Wayazi izinto ezithile ngokuthumela izingane ekamu. Ngangazi ukuthi bazophasa isikhathi esiningi ngaphandle nokuthi bazozama izinto ezintsha. Hlangana nabantu abasha futhi ufunde kabanzi mayelana nokuthile okuthandayo. Babebhukuda bahleke futhi bahlale kuze kube sebusuku kakhulu. Lezi yizinto engangizazi.
Kodwa emva kokubona ukuthi bafika kanjani ikamu ufunda ukubona izinto ezimangazayo, izinto ebezingafikanga engqondweni yakho.
Ngale kobumnandi nokudla, izindaba zomlilo wekamu nemidlalo abayidlalayo ebenza bajabule, lezi yizinto engingaziboni zifika. Futhi ngizoqala ngokunzima kakhulu.
- Bazabalaza, kodwa kwakufanele. Ngiyazi ukuthi lokhu akukhona esikufuna kubo, kodwa empeleni kuyinto enhle. Cabanga ngesikhathi lapho kwakudingeka usebenze kanzima ukuze uthole okuthile. Uma usuhlulekile futhi wazama futhi. Kwenzenjani? wafunda Wabekezela. Waqina. Yebo, ekamu kwakuliwa. Mhlawumbe abayitholanga ibhedi ephezulu ngendlela ababefuna ngayo noma abakwazanga ukusukuma endaweni yokushushuluza emanzini. Mhlawumbe babekhumbula ikhaya labo. Okuningi kwe. Kodwa benza umngane owabasiza ukuba bazizwe bengabodwa. Noma ngabe ikuphi ukulwa, kuyithuba lokukhula abebengeke babe nalo ekhaya. Futhi lokho kwenza ukulwa kube nenzuzo.
- Ekhuluma ngokukhula, bakhula! Bahamba bebukeka njengengane yakho, futhi ngandlela thize bafika ekhaya bebukeka bekhulile. Akusho lutho ukuthi zazihambile ihlobo lonke noma izinsuku ezimbili. Ukuzimela kubenza bakhule. (Isaziso: Bazoba ingane yakho.)
- Lokho kukwanga kokugcina kanye nokugona kokuqala kuhle kakhulu oke waba nakho esikhathini eside, ikakhulukazi uma ingane yakho isencane noma isemusha. Ukwangana ngaphambi nje kokuba bahambe kungase kuqine kunalokho obukucabanga, ngakho wange uqinise. Futhi lapho sebebuya, nje ubawongile futhi, awu, lokho kuwumlingo nje.
- Bayancela. Akunandaba ukuthi baya ekamu losuku noma bachitha amasonto amathathu endlini encane. Inhlanzeko ihlukile ekamu. Masibhekane nakho: cishe akukho. Kodwa basinda futhi ungabathumela ngqo eshaweni lapho befika ekhaya.
- Ilondolo lizokumangaza. Ngandlela-thile zonke izingubo zakho zizonuka njengezicathulo zokuzivocavoca ezimanzi ezishiywe emgqonyeni kadoti elangeni isonto lonke. Akumangazi uma ucabangela ukuthi cishe bagqoka izingubo ezifanayo isikhathi esiningi futhi abazihluphi ngokushintsha. Umthetho ojwayelekile wesithupha: uma uye ekampini, yigeze. Izingubo, izikhwama zokulala, ngokwabo. Konke kugeziwe.
- Badinga ukulala. Uzofuna ukwazi konke. Futhi bayokujabulela ukukutshela. Imizuzu eyi-15 ngqo. Futhi-ke bayolala ubuthongo obunzima, mhlawumbe baze balale ngesidlo sakusihlwa futhi bangavuki kuze kube ngakusasa. Akukho lutho olungalungile ngalokho: bavele bakhathele ngenxa yezigemegeme zabo. Kulungile kodwa ngoba uzongena ubahlole njengoba wawubabona bebancane, ubabhulashe izinwele emumva bese ubaqabula esiphongweni.
- Banabangane ongabazi. Bahlangana nabantu. Benza abangane abasha. Bazokhuluma ngalaba bantu sengathi uyabazi. Vele udlale nabo. Kulula kuwo wonke umuntu.
- Imali yonke yangena esitolo sekamu, kwakungcono kakhulu. Futhi yebo, bachitha konke kumaswidi. Bazophila. Akwenzeki lutho izinsuku ezimbalwa...
- Izincwadi/ama-imeyili/imibhalo yakho yayisho lukhulu kuwena kunakubo. Uma bengakhumbuli ukuthi ubhale ini noma bavele banqekuzise ikhanda ngendlela yakho yokubonga, lokho kuxhumana kwafeza injongo yabo: Bakhumbuze ukuthi uhlale ulapho ukuze ubenzele futhi bakwenze uzizwe uxhumeke kakhulu.
- Noma ngabe “bekuyisonto elingcono kakhulu empilweni yabo”, bayakujabulela ukuba sekhaya. Bachitha isonto lonke behamba. Manje, sebebuyele lapho bephephile futhi bethandwa futhi bangakhululeka. Futhi bayakwazisa lokho, ngisho noma bengakwazi.