Isehlukaniso asilula kunoma ngubani, hhayi eyabantu abadala abahlukene noma izingane ezihlushwa imiphumela yabazali abayeke ukufuna ukuba ndawonye. Kuyadingeka ukuthi abazali, kungakhathalekile ukuthi zinjani izimo zabo, baqonde ukuthi bangabazali nokuthi banezingane ngokufanayo ezizoncika kubo ukuze bakwazi ukuthuthuka nokuguquka kuzo zonke izici.
Uma lokhu sekucatshangelwe, kuyadingeka ukugcina engqondweni ezinye zezinto okungafanele zitshelwe izingane lapho nizohlukanisa, Ngenxa yakho nangenxa yakhe!
Batshele amanga
Akekho umzali ofuna ukulimaza izingane zakhe, okwenza kwesinye isikhathi ukuqamba amanga kubonakale kuwumqondo omuhle. Ngenkathi ungahle ufune ukubavimbela ekuhluphekeni, ukuqamba amanga akukaze kube ngumqondo omuhle ngoba ekugcineni kuphula ukwethembana. Lokho kusho ukuthi, kufanele wabelane kuphela ngemininingwane efanele iminyaka yobudala nezingane zakho, futhi lokho owabelana ngakho kufanele kuncike ebudaleni babo nasekuvuthweni ngokomzwelo.
Iseluleko esihle ukusebenza ngesisekelo sokwazi; Nciphisa lokho owabelana ngakho nokwenzekayo maqondana nempilo yengane yakho, hhayi eyakho!
Benze izithembiso ezingenalutho
UNGENZI izithembiso… ikakhulukazi izethembiso ongeke ukwazi ukuzigcina! Sonke sinecala lokukhokha ngokweqile lapho sizama ukunxephezela izingane zethu, kodwa ngokuthembisa umhlaba ukuthi uzozama ukunciphisa amacala abo, uzokwenza ingane yakho izizwe ingcono isikhashana. Futhi, kuzodubula lapho uthembisa okuncane.
Menze azizwe evalelekile phakathi kwakho nowakudala
Kungokwemvelo ukuthi nobabili ne-ex yakho yesikhathi esizayo nizobhekana ezinyangeni naseminyakeni ezayo, kepha khumbula ukuthi lapho uhlangabezana nezingxabano, izingane zakho ngeke zibe phakathi ... akufanele neze zibe phakathi wena. Kufanele ugcine inhliziyo nabo ngenhlalakahle yabo engokomzwelo nengqondo lapho kubhekwana khona uma kunesidingo ... Yize ngaso sonke isikhathi kufaneleka ngokwengeziwe ukwenza isehlukaniso sibe ngoxolo ukuze kuzuze bonke.