Yize izingane zinobuntu bazo, ngezindlela eziningi zigcina seziphenduka abantu abanethonya elikhulu ezimpilweni zazo, ngokuvamile obaba nomama. Ikakhulukazi lapho ufinyelela ebusheni, nini abafana baqala ukukhombisa ubuntu obucacile, ukunambitheka nezintshisekelo ezithile, kubalulekile ukuthi ube nomthelela omuhle ezinganeni.
Ngesikhathi sobuntwana kulula kakhulu, ngoba izingane ziyizipanji ezimunca futhi zilingise konke ezikubonayo. Noma kunjalo, intsha ngokuguquka kwawo kwamahomoni ayinkimbinkimbi ngokwengeziwe. Ngoba ngesikhathi esithile, umbono wanoma ngubani omunye ubaluleke kakhulu kunowabazali uqobo. Kuyinto evamile abafana kufanele bathole indlela yabo, kude nesiphephelo sabazali, noma ngabe lokho kusho ukwenza amaphutha.
Kodwa-ke, indima yabazali njengethonya elikhulu ezinganeni ayipheli. Ngakho-ke njalo, kunoma yisiphi isimo, kufanele uzame ukuthonya kahle intsha. Ngabe udinga iseluleko esithile ukuze ungalilahli ithemba emzameni wakho?
Izici ongaba nomthelela kuzo kahle
Ukuhlala uhlala usesimweni esihle akunakwenzeka ezimweni eziningi, ngakho-ke kungaba okungenangqondo ukuzama ukwenza izingane zikhule ngaphandle kokuhlupheka ngezikhathi ezimbi. Ukuthonya ngendlela enhle akukona ukuvimbela izingane ekuhluphekeni ngezinkinga zabantu abadala, kodwa mayelana babafundise ukuphatha lezo zikhathi bese ubanikeza amathuluzi kuyadingeka ukubhekana nazo.
Ukuze bafunde ukunakekela impilo yabo, ukuze baqonde ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani ukusebenzela ikusasa labo ekuqeqeshweni kwabo kwezemfundo. Ngoba kufanele bazi buyini ubudlelwano obunempilo obungokomzwelo, ukuthi ubaphatha kanjani abanye abantuUkusekela noma ukuba nozwelo yizici ezibalulekile lapho intsha kufanele ithonywe khona kahle.
Amathiphu okuba nethonya elihle ezinganeni
Zithande futhi ufundise izingane zakho ukuba zizithande, ngoba ukuzithanda kufanele kube uthando lokuqala lwawo wonke umuntu. Umfana noma intombazane engena ebusheni kufanele ibhekane nokuguquguquka kwemizwa, ukungabaza, izakhiwo kanye nokungalingani kwamahomoni. Intsha ikakhulukazi abafana namantombazane abangazethembi futhi kulezi zikhathi kubalulekile ukufaka umthelela omuhle ukuze bakhe ubuntu obuhle.
Izinguquko zomzimba ziyashaqisa kakhulu izingane futhi ezimweni eziningi zibeka inkinga enkulu yokungazethembi kanye nezakhiwo eziyinkimbinkimbi. Fundisa izingane zakho ukuzithanda, zamukele umzimba wazo kanye nezinguquko ezenzeka kuwo, ngendlela efanayo naleyo ocabanga ngayo njengoba isikhathi sihamba. Zithande futhi ungesabi ukubafundisa ukuthi bathandane, ngoba ukuzithanda akusikho ukuzicabangela wena wedwa, kuyisidingo.
Bamba iqhaza ezintweni abazithandayo nasezintweni abazithandayo
Intsha izizwa ikude nabazali bayo lapho izinto zokuzilibazisa ziphikisana ngokuphelele. Uma unentshisekelo kulokho abakuthandayo, lokho abathanda ukukubuka ku-intanethi, umdlalo obadonsela ukunaka ngisho nokuthi bangabangani babo abakhulu, ungasungula ubudlelwano obuseduze nengane yakho eyeve eshumini nambili. Ngale ndlela, uzobe unethonya elihle, ubakhombise lokho kufanele ulwele ukwazi abantu abaseduze kwakho.
Umzamo nomvuzo
Kubalulekile futhi ukuthi intsha iqonde ukuthi umzamo uza nomvuzo, ongafani nesipho. Yiba yisibonelo esihle kubo, ngomzamo wakho, ngomsebenzi wakho nangokuzinikela kwakho kwansuku zonke, uthola imivuzo ethile, kungaba yezezimali noma yanoma yiluphi uhlobo.
Umusa, amahlaya amahle, ukuphatha abantu ngenhlonipho, ukugwema ukuthukwa noma amagama anezinkulumo ezimbi, ekhaya nasemgwaqweni, yizenzo ezincane ezinethonya elihle ebusheni. Njalo khetha inketho yobunganiikakhulukazi lapho izingane zakho ziseduze. Lolu hlobo lokuziphatha alusizi kuphela uma kuziwa ekwakheni ubuntu bezingane, kepha futhi kukusiza ukuthi ujabule kakhulu osukwini lwakho nosuku.