imidwebo yakhe yesikole ingcono kuneyakho. Kwesinye isikhathi ubaba ukhohlwa ukuqonda imizwa yabanye futhi lokho akulungile. Uzizwa unjani? '.
Ngokwengeziwe, ungaba wusizo ekusunguleni izakhiwo nezinqubo ezingaphendukeki zomndeni wonke, ngisho nomzali oyisilondolozi. Futhi yize kungaba nzima, abazali abaningi abakhulisa izingane nomuntu onale nkinga yobuntu bavame ukuthola izixazululo ezenza izinto zibe lula. Isibonelo, ungathi kumzali othanda ukudlala izidakamizwa: 'Izingane zakho ziyathanda ukukubona uzijabulisa ngenkathi zidlala ibhola.'
Kukhona labo abacabanga ukuthi abalingani babo bayizidlamlilo, kodwa-ke, ukuba ngumuntu onzima noma ozicabangela yena akusho ukuthi ukuxilongwa kwesifo sobuntu se-narcissistic esivame ukuvela ekuhlukumezeni kwengane okungasetshenziswanga ekwelashweni.
Abantu abangamaNarcissistic bazithola bevaleleke emizweni yokwehla abazama ukukufihla futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, ngemizwa yabo ejwayele ukudabukisa inhliziyo, noma ngabe bezama ukuyifihla. Ngemuva kwezingqimba zobukhulu nokuzazisa kubaluleke kakhulu ukungavikeleki okukhulu, kepha ukuzivikela cishe akungeneki. Uma ucabanga ukuthi ungumlingani ongumzali ne-narcissist yangempela, funda kabanzi ngalesi sifo futhi uthole ukwesekwa ukuze impilo yakho engokomzwelo ibe yinhle nezingane zakho zikhuliswe ngokulingana.