Usuku lwezithandani: izindlela ezintathu ezinhle zokulugubha. Ingabe uyalinga?

i-valentine (Kopisha)

Usuku luka-Valentine. Kungenzeka ukuthi kuleli qophelo, ngemuva kwamabhodlela amaningi kangaka, ukungalali ebusuku, ntambama umsebenzi wasekhaya, uhambe uye epaki futhi mhlawumbe uze ushukwe nezwe elinomzwelo nelivukelayo lentsha, Igama elithi "Valentine" lizwakala likuthanda njengokugubhe esikhathini esedlule kakhulu.

Noma ngaphezulu kwalokho, ungabona futhi lolu suku njengomcimbi olula wokumaketha lapho umlingani wakho ezilinganisela khona ukukunikeza leyo orchid ejwayelekile egcina ibuna, cishe ngaphandle kokwazi ukuthi, ngemuva kwesonto. Desde «Madres hoy» te invitamos a que cojas aire, hagas un inciso en tus quehaceres y simplemente «te regales tiempo». Vumela usuku olukhethekile ngamathuba amathathu, siyaqiniseka ukuthi uzobhalisela okukodwa.

Ukugubha noma ukungagubhi usuku luka-Valentine?

Kufanele uwugubhe, futhi akunandaba ukuthi unomlingani wakho, uma ungumama ongayedwa noma unomndeni obanzi eziningi lapho ukuthula sekuvele kuyigugu eliyigugu ongacabangi nokuthi likhona. Isidingo sokugubha lolu suku siyindlela yokuzinikela ngamahora ambalwa okusivumela ukuba sihlangane, kungaba nomuntu esimthandayo, nathi uqobo futhi nakancane nabancane.

  • Isihluthulelo sokujabulela usuku oluhle lwe-Valentine siwukuba sangempela, sizivumele sithwalwe futhi sigweme, ngaphezu kwakho konke, ukuwela entweni efanayo njengayo yonke iminyaka.
  • Hlakulela ukubaluleka kwemininingwane emincane: Ngaphambi kokonga ukunikeza umlingani wakho isipho esihle, kufanelekile ukugqamisa kulo mcimbi izici ezilula nezisisekelo ezenza ukuthi siphume esimisweni. Inothi engalindelekile, i-aphoyintimenti engahleliwe ... Noma yini engekho esimisweni sesivele siyisipho uqobo lwaso.
  • Kumele sigubhe usuku lukaValentine futhi sidlulisele ezinganeni zethu hhayi ukubaluleka kwento, yengcindezi yabezindaba kanye nokumaketha okusiphoqelela ekusebenziseni abathengi. Vumela izingane zibe yingxenye yalo mkhosi lapho uthando luyisisho esiphezulu, futhi lapho kufanele khona, kungani kungenjalo, lolo thando phakathi kwabazali nezingane. Yenza isibopho uqobo sibe umkhosi wokuzijabulisa.

Izindlela ezintathu zokubungaza i-Valentine's

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Gubha usuku lwezithandani nabangani bakho

Ukuba ngumama akudingeki kunciphise izikhathi zethu zokuzilibazisa nokusebenzisana nobudlelwano bethu nomphakathi, nabangane bethu. Kuyacaca ukuthi ngesikhathi kufika ingane yethu yokuqala, impilo isinika ushintsho futhi sesicishe saphelelwa umoya. Noma kunjalo, ushintsho ukujwayela izimo ezintsha, hhayi ikhefu nokwedlule noma ngabe kuncane ngezici ezisichazayo.

  • Abangani bakho babalulekile kuwe, bangabasekeli bakho, iwindi lakho le-oxygen, izikhathi zakho zokuzithemba ziyasiza nokuhleka ukuveza. Ukuhlala nabo ubusuku obubodwa ukugubha usuku lwezithandani kuzokukhokhela amandla amahle wokuqinisa inethiwekhi yakho yezemizwa.
  • Akunasibopho sokugubha lolu suku kuphela nomlingani wethu. Ngakho-ke, singahamba kahle kancane, sigqokele umcimbi, futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, siphumuza ingqondo futhi sijabulele umzuzu omuhle.
  • Ubungani buyisibopho sothando olusakhayo futhi sonke esikudingayo empilweni yethu yansuku zonke.Ngakho-ke, usuku lukaValentine nabangane luyindlela enhle ongapenda ngayo ukumamatheka, futhi wakhe umzuzu omnandi wokuzilibazisa nokuzijabulisa nabantu ababalulekile kithina.

