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Awuqinisekile ukuthi ingane yakho isilungele ukuya ebhodweni? Ake sithole ndawonye izimpawu ezingokomzwelo nezingokomzimba ukhiye wokukhumbula.
Uma sekuyisikhathi sokuqeqesha ngebhodwe kungase kucindezele kokubili izingane ezincane nabazali. Kodwa futhi kungaba okuhlangenwe nakho okuhle futhi okuzuzisa ngempela. Izinga lesithakazelo somntwana osacathula liyinkomba eyinhloko yokulungela.
Into eyodwa ongeke ukwazi ukuyilawula yilapho ingane yakho iya endlini yokugezela. Ngakho-ke, qiniseka ukuthi ingane yakho encane ilungile ukulawula le ngxenye yentuthuko yakho. Ukuqeqeshwa kwe-Potty kubacindezela kakhulu abazali, ngakho khumbula ukwenza izivivinyo zokuphefumula lapho uzizwa ukhungathekile ngenxa yokungakwazi ukulawula isimo. Izinto azivamile ukuhamba okokuqala noma ngendlela obungathanda zihambe ngayo.
El UDkt. Fran Walfish, ubudlelwano be-Beverly Hills kanye ne-psychotherapist yomndeni, umbhali we Umzali Oziqaphelayo , isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo yezingane, uchwepheshe ovamile ku The Doctors, I-CBS TV, kanye nozakwethu we-TV we-WE, uyaxwayisa lokho “Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuba nesimo sengqondo esifanele. Ukhona ukuze uqondise futhi udumise konke ukuthuthuka kwabo ekuzimeleni kwabo, kodwa hhayi ukucindezelwa noma ukuphoqa".
Uthuthukise ukuqwashisa ngemizwa yomzimba
Lapho izingane seziba nomuzwa wokwazi mayelana nemizwa yazo yomzimba, bazokwazi uma sebedinga ukuya endlini yokugezela. Kumele usize omncane ukuba afunde ukulalela umzimba wakhe, lapho umzimba wakhe umcela ukuba aye endlini yokugezela. Ekuqaleni, lapho beqala ukufunda ukuya endlini yokugezela, bangase bangabi naso isikhathi sokufika endlini yangasese. Kufanele uzilungiselele izingozi futhi ugcine engqondweni ukuthi kuzodingeka uhlanze izikhathi ezingaphezu kwesisodwa. Kuvamile futhi kuvame kakhulu. Kufanele umfundise ukulalela umzimba wakhe ukuze abe nesikhathi sokuya endlini yangasese.
Ihlala yomile isikhathi eside
Uma ingane yakho isikwazi ukondla i-diaper yomile amahora angaphezu kwama-2 noma ngaphezulu, ungase ulungele. Ikhono lokugcina inabukeni lomile isikhathi eside liyinkomba enhle yokuthi umzimba wengane yakho uyakhula futhi uyakwazi ukulawula ukuthi uzikhulula nini. Ngalesi sikhathi kuhle ukufundisa ingane ukuya endlini yangasese njalo ngemva kwamahora amabili.
Ilukuluku nentshisekelo
Esinye isibonakaliso sokuthi ingane yakho isilungele ukuqala ukuqeqeshwa ngamanzi yilokho ube nesithakazelo ebhodweni. Angase akulandele endlini yangasese, noma abeke amathoyizi akhe ebhodweni, noma aqale ukucela ukusebenzisa noma ukubuza imibuzo mayelana nebhodwe. U-Elisa Cinelli, uchwepheshe wokukhulisa izingane, uqinisekisa ukuthi indlela engcono kakhulu yokuba ingane ifunde iwukuthi iba nesithakazelo kuye. Kungcono umvumele ahambe nawe endlini yokugezela, ubeke ibhodwe eduze kwakho ukuze akwazi ukukulingisa, futhi uvumele ibhodwe lihlale lifinyeleleka ukuze azi ukuthi angalisebenzisa noma nini lapho efuna.
Njengomama, ungase uzizwe ukhathazekile ngokuba nenkampani endlini yangasese, kodwa izingane zifunda ngokubuka. Bavumele bakubone usebenzisa indlu yokugezela izovusa izinga lelukuluku nentshisekelo okuzoholela esifisweni sokuzama uwedwa. Uma ibhola seliqala ukugingqika, ungagcina ingane yakho inentshisekelo ngokwenza isimiso, uyinikeze ibhodwe elinosayizi ofanele, ngisho nokumvumela ukuthi akusize ukhethe izingubo zakhe zangaphansi njengesikhuthazo.
Ungesabi ibhodwe
Kungase kube nokwesaba okuningi mayelana nokusetshenziswa kwebhodwe. Okunye ukwesaba okuvamile ukuwa kanye neqiniso lokuthi kufanele kukhishwe indle. Nakuba kungase kubonakale kuwubuwula, izingane eziningi, ikakhulukazi abafana, zingesaba futhi/noma zidabuke lapho kufanele zilahle indle. Kunconywa ukuthi achame ehlezi, noma kuyizingane. Uma ingane ihlezi izochama, indle ingaphuma ngokwemvelo.
Uma ubona ukuthi ingane yakho yesaba ukugoqa ebhodweni, yiphoqe kungabangela ukuqunjelwa noma ukwesaba engenangqondo. Mvumele azikhulule enabukeni lakhe kodwa umkhuthaze ukuthi aqhubeke endlini yangasese.
Vumela ingane yakho ikusize ukuthi udonse iketango ukuze zizwe umuzwa wokulawula nokulindela umsindo omkhulu.
Unamakhono adingekayo emisipha yomzimba
Ingane kufanele ikwazi khuphula/ wisa ibhulukwe kanye nokungena nokuphuma ebhodweni lapho ukuqeqeshwa kokuqala kwebhodwe.
Ungakwazi ukulandela imiyalelo elula
Ezinye izibonelo ze imiyalo wakhe khumula izingubo zakho bese ungena endlini yangasese. Yiyeke ihlale imizuzu embalwa ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi iphelile bese ihlanzeka kahle. Ngokusobala, ungakwazi ukusiza ingane yakho encane ngeziningi zalezi zinyathelo, kodwa kumelwe izazi iziqondiso okumelwe izilandele noma nini.