Ukuxhashazwa: yini okufanele uyenze uma ingane yami isisulu

Ukuqinela abanye

Umphakathi uyazi ukuthi ukuqinela abanye kuyinto yangempela. Izingane eziningi zihlupheka ngokuxhashazwa, ukuphathwa kabi, ukuthukwa noma ukuhlukunyezwa abanye babafunda nabo, ngisho nalabo abazibiza ngabo abangane. Izingane okuthi ngasizathu simbe ziqonde ukuthi ubudlova bumnandi, lokho kuthuka kuyahlekisa, okwenza ukukhala kwenye ingane kuwumdlalo omuhle kakhulu. Ukuqeda isihlava sokuxhashazwa kungumsebenzi wabazali ngokuyisisekeloKuyindaba yemfundo nenhlonipho okumele iqale ekhaya.

Yize wazi ukuthi kungenzeka, njengokujwayelekile akekho umzali ofuna ukucabanga ukuthi ingane yakhe ingaba yisisulu sokuxhashazwa, ingasaphathwa eyokucathama. Kepha futhi kuyisibopho njengomzali sokulalelisisa lezo zimpawu, futhi kunoma yikuphi, thatha isinyathelo ngokushesha ukuthola isisombululo senkinga ngokushesha okukhulu.

Okufanele ukwenze uma ingane yami ihlukunyezwa

Ngabe ucabanga ukuthi ingane yakho ingaba yisisulu sokuxhashazwa? isinyathelo ngokushesha, lezi yizinyathelo okufanele uzilandele.

Khuluma nendodana yakho

Isinyathelo sokuqala nesibaluleke kakhulu ukuthola ukuthi kwenzekani. Ungaqaphela ukuthi ingane yakho ishintsha isimo sayo sengqondo, amandla ayo nendlela yayo yokuphila, ishintsha kakhulu. Akasafuni ukudlala emgwaqweni, uyakugwema ukuhlangana nezingane ezijwayelekile futhi uncamela ukuchitha amahora akhiyiwe egumbini lakhe. Lesi yisibonakaliso esisobala kakhulu sokuthi kukhona okwenzekayo, kodwa akudingeki ukuthi kube mayelana nokuxhashazwa.

Ukuqinela abanye

Izikhathi eziningi ukulwa phakathi kwabangani, umehluko noma ushintsho lwabangani kungadideka, lokho akusikho ukuxhashazwa futhi kubalulekile ukubahlukanisa. Ukuze udinga ukuba nengxoxo nengane yakho, kusuka othandweni, ukuqonda nothando, ukuze omncane azizwe ekhululekile futhi akwazi ukukuchazela ngokwenzekayo.

Ingane kufanele ikwazi lokho awudingi ukusingatha lesi simo wedwa, okungafanele ivumele ukuphathwa kabi. Njengoba lokhu kuyindlela ejwayelekile yokwesabisa evela kumhlukumezi, "umtshela kanjani umuntu ..." Kwenze kucace enganeni ukuthi kufanele ihlale itshela umuntu omdala okwenzekayo, ngoba ngaleyo ndlela bangakwazi ukuxazulula okwenzeka kubo .

Kusebenza ngempumelelo enkulu kakhulu ekusebenzeni nokuzethemba kwengane, kunokumfundisa ukuthi azivikele ngobudlova obengeziwe. Ngoba okungenzeka kuleli cala ukuthi ingane yakho iba yisiqhwaga.

Yiba nomhlangano nesikole

Isikhathi sokuqala lapho uthola ukuthi ingane yakho iyahlukunyezwa, kufanele ubambe umhlangano ophuthumayo nabachwepheshe besikole. Bobabili othisha, umqondisi nabanye abasebenzi, kumele qaphela inkinga bese ulawula. Ngaphakathi kwezindonga zesikole, othisha banesibopho sengane yakho kanye nabo bonke abanye abafundi.

Khuluma nabo ubazise ngalokho okutholayo, noma ngabe ingane yakho ikwazile ukukuchazela noma cha. Nothisha kumele benze okuthile ukuqeda isimo ngokushesha okukhulu.

Yazisa abanye abazali ngokuxhashazwa

Okufanele ukwenze uma ingane yami ixhashazwa


Kulezi zinsuku kulula kakhulu ukuxhumana nabanye abazali, amaqembu e-WhatsApp nawo asebenzela lokhu. Akukona okwakha i-alamu yomphakathi, kepha mayelana chaza isimo esingathinta noma iyiphi yezingane zakho esikhathini esizayo. Kubalulekile ukuthi kube khona ukwesekwa phakathi kwabo bonke abazali nabafundi, ngoba kufanele ubike ngokwenzekayo.

Zama ukuthola isenzo esivamile sokubhekana nokuhlukunyezwa esikoleni, ngaphandle kokukhomba abahlukumezi noma abahlukumezi. Inkulumo efundisayo ehholo, nothisha, abantu bangaphandle abakwaziyo thonya kahle zonke izingane. Lokhu kuzosiza nengane eyisiqhwaga ukuthi ibone ukuthi ezinye izingane azingedwa nokuthi azikwazi ukusizakala ngalesi simo.


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