Izingane eziningi zithola ukuthi abazali bazo "abekho kancane" nokuthi baphazamiseka kalula lapho benabo. Lezi zinsuku, futhi ngeshwa, kubonakala sengathi abazali (nanoma yimuphi umuntu omdala) banaka kakhulu omakhalekhukhwini babo kunanoma yini enye ebazungezile. Lokhu kuyakhathaza futhi kuyisignali ye-alamu yokuthi okuthile kumele kushintshe ngokushesha okukhulu, ikakhulukazi maqondana nokuba ngumzali. Ngabe ungumuntu ophakathi nendawo empilweni yengane yakho?
Lapho ingane ifuna ukukhuluma nawe nganoma yini, beka ifoni eceleni, uyeke ukuba "semi-present" ucabanga ngezinye izinto futhi uxhumane nezingane zakho. Uma "ungumuntu ophansi" eduze kwezingane zakho, ngaphezu kokungabahloniphi njengomuntu nengane, nawe umnikeza isibonelo esibi kakhulu sokuthi ubudlelwano obuseduze kufanele bube kanjani.
Uma kufanele uhambe ngokungalindelekile, mnikeze izincazelo ezidingekayo ukuze aqonde ukuthi uma ungekho eceleni kwakhe kungenxa yokuthi kufanele wenze okuthile, kepha lokho "okuthile" ngeke kuze kubaluleke ngaphezu kwakhe noma uthando oluzwayo ngaye. Ngakho-ke, noma nini lapho unesikhathi samahhala, hlela imisebenzi nengane yakho ngoba isikhathi sakho yisipho esihle kunazo zonke ongasinika izingane zakho. Isikhathi sekhwalithi yiso esizokwakha izinsiza eziyigugu kakhulu ezinganeni zakho, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu ... kuzophinde kulolonge ubuntu babo.
Akudingeki wenze izinto ezinhle nsuku zonke, kwesinye isikhathi ukuhlala phansi ukudlala umdlalo webhodi kungaphezu kokwanele ukwenza ingane yakho ibone ukuthi wena useceleni kwayo ngempela. Ukuthi akukho lutho emhlabeni olubaluleke ukudlula yena kuwe. Inkampani yakhe iyona ekujabulisa ngempela, futhi-ke, ungakhohlwa nsuku zonke ukumtshela ukuthi umthanda kangakanani nokuthi yini oyijabulelayo eceleni kwakhe. Isikhathi sakho ngesakho, kepha uthatha isinqumo sokusabelana nezingane zakho, ngoba yibo abenza impilo yakho ibe nenjongo.