Kunezingane ezine- ephakeme ukwedlula ubuhlakani obujwayelekile noma amakhono. Eziningi zalezi zingane azinakwa bobabili abazali nothisha. Uma ungabaza ukuthi ingane yakho inesiphiwo noma cha, ungaphuthelwa yilezi zimpawu zokuthi ingane yakho inesiphiwo.
Izingane ezinesipho
Bonke abazali bacabanga ukuthi izingane zabo zihlakaniphe kunabo bonke, kepha iWorld Health Organisation iveza ukuthi bangu-2% kuphela abantu abanesipho. Bane- IQ ilingana noma ngaphezulu kuka-130. Kepha ukuba nesiphiwo kumayelana nokungaphezu kokukhalipha nje.
Izimpawu ezingakhishwa yizingane ezinesiphiwo ngokuvamile aziyona into esingayilindela. Kunokucabanga okungaqondakali okuvamile kokuthi izingane ezinesiphiwo zigqoka izibuko, ziqala ekilasini, futhi zihlala zithola amamaki amahle. Kepha akuhlali kunje. Umndeni kulapho kuvame ukutholwa khona ngaphambilini ukuthi ingane yehlukile kweminye.
Ngaphandle komehluko ngokusho kwengane ngayinye, imvamisa kukhona okukhona izimpawu ezingakusiza ukuthola ukuthi ingane yakho inesiphiwo yini.
10 Izimpawu Ingane Yakho Inikezwe
Ingane ngayinye ihlukile, ngakho-ke akubona bonke abayohlobana ngendlela efanayo nobuhlakani babo, kepha kunezimpawu ezithile ezingasisiza ukuthi sithole ingane enekhono eliphakeme.
- Banayo eyodwa ikhono lokucabanga liphakeme kakhulu kuneminyaka yakhe.
- Bafunda uku khuluma maduzane (ngaphezulu kwezinyanga eziyi-9 sebevele bekhuluma amagama anengqondo) futhi nesilulumagama sabo sikhula ngokushesha okukhulu.
- Banayo eyodwa indlela yokukhuluma nokuveza imizwa yakho azihlanganise lutho nezingane ezingontanga yazo.
- Baqala uku funda ngokushesha, cishe eneminyaka emithathu ubudala.
- Ukucabanga kwakhe kungamangaza ngisho nabantu abadala. Landisa imiqondo bese uthuthukisa izingxabano kalula okushiya ungakhulumi.
- Bafunda kalulaNgaphezu kwalokho, ilukuluku labo elikhulu libenza bafune ukwazi kabanzi mayelana nokuthi izinto nomhlaba zisebenza kanjani.
- Banayo eyodwa inkumbulo emangalisayo, isikhathi eside nesikhashana.
- Bayayithanda i- imidlalo yohlobo lokuqonda njengama-sudokus, amaphazili ...
- Bayadinwa ekilasini. Ngokungabi nezisusa ezidingekayo, bayadinwa ekilasini futhi balahlekelwe yintshisekelo. Yingakho ukwehluleka kwesikole kuhambisana nezingane ezinesiphiwo.
- Zimbi kakhulu abaphelelisi. Uma benza okuthile bazokwenza konke okusemandleni abo, akukufanele ukukwenza uma kuningi.
- Ziyizingane ezizwela ngokweqile.
- Zimbi kakhulu eyaliwe ngaphandle kokudinga ukuthunyelwa, ukuzigxeka nokuncintisana.
- Banamandla amakhulu okubheka nokugxila kulokho okubathandayo.
- Ngokuvamile benza imibuzo enzima nokuyekethisa. Ilukuluku labo libaholela ekutheni badlule kokubonwayo, noma izincazelo eziyize.
- Babuza igunya uma imithetho ingaphikiswa kahle.
- Bathanda izindaba eziphathelene nobulungiswa, isimilo, ukufa, ... kusukela esemncane kakhulu.
- Bangakwazi hlanganisa izimo eziyinkimbinkimbi kalula.
- Ngokuvamile ishukunyisiwe impela. Izingane eziningi ezinesiphiwo zitholakala zine-ADHD.
- Uye intshisekelo enkulu ezihlokweni ezithile.
- Bathanda kangcono uma unezingane ezindala noma nabantu abadala.
Izingane ziziphiwe kanjani
Izingane ezinesiphiwo ziyazi ukuthi zehlukile futhi bazizwa behlukile kwabanye. Iningi lizizwa lilahliwe ofunda nabo futhi livame ukuzihlukanisa. Bavame ukugcina beba "ama-weirdos" ekilasini futhi ukuhlukunyezwa ekilasini. Lokhu kubangela ukuhlupheka, ubuhlungu, ukungabi nesisusa, imizwa yokwenqatshwa, ukungaqondi kahle ...
Ukuze ungabonakali, ungaqala ukwehlisa amamaki akho ukuze angabonwa noma angabi nogqozi kungaholela ekuhlulekeni kwesikole. Kungakho kubaluleke kakhulu ukuzibona nokuzikhuthaza ngendlela efanele.
Yini engingayenza uma ngicabanga ukuthi ingane yami inesiphiwo?
Into efaneleke kakhulu ukuyithola ngokushesha okukhulu. Uma kunezimpawu ezingakhombisa ukuthi unesiphiwo, okuhle ukumyisa ku- isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esikhethekile ukuze uqinisekise. Kuzoqondisa abazali nengane, futhi kuzodingeka futhi ukwazisa isikole ngokushintshwa kwezifundo ngokwezidingo zengane.
Ingane idinga ukuzizwa yamukelekile futhi ithandwa, njenganoma iyiphi ingane.
Ngoba khumbula ... ukuphiwa isipho okuyisipho okungafanele ukuthi sifihlwe.