Ukuthi umuntu unekhono kusho ukuthi angakwazi ukufeza izinhloso zakhe ngempumelelo. Umuntu onekhono uzoba nokuphikelela futhi azobona esimweni esithile yiziphi izinkinga ongaba nazo futhi uphendule ngokufanele.
Abantu abanekhono basebenza ngokuzizwa, noma ngogqozi, kepha abavumeli imizwa yabo ibayeke uma bengakhi. Ngamanye amagama, banqoba izithiyo zangaphakathi nezangaphandle ukuze bahlale begxile emsebenzini futhi bahlangabezane nezinhloso abazibekele zona.
Ukusebenza kahle kubantu abadala kuyimfuneko yokuphumelela ngokomsebenzi nangokomuntu siqu. Kepha kuyini ukuncintisana ezinganeni? Izingane ezinekhono ziyakwazi ukubhekana nezinselelo ezingokomzwelo ngokwanele ukubhekana nemisebenzi efanele iminyaka yobudala Esigabeni ngasinye sentuthuko, baphathe kahle futhi uphume ngokuzethemba okukhulu. Banobuhlakani obungokomzwelo bokuphatha nokuzwana nabanye.
Izingane ezizibona zinekhono zizizwa zinekhono futhi zinamandla. Banamathuba amaningi okuthi babe namasu, bakholelwe kubo, bazame izinselelo ezinzima, futhi babonise ukuqina lapho bebhekene nezithiyo. Ungayisiza kanjani ingane yakho ithuthuke ikhono, okuyinhlanganisela yokuzethemba, ukwenza izinto ngobuhlakani, ukubekezela, amandla, ubuhlakani bemizwa, nezinye izici?
Kusukela ebuncaneni: mabazenzele ngokwabo
Bazodinga umhlahlandlela wakho nesiqondiso sakho, kunjalo. Ukumyekela azenzele izinto akusho ukumshiya enhlekeleleni. Siza ingane yakho nganoma iyiphi indlela edingekayo, kodwa ungalokothi uyenzele izinto ngokuphelele, ngoba lapho uzobe umenqabela ukuba akhule futhi aguquke.
Bamba isineke sakho. Cabanga ukuthi ngabe uyayisiza ngempela indodana yakho noma uma wenza okuphambene nayo, uyenzela izinto.
Msize akhe ukuzethemba ukubhekana nezinselelo
Abaphenyi ekukhuleni ngokomzwelo bakubiza nge- "scaffolding," okungachazwa njengohlaka olunikeza ingane yakho ikhono lokwakhela phezu kwalo. Ukhombisa ingane yakho ukuthi ungayenza kanjani into kanye, noma usebenzisa imibuzo ukuphakamisa isinyathelo ngasinye, noma umane umqondise bese umnika isikhala esithe xaxa ezenzweni zakhe, umsize aphumelele lapho ezama okuthile okusha.
Lokhu kuphumelela okuncane ngosizo lwakho kumnikeza ukuzethemba kokuzama izinto ezintsha. Iscaffolding sifundisa nezingane ukuthi usizo luhlala lukhona uma beludinga.
Musa ukumenza azizwe kabi ngokuhluleka
Uma ubuza umbuzo kuwe onempendulo elula futhi ingane yakho ingawuphenduli kahle, kuwe kuyinto elula nje, enganeni yakho kungaba ukwehluleka ngoba uzizwa ukuthi ukudumazile. Uzocabanga ukuthi ayanele ngokwanele.
Ngalesi sizathu, uma umfundisa okuthile futhi engazi ukuthi angaphendula kahle kanjani, mane umenze abone ukuthi kunezinye izindlela zokukufunda, nokuthi uma kungaphumeleli manje, akukho okwenzekayo. Ngesinye isikhathi uzobe usulungile ngephutha onalo manje.
