Amasu wabazali lapho ingane yakho ingumhlukumezi wokuhlukumeza

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Njengamanje kunezinhlelo kwezinye izikole zokugwema ukuxhashazwa noma ukuxhashazwa. Imvamisa lezi zinhlelo kucatshangwa ngezisulu, ukuzivikela futhi ukuze abazali bazi okufanele bakwenze ngaso sonke isikhathi. Empeleni, ezimweni eziningi, izisulu zokuhlukunyezwa azivikelekile futhi zizizwa zisengozini futhi zodwa. Banomuzwa wokuthi akekho ongabasiza futhi ukuzethemba kwabo kuthinteka kakhulu.

Abazali bezisulu zokuhlukunyezwa babhekene nezinselelo ezinkulu nezithiyo ekubhekaneni nalezi zinkinga, ikakhulukazi uma bengatholi ukwesekwa esikoleni noma kochwepheshe abafanele esikoleni. Hhayi izingane kuphela ezikhona izisulu zokuxhashazwa Badinga ukunakekelwa ngokwengqondo futhi yilokho kuphela, badinga wonke umuntu osondelene nabo ukuba abasekele futhi abavikele, abanikeze amathuluzi anele ukuthi bakwazi ukuzwa ukubaluleka nokwesekwa ukuze bakwazi ukunqoba lesi simo.

Kepha kunenye ingxenye yakho konke lokhu okubaluleke kakhulu: abenzi bokuhlukumeza. Abazali bezingane ezihlukumezayo nabo baneqhaza elibalulekile kukho konke lokhu futhi kumele benze ingxenye yabo ukudambisa lesi simo.

Abazali balesihluku esikoleni

Abazali babahlukumezi kufanele baqonde ukuthi izingane ezihlukumeza ontanga zabo zisengozini enkulu yokuzibandakanya ekuziphatheni okungahambisani nomphakathi noma kobugebengu ngokuzayo. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuzama ukusiza abahlukumezi ukuthi bashintshe izimo zabo zengqondo nokuziphatha maqondana nabanye uyeke ukuba nombono ongemuhle. Ezimweni eziningi lapho kunomhlukumezi kuba nezimbangela ezingemuva kwalesi simo ezidala lokho futhi okumele zitholwe ukuze zivinjelwe.

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Cabanga ngesimo sakho sengqondo nezenzo zakho

Abazali kufanele bakhumbule ukuthi isimo sengqondo nezenzo zezingane zabo zibaluleke kakhulu nokuthi akufanele babheke enye indlela yanoma yini emhlabeni. Yize kubonakala sengathi inkinga ayihambi nabo, iqiniso ukuthi konke kuhlobene nabo. Ngakho-ke:

  • Kufanele uyithathe ngokungathi sína inkinga. Melana nomkhuba wokuphika inkinga noma wehlise ukungathi sína kwalokho okwenzekayo. Gwema ukuphika ngokucabanga: 'lezi izinto zezingane' noma 'kujwayelekile ukuthi lezi zinto zenzeke esikoleni'. Ngoba akuzona izinto zezingane futhi akuyona into ejwayelekile ukuthi zenzeke.
  • Lalelisisa ubheke amaqiniso. Ungakholelwa konke okutshelwa yingane yakho. Izingane ezihlukumeza abanye zikwazi ukuphatha kabi abantu abadala futhi zingaba nekhono lokweluka indaba ebenza babonakale bengenacala.
  • Isikole noma abazali besisulu bangabhala ngemibiko yezindlela zokuziphatha zokuhlukumeza kwengane yakho. Ungaphiki ukubandakanyeka kwakhe lapho kunobufakazi obusobala bokumsola. Kuyadingeka ukuqaphela uma kunendlela yokuziphatha.
  • Hlola izizathu zokuthi kungani ingane yakho ingahle ibe nalokhu kuziphatha okungalungile. Kubalulekile ukufunela ingane nomndeni usizo lochwepheshe uma kunesidingo.

Bamba izenzo zomhlukumezi ziphendule

Umhlukumezi udinga ukuthatha izinyathelo ngezenzo zakhe, noma ngabe ziyini, futhi azi ukuthi ukuziphatha kwakhe okubi kuzoba nemiphumela. Ukwenza lokhu, abazali kufanele bagcine izinto ezimbalwa engqondweni:

  • Melana nokuthambekela kokuzibeka icala ngokukholwa ukuthi awenzanga kahle ekukhuliseni ingane yakho. Qiniseka ukuthi ingane yakho inesibopho sezenzo zayo.
  • Kwenze kucace enganeni yakho ukuthi ukuhlukumeza nokuhlukumeza kubucayi kakhulu nokuthi ukuziphatha okunjalo ngeke kubekezelelwe. Kwenze kucace ukuthi ulindele ukuthi ayiyeke leyo ndlela yokuziphatha ngokushesha.
  • Uzodinga ukuxhumana nesikole njalo ukuze uqede uma isimilo esonile simile unomphela.

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Siza ushintsho

Umhlaseli kufanele futhi azizwe esekelwa ukuze enze ushintsho. Uma uzwa sengathi akekho ohlangothini lwakho, uzovele umelane nokwenza ngcono ngoba uzohlala uvikela ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ngale ndlela, abazali kufanele bacabangele okulandelayo:


  • Thuthukisa uhlelo olucacile nolulula lwemithetho ngaphakathi ekhaya. Nikeza ukudumisa okuvamile nokuqiniswa okuhle. Musa ukusebenzisa ubutha bese ukhetha imiphumela engemihle lapho imithetho yokuziphatha ingalandelwa.
  • Khumbula ukuthi imithetho kufanele ilandelwe. Imiphumela efanelekile yokuxhashazwa ingafaka ukulahlekelwa amalungelo.
  • Landela ngemiphumela efanele yokungaziphathi kahle. Ungasebenzisi ukujezisa ngokomzimba, ngoba ukwenza kanjalo kuzoqinisa inkolelo eyiphutha yengane yakho yokuthi kwamukelekile ukusebenzisa udlame ukwesabisa abanye ukuze bathole okufunayo. Uma nobabili nesikole nihambisana njalo ekusebenziseni imiphumela engemihle yokuxhashazwa, amathuba okuthuthukisa isimilo somhlukumezi azokwandiswa kakhulu.
  • Chitha isikhathi esithe xaxa nengane yakho futhi ubheke imisebenzi yayo eduze. Thola ukuthi obani abangane bakhe, lapho echitha khona isikhathi sakhe sokuphumula, ukuthi imiphi imisebenzi ajwayele ukuyenza. Uma ingane yakho inenkampani embi, kufanele uyilinganise futhi unikeze amathuba okubamba iqhaza emisebenzini nenkampani engcono.
  • Sebenzisa uzwela nokuzethemba. Ncoma ingane yakho lapho isebenzisa amasu okuziphatha okuhle.

Ubudlelwano bokuqala bezothando Ubusha besikhathi sokuthomba nobusha yisikhathi sokuqala ubudlelwano bothando bokuqala bese uqala ukuzama emhlabeni wothando nobulili. Lobu budlelwane bokuqala bungaba nengcindezi enkulu, ikakhulukazi kumuntu osemusha ongakakulungeli ukuphatha lezi zinhlobo zemizwa. Ukubhekana nalokhu, kubalulekile ukuthi ukhulume nezingane zakho ngobudlelwano, uzikhuthaze ukuthi zingazibandakanyi kakhulu noma zenze impilo ibe nzima futhi, ngaphezu kwakho konke, uzisize zikhulise amakhono ezenhlalo futhi zifunde ukuphatha imizwa yazo ukugwema umdlalo ongqubuzanayo nodweshu.

Yini ongayilindela esikoleni

Uma ingane yakho isisulu noma isiqhwaga, kubalulekile ukulindela ezinye izenzo ezivela esikoleni:

  • Abaphathi besikole, othisha nabasebenzi kufanele bazithathe ngokungathi sína izindaba zokuxhashazwa. Isikole kufanele siphenye ngalesi simo futhi sizodinga ukukutshela ukuthi yiziphi izinyathelo abazithathayo ukusiza ukunqanda ukuxhashazwa.
  • Izinqubomgomo zesikole kufanele ziphoqelelwe nemithetho emelene nokuhlukunyezwa.
  • Othisha nabaphathi kufanele bakhulume nomhlukumezi nabazali bakhe. Kufanele futhi babatshele ukuthi yimiphi imiphumela ezoba khona nokuthi yiziphi izinyathelo ezothathwa isikole kulowo oqinela abanye uma kunganqandwa. Uma ukuxhashazwa kuqhubeka, isikole kufanele sithobele imiphumela okuvunyelwene ngayo ngokushesha.
  • Bobabili othisha nabaphathi kufanele bandise ukugadwa yabantu abadala ezindaweni ezehlukene zesikole lapho izehlakalo zokuxhashazwa zingenzeka noma zingenzeka kakhulu.
  • Abasebenzi besikole kufanele baziswe ngalesi simo nokwazi ukuthi obani abayizisulu nokuthi bangobani abahlukumezayo, ukuze bakwazi ukwenza ngokufanele kunoma yisiphi isimo sokungqubuzana.
  • Kufanele kube nokuxhumana okungapheli nabazali besisulu kanye nabazali balowo owonile.

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  1. Ubhekele imininingwane: Miguel Ángel Gatón
  2. Inhloso yedatha: Lawula Ugaxekile, ukuphathwa kwamazwana.
  3. Ukusemthethweni: Imvume yakho
  4. Ukuxhumana kwemininingwane: Imininingwane ngeke idluliselwe kubantu besithathu ngaphandle kwesibopho esisemthethweni.
  5. Isitoreji sedatha: Idatabase ebanjwe yi-Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Amalungelo: Nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ungakhawulela, uthole futhi ususe imininingwane yakho.

  1.   I-Marlon coral kusho

    Ngikuthola konke okuqukethwe kuhle kakhulu, ngithathe imihlahlandlela lapha yengxoxo nabazali, kepha ezifundweni zami ngendaba yokuhlukumeza, kufanele kube khona nocwaningo kuqala nenhloso yokulandela umthetho olandelwayo lapho i-An aphoyintimenti nabazali ukubatshela ukuthi kwenzekani ngengane yabo, kusho ukungafinyeleli izahlulelo ngaphandle kokwazi ngempela ubunzima bayo ekuhlukunyezweni, ngakho-ke angivumi ukuthi emhlanganweni abazali batshelwa imiphumela yezenzo zendodana yakho, bakholelwa ukuthi kufanele kube nemihlangano emibili, owokuqala ofundisayo mayelana nokuthi iSikhungo sizoqala ini bese owesibili ukuhlanganisa amasu azofezekisa imvelo yokuhlalisana nokuthula, okufanele kube ngumsebenzi wokufundisa kanye nesiqondiso okufanele sibe nenqubo ukuhlukunyezwa, ukuphela kokumangalelwa kanye nokujeziswa akusona isiphetho, lesi silinganiso siyoba lapho ngemuva kokulandelwa, kudelelwa ukuzibophezela nobaba s kanye nabafundi, inhloso ukubuyisela kanye nokubuyiselwa kwamalungelo ezisulu.