Ukuqala kwe- Ukukhulelwa kokuqala kuka-Lucía Pombo Ukukhulelwa akubanga yinto ethokozisayo, ngaphakathi nangaphandle komndeni wakhe. Odadewabo abadala bakwaPombo nomyeni wakhe, u-Álvaro López Huerta, bathathe elinye igxathu kulesi sigaba sempilo yabo ngokwabelana obala ngobulili bomntwana abamlindele, imininingwane abalandeli babo ababezama ukuyiqagela amasonto amaningi.
Ngemva kokumemezela ekupheleni kukaJanuwari ukuthi balindele ingane yabo yokuqala, lo mbhangqwana ukhethe iveze ubulili egcwele imizwa, umndeni, futhi bavuma ngekhanda ezinkundleni zokuxhumana zabo ukuze kwembulwe ukuthi ngabe umfana noma intombazane. Imfihlakalo yaxazululwa endaweni ekhethekile kakhulu, ngesiteji esilula kodwa esihleliwe ngokucophelela, lapho amabhaluni e-helium, imibala, kanye neveni ye-ayisikhilimu kwadlala indima evelele.
Umkhosi womndeni eCantabria ukuze kwembulwe imfihlo enkulu
Ngaleso sikhathi, uLucía no-Álvaro bahlela umhlangano ICantabria, lapho odade bakwaPombo, abalingani babo, kanye nomkhulu wesizwe babuthana khona.kanye nezinye izihlobo eziseduze. Besebenzisa ithuba lokuphela kweSonto Elingcwele, wonke umndeni waya enyakatho ukuyoqeda iholide labo ngomzuzu, nakuba wawusondelene kakhulu, ogcine ulandelwe eduze yizinkulungwane zabantu.
Lolu hlelo luhambisana nendlela evamile yalo mbhangqwana yokwabelana ngezimpilo zabo: indawo esondelene, ezungezwe abathandekayo babo, kodwa ifasitela elivulekile kubalandeli bayo ngokusebenzisa izinkundla zokuxhumanaKusukela emahoreni angaphambi kwalesi senzakalo, uLucía walandisa ngamalungiselelo, okuhlanganisa nemisebenzi yomzuzu wokugcina yokuthatha amabhaluni e-helium eSantander, okwasiza ekukhuthazeni ukulindela. izibikezelo mayelana nomphumela wokugcina.
Isigcawu esiyinhloko sokwembulwa kobulili senzeke emaphandleni, imvelo ingemuva kanye nemihlobiso elula kodwa engokomfanekiso. iveni ye-ayisikhilimu emangalisayo egcwele amabhaluni Kwakuyisikhathi esibalulekile: imininingwane eyayizosusa konke ukungabaza mayelana nomntwana owayesendleleni.
Bezungezwe ukumemeza, ukuhleka, kanye nokulindela kwalabo ababekhona, lo mbhangqwana walinda imoto ukuba isondele ukuze yembule imfihlo enkulu. Lesi sikhathi sathathwa kuvidiyo, ehambisana nendlela umndeni wakwaPombo ovame ukuqopha ngayo izenzakalo ezibalulekile zomndeni wawo, endaweni ethile phakathi kwezinto zansuku zonke kanye nezinto eziqhutshwa abezindaba.
Amabhaluni apinki, ukukhala, kanye nengane yentombazane efunwa kakhulu
Njengoba kujwayelekile kulezi zinhlobo zemikhosi, imibala yayihloselwe ukukhuluma. Esikhundleni sokukhetha umphumela omkhulu nowesabekayo, uLucía no-Álvaro bakhetha Isambulo sakudala esinamabhaluni e-helium kanye nombala ocacile kakhuluUpinki wentombazane, oluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka womfana.
Emahoreni angaphambi kwalesi senzakalo, uLucía wavuma ekhamera ukuthi "uyaqiniseka ukuthi kuzoba umfana," kanti u-Álvaro waphikisana ngokuphambene nalokho: "Ngicabanga ukuthi kuzoba intombazane." Phakathi kwamahlaya, umthonya kanye nomshayeli wendiza wakwenza kwacaca ukuthi, empeleni, Wayengenandaba nomphumela., futhi waveza ukuthi mhlawumbe umyeni wakhe angase angajabuli kakhulu ngokuba nephutha ekubhejeni.
Lapho iveni ye-ayisikhilimu ima futhi iminyango ivuleka, kwakungekho sikhala sokungabaza: Ingaphakathi laligcwele amabhaluni apinkiUkumemeza, ukugona, kanye nobuso obumangele kwaphula ukuthula kwensimu. Isizwe samaPombo sizokwamukela enye intombazane emndenini, into abaningi ababevele beyisola kodwa engazange inciphise imizwa yangaleso sikhathi.
ULucía ngokwakhe wabelane ngevidiyo yaleso sikhathi ezinkundleni zokuxhumana ngezwi elilula: "Ngijabule kakhulu!" Ngemizuzu embalwa, okuthunyelwe kwagcwala amazwana okuhalalisela, hhayi nje kuphela avela kubalandeli abangaziwa, kodwa futhi nakubangani nomndeni, ababefuna ukwabelana ngendlela abazizwe ngayo ngaleso sikhathi.
Phakathi kwezimpendulo eziphawuleka kakhulu kwaba yilezo UMarta Pombo, osevele engumama wamantombazane amathathu Wamemeza ethi "ithimba lamantombazane liyaqhubeka likhula," ngenkathi ememezela ukuthi ubathanda kangakanani abazali abakhulelwe. Umyeni wakhe, uLuis Zamalloa, wanezela ngokuhlekisa ukuthi ingane encane "izozalelwa endaweni efanele," egcizelela ukuxhumana okukhethekile komndeni nenyakatho.
Ukukhulelwa obekulindelwe ngabomvu, okwabelwana ngokwemvelo
Izindaba zokuthi U-Lucía Pombo no-Álvaro López Huerta babelindele ingane yabo yokuqala Kwafika ekuqaleni konyaka, phakathi ne-hangover kaKhisimusi futhi u-2026 usanda kuqala. Lo mbhangqwana wakhetha ividiyo yokumemezela, okwenza kwacaca ukuthi uzizwa "ukulungele kakhulu" ukuqala lesi sahluko esisha, into eyathinta umphakathi wabo we-inthanethi ngokushesha.
Nakuba isifiso sokuba abazali sasilokhu sikhona isikhathi eside, uLucía ngokwakhe wayechaze izikhathi eziningana ukuthi ukukhulelwa Kwakungeyona into eza kuqala ngokushesha.kodwa isinyathelo ababefuna ukusithatha lapho bobabili bezizwa bekulungele. Lokho kulinganisela phakathi kokuphila komsebenzi, ukuvezwa emphakathini, kanye nezinhlelo zomndeni kuye kwaba yinto eqhubekayo endabeni yabo.
Kusukela kumenyezelwe, umdali wokuqukethwe ubelokhu ebonisa imibono emincane yalokho okuhlangenwe nakho: ama-ultrasound okuqalaUxoxa ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe kwezinyanga ezimbalwa zokuqala, izinguquko zomzimba, kanye nokuzindla kwakhe ngokuthi kusho ukuthini ukuba ngumama. Njalo ngokuthinta komuntu siqu, uhlanganisa indima yakhe njengomthonya nomsebenzi wakhe njengomshayeli wendiza.
NgeSonto Elingcwele, uLucía wabelane ngezithombe zohambo lwakhe lokuya eMálaga, lapho Wayesevele ekhombisa ukukhulelwa kwakhe kokuqala Ngesikhathi bejabulela ukuphuma kwemindeni, lezo zinsuku, phakathi kokuhamba kanye nezikhathi zokuphumula, zazivele zikhomba injabulo ekhulayo yokufika komntwana, yize umbuzo omkhulu mayelana nobulili bakhe wawungaphenduliwe.
Phakathi naleso sikhathi, kokubili ezinkundleni zokuxhumana kanye nasezingxoxweni, lo mbhangqwana wembula kancane kancane imininingwane ekhombisa ukuthi lo msebenzi ubaluleke kangakanani kubo. U-Álvaro, owayezithiba kakhulu kwabezindaba kodwa ekhona kakhulu ngezikhathi ezibalulekile, wagcizelela ukuthi wayekulangazelela ukuqala umndeni nokuthi babesondela kulesi sigaba ngentshiseko nenhlonipho, ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa yimizwa yabo yokuhlekisa.
Indaba yothando lukaLucía no-Álvaro: kusukela ebuntwaneni kuya enganeni yabo yokuqala
Isixhumanisi phakathi Indaba ka-Lucía Pombo kanye no-Álvaro López Huerta ibuyela emuva eminyakeni eminingikudala ngaphambi kokuba babe ngomunye wemibhangqwana elandelwa kakhulu ezinkundleni zokuxhumana zaseSpain. Abazange bahlangane ephathini noma ngabangane abaseduze, kodwa bahlangana ngemindeni yabo, eyayigcina ubuhlobo obuseduze kakhulu.
Njengoba uLucía elandisa ezingxoxweni, nguyise owabethula endaweni yakhe yokudlela, esebenzisa ubungane obuhlala isikhathi eside phakathi kwabazali babo. Eqinisweni, bayaqhubeka izithombe zabo ndawonye ngesikhathi besengabantwananakuba ngaleso sikhathi izindlela zabo zazingahloselwe ukuhambisana.
Njengoba isikhathi sihamba, ngamunye wahamba ngezindlela zakhe ezahlukene futhi izimpilo zakhe zahlukana, kwaze kwaba yilapho bephinde bahlangana lapho eneminyaka engu-22. Kusukela kulokho kuhlangana kabusha, ubudlelwano babo bakha ukwakheka futhi baqina eminyakeni edlule, kwaphetha ngomshado wabo ngoJuni 2022, umcimbi owathola ukunakwa okukhulu kwabezindaba kanye nezinkundla zokuxhumana.
Kwenye yama-podcast abahlanganyele kuyo, u-Álvaro uvumile ukuthi ubelokhu ecacile ukuthi ufuna ukuqala umndeni. Uvumile ukuthi, ukube bekukuye yedwa, Wayesevele enezingane ezintathu ngisho nohlu lwamagama engqondweni.Noma kunjalo, wachaza ukuthi wayefunde ukuzivumelanisa nesimiso sikaLucía nezinto eziza kuqala, ehlonipha ijubane lakhe lomsebenzi kanye nelomuntu siqu.
Lokho kulinganisela phakathi kwalaba bobabili, ngamaphrofayili abo ahlukile kodwa ahambisanayo, kube ngenye yezihluthulelo zokuthandwa kwalaba bobabili ngumphakathi. Iningi labalandeli babo liyamangala iqiniso lokuthi, naphezu kodumo lwabo oluphezulu, bagcina umoya othile wokuphila okujwayelekile ekuphileni kwabo kwansuku zonke, ngezigcawu ezingaba zanoma yimuphi umbhangqwana osemusha eSpain.
Ukwembulwa kobulili okubonisa izindlela ezintsha zokubhekana nomndeni
Ukulangazela okudalwe ukuvezwa kobulili kuka-Lucía no-Álvaro Akunakuqondwa njengendaba yomndeni njekodwa njengengxenye yomkhuba obanzi eSpain nakwamanye amazwe aseYurophu. Sekuyinto evamile kakhulu ukuthi imibhangqwana esemisha ihlele lolu hlobo lwemikhosi ukuze iveze ubulili bomntwana, ixube amasiko, ukuzijabulisa kanye nezinkundla zokuxhumana.
Esimweni sabo, indlela yayilula uma iqhathaniswa neminye imicimbi eyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu: amabhaluni, indawo ephakathi nendawo yemvelo, kanye neveni ye-ayisikhilimu njengento eyingqayizivele. Noma kunjalo, Isiteji sasicatshangelwe kahle kakhulu. ukuze lesi sikhathi sibe esikhethekile kulabo abakhona futhi, ngesikhathi esifanayo, sabelwane kalula ngefomethi yevidiyo.
Lezi zenzo zibonisa ukuthi izikhathi zokusondelana ngokwesiko ziye zangena kanjani emphakathini nakwabezindaba. Akuzona nje abantu abanethonya nosaziwayo; imindeni eminingi evamile nayo ibhala phansi futhi yabelana ngalezi zenzakalo ezibalulekile, ivuselela impikiswano mayelana nemingcele phakathi kobumfihlo nokuvezwa.
Endabeni yomndeni wakwaPombo, le micimbi iba yindlela evamile yokuba khona kwabo ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Odade bakhe isithombe sabo emphakathini kusukela ekuphileni kwabo kwansuku zonke: imishado, ukuzalwa, uhambo, ukuthutha, kanye nokukhulelwa kokuqala kwendodana endala. Kwabanye babalaleli babo, Ukulandela lezi zindaba kudala umuzwa wokusondelana nokubambisana..
Iziteshi zezindaba ezigxile kosaziwayo kanye nokuzijabulisa zibike ngalesi senzakalo njengesibonelo sendlela izizukulwane ezintsha zabantu abadumile emphakathini ezihlanganisa ngayo izimpilo zabo zangasese nendaba ecishe ilandelwe, lapho isahluko ngasinye—isimemezelo, iphathi, isambulo—sikhulisa isithakazelo emndenini.
ULucía Pombo, phakathi kwekhabhini lendiza nokuphila ezinkundleni zokuxhumana
Ngaphambi kokuba ngumama, uLucía Pombo wayesevele engumuntu obonakalayo emphakathini ngenxa yendima yakhe emibili: Umshayeli wendiza ngomsebenzi kanye nomuntu onethonya ngokuzivezaIzincwadi zakhe zokuqala zazigxile empilweni yakhe ehlobene nokuhamba, izindiza, kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe siqu okwadonsela ukunaka kwezilaleli ezisencane.
Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, okuqukethwe kwakhe kwanda kwafaka phakathi izihloko zendlela yokuphila, umndeni, kanye nokuzindla ngokulinganisela komsebenzi nempilo. Lokhu kuhlanganiswa komsebenzi ovame ukudinga amandla njengezindiza ohlala ukhona ezinkundleni zokuxhumana kuye kwaba nomthelela ekuthini abhekwe njengomuntu oxubile, ohlukile kakhulu kumuntu ovamile onethonya.
Ukufika kokukhulelwa kwakhe kokuqala kuyahambisana nalokho kuthuthuka. Kwabaningi babalandeli bakhe, Ukumbona manje esendimeni kamama ekwenzeni izinto Kumelela isigaba esisha lapho bengazibona khona: ushintsho lwezinto eziza kuqala, ukungabaza, injabulo kanye nokuzivumelanisa nekusasa elingasagxilile kuphela kumbhangqwana.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, u-Álvaro López Huerta, nakuba engawazi kangako abezindaba, usephenduke ubuso obujwayelekile kulabo abalandela umndeni wakwaPombo. Isithombe sakhe esidlangalaleni sihlotshaniswa no- Izindinganiso zokuzinza, ukuzibophezela kanye nesifiso sokuqala umndeniLokhu kuyinto ayishilo yena ngokwakhe izikhathi eziningana. Lokhu kuhlanganiswa nephrofayili kaLucía yomphakathi kwenze lo mbhangqwana waba yisibonelo sokuthi zingaki ubudlelwano besimanje obuvela emehlweni omphakathi.
Kulesi simo, ukwembulwa kobulili bendodakazi yabo yokuqala akuyona into eyenzeka yodwa, kodwa esinye isinyathelo endabeni lo mbhangqwana olokhu wakha phambi komphakathi: kusukela lapho behlangana futhi baqala ukuthandana, kuze kube semshadweni, kuze kube manje sebefika esikhathini lapho belungiselela ukwamukela intombi yabo yokuqala.
Njengoba ukubala phansi sekuqalile kakade, umndeni wakwaPombo uyanezela ilungu elisha eqenjini elikhulu lamantombazane azungeze isizweLokhu kuqinisa isithombe sobunye bomndeni esikhanga abantu bangaphandle. Abazali, odadewabo, abasemzini, nabangane bonke banegalelo kulesi sahluko, esihlanganisa injabulo yangasese nentshisekelo yomphakathi, futhi cishe esizoqhubeka nokuveza ingxoxo njengoba usuku lokuzalwa lusondela.