Zwelana nemizwa yengane yakho
Ungahloli impumelelo yabo, uzwelane nemizwelo yabo. Uma ingane yakho inomuzwa wokuthi uyihlola kuphela lapho yenza kahle izinto, izocabanga ukuthi uma ingahlakaniphile, iyoba wukudumala kuwe. Lokhu kuzodala ingane ekhathalele ngaso sonke isikhathi ukujabulisa abanye. Uma ungamtshela ukuthi uhlakaniphile lokhu kungaba kubi ngoba uyazi ukuthi akahlali ehlakaniphile futhi akazi ukuthi uzoba nobuchule obungakanani, akuyona into anamandla okuyilawula.
Gxila kakhulu ekusebenzeni kwakho noma ukuthi uzama kanjani ukuthuthuka kunemiphumela. Isibonelo, ungamtshela ukuthi uyayithanda lapho engapheli amandla.
Uncome umzamo, hhayi imiphumela
Ukulandela iphuzu langaphambilini, kuyadingeka ukwenza izingane ziqonde ukuthi okubaluleke kakhulu akukhona imiphumela kepha, yebo, umzamo osetshenziselwe ukuzithuthukisa, kungakhathalekile imiphumela etholakele. Menze abone ukuthi ukusebenza kanzima kuzohlala kunemiphumela emihle (ikakhulukazi engokomzwelo).
Ukufunda emaphutheni
Amaphutha akudingeki abe yisizathu sokuhlupheka noma sokukhungatheka, iphutha lizohlala liyithuluzi lokufunda elihle. Izingane ezithola umyalezo wokuthi kuchitheke ubisi ziyinkinga futhi kunendlela efanele yokwenza izinto zivamise ukuthi zigcine ngokuthatha isinyathelo esincane nobuchule. Moyizela nje, mnike isiponji bese uthi: 'Kumele uhlale usikhuculula njalo, ngizokusiza.'
Ngale ndlela, ingane izofunda ukubaluleka kokufunda emaphutheni futhi, ngaphezu kwakho konke, ifunde ukuthi ingaxazululwa kanjani.
Musa ukumbekela ukwehluleka
Kunzima kubazali ukunquma ukuthi bazongenelela noma cha uma ingane ihluleka. Ukuhlenga izingane ekuhlulekeni kungazivimba ekufundeni izifundo ezinhle, kepha ingabe zingazizwa zingathandwa? Kungaba, uma uphambuka kakhulu. Ukungabasindisi ekuhlulekeni akusho ukuthi kufanele ubalahle baye enhlekeleleni yabo, konke lokhu kuncike ekutheni ukubheka kanjani okwenzekile.
Uma wenza umsebenzi wesikole wengane yakho ngoba iyakhathala, ngeke ifunde ukuzenzela izinto, kepha izofunda okuthile okusabekayo ekukhuleni kwayo: abanye bazomenzela izinto futhi akudingeki alwele ukuthola imiphumela emihle . Futhi ngaphezu kwalokho, uzokholwa ukuthi akafaneleki ongakwazi ukwenza izinto yedwa.
Okudingekayo ukuthi umfundise isakhiwo senhlangano, ukuze angafundi ukwehluleka, kepha azame noma ngabe imiphumela ayimihle njengoba bengathanda. Ngamanye amagama, msize zonke izindlela zokuhlela imibono yakhe nomsebenzi wakhe, kepha melana nesifiso sokwenzela ingane yakho izinto.
Mfundise ukuba yimoto
Ucwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi izingane ezikhuluma izinto ezinhle kuzo lapho zibhekene nezinselelo zizizwa zizolile ngakho-ke ziyaphikelela lapho izinto ziba nzima. Mazise ukuthi umkhuba uyaphelela futhi uma okuthile kungafinyelelwa, zama nje futhi.
Lapho indodana yakho idlala ucezu kuphiyano futhi kufanele iqale phansi, noma indodakazi yakho ishaya izisekelo ezilayishiwe, zidinga izwi elizenzekelayo langaphakathi eliziduduzayo ukuze lizikhuthaze futhi lizikhuthaze, hhayi lelo lizwi elinokhahlo, elizenyezelayo. Izindaba ezinhle ukuthi ithoni abayizwa kuwe izoba yizwi labo langaphakathi.