Usuku lukaValentine nomndeni: ulwazi olucebisayo nolumnandi

ikhekhe le-valentine

Usuku luka-Valentine lungaba yiphathi yendlu encane uma siluhlela kahle. Ungakhathazeki uma izingane zakho zisencane kakhulu noma uma zikuleyo minyaka lapho sezingakwazi ukugubha zodwa nabalingani bazo bokuqala abavela esikoleni noma esikoleni esiphakeme.

Ukulugubha ekhaya kungaba yindlela yokuzijabulisa, ukunikeza ukubaluleka kweqiniso lokuthi "ukugubha" uthando, uthando nobunzima balesosibopho obondla izinhliziyo zethu ukuze nabo bakwazi ukuhlanganisa uthando ezimpilweni zabo.

  • Umbono omuhle kungaba ukuhlela ukudla ekhaya, asikho isidingo sokuchitha imali eningi uphuma.
  • Singalungisa ikhekhe nezingane, kuhle ukuthi banesimo senhliziyo (singenza amakhukhi, amajeli, izitsha zezithelo ezinalolu hlobo).
  • Ukudla kufanele kube okuhlukile futhi kumnandi, yiba nepikiniki encane egumbini lokuphumula, isibonelo, into ekhululekile. Akudingekile ukuba kube nzima kakhulu, kumayelana nokwakha izikhathi ezimnandi ezihlala kwimemori engokomzwelo yezingane zethu.
  • Singabhala amakhadikhadi lapho singachaza khona ukuthi "kungani sithanda uMama, uBaba", futhi nangenye indlela, incwadi encane ebhala izizathu zokuthi kungani izingane zethu zikhethekile nokuthi kungani nathi sibafuna. Gcizelela okuhle.
  • Uma sibheka iminyaka yezingane zethu singalungisa into eyodwa noma enye ukuthi ibe yinto yokuqala, futhi enobungane.

Valentine njengezithandani: umkhuba omuhle

Usuku lwezothando

Imikhuba emihle akumele ilahleke, kumele ivuselelwe. Akusizi ngalutho ukugubha usuku lwezithandani ngoba nje, ngoba luyadlala futhi ngoba senza njalo. Kwesinye isikhathi imizila ifana nezindwangu ezisilethela induduzo kepha futhi zijwayele futhi zihlanye. Ungakuvumeli lokho kwenzeke.

I-Valentine kumele ibe yisenzakalo esikhethekile minyaka yonke kuwe. Akunandaba ukuthi ukuba ngumama sekufikile, ukuba ngubaba, ukuthi manje impilo yakho igcwele imithwalo yemfanelo emisha: IValentine yisikhathi esihle sokugubhaar lolo thando oluvuselelwa futhi lwakhiwe nsuku zonke ngezenzo ezibaluleke kakhulu.

  • Maka lolu suku ngamahora ambalwa uwedwa. Uma ukwazi ukuyikhokhela, kungaba kuhle ukuchitha usuku lonke.
  • Kwesinye isikhathi ukulungiswa okuningi kususa ukuzenzakalela kusukela kulolu suku, ngakho-ke Akufanele ukubeka okulindelwe okuphezulu kuwe noma ukuhlela yonke iminithi yalowo mgubho: ukuzivumela uhambe.
  • Ukuqonda kangcono lawo mahora okusondelana, gxila kuphela "lapha namanje". Njengabazali, nisebenzisa isikhathi sakho esiningi nenza izinhlu, nigcina amashejuli, nicabanga ngekusasa nangekusasa losuku lwakusasa.
  • Gxila kuphela kulokho onakho ngaphambi kwakho: ukubukeka komlingani wakho. Zithokozise okwamanje, lokho kuhamba ngokuthula, lokho kudla okunama-flavour ashubile, zivumele ukhululeke amahora ambalwa nomhlaba uyama. Izigidi zabantu nazo zingaba zigubha i-Valentine yazo, kepha "unezakho", ezibalulekile.

Usuku luka-Valentine kufanelekile ukulugubha, nganoma iyiphi indlela oyithandayo. Ngokwethu, sincoma ukuthi ufeze izindlela ezintathu zokuwenza uphelele futhi unothise. Noma kunjalo, ukhetha ... Yiphi oyigcina?


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  1. Ubhekele imininingwane: Miguel Ángel Gatón
  2. Inhloso yedatha: Lawula Ugaxekile, ukuphathwa kwamazwana.
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  4. Ukuxhumana kwemininingwane: Imininingwane ngeke idluliselwe kubantu besithathu ngaphandle kwesibopho esisemthethweni.
  5. Isitoreji sedatha: Idatabase ebanjwe yi-Occentus Networks (EU)
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