Abantu abaningi bakhumbula omama abangabodwa kepha bambalwa abantu abakhumbula obaba abangabodwa. Njengomama okumele bakhulise ingane yabo bodwa, ubaba ongayedwa unenkinga efanayo futhi eyinkimbinkimbi. Wazithola eyedwa usuku nosuku nenselelo yokukhulisa futhi fundisa enganeni yakho, kubangela ukuthi abazali abaningi abangabodwa bahlupheke ngokucindezeleka okukhulu kanye nokukhathazeka okukhulu okunzima ukukuchaza.
Uma kuyicala lakho, Akufanele ukhathazeke ngokuthi ngalolu chungechunge lwamathiphu ungenza ukuba umzali ongabodwa ubekezeleleke kakhulu.
Gwema ukuba wedwa
Noma ungumzali ongayedwa, kumele ube nabantu abazokuxhasa, ikakhulukazi ezikhathini lapho unqotshwa yingcindezi futhi konke kukhuphuka. Ungaba yilungu lomndeni wakho njengabazali noma abafowenu noma abangane obathembayo. Ukukhulisa ingane wedwa kunzima futhi kuyinkimbinkimbi, ngakho-ke usizo luhlala luhle njalo.
Ukubaluleka kokuxhumana
Ukukwazi ukuxhumana ngaphandle kwenkinga nezingane uma kuziwa ekubeni nemfundo enhle ngazo zonke izindlela. Izingane, njengoba zikhula futhi zikhula, zidinga ukulalelwa futhi zinakwe. Lokhu kudinga umzamo omkhulu nokubekezela kepha kubalulekile uma kukhulunywa ngokukwazi ukukhulisa izingane zakho kahle. Ezikhathini eziningi, ukuntuleka kokukhulumisana phakathi kwabazali nezingane kuyimbangela yezinkinga eziningi zomndeni. Ngokuxhumana okuhle, ukwethembana phakathi kwenu nobabili kuzokhula futhi kuqine kakhulu.
Fundisa ukuxazulula izinkinga
Izinkinga zihlala zikhona, yingakho uma isikhathi sifika kufanele uhlale eduze kwengane yakho ukuze ukwazi ukuzixazulula. Kufanele umnikeze imihlahlandlela edingekayo ukuze akwazi ukuzixazulula yena uqobo. Ukumfundisa ukuxazulula izinkinga ezinjalo kuzomsebenzela impilo yakhe yonke.
Akukho ukuvikela ngokweqile izingane zakho
Enye yezinkinga ezinkulu zemindeni eminingi namuhla ukuthi zivikela ngokweqile izingane zazo ngokweqile. Izingane kufanele, lapho zifinyelela eminyakeni ethile, zikwazi ukuxazulula izinkinga ezivela zodwa. Ezikhathini eziningi, izingane azinabo abazali bazo futhi azazi ukuthi zingazenzela kanjani okuthile, okuthile okunomthelela omubi ezingeni lomuntu siqu. Izingane kumele zenze amaphutha futhi zifunde emaphutheni azo ukuze zizethembe ngokwanele ukuthi zikwazi ukuzenzela izinto ngaphandle kosizo lomuntu. Kumele uhlale nendodana yakho ngelinye ilanga uyenze ibone ukuthi ngelinye ilanga ubaba wayo ngeke abe khona futhi kuzodingeka athole indlela yakhe nempilo yakhe.
Kufanele ubambe iqhaza empilweni yakhe
Impilo enengcindezi abazali abaphila ngayo namuhla isho ukuthi abaziboni izingane zabo ukuthi kufanele zenzeni, into enomthelela omubi ekukhuliseni izingane. Izingane zidinga ukusekelwa ngabazali bazo ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi zihlala zizwa zithandwa futhi zithandwa. Uma ungumzali ongayedwa, kufanele ubambe iqhaza ngokugcwele empilweni yengane yakho. Kubalulekile ukuthi nizinike isikhathi nsuku zonke ukwenza izinto ndawonye futhi nizizwe nisondelene ngaso sonke isikhathi. Yize kuliqiniso ukuthi izingane kufanele zibe nendawo yazo yokuba nabangane bazo, kubalulekile futhi ukuthi zichithe isikhathi esisezingeni nobaba wazo. Ukuba ngumzali ongayedwa kuyinkimbinkimbi yingakho kufanele ubambe iqhaza empilweni yengane isikhathi eside ngangokunokwenzeka. Lokhu kuzokwenza ukukhuliswa nokufundiswa kwengane yakho kubekezeleleke futhi kube kuhle kuzo zonke izici.
Siyethemba ukuthi uziqaphele kahle zonke lezi zeluleko nokuthi kukusiza ukuthi ukhulise ingane yakho ngaphandle kwezinkinga eziningi kakhulu. Kuliqiniso ukuthi ukufundisa nokukhulisa ingane akuyona into elula, ikakhulukazi uma ungumzali ongayedwa, kodwa ngokubekezela nothando konke kungenzeka.