Uma uke waqaphela ukuthi ngesikhathi uthatha ingane yakho encane, kuzwakala sengathi umsebenzi wabo wokuqala empilweni ukuthola izinwele zakho bese uzidonsa kahle, ungakhathazeki: awuwedwa, futhi ingane yakho ayiyona into embi kakhulu. Yisimo esivamile kakhulu esiye saholela omama abaningi engcupheni yokuphelelwa yithemba, ikakhulukazi lapho ingane inamandla futhi ibonakala ijabulela isiphithiphithi abayidalayo.
Ngezinye izikhathi kubonakala sengathi bakwenza ngokugxila okucishe kube kochwepheshe , belinganisa ibanga bese beqala ukuhlasela kwabo ngesikhathi ongasilindele. Nakuba kungase kubonakale njengokuhlushwa ngaleso sikhathi, lokhu kuziphatha kunencazelo esekelwe ekuthuthukisweni kwabo, ngoba kubo kuyinhlanganisela ethakazelisayo yokuhlolwa kwesayensi kanye nokudlala ngezinzwa.
Kungani izingane zikhathazeka kakhulu ngokudonsa izinwele?

Ukuze uqonde lo mkhuba, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi izingane zisebenzisa izandla zazo njengamathuluzi azo ayinhloko okuhlola . Lapho ziqala ukufinyelela izinto ngokuzithandela, azizami nje ukubamba izinto; zithola ukuthi zingenzani ngeminwe yazo. Ukubamba, ukucindezela, nokukhulula amakhono eziwasebenzisa nsuku zonke.
Kunezizathu eziningana eziqondile zokuthi kungani izinwele zakho zithandwa kakhulu:
- Indawo yecebo: Uma ingane isezandleni zakho, ikhanda lakho liba kude kakhulu. Izinwele zihamba emkhakheni wazo wokubona futhi ziyahamba into efinyeleleka kalula kakhulu enayo ukuzama ukuhlanganisa amehlo akhe nokunyakaza kwengalo yakhe.
- Ukuthungwa okungenakuphikiswa: Izinwele zilungile, ziyaguquguquka, futhi zingena ngeminwe yakho, okuyinto okukhuthazayo kakhulu kunengxenye ebushelelezi yamathoyizi abo amaningi. Lo muzwa wokuthinta ubanikeza ulwazi oluningi mayelana nomhlaba.
- Isizathu kanye nomphumela: Ingane ithola ukuthi uma ikudonsa izinwele zakho, kukhona okwenzekayo. Okokuqala, izinwele ziyanyakaza; okwesibili, uyasabela. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi "hawu!", ukuhleka, noma wena uzama ukususa isandla sayo, leyo mpendulo iguqula isenzo sibe umdlalo oxhumana naye okhangayo kakhulu.
- Ukuzijwayeza ngezimoto: Ukuthola ngempumelelo izinwele ezigoqiwe kudinga ukuxhumanisa okuyinkimbinkimbi kwamehlo nesandlaEmpeleni, ukuqeqeshwa kwamakhono okunyakaza okuhle okufihliwe njengokwenza okubi.
Lapho ukuziphatha kuba nzima kakhulu

Kuvamile ukuthi lezi zindlela zokuziphatha ziguquke. Isibonelo, cishe ezinyangeni eziyi-10, ezinye izingane zingase zibe ziphikelela kakhulu. Kunezimo lapho ingane encane ingasadonsi izinwele nje kuphela, kodwa iqala ukushaya noma ukususa izibuko zabazali bayo. Lokhu kungenzeka ikakhulukazi ngezikhathi zokukhathala okukhulu noma ngaphambi kwesikhathi sokulala, lapho ingane ithukuthele futhi ingazi ukuthi ingakulawula kanjani ukukhungatheka noma ukulala kwayo, ibe uhlobo "lwengwenya" oluzabalaza ngenkathi izama ukulala.
Phakathi nalezi zigaba, kuvamile ukuthi izingane zingawanaki amagama anjengokuthi “cha” noma “dedela.” Ngezinye izikhathi, imizamo eqinile kodwa emnene yomuntu omdala yokuzivimba ingaba yinto evuselelayo noma ehlekisayo , ibakhuthaze ukuba baqinise izibhakela zabo ngenkathi beqhubeka nokubukana emehlweni, behlola imingcele yesimo.
Amasu okusingatha ukudonsa nokushaya

Into yokuqala okufanele uyenze ukuhlala uzolile, noma kunzima uma uzizwa sengathi uzoba nempandla. Uma ukudonsa kunamandla kakhulu, into engcono kakhulu ongayenza ukususa isandla sabo ngobumnene kodwa ngokuqinile, ugweme ukusabela okweqile okungaqinisa ukuziphatha ngokubenza bakubone njengomdlalo ojabulisayo.
Ungazama amaqhinga alandelayo:
- Ukuqondisa kabusha okusheshayo: Esikhundleni sokuthi cha, nikeza into ehlukile enombhalo (isilwane esifakwe izinto, ingubo, noma ithoyizi elizwayo) abangalicindezela futhi balidonse ngamandla afanayo.
- Ukuxhumana okucacile nokuzolile: Mchazele ngezwi elizolile ukuthi "Lokho kubuhlungu" bese uqondisa isandla sakhe endaweni lapho angakuthinta khona ngaphandle kokukulimaza, njengesihlathi sakho noma ingalo yakho.
- Ukuvikela okuvikelayo: Uma unezinwele ezinde, ukuzibeka emsila wepony noma ebhanini kungasiza, yize izinwele zezingane nezinwele ezikhululekile Zingase zibe yingozi. Endabeni yezibuko, ukuzama ukuziphazamisa ngezinto ezifanayo kungasebenza, noma ngabe kungokwesikhashana nje. Ukuze ulondoloze inhlalakahle yakho, khumbula ukulandela ezinye Amathiphu obuhle okunakekela izinwele zakho nokuzethemba.
- Ukuphathwa kokulala: Uma ubona ukuthi imizwa yokugxumagxuma nokudonsa iyanda ngaphambi kwesikhathi sokulala, zama thuthukisa isimiso sokulala ukumvimbela ekufinyeleleni eqophelweni lokugcwala lapho elahlekelwa khona ukulawula imizwa yakhe.
Ukubekezela kubalulekile, ukuqonda ukuthi akukho nhloso embi ngemuva kwalezi zenzo, kodwa kunalokho ilukuluku elingapheli kanye nokuntuleka kokulawula ukusebenza komzimba. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, njengoba bethuthukisa uzwela futhi bethuthukisa ukuhlangana kwabo, lezi zigaba zizodlula, zishiye ukudonsa nokushaya ukuze kunikezwe indawo yokuthintana okuthambile nokuqaphelayo